Married MHers, what are your sexual plans for this Valentine's Day?


  • Unlikely to. (47%, 33 Votes)
  • Tried and true! (36%, 25 Votes)
  • Something new! (17%, 12 Votes)

Total Voters: 70

Start Date: February 14, 2022 @ 4:00 am
End Date: February 14, 2023 @ 3:59 am

Would you like MH to offer audio versions of stories for purchase?


  • Yes, if I could get them piecemeal, choosing to pay for only the ones I want to hear. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Yes, I'd buy an audiobook that compiled all the stories for a particular month. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • No, I don't think I'd pay to hear someone read the stories to me. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • I'd like ebooks or print versions of the Ignite stories from the last two years, too. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • Yes, I'd buy an audiobook that compiled 365 stories for the year. (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 0

Start Date: September 16, 2021 @ 12:00 am
End Date: October 1, 2021 @ 12:00 am

Christians: how does your upbringing in sexual matters compare to how you raise (or plan to raise) your children?


  • Sex was ignored or taboo in my childhood, but I teach (or taught) my kids that it is a gift to be enjoyed within marriage. (41%, 80 Votes)
  • I was taught sex was a gift to be enjoyed between married people, and that's how we handle it too. (30%, 58 Votes)
  • Sex was ignored or taboo in my childhood, and that's how we handle(d) it too. (6%, 12 Votes)
  • My role models believed sex outside marriage was normal and okay, and that's how we handle it too. (5%, 9 Votes)
  • I was taught sex was a gift to be enjoyed between married people, but I teach that sex outside marriage is normal and okay. (5%, 9 Votes)
  • Other (elaborate in comments) (4%, 7 Votes)
  • I was taught sex was a gift to be enjoyed between married people, but we don't talk about sex with our kids. (4%, 7 Votes)
  • Sex was ignored or taboo in my childhood, but I teach my kids that sex outside marriage is normal and okay. (3%, 6 Votes)
  • My role models believed sex outside marriage was normal and okay, but I teach (or taught) my kids that it is a gift to be enjoyed within marriage. (3%, 5 Votes)
  • My role models believed sex outside marriage was normal and okay, but we don't talk about sex with our kids.. (0%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 195

Start Date: April 8, 2020 @ 5:45 pm
End Date: No Expiry

As a Christian, what level of sexual activity to you hold to be appropriate leading up to the wedding day? (Select all that apply)


  • Kissing on the lips (17%, 430 Votes)
  • French kissing (15%, 380 Votes)
  • Touching over clothes (11%, 282 Votes)
  • Touching under clothes (7%, 186 Votes)
  • Exposing and touching normally covered body parts (i.e. lifting shirt to caress breasts, etc.) (7%, 182 Votes)
  • Manually bringing one or both partners to orgasm through clothing (6%, 159 Votes)
  • Seeing body parts unclothed in person (6%, 147 Votes)
  • Manually bringing one or both partners to orgasm under clothing (5%, 135 Votes)
  • Oral sex to orgasm (5%, 135 Votes)
  • Phone or text sex while masturbating (5%, 125 Votes)
  • Manually bringing one or both partners to orgasm unclothed (5%, 124 Votes)
  • Seeing body parts unclothed in photos or videos (5%, 121 Votes)
  • Masturbating in front of one another (4%, 102 Votes)
  • Oral sex but not to orgasm (e.g. kissing genitals) (4%, 93 Votes)

Total Voters: 504

Start Date: December 18, 2019 @ 7:31 pm
End Date: No Expiry

Married couples: Do you view audio-visual erotica (depicting male + female or solo sex) or porn (depicting other sex acts)? If so, do you find it beneficial to your marriage?


