Which of the following terms would you find offensive in stories? Note that we don't allow them to be used in a hurtful, unloving way.


  • None of these (13%, 23 Votes)
  • God or god, used as an exclamation (12%, 20 Votes)
  • "holy" + anything, used as an exclamation (9%, 15 Votes)
  • whore (9%, 15 Votes)
  • bitch (8%, 14 Votes)
  • cunt (7%, 12 Votes)
  • slut (6%, 11 Votes)
  • shit (6%, 11 Votes)
  • bastard (6%, 11 Votes)
  • twat (6%, 10 Votes)
  • snatch (5%, 8 Votes)
  • hell (4%, 7 Votes)
  • fuck (3%, 5 Votes)
  • damn (3%, 5 Votes)
  • pussy (2%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 51

Start Date: July 15, 2019 @ 3:20 am
End Date: No Expiry

What is your view on voyeurism?


  • Seeing (or the thought of seeing) another married couple's enjoyment of each other really turns me on. (59%, 544 Votes)
  • Watching other people have sex is always wrong. (11%, 101 Votes)
  • I think if it happens accidentally its okay, but it shouldn't be planned. (11%, 101 Votes)
  • Even if it's not technically a sin, I believe it can lead to lusting for others. (8%, 71 Votes)
  • If a couple is having sex where they can be seen, they shouldn't mind being watched, but it's wrong to invade their privacy. (7%, 66 Votes)
  • Maybe it would be more ethical if the other couple knew and were okay with it. (4%, 39 Votes)

Total Voters: 922

Start Date: June 20, 2019 @ 1:27 am
End Date: No Expiry

How do you feel about the stories on MH that describe fantasies of acts that would be disobedient if actually pursued? (Select all that apply.)


  • I don't think it's wrong to tell about imagining such things. But it may be a stumbling block for some, so they should be clearly marked. (29%, 96 Votes)
  • I think fantasies and role-plays that involve pretending to be other than a married couple are okay, as long as it's clear that it's only make believe. (28%, 93 Votes)
  • It might be okay for people to describe multiple-partner fantasies in their sex talk or when using toys. (22%, 72 Votes)
  • I only like role-play where the couple are pretending to be someone else, but still married. (12%, 40 Votes)
  • I don't personally appreciate fantasy in married sex stories. Better to be content with who and what we have. (8%, 27 Votes)

Total Voters: 229

Start Date: April 4, 2019 @ 6:12 am
End Date: No Expiry

Do you prefer a female voice or male voice on narrations?


  • I prefer to hear a female read stories to me, even if they were written by a man. (69%, 18 Votes)
  • I prefer men's stories to be read by a man and women's stories to be read by a woman. (31%, 8 Votes)
  • I prefer to hear a male read stories to me, even if they were written by a woman. (0%, 0 Votes)
  • It really makes no difference to me. (0%, 0 Votes)

Total Voters: 26

Start Date: March 29, 2019 @ 3:43 pm
End Date: No Expiry

What day of the week should Ignite Stories be posted?


  • Friday (35%, 36 Votes)
  • Saturday (18%, 19 Votes)
  • Sunday (17%, 18 Votes)
  • Monday (14%, 15 Votes)
  • Thursday (7%, 7 Votes)
  • Wednesday (6%, 6 Votes)
  • Tuesday (3%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 104

Start Date: January 20, 2019 @ 11:51 pm
End Date: February 14, 2019 @ 4:00 am

Does the use of names in stories bother you?


  • No. I'm pretty sure no one uses their real names anyway. And reading He - She - Him - Her all the time is just boring. (60%, 110 Votes)
  • No. Even if the character has the same name as someone I know, it doesn't make me fantasize about that person. (27%, 49 Votes)
  • Yes. I want to be able to insert myself and my spouse into the story, so You & I or He & She stories are my preference. (10%, 18 Votes)
  • Sometimes. If I know someone by that name, my mind can wander to places I would rather it didn't. (3%, 5 Votes)

Total Voters: 182

Start Date: December 5, 2018 @ 3:42 am
End Date: No Expiry

Does urination play any part in your marriage heat?


  • We keep urination private and neither of us is turned on by it. (54%, 124 Votes)
  • We both enjoy watching and sometimes don't stop there! (20%, 46 Votes)
  • I like to watch and he/she doesn't mind doing it in front of me. (14%, 33 Votes)
  • I like to watch my spouse pee, but he/she doesn't like to do it in front of me. (7%, 17 Votes)
  • We both are turned on by watching and by doing it for the other. (5%, 10 Votes)

Total Voters: 230

Start Date: November 8, 2018 @ 10:39 pm
End Date: No Expiry

How important is privacy to your comfort level during sex with your spouse?


  • I have risked being seen but never gotten "caught". (35%, 97 Votes)
  • I will occasionally fantasize about getting "caught" but would probably never risk it. (26%, 71 Votes)
  • I am uncomfortable with the thought of being seen and would rather avoid any situation that risks it. (22%, 60 Votes)
  • I have been seen and it was a turn on for which I felt no remorse. (14%, 40 Votes)
  • I have been seen and it was a turn on, but I felt remorse afterward. (2%, 5 Votes)
  • I have been seen and was uncomfortable about it. (1%, 3 Votes)

Total Voters: 276

Start Date: October 1, 2018 @ 12:32 am
End Date: No Expiry

How important to you are the images on Marriage Heat? (Choose up to two.)


  • They add artistry and support the content, but I would still engage even if they weren't here anymore. (50%, 571 Votes)
  • I would prefer they were not included. (26%, 302 Votes)
  • I don't think I would come here if the images weren't here anymore. (13%, 145 Votes)
  • I would be willing to submit tasteful images to MH for which I own the copyrights with appropriate releases. (12%, 135 Votes)

Total Voters: 990

Start Date: August 3, 2018 @ 6:38 am
End Date: No Expiry

How important are author bios to you as a reader?


  • I don't like or read them. Who knows if they are even true. (37%, 121 Votes)
  • Important. I like knowing a bit of background of the people I'm "listening" to. (32%, 105 Votes)
  • I read them, but they aren't important to me. (29%, 95 Votes)
  • Very important. I disregard stories and advice from people without them. (2%, 7 Votes)

Total Voters: 328

Start Date: July 13, 2018 @ 3:48 pm
End Date: No Expiry