Sex Playlist #1 — Unpredictable
Yeah, ladies, I know you’re tired of the same old thing. Things have become so mundane. I mean your bedroom is just so cold, so cold, but I’m here to tell you I got a strategy we bout to heat it up (I like that).
Let me take you back to the days before the Internet blew up with harsh comments about Jamie Foxx singing the National Anthem terribly (I didn’t see it, but I heard it was bad).
First up on our Sex Playlist is Unpredictable from the album of the same name by Jamie Foxx back in 2005. It features one of the few rappers I respect (when he’s not doing his music, but guest starring), Ludacris.
Why this song? Well, I’m going to give credit to God. Weird, I know right. BUT! When I was thinking of the first song, this song popped into my head. But I didn’t mention it to the wife. I asked her what song I should do first. She didn’t give me an answer until this morning when I asked again, and she said she had thought about Unpredictable but wasn’t sure because it’s “dirty.” But she told herself she’d sleep on it and see what would happen. She said she ended up having a dream about the song. Also along with the fact, going off my wife’s joke, we have tested this song out (That was a fun night) about a year ago. So we’re going to one of my favorite songs ever.
This song is all about getting out of the missionary position. YES! We all love the intimacy and for a majority of us that’s most likely how we lost–or will lose–our virginity. BUT! Doing nothing but that is how the bedroom can get cold real fast (see above). Unfortunately, if one of you wants more, and you’re not getting it; that’s how temptation can set in (See Tyler Perry’s Temptations: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor).
But Jamie Foxx has the remedy. Your spouse should know that: Baby 1 plus 1 ain’t 2 when you wit me — C ain’t after A and B when you wit me — It don’t make sense right now, but it will — Later on when you see how I make you feeeel.
Change it up! Listen to how your spouse feels when you try to incite sex. If they’re a little cold for the wrong reasons (there are Biblical reasons to say ‘no’), then it’s time to spice it up. Now, you have two choices here, and you can spice it up on a whim, or you can sit down and talk to your spouse about what they want done to them. And when they’re least expecting it (don’t be cheesy and use a birthday or anniversary, too cliché) give it to them, and give it to them right.
Men:
Now is the time to remind your wife that you don’t have to get her on her back all the time, or, as men also want, to take her from behind. Give her more. If she’s up for the car, tease her through the day and take her out on a hot date. Make her feel like she’s the hottest woman in the world because to you she should be. And then ravage her in the car because she’s just so blazing you can’t wait until you get home. Show her you didn’t settle for the first woman to say ‘hi’ back to you. Show her you know how hot she is and you’re not just trying to keep your balls from being blue. You want to let her know that for the rest of your lives, each encounter will be different than the last even if you’re using the same position you used two days ago. Men can feel the bedroom get cold and blame their wives, but the saying is — “happy wife, happy life.” If she’s happy and not dreading the next sexual encounter, you’re doing something right. She should wonder what you’re going to do next. Actually, not wonder, she should be excited to see what you’re going to do next.
Ladies:
Girl get comfortable we bout to do something you neva done before. (Yeah) Baby not the usual tonight we gettin unpredictable. So tryyy to roll wit me baby (baby) I’m a make you feel like you neva felt, Girl all because you let me get unpredictable.
This idea is a double-edged sword for you. What could happen is your man wants to try something new. Maybe it has gotten cold because you feel disconnected from your lover, and so you’re skeptical whenever he tries. But maybe you just have a man who doesn’t express his feelings much and he just walks up one night and says, “Hey, I want to do this.” Even if you have that man, don’t turn him down. Remember, God gave you this man, and he designed this man to make sure he fulfills all your needs including the ones in the bedroom. So take Jamie’s advice from the course. Let your man get uUnpredictable on you.
The second half of this is maybe you’re tired of waiting. Maybe you need to show your man that it’s okay to be Unpredictable. So in that case you may need to go on the offensive — most men want this… well we kind of go back and forth, and I’m sure that’s just the same for both sexes. Sometimes we all like to take control, and sometimes we all like to sit back and be taken. The truth is some of us like one more than the other. But, in this case, if you’re feeling it’s cold I always suggest talking, communication is always important. But we all know sometimes actions speak louder than words. So in that case turn this song on and change all the pronouns from male to female and vice versa and, wa-laa!, you have your song to go on the offensive!
