A while back, if you all may remember, I created a post seeking advice on whether or not I should marry. I mentioned thinking that marriage would tie me down and that I wouldn’t be able to do anything I wanted to do after I married, like scuba diving or climbing mountains.
First, I would like to thank you all for the advice. Much of it was insightful and full of wisdom, which is precisely what I was looking for.
I’ve certainly grown over the three years since I wrote the post. I’m now pursuing medicine, learning German, and hard at work studying over this long Coronavirus hiatus. I ended up doing all the things I said I wanted to do. I got my scuba diving license, taught myself how to play the piano (Mostly thanks to Scott Joplin’s music), and went mountain climbing with my dad at Zion National Park in Utah. The more and more I did these things, the more and more your advice connected to me. I began thinking to myself, “It would be nice if I had a wife to share these experiences with.”
This brings me to my new dilemma.
I am a very intense-looking man, or at least, so I’ve been told. I’ve been told that I have a terminal case of RBF (Resting B***h Face) and constantly look angry. I’m 6’4, working out, carry myself well, don’t really talk that much, and am an introvert. Coupling these factors together makes me very unapproachable to most of the young girls I know.
Now that I’ve entered college, it’s also become much harder to find a girl that I can click with. They don’t like me because I don’t drink or want to go to parties, and I don’t respect them because they partake in those activities. Even the church girls I don’t really get along with. I don’t respect a lot of them for their phoniness. One day they’re praising Jesus in the church, and the next they’re drinking themselves to death at Chad and friend’s frat party (No offense to men named Chad. The name Chad is often used as slang in the young generations right now). I can’t seem to get along with those groups of girls.
I know there are great women out there. But I really could use some help finding them!
Do you have any advice on where to seek out respectable girls and how I can “fix” my angry-looking appearance?
Any advice would be appreciated.