Intriguing Dreams and Intense Pleasures (L/A)
This post contains strong language (L) and involves anal play (A).
I would like to tell you about a practice my husband and I have developed over the past several months. We have sex in many different ways and positions. The standard penis-in-vagina coupling in almost every position you can think of is a fave. We also love giving and receiving oral sex in different positions. We enjoy this as foreplay, and giving / receiving oral to completion as the main sexual event.
My husband is mainly a ‘one and done’ sexual performer. He can last as long as I need him to. But when he finishes with one massive, intense orgasm, he is completely spent until our next session.
Typically, I am the same way. But I have always been intrigued by women who have multiple orgasms. For a long time, I assumed my body would never respond that way. I’m not complaining; my orgasms have always been wonderful and intense, and I have always felt very satisfied.
And yet, as I read about multi-orgasmic women, I had this niggling thought that maybe it could happen to me. I wanted to spend some time experimenting with how I might achieve this. My husband has been very supportive in this search. He will do anything to please me, as you will read in a moment. I am so grateful for this.
For me the breakthrough came, strangely enough, because of a sexy dream. One morning I woke up very early and was feeling quite horny and turned on. So, as I lay beside my sleeping husband I begin dreaming of different positions and ways that we could have sex as I lightly touched my clitoris. I drifted in and out of light sleep having a very sensuous “fuck-dream!” Later, I told my husband about it, and he agreed that we could experiment with this in real life. And it worked! It took several sessions and some stops and starts, but the following scenario is what has resulted in real life from this fantasy.
I am really turned on by long unhurried sessions of very deep tongue kissing. And I love to ride my husband’s stiff penis in the girl on top, cowgirl position. As I ride him, pumping up and down very slowly, my arms are around his neck firmly holding his mouth to mine in one long unending French kiss. This can go one for 20 or 25 minutes, or even longer.
Sometimes, I am slowly but firmly pumping up and down on his hard cock as we kiss. But other times, I am almost still, barely moving but slowly and firmly clenching my pussy on his hardness, which is something that really builds my pleasure.
I eventually get so turned on and wet that my slick juices are just flowing down his stiff cock as I ride him. I slowly get more and more turned on until I feel a deeper orgasm building deep inside me than I could ever experience without this slow build-up.
I know that if I have my orgasm while I’m riding his penis in this position it would be fantastic and pleasurable. But experience proves that it would be just that one short orgasm—nice, but fairly brief.
So, just as I dreamed in my fantasy, I get up off of him and turn around to straddle his face, while facing his feet. I begin riding his face with deep sexual abandon. Knowing that my pussy is soaking wet and that I am flowing my slick wetness down over his tongue and face is especially exciting to me in my fevered, turned-on state of mind.
There are two versions of how this ends, so I will describe both of them to you.
SEXY VERSION ONE
When I’m really excited and am about to cum, it increases my pleasure to talk hot and sexy. I can never imagine myself talking this way in any other circumstance. But when I’m deeply turned on and about to cum, I love the feeling of abandoning my emotions to sexual passion. and I express this in talking as hot as I can. So, I begin urging my husband to keep licking and sucking me in very aggressive and explicit language.
I say, “Do you like sucking my hot pussy, baby? Yes, keep licking my hot pussy. It’s wet just for you, baby! Keep licking and sucking my pussy, and don’t you dare stop!”
I keep talking like this and riding his face until I am at the very edge of my climax. Then I pick up the lubed vibrator I have placed beside us on the bed and rub it over my clit as I thrust my hips back and forward, urging my husband to thrust his tongue all the up into my vagina as far as it will go. Soon my orgasm breaks over me in waves of intense pleasure, throbbing clenches that crest and then continued instead of just ending like my normal orgasms.
I don’t know if this is one extra-long orgasm, or a series of 3-4, one after the other, but it feels overwhelming and delicious. Why this is so much better, I am not sure. It may be the extra long build-up, or perhaps it is the position of riding my husband’s mouth with the vibrator on my clit, or maybe it is the abandon I am able to let myself experience. But whatever the cause, I know it is longer and deeper than having an orgasm any other way.
NAUGHTY VERSION TWO
The second way of doing this begins and proceeds exactly the same as version one, but the ending is a little different. I ride my husband cowgirl style, deep kissing for as long as it takes for me to reach that zone where I feel ready to burst sexually. This usually takes quite a while, and I am glad my wonderful husband is so willing and patient to please me this way.
