To help us better serve you, could you please let us know which age group you belong to? Feel free to choose from the following options:


  • 55-64 (21%, 171 Votes)
  • 45-54 (20%, 159 Votes)
  • 35-44 (18%, 146 Votes)
  • 25-34 (17%, 137 Votes)
  • 65-74 (15%, 120 Votes)
  • 18-24 (6%, 52 Votes)
  • 75 or older (3%, 23 Votes)
  • Under 18 (0%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 809

Start Date: January 1, 2024 @ 2:13 pm
End Date: No Expiry

To help us better serve you, could you please let us know which age group you belong to? Feel free to choose from the following options:


  • 18-24 (75%, 3 Votes)
  • Under 18 (25%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 4

Start Date: January 1, 2024 @ 2:13 pm
End Date: No Expiry

How do you integrate masturbation into your monogamous relationship in a way that enhances intimacy and respects the values of hot monogamy. (Pick up to 5)


  • Solo for Stress Relief: I practice masturbation alone only for stress relief, keeping it separate from our intimate life. (33%, 376 Votes)
  • Intimacy Enhancement: Solo sessions are a prelude to our together time, increasing desire and intimacy. (11%, 123 Votes)
  • Distance Bonding: We engage in mutual masturbation during times of separation to maintain our intimate bond. (9%, 107 Votes)
  • Communicative Sharing: My spouse and I openly discuss our solo experiences to enhance our mutual understanding and intimacy. (9%, 100 Votes)
  • Instructional Moments: Masturbation is a way for us to show each other what we enjoy, enhancing our sexual experiences together. (9%, 99 Votes)
  • Fantasizing Together: We share our fantasies during masturbation for a deeper emotional connection. (8%, 91 Votes)
  • Surprise Element: We occasionally surprise each other with solo acts to create excitement and anticipation. (8%, 87 Votes)
  • Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder: We use solo practices during brief periods of abstinence to heighten sexual tension and desire (6%, 64 Votes)
  • I am single and enjoy masturbation to relieve sexual stress and in preparation for marriage (5%, 56 Votes)
  • Not Practiced: I/We choose not to practice masturbation, focusing solely on shared intimate experiences. (3%, 33 Votes)

Total Voters: 614

Start Date: December 22, 2023 @ 6:46 am
End Date: No Expiry

Some times marriage heat can cool. In your marriage, what do you think are the main reasons that contribute to feeling 'stuck' in your sexual relationship? Please select up to three options.


  • Differences in Libido: Mismatch in sexual drives or frequencies desired by each partner. (17%, 215 Votes)
  • Stress and Fatigue: Daily stress and fatigue impacting sexual desire and energy. (16%, 210 Votes)
  • Lack of Communication: Struggling to openly discuss sexual desires and needs. (14%, 180 Votes)
  • Routine and Predictability: Sexual encounters have become too predictable or routine. (11%, 139 Votes)
  • Impact of Children/Family Life: Family responsibilities and children affecting privacy and energy for sex. (10%, 123 Votes)
  • Limited Experimentation: Reluctance to try new things or explore different aspects of sexuality. (8%, 106 Votes)
  • Physical Changes: Changes in physical appearance or health affecting attraction or ability. (7%, 90 Votes)
  • Emotional Disconnect: Feeling emotionally distant or disconnected from the partner. (6%, 81 Votes)
  • Time Constraints: Not having enough time or privacy for intimate moments. (6%, 75 Votes)
  • Past Traumas or Issues: Unresolved past traumas or issues impacting current sexual relationship. (4%, 49 Votes)
  • Other? Comment (1%, 7 Votes)

Total Voters: 490

Start Date: December 14, 2023 @ 8:39 am
End Date: No Expiry

Places Where You and/or Your Spouse Have Experienced an Orgasm Together or Alone Outside the Home - Select All That Apply and Feel Free to Share Additional Details in the Comments


  • In a car (18%, 453 Votes)
  • At Someone's House Unknown to Them (14%, 346 Votes)
  • Outside on your property (12%, 297 Votes)
  • Camping (12%, 289 Votes)
  • On a Boat or Ship (8%, 206 Votes)
  • At Work (8%, 197 Votes)
  • At a secluded beach (7%, 177 Votes)
  • In a secluded part of a park (7%, 175 Votes)
  • Public Bathroom (5%, 118 Votes)
  • At a School (2%, 50 Votes)
  • In a Church (2%, 46 Votes)
  • On a Plane (2%, 46 Votes)
  • In a Restaurant (2%, 38 Votes)
  • Other (please Comment or Write a Story) (1%, 34 Votes)

Total Voters: 579

Start Date: December 2, 2023 @ 8:43 am
End Date: No Expiry

What paid services would you support from MarriageHeat.com?