  • We do use AVE and find it enhances our sexual relationship. (24%, 73 Votes)
  • We do not use porn and believe it is a sin to do so. (23%, 69 Votes)
  • We do use porn and find it enhances our sexual relationship. (16%, 49 Votes)
  • We do not use AVE and believe it is a sin to do so. (13%, 38 Votes)
  • We do not use AVE but would consider it. (10%, 29 Votes)
  • We do not use porn but would consider it. (7%, 20 Votes)
  • We have used porn in the past but it caused conflict or harm in our relationship. (6%, 17 Votes)
  • We have used AVE in the past but it caused conflict or harm in our relationship. (1%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 227

Start Date: October 19, 2019 @ 4:54 am
End Date: No Expiry

Which of the following terms would you find offensive in stories? Note that we don't allow them to be used in a hurtful, unloving way.


  • God or god, used as an exclamation (12%, 49 Votes)
  • whore (11%, 45 Votes)
  • bitch (11%, 43 Votes)
  • "holy" + anything, used as an exclamation (10%, 41 Votes)
  • None of these (9%, 38 Votes)
  • bastard (9%, 37 Votes)
  • slut (8%, 34 Votes)
  • shit (6%, 24 Votes)
  • cunt (4%, 18 Votes)
  • twat (4%, 16 Votes)
  • snatch (4%, 15 Votes)
  • hell (4%, 15 Votes)
  • damn (3%, 13 Votes)
  • fuck (2%, 9 Votes)
  • pussy (2%, 7 Votes)

Total Voters: 111

Start Date: July 15, 2019 @ 3:20 am
End Date: No Expiry

What is your view on voyeurism?


  • Seeing (or the thought of seeing) another married couple's enjoyment of each other really turns me on. (56%, 836 Votes)
  • I think if it happens accidentally its okay, but it shouldn't be planned. (12%, 176 Votes)
  • Watching other people have sex is always wrong. (11%, 167 Votes)
  • If a couple is having sex where they can be seen, they shouldn't mind being watched, but it's wrong to invade their privacy. (9%, 137 Votes)
  • Even if it's not technically a sin, I believe it can lead to lusting for others. (8%, 113 Votes)
  • Maybe it would be more ethical if the other couple knew and were okay with it. (4%, 68 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,497

Start Date: June 20, 2019 @ 1:27 am
End Date: No Expiry

How do you feel about the stories on MH that describe fantasies of acts that would be disobedient if actually pursued? (Select all that apply.)


  • I don't think it's wrong to tell about imagining such things. But it may be a stumbling block for some, so they should be clearly marked. (28%, 123 Votes)
  • I think fantasies and role-plays that involve pretending to be other than a married couple are okay, as long as it's clear that it's only make believe. (28%, 122 Votes)
  • It might be okay for people to describe multiple-partner fantasies in their sex talk or when using toys. (25%, 110 Votes)
  • I only like role-play where the couple are pretending to be someone else, but still married. (12%, 52 Votes)
  • I don't personally appreciate fantasy in married sex stories. Better to be content with who and what we have. (7%, 30 Votes)

Total Voters: 312

Start Date: April 4, 2019 @ 6:12 am
End Date: No Expiry

Do you prefer a female voice or male voice on narrations?


  • I prefer to hear a female read stories to me, even if they were written by a man. (70%, 30 Votes)
  • I prefer men's stories to be read by a man and women's stories to be read by a woman. (30%, 13 Votes)
  • I prefer to hear a male read stories to me, even if they were written by a woman. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • It really makes no difference to me. (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 43

Start Date: March 29, 2019 @ 3:43 pm
End Date: No Expiry

What day of the week should Ignite Stories be posted?


  • Friday (35%, 36 Votes)
  • Saturday (18%, 19 Votes)
  • Sunday (17%, 18 Votes)
  • Monday (14%, 15 Votes)
  • Thursday (7%, 7 Votes)
  • Wednesday (6%, 6 Votes)
  • Tuesday (3%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 104

Start Date: January 20, 2019 @ 11:51 pm
End Date: February 14, 2019 @ 4:00 am