I know when the time has “cum”, so I straddle his face like above and I talk sexy again:
“Do you love sucking my hot pussy, baby?” It’s wet just for you, baby. Please don’t stop!”
Now when I near climax, the vibrator goes into my pussy, rather than on my clit. I have to tip my hips forward and upward to insert the vibe, and that move brings my ass right over my hubby’s mouth.
Pumping the vibrator into my vagina, I say, “Baby, lick my ass while I fuck my pussy. Keep licking me, baby! Do you like licking my ass when I’m turned on? Do you like my hot ass, baby? Don’t you stop. You keep licking my hot ass, honey. Keep licking me until I cum!”
When my husband tongues my ass, it makes my pussy just gush. The vibrator is quite powerful, and it fills my whole pelvis with wonderful feelings. I usually pump it in and out and rub my clit with the fingers of my other hand. Soon my orgasm begins to flow over me like warm water flowing from a pent-up dam.
I beg my husband, “Keep licking me, baby. I’m cumming. Keep going… please don’t stop!”
My climax throbs and pulses until I can hardly stand it. Then finally it slows and fades away, leaving me drained but humming with little aftershocks of pleasure.
As I said, this is what I thought about in a fantasy. Amazingly, it really works for me in real life! My husband and I engage in this as often as we can. It takes a lot of time, so this is not the way we always have sex. But when we do, it gives me incredible pleasure.
You might be asking, how does this end for my husband? Well, I make sure that he is fully rewarded for his loving patience with me. Because he has been erect for so long as, he is absolutely turgid and ready to climax. He also loves licking and tonguing me, vaginally or anally. This keeps him fully erect and excited as I finish my orgasm. I usually turn to give him some more deep tongue kissing and stroke his cock.
When I know he’s close, I move between his legs and suck him firmly and smoothly up and down. Sometimes I roll my lips and tongue around the head of his cock as I stroke the shaft with my hand. Other times, I move my whole mouth up and down over his stiff member. I always remember to lick and tongue the frenulum right under the head of his penis, and I use my thumbs to rub his frenulum as much as I can.
He begins to thrust and groan, and I can tell when he is getting closer. Then I talk to him as I stroke his shaft, telling him that I want him to cum for me and that I am so hungry to taste his warm cum.
This almost takes him over the edge, so now I begin to suck in earnest, not too fast, but firmly and steadily rubbing his shaft with my hand while I bob up and down on the head with my lips and tongue. I play with his balls with my other hand, and can feel when he is about to explode.
As he comes, I will lick and suck extra firmly all over the head and the top several inches of his shaft, concentrating on the frenulum. He bursts into my mouth, and as he cums, I just keep sucking through spurt after spurt, making sure that I don’t let up in pressure or speed. I let his cum flow down over his penis and my stroking fingers, and it really lubricates the shaft during the last 20 or 30 seconds of his orgasm. He adores both feeling and watching this, and I love to do this for my wonderful husband who brings me so much love and pleasure.
Wow! This is an experience that takes us some time, but we both really love it.
My questions to MarriageHeat readers are these:
- Have you had fantasies or sexy dreams worked out in real life as well as it did in your fantasy? Please share!
- Do you have a favorite way to cum that enhances your orgasms? We would love to hear your thoughts and responses.
Love, Carol and Xavi
It’s so wonderful that you are able to share this sexy pleasure together.
It’s also wonderful that you are both will to do what it takes to please the other! 😊
First I’ll say thanks for your sexy and informative post! And I’ll tell you that my wife has had the intense orgasms that cum after a long build up. Those orgasms have often had two distinct peaks. A sex therapist explained that those are actually two orgasms, not one. So you ARE multiorgasmic.
Now to answer your questions:
1. We both have had times where a sexy dream led to middle-of-the-night sex OR great morning lovemaking- even if the sex didn’t exactly match the dream. And MH introduced us to role-play fantasy – which has led to some incredible lovemaking/sex sessions. I’ve written about several of those experiences for MH.
2. Our favorite way to cum involves the cuissade sex position with me on my side facing Melody (my kind n sexy wife) and Melody on her back buzzing her clitoris with a bullet vibe as we have intercourse. Sometimes we cum together and other times I cum first – which primes her pussy and body for HER orgasm. I’ll slide out and scoot up next to her and dive in to sucking/licking on one nipple and manually stimulating her other. She keeps buzzing her clit until she climaxes. Sometimes her orgasm(s) happens less than a minute after our fucking and sometimes it takes a while. There are no complaints from me when it takes a while. I enjoy the nipple play.