  • Online Workshops and Seminars on Enhancing Marital Intimacy and Communication. (23%, 77 Votes)
  • Online Courses and Resources for Strengthening Marital Bonds and Intimacy. (20%, 65 Votes)
  • No additional coaches or ministers needed; current resources are sufficient. (17%, 57 Votes)
  • An Intimacy Coach to provide ideas and methods for fostering passionate marriages (16%, 54 Votes)
  • An Intimacy Marriage Conversations Minister to assist with challenges in marriage and marital intimacy. (13%, 43 Votes)
  • A Christian Matchmaker who interviews individuals to determine compatibility for meeting potential partners of the opposite sex for dating and actual introductions (11%, 35 Votes)
  • Other? (0%, 1 Votes)

Total Voters: 196

Start Date: November 25, 2023 @ 9:36 am
End Date: No Expiry

Which environmental factors do you find enhances your romantic experiences with your spouse? Pick Two


  • Candles and soft lighting (26%, 135 Votes)
  • Dim lighting for a cozy atmosphere (26%, 133 Votes)
  • Romantic or soothing music (21%, 106 Votes)
  • Aromatherapy or scented surroundings (7%, 34 Votes)
  • Nature sounds or ambient outdoor noises (5%, 27 Votes)
  • Bright and full lighting (5%, 23 Votes)
  • Complete quiet and tranquility (4%, 22 Votes)
  • Total darkness for intimacy (4%, 21 Votes)
  • You missed ours. (Please Comment and tell more) (2%, 10 Votes)

Total Voters: 285

Start Date: November 15, 2023 @ 8:35 pm
End Date: No Expiry

What is your opinion on women going braless in public?


  • Completely acceptable – Comfort and personal choice should come first. (40%, 303 Votes)
  • Depends on the context – Certain settings may be more appropriate than others. (30%, 228 Votes)
  • Supportive with reservations – Fine as long as it’s done tastefully. (15%, 111 Votes)
  • Inappropriate – Traditional modesty and professionalism should be upheld in public spaces. (6%, 47 Votes)
  • Indifferent – People should wear what they want, it doesn't affect me. (5%, 38 Votes)
  • Unconventional but empowering – It can be a statement of freedom and body positivity. (2%, 15 Votes)
  • Uncomfortable but wouldn't comment – It's not my place to tell others how to dress. (2%, 15 Votes)
  • Other: Maybe I will share more in the comments. (0%, 2 Votes)

Total Voters: 759

Start Date: November 6, 2023 @ 6:07 am
End Date: No Expiry

What do you believe are the primary obstacles to deepening erotic love in your marriage? Pick top two.


  • Differences in sexual desires or needs. (30%, 169 Votes)
  • External stresses (work, children, finances). (19%, 106 Votes)
  • Lack of communication with my partner. (17%, 96 Votes)
  • Emotional or physical health challenges. (10%, 57 Votes)
  • Past experiences or unresolved issues. (10%, 56 Votes)
  • Trust issues or fears of vulnerability. (7%, 37 Votes)
  • Lack of quality time together. (6%, 36 Votes)
  • Other - Comment (1%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 311

Start Date: October 29, 2023 @ 4:57 am
End Date: No Expiry

As we embark on our Bible study, how do you perceive the portrayal of marital intimacy in the Song of Songs within the Bible?


  • It's a profound reflection of love and passion within marriage. (52%, 168 Votes)
  • I'm intrigued that such vivid content is in a sacred text. (17%, 55 Votes)
  • It offers insightful lessons on harmonizing spirituality with human desires. (15%, 50 Votes)
  • I view it primarily as an allegory for divine love. (5%, 17 Votes)
  • I'm not familiar with it yet, so I reserve judgment. (5%, 16 Votes)
  • Its depiction hasn't largely shaped my views on marital intimacy. (5%, 16 Votes)
  • Its explicit nature makes me uneasy compared to other biblical teachings on marriage. (1%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 226

Start Date: October 10, 2023 @ 5:45 pm
End Date: No Expiry