I have been thinking about the fact that we often play the guessing game in our sex life with our spouses. So, I thought it would be great to make a list of the things we want from our husband or wife. For some people, these might be a generalization, but I believe it will hit the mark for others.
I will focus on “What Men Want.” Hopefully, one of the ladies will start writing about "What Women Want." Please note that this is a focus on our SEXUAL needs.
So, I'll get the list started. These are the things that, as a husband, I need and/or desire from my wife. How do these resonate with you? Do you have any to add? Once some of us have responded to this posting, perhaps we can print it or forward it to our precious wives. They might find it enlightening, and it could help to bring about some in-depth communication.
1. Love my cock.
Touch it. Fondle it. Play with it. My cock and I are really one! I experience your love in a very special way when you love my cock. There are many parts to it. Make love to them all. And when you do, be actively involved and do not just go through the motions.
2. Ask me for sex.
It can be a real challenge for me always to initiate our lovemaking. Please be wild and ask me to make love to you. Be direct. Say it. “Do you wanna fuck?” “Come eat my pussy.” “I need your cock inside me right now.” “Please come and finger me.” Remember that men are not usually good with subtle hints!
3. Take control.
I need you to be the boss sometimes. Just take me. Don’t ask. Grab me. Take my clothes off or open my pants and grab my cock. Show enthusiasm when you handle it. Force yourself on me. You can even tie me up, and I will not complain!
4. Be blatant.
I love to be seduced by my wife. As I walk in spread your legs, pull your panty to the side and ask me if I need a snack. Lie on our bed and be playing with one of your toys when I walk in. Get naked, walk up to me, and start undressing me. Call me on the phone to tell me to come home and take care of your needs. Just do it!
5. Share your fantasies with me.
I want to know your sexual dreams and fantasies. No matter how weird or wild they are. I want to make them come true. There is great excitement for most guys in knowing that their wives have some bizarre fantasy. We love it. Know that I, for one, will not judge you.
6. Talk to me about sex.
I want to share my sexual thoughts with you. Help me to start conversations with you about sex. Let us share our naughty thoughts together.
7. Respond to my advances.
Please respond when I touch you or say sexy things. Make it easy to love you and to make love to you. Your body language and the way you respond to my advances say so much. It is so easy for us men to lose heart if we make advances and, time after time, are ignored.
8. Send me dirty text messages.
It is so exciting to receive sexy messages from you. Tell me what you want me to do to you or what you want to do to me. Send me pictures of yourself that you know would excite me. When I receive any sexy message from you, my body responds immediately.
9. Play with me by having foreplay the entire day.
Let us do things all day to create an erotic atmosphere: touching, texting, or sending naughty pictures and messages. Let's play in such a way that we are hot and dripping wet by the time we get together.
10. Masturbate with me and for me.
I believe this is possibly the biggest dream of most husbands. To watch your wife masturbating, and to sit and masturbate with her, is absolutely fantastic. A wife who is prepared to share these intimate moments with her husband is a lady in a class of her own. Dreams are made of this.
11. Accept your own body.
My dear wife, LISTEN to me! Your body is perfect for me. Do you have stretch marks? Have you gained weight? Are your boobs not perfect? Are you too skinny? Is your bum too big? All that does not matter. You are the only woman I desire and the only one that I will make love to. Do not rob me of your body. Flaunt it. Think sexy. Show off what you have. Seduce me with your body. You are what Abba Father planned for me. You are my PERFECT FIT!
Now guys, let us see what you can add to this.