Singles/Dating/Engaged:
Take all of the above and apply it like I did. I was so worried when I was younger of letting my flame die with my future wife so I made a vow to myself that I would never let it die down. I keep throwing the kindling on it, and so I’m always looking for ways to spice it up for my Wifey. I say make a list of the things you want to do to your spouse one day and add to that list what you want done to you. If you’re engaged, start talking about what you’re looking for on that wedding night to make that night more explosive than you initially imagined. Keep the fire going. Get Unpredictable when the time comes 🙂
How did I use it: The song was on repeat, and I sang it over and over again as I slowly took off her clothes and kissed every inch of her body. I have a foot fetish, and her feet are ticklish, so I sucked on her toes and kissed and licked her feet. As I touched and kissed the rest of her body, I avoided that pussy until I was ready to eat her out at the beginning of Ludacris’ verse. Explosive night. Loved it and anyone who has read my stories knows Wifey cums over and over again. It was one of those nights where she lost count (I ask her to keep count, but sometimes it just too good).
Check out the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qc4G6tOgOYI (fair warning it is a little risqué. So if you know it might be a little much for you [I don’t want anyone to stumble] bypass the video and just get the song off
iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/unpredictable/id282811419
Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/music/album?id=Bfjybvo4yslrnntgt2ijfzgtxkm&tid=song-Tazky4bak2k667wpisnxjnoxm5y&hl=en
Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Unpredictable-Jamie-Foxx/dp/B000BPK2MU (Which is free if you have Prime.)
Best Line:
The Intro to Ludacris’ line (Full lyrics) here: https://play.google.com/music/preview/Tk6d4bzr37jjpcitkoa4x7u5wv4?lyrics=1&utm_source=google&utm_medium=search&utm_campaign=lyrics&pcampaignid=kp-lyrics )
All Aboard! The spontaneous express Never the less always the more From the pool table to the kitchen floor Next stops the G spot… LUDA! hahaha (I like this) I like it too baby
Thanks for taking this little trip with me. Just another note, as I said in how I used it, it’s a great foreplay song. Also great for that slow grind. Let your ladies feel every throbbing inch you have to give, gentlemen! If you use it or if you plan to use it, drop it in the comments below, I’d love to hear what this is going to lead too!
–UpCA
Sexual Healing by Marvin Gaye! Just seems to always put me in the mood
I’ll have to check it out 🙂
Thanks GG! 🙂
^ Like GG says!
As you know from my stories, my husband & I always danced to danceable ABBA songs in a sexy way as foreplay, but also the calm ABBA love songs (one of which was our first dance wedding song) also sets the mood. The romance song Honey Honey is our first kiss song and it’s great because it causes us to remember our younger days which also gets us in the mood 🙂 May I suggest songs like “I’ve been waiting for you” and “Gonna sing you my lovesong”? May God bless you always!
I’ll check into them. I do want to get a wide variety of music on here so thank you 🙂
ABBA 🙂
First of all, dear Upcomingauthor, I wanna salute you for the heart and work you put into your playlist project here. The Playlist topic will be the one, where the generational variety we have here will probably show itself the most. I know GG’s song suggestion well. I didn’t know any of yours so far. I must say that I personally am very cautious with contemporary secular music (contemporary, for me, being anything from about the year 2000 onwards). Don’t get me wrong… I like secular music too – but I like the kind that I could actually sing to Jesus (even if it’s not Christian music). My musical taste buds savor mostly the music of the 90’s, 80’s, and some few choice songs from the 70’s. I’m primarily deeply moved by sweet love songs (yes, I know I’m the totally lovey-dovey girly kind at heart – and I love it! 😀 ). My heart melts for songs like Lionel Richie’s “Hello”, Berlin’s “Take My Breath Away”, Maria McKee’s “Show Me Heaven” (*swoon*!) or the like. If you didn’t know some of these yet, feel free to check them out – hope you enjoy them, if you do. 🙂 A very special song to me personally is Bryan Adams’ “Please Forgive Me” (gets me every time!), and as I can speak french, among other things, I very much enjoy some sweet french love songs – my favorite being at the moment Axelle Red “Parce que c’est toi” (translation: Because it’s you)… such a beautiful love song! Thank you, Upcomingauthor – my heart feels all cozy now just thinking about these! 😀
Ps: The music videos nowadays (or actually since the late 90’s) are truly profane, to say the least… so, in the spirit of guarding the purity of our Christian hearts well (including your beautiful heart), I just want you to know that you can bypass any risk by not posting a link to the actual video of the song but by posting a link to a YouTube lyric video of it instead. There won’t be any risqué/offending images in there then – just the lyrics to follow and the song. Just a tip 🙂 God bless!
PFC,
Thank you! I really appreciate you input. I’ll definitely take that into consideration for the rest of the music I post. I personally didn’t feel like the music video was that bad off but I do know to everyone there are their own limits so thank you 🙂
As for the French songs, speaking for me I don’t speak French, but I’ll look into and the lyrics and check out the musicality to them as well and see what I think.
