How important is privacy to your comfort level during sex with your spouse?


  • I have risked being seen but never gotten "caught". (34%, 131 Votes)
  • I will occasionally fantasize about getting "caught" but would probably never risk it. (24%, 94 Votes)
  • I am uncomfortable with the thought of being seen and would rather avoid any situation that risks it. (23%, 88 Votes)
  • I have been seen and it was a turn on for which I felt no remorse. (17%, 66 Votes)
  • I have been seen and it was a turn on, but I felt remorse afterward. (2%, 7 Votes)
  • I have been seen and was uncomfortable about it. (0%, 4 Votes)

Total Voters: 390

Start Date: October 1, 2018 @ 12:32 am
End Date: No Expiry

How important to you are the images on Marriage Heat? (Choose up to two.)


  • They add artistry and support the content, but I would still engage even if they weren't here anymore. (50%, 571 Votes)
  • I would prefer they were not included. (26%, 302 Votes)
  • I don't think I would come here if the images weren't here anymore. (13%, 145 Votes)
  • I would be willing to submit tasteful images to MH for which I own the copyrights with appropriate releases. (12%, 135 Votes)

Total Voters: 990

Start Date: August 3, 2018 @ 6:38 am
End Date: No Expiry

How important are author bios to you as a reader?


  • I don't like or read them. Who knows if they are even true. (37%, 121 Votes)
  • Important. I like knowing a bit of background of the people I'm "listening" to. (32%, 105 Votes)
  • I read them, but they aren't important to me. (29%, 95 Votes)
  • Very important. I disregard stories and advice from people without them. (2%, 7 Votes)

Total Voters: 328

Start Date: July 13, 2018 @ 3:48 pm
End Date: No Expiry

Is the God-honoring, hot monogamy message that MH hopes to spread appropriately represented by the comments and responses to the stories it publishes?


  • Yes, it is appropriate for writers and readers to have two-way communication that includes appreciation of the arousing nature of the stories and to use explicit language to express it. (58%, 246 Votes)
  • It's alright to tell someone their story aroused you, but sometimes the descriptions get a little too graphic. (23%, 99 Votes)
  • I don't think it's okay to tell an author their story got you hot or horny. Keep that info private, please. (16%, 68 Votes)
  • I think most of the stories should be toned down; how much more so the comments! (3%, 11 Votes)

Total Voters: 424

Start Date: June 12, 2018 @ 1:42 pm
End Date: No Expiry

How would you feel about others being aware that you are having hot sex with your spouse?


  • Turned on. (44%, 401 Votes)
  • It depends on who it is. (24%, 216 Votes)
  • It's normal, so why sweat it? (17%, 153 Votes)
  • Somewhat embarrassed. (11%, 103 Votes)
  • Totally mortified. (4%, 31 Votes)

Total Voters: 904

Start Date: June 7, 2018 @ 11:29 am
End Date: No Expiry

What is your opinion on "personal porn"? (You may choose two.)


  • We don't make videos but I think it would be fun. (52%, 547 Votes)
  • We like to make video of ourselves to watch together later. (23%, 243 Votes)
  • We like to make solo videos of ourselves to send to each other. (14%, 152 Votes)
  • I don't think it's okay to make videos of ourselves having sex, even if we are the only ones who will ever see them. (10%, 108 Votes)

Total Voters: 929

Start Date: June 7, 2018 @ 7:38 am
End Date: No Expiry

What is your opinion on anal penetration? Choose all that apply.


  • I believe it can be a healthy part of a God-honoring marriage. (22%, 772 Votes)
  • I would like to see stories about it on MH. (18%, 637 Votes)
  • "To each, his own," is my motto. (15%, 527 Votes)
  • I think it would be wise to give an (A) tag to the titles of stories incorporating it. (13%, 470 Votes)
  • My spouse and I enjoy it. (13%, 444 Votes)
  • I don't believe God wants us to pleasure each other in that way. (6%, 227 Votes)
  • I would consider submitting stories about it to MH. (6%, 216 Votes)
  • I would not like to see stories about it on MH. (5%, 160 Votes)
  • I would only like to see articles about it written by medical doctors or clergy on MH. (1%, 52 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,640

Start Date: May 16, 2018 @ 6:07 am
End Date: No Expiry

Wives, have you satisfied your husband with oral sex?


  • Yes. I really enjoyed it. I even enjoy swallowing his cum. (40%, 1,042 Votes)
  • Yes. I really enjoyed it. I do not swallow his cum. (21%, 555 Votes)
  • Yes. I do not connect as much with this, but I do it for his pleasure. (15%, 380 Votes)
  • No. I am not comfortable doing that. (14%, 379 Votes)
  • Yes. I really enjoy it and spit his cum out on him. (8%, 215 Votes)
  • No. He does not want that. (2%, 43 Votes)

Total Voters: 2,614

Start Date: April 7, 2018 @ 8:05 am
End Date: No Expiry

What worldview concerning sexuality was communicated in your childhood?


  • A worldview that sex was to be saved for marriage was stressed (29%, 903 Votes)
  • Masturbation was considered wrong (23%, 734 Votes)
  • Your sexuality is connected to shame or sin (15%, 460 Votes)
  • No message or worldview was expressed about areas of sexuality (14%, 427 Votes)
  • Your sexuality is good and positive (8%, 245 Votes)
  • Masturbation is positive and healthy (5%, 169 Votes)
  • Healthy Conversation about sexuality occurred (5%, 146 Votes)
  • Other (2%, 58 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,691

Start Date: January 24, 2018 @ 11:43 am
End Date: No Expiry

Sexual Journey Poll: What applies to you? (You may answer more than once)


  • I was a virgin when I got married (21%, 1,456 Votes)
  • I was not a virgin when I got married (20%, 1,356 Votes)
  • I hope our marriage will grow in the area of our sexual engagement (17%, 1,179 Votes)
  • While I was not a virgin, I have only been with my spouse (11%, 777 Votes)
  • MarriageHeat.com is helping us spice up our marriage sex (9%, 582 Votes)
  • Our spiritual journey with God has helped us grow in our marriage sex (8%, 573 Votes)
  • We have a generally sexless marriage (7%, 457 Votes)
  • I was sexually abused in pre-adult years (3%, 215 Votes)
  • I was divorced and sexual issues were a factor in the divorce (2%, 127 Votes)
  • We have practiced swinging (1%, 81 Votes)

Total Voters: 3,656

Start Date: January 6, 2018 @ 9:31 am
End Date: No Expiry