Married Couples: What attitude toward sex do you have in your marriage?


  • As a husband, I want more sexual engagement. My wife wants less (30%, 343 Votes)
  • We both love it and both want to grow in more hot monogamy (27%, 305 Votes)
  • As a husband, I am lonely because my often wife ignores me (22%, 251 Votes)
  • We love it, we are also busy with other important priorities (14%, 156 Votes)
  • As a wife, I want more sexual engagement. My husband wants less. (5%, 54 Votes)
  • As a wife, I am lonely because my husband often ignores me (2%, 36 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,146

Start Date: December 16, 2017 @ 9:03 am
End Date: No Expiry

Women: How often do you masturbate?


  • Once to Four times a month (27%, 236 Votes)
  • Often daily (20%, 182 Votes)
  • More than three times a week (17%, 155 Votes)
  • More than than five times a month (16%, 138 Votes)
  • Never (14%, 123 Votes)
  • Less than once a year (6%, 55 Votes)

Total Voters: 889

Start Date: December 6, 2017 @ 7:04 pm
End Date: No Expiry

How Has MarriageHeat Impacted You? Pick as many answers as apply


  • I swallowed my husband cum for the first time. (12%, 248 Votes)
  • One or both of us masturbate more freely to heat up our together time. (11%, 228 Votes)
  • I am more confident in sexual matters. (9%, 195 Votes)
  • We make love more often. (9%, 195 Votes)
  • We communicate better about our sexual preferences. (8%, 174 Votes)
  • We have opened our sex life up to more adventure. (8%, 172 Votes)
  • We use a vibrator more. (8%, 167 Votes)
  • We now have more marriage heat. (7%, 158 Votes)
  • Other hot ways - Maybe we will write a story. (6%, 134 Votes)
  • It helped us renew our sexual passion. (6%, 121 Votes)
  • I went out in public without panties for the first time. (5%, 115 Votes)
  • MH helped me get over some sexual hang ups. (5%, 100 Votes)
  • We found this a great resource as newlyweds. (2%, 47 Votes)
  • More marriage heat has brought pregnancy to us. (2%, 41 Votes)
  • God used Marriage Heat to save our marriage. (2%, 38 Votes)

Total Voters: 778

Start Date: June 25, 2016 @ 8:24 pm
End Date: No Expiry

Users have suggested many ideas for MH. How could MH serve you better?


  • Open a forum on Sex issues (37%, 180 Votes)
  • Open single online dating options separate from the anonymous profiles, while leaving the anonymous profiles in place (22%, 110 Votes)
  • Offer more marriage non-fiction resources (16%, 77 Votes)
  • Offer expert advice columns with products and services (15%, 76 Votes)
  • Offer MH recommendations for products and services via our users (8%, 39 Votes)
  • Other: Email ideas to admin@marriageheat.com (2%, 10 Votes)

Total Voters: 365

Start Date: May 21, 2016 @ 7:51 am
End Date: No Expiry

Which Sex position do you practice the most in your marriage


  • Him on top (36%, 871 Votes)
  • Her on top (26%, 617 Votes)
  • Doggie-style (20%, 483 Votes)
  • Spooning (5%, 121 Votes)
  • Bent Over (4%, 98 Votes)
  • Up against a wall (4%, 86 Votes)
  • Other (3%, 62 Votes)
  • Reverse Cowboy (2%, 52 Votes)

Total Voters: 2,390

Start Date: April 23, 2016 @ 9:34 pm
End Date: No Expiry

The pictures chosen at MH are picked to give a little playful sizzle with a moderate PG -14 rating? What do you think of the pictures? (Pick up to three)


  • I think the pictures can be more suggestive including more erotic glances (39%, 1,119 Votes)
  • I think the pictures are sizzling and enhance our Marriage Heat (21%, 595 Votes)
  • I think that pictures are just right (14%, 420 Votes)
  • I think the pictures could be toned down (14%, 402 Votes)
  • I like the "costume" idea but generally keep people's identities hidden (7%, 189 Votes)
  • I do not like the "pictures" at MH (6%, 174 Votes)

Total Voters: 2,139

Start Date: January 12, 2016 @ 1:44 pm
End Date: No Expiry

What "type" of sex lubricant do you use?


  • Water-Based Lubricants with Glycerin like "Astroglide" (28%, 357 Votes)
  • None (27%, 336 Votes)
  • Coconut Oil Products like "OCO®" (Only Coconut Oil) (26%, 324 Votes)
  • Water-Based Lubricants without Glycerin Like "Maximus" (8%, 98 Votes)
  • Silicone Lubricants Like "Eros" (6%, 74 Votes)
  • Organic Products Like "Good Clean Love" (5%, 67 Votes)

Total Voters: 1,256

Start Date: December 27, 2015 @ 1:49 pm
End Date: No Expiry

What could or does contribute to a sexless time in your marriage? Pick Three


  • Exhaustion or busy schedules get in the way (24%, 576 Votes)
  • Sex becomes perfunctory or boring (11%, 256 Votes)
  • Less effort is put into looking sexy (11%, 254 Votes)
  • Couples aren't upfront about their sexual preferences (9%, 222 Votes)
  • The spark is gone (9%, 216 Votes)
  • Neither partner will make time for sex (8%, 198 Votes)
  • The marital bed becomes the family bed (7%, 173 Votes)
  • Sexual signals are misinterpreted (7%, 160 Votes)
  • Fetishes are laughed off or totally disregarded (6%, 148 Votes)
  • There's a breakdown in intimacy after an affair (3%, 80 Votes)
  • The dog is in the bedroom all the time (2%, 54 Votes)
  • Spiritual incompatibility (2%, 42 Votes)

Total Voters: 965

Start Date: December 11, 2015 @ 9:03 am
End Date: No Expiry

What is the most likely day of the week for Marriage Heat?


  • Saturday (42%, 351 Votes)
  • Friday (26%, 218 Votes)
  • Sunday (17%, 142 Votes)
  • Thursday (6%, 49 Votes)
  • Wednesday (4%, 36 Votes)
  • Monday (3%, 28 Votes)
  • Tuesday (2%, 19 Votes)

Total Voters: 843

Start Date: November 26, 2015 @ 8:00 am
End Date: No Expiry

Who initiates marriage heat more in your marriage?


  • Mostly Husband (38%, 269 Votes)
  • More Husband (29%, 207 Votes)
  • Both about evenly (17%, 121 Votes)
  • More Wife (9%, 61 Votes)
  • Mostly Wife (7%, 47 Votes)

Total Voters: 705

Start Date: November 20, 2015 @ 9:09 pm
End Date: No Expiry