But that’s why in the introduction post I offered that suggestions are super appreciated because we do have a wide variety of age on here and in my mind a lot of the songs I’m thinking about are the ones I grew up on. And to me its funny how a lot of the times I grew up hearing that my generations music was so vulgar but the earlier generations had it right. Then I listen to GG’s song… Mr. Gaye’s lyrics are pretty on par with some of the music from my gen, and that video may have not been as bad as Nikki Minaj video but it was still pretty risqué. Again, to everyone their own limitations. 🙂
But I want to get that variety in here. Music is timeless.
As for the secular, I said in my intro post that it will be mainly secular music for a “Sex Playlist” because unfortunately Christians don’t sing about sex. That’s just the truth. But who knows, maybe this website will birth the next TobyMac or Kirk Franklin, or…wow, I just realize I don’t really know any female Christian singers AH! Britt Nicole–and one day their music will breath the same life into a positive sex marriage that this website does. That to say I do have a few Christian songs that are homages to their spouses, but not necessarily sex songs but still on my to do list.
But thanks for the input I really appreciate it 🙂
Dear Upcomingauthor, you’re a sweet godly man. My little YouTube video tip was more meant to be in general, not concerning that particular video. I found it lovely (and good) that you added the little warning statement to the video link and the tip popped up in my mind that would have us all on the safe side 🙂 I can’t say anything good or bad about the Unpredictable video ’cause it is blocked for viewing in my country. So, no opinion about it on my part 🙂
We are definitely all shaped by the music we grew up with. And certainly, it’s true that every generation had its raunchy songs, not just the current one. 🙂 GG’s suggestion is a song I’ve encountered just recently as it was playing in the mix on the Internet radio station I’ve been listening to… that’s where I’ve come across it. I wouldn’t have listened to songs like it before the work God started in me last year, exactly because the lyrics touched on the sexual topic. I used to be very strict, out of personal choice. I’ve let some love songs into my personal playlist by now (as I’ve shared) but still keep a clear personal limit concerning the degree of explicit content in lyrics. 🙂
I personally believe that Christians don’t necessarily need songs about sex… good, meaningful love songs can be the perfect companions to a wonderful night of marriage heat. It for sure will be that way for me 😀
Upcomingauthor, you’re a funny, sweet and dedicated husband. I love your zeal in all this and your adventurous, open spirit to look into all the different songs. Way to go! God bless you!!
Ps: There is also Kari Jobe, Erica Campbell and Christy Nockels, for instance 😉
Ps: Would you like me to translate the lyrics of the French song for you? I’ve looked around a bit in english-subtitled YouTube lyrics videos and they all have it here and there a bit wrong in meaning… I may not be the most creative translator but it will be accurate then 🙂
AH! That would be awesome if you could translate the lyrics for me! That way I don’t offend someone who knows the real lyrics and I found some really bad translations off google or something! And thanks for reminding about other female singers. My lack in female Christian singers is bad, the only other one I could think about was Blanca from Group1Crew and Francessca Batastelli–probably totally butchered the name.
Don’t feel bad about your ‘lack’ of knowledge concerning female Christian singers. Popping out these 3 names may have made me appear like I’m such a pro on the topic but I myself do only know those so far, who have come to my church and have sung there in worship. 😉
I know, automatic translations are most of the time totally chaotic. What comes out of these is at best hilarious or it’s just a pain. Ok, so here comes the translation of the lyrics to “Parce que c’est toi” by Axelle Red. I’ll post it in little blocks – each block, first in the french original and then in the english translation of it.
Block 1 (in french):
“Si tu crois un jour que je te laisserai tomber,
Pour un détail, pour une futilité,
N’aie pas peur, je saurais bien
Faire la différence.”
Block 1 (in english):
“If you believe that one day I would let you fall,
Because of a detail, because of some pettiness,
Don’t be afraid, I would be well able
to discern.”
Block 2 (in french):
“Si tu crains un jour que je te laisserai faner,
La fin de l’été, un mauvais cap à passer,
N’aie pas peur, personne d’autre ne pourrait
Si facilement te remplacer.
Oh non, pas toi.
Vraiment, pas toi.”
Block 2 (in english):
“If you dread that one day I would let you wither away,
Late summer, overcoming the tough times,
Don’t be afraid, no one else could
So easily take your place.
Oh no, not you.
Truly, not you.”
Block 3 (in french):
“Parce que c’est toi le seul à qui je peux dire
Qu’avec toi je n’ai plus peur de vieillir.
Parce que c’est toi.
Rien que pour ça.
Parce que j’avoue je ne suis pas non plus tentée
De rester seule dans un monde insensé.”
Block 3 (in english):
“Because you are the only one to whom I can say
That, with you, I’m not afraid anymore to grow old.
Because it’s you.
Just because of this.
Because I admit that I too don’t want to try
To remain alone in an absurd world.”
Block 4 (in french):
“Si tu crois un jour que tout est à refaire,
Qu’il faut changer; on était si bien naguère;
N’aie pas peur, je ne veux pas tout compliquer.
Pourquoi se fatiguer?”
Block 4 (in english):
“If you believe that one day everything needs to be made new,
that things must be changed; we once were so good;
Don’t be afraid, I don’t want to complicate it all.
Why should we grow weary?”
Block 5 (in french):
“Et ne commence pas à te cacher pour moi,
Oh non, je te connais trop bien pour ça.
Je connais par cœur ton visage,
Tes désirs, ces endroits de ton corps
Qui me disent “encore”.
Parce que nous c’est fort.
Parce que c’est toi, j’oserais tout affronter.
Et c’est toi à qui je pourrais pardonner.
Parce que c’est toi.
Rien que pour ça.”
Block 5 (in english):
“And don’t start to disguise for me,
Oh no, I know you too well for that.
I know by heart your face,
Your desires, these spots of your body
That tell me “Once more”.
Because we are strong.
Because it’s you, I’ll have the heart to brave it all.
And it’s you, whom I’ll be able to forgive.
Because it’s you.
Just because of this.”
Block 6 (in french):
“Parce que c’est toi, je voudrais un jour un enfant,
Et non pas parce que c’est le moment.
Parce que c’est toi,
Je veux te voir dedans.
Je verrais dans ses yeux tous ces petits défauts
Parce que parfait n’est plus mon créneau.
Parce que c’est toi.”
Block 6 (in english):
“Because it’s you, I’ll one day want to have a child,
And not because it’s time.
Because it’s you,
I want to see you within.
I will see in his eyes all these little imperfections
Because perfect is not my niche anymore.
Because it’s you.”
Block 7 (in french):
“Parce que c’est toi le seul à qui je peux dire
Qu’avec toi je n’ai plus peur de vieillir.
Parce que c’est toi.
Rien que pour ça.
Parce que j’avoue je ne suis pas non plus tentée
De rester seule dans un monde insensé.
Parce que c’est toi.”
Block 7 (in english):
“Because you are the only one to whom I can say
That, with you, I’m not afraid anymore to grow old.
Because it’s you.
Just because of this.
Because I admit that I too don’t want to try
To remain alone in an absurd world.
Because it’s you.”
So, here you go 🙂 God bless and enjoy!
We love music around our house. We have our own little romance playlist – some are oldies, some are new, and some in-between. We play it whenever, in or out of the bedroom. Just a few of our favorites – and not all of them are slow songs:
Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman – Bryan Adams
Your Body is a Wonderland – John Mayer
Treasure – Bruno Mars
Unpack Your Heart – Phillip Phillips
Overjoyed – Matchbox 20
Everything – Michael Buble
Crazy Love – Michael Buble
Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You – Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons
Rock Your Body – Justin Timberlake
Hands – Macy Gray
Kiss You All Over – Exile
Your Love is King – Sade
I’m In – Keith Urban
I’m Alive (Life Sounds Like) – Michael Franti & Spearhead
For Sentimental Reasons – Linda Ronstadt
How Your Love Makes Me Feel – Diamond Rio
I Know How the River Feels – Diamond Rio
And, our wedding song: If You Ever Have Forever in Mind – Vince Gill
And YES, it is so important to not get stuck in a rut and to keep it exciting. We find that the anticipation built up through texts – sometimes explicit & with pics, and sometimes just loving – to each other adds to that “gonna rip your clothes off and have you RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW” feeling.
God Bless,
Holly
Gah! Such a long list! Thank you 🙂
I glad I have suggestions because for a while there I was worried about running out of my own music! Thanks! 🙂
A few I like that get me wanting my man: Dark Horse by Katy Perry (very provocative beat and melody), Queen of the Night by Whitney Houston (naughty), Touch of Heaven (sexy) and Right Here Waiting (loving and romantic) by Richard Marx. I also love all the suggestions given so far, and I have many others but can’t think of them right now, I’ll post if they come to me….
Dark Horse!? REALLY!? I honestly can’t see that…
Hmmm, I love that jam but I just don’t see it as a sex song, but that’s just me 🙂
Thank you for the suggestions! 🙂
Awesome idea for a post, by the way, can’t wait to see more suggestions! 🙂
Thank you 🙂 glad you like it 🙂
HOLY CRAP GUYS! THIS IS AWESOME! Thank you so much for the suggestions. I’m going to start tackling a few in #6 or 7, not sure which one I’m on but thank you! This is incredible. I might do like 5 or so post based off the suggestions then go back to my list and so on and so forth! Comment on the others so I don’t lose track of the suggestions! 😀
It is an oldie, but the lyrics and words are incredible. “Happiest Girl” by Depeche Mode can get things stirring.