Usually after Melody comes she licks n sucks my man-nip as I pump my rod to orgasm # 2. Other times we fuck again and myself or both of us have a second orgasm. At times we’ll have even more orgasms if we have time to lengthen out the sex/lovemaking session!
Receiving oral sex (when she is in the mood for it) always seems to intensify Melody’s orgasms, but she does not cum from cunnilngus. Receiving oral sex always leads to huge orgasms for me either in her mouth or as she pumps me at the end… OR when fellatio is foreplay before fucking each other.
I know this is a long comment already but I wanna add that we too use explicit language during sex sessions. Using spicy language in our sex sessions in a relatively recent development in our marriage. Yet we don’t use that type of language in our daily life. I DO now use spicy language often in my MH writing. I have a post cumming up on that topic.
Thanks again for your awesomely detailed post!
Keep on lovin’!
I also have what I'd call "sex dreams", I'd awaken to a painfully swollen cock, after thinking in my dreams of having an episode of extended pleasure-giving to my wife. I stumbled upon a website, years ago that was about rebooting your sex life. It was a quite lengthy site, and discussed in a clear manner, the differences & similarities on male & female organs, and sexual response. The author believes (as do I ) that sexual response, while partially natural, can be learned. That you can learn how to respond to sexual stimulation, and not only learn to orgasm, but to experience multiple orgasms. That any woman can become "poly-orgasmic" After reading this, I took notes ( really!) and asked my wife,.. "would you like to improve our sex life ? " I''d hope any woman would say "yes" to that question.
As we were both retired, and our sons are on their own, we had the house to ourselves & time to explore our sexual relationship. I can see this is going to get long, so will write more of this in my own "story", but just wanted to add that in response to what I'd read & our experimentation, it radically changed / improved relationship with each other.
Love this ! Stroking. And I love the photo. Perky breasts.
What a gift to experience those prolonged/multiple orgasms! I'm thrilled for you. I am definitely learning a lot as I masturbate and try different techniques to bring me pleasure. So far, I seem to be a one-and-done girl, though I can do several sessions in a day if I'm at a horny place in my cycle 😉. But I usually can't immediately go again after one round. As I try new moves with my vibrator (which I use more as a dildo), I am sensing that my orgasms are deeper and a little longer. Mine have always been quick, a brief clenching and then complete "okay, I'm done. On to the next thing!" sensation. But by really working my vagina with the vibe and thinking hot stuff and even whispering hot talk, I am learning to let loose and let the climax take over for a good handful of seconds. My hope is even to get so worked up and let out the pressure by squirting.
The sexy dream thing has aroused me a number of times too! I'll wake up some mornings and just feel so needy and romantic. I think it especially awakens a desire to kiss a man and be kissed by him. I've never done it and plan to save it for my future husband, but the thought turns me on immensely. I really want him to French-kiss my neck. Your description of that stretched-out French kiss painted a hot image in my mind! Whew! I hope to do all that wonderful intimate stuff with a guy someday. For now, it's solo learning.
My unrealized fantasy up until a few months ago was licking my wife's ass. I had always gotten close with my kisses and she seemed to like that but she never gave me any subtle hints to dive in even when I ran kisses up the crack of her bum.
This all changed after a night of prolonged foreplay that moved from the bed to our living room couch. […] Oh my. Just thinking about it has me wanting to do it again and again and again. [Truncated for length, but moved to an upcoming story post. -Missy]
I guess my fantasy at this point is to recover more quickly so we can fuck again to satisfy her even more. I think it's a matter of getting nutrients back into my body.
Carol and Xavi, the sex dreams I have had—two of them in the past year—are not ones that will ever come to fruition, lol. They involved a group of about five girls that my wife grew up with. We all went to HS together. They have kept up with one another over the years, but I rarely see the other ladies. I just get verbal updates as the usual point of contact. So, for me to have sexual dreams of/about these gals is strange for me. […] At the time of the first dream, I had not seen these gals for five or more years….🤷🏻♂️ At any rate, not my conscious desire do that—will never happen. Dreams….🙃
Orgasms for my wife are intense when she uses her bullet vibe on her clit while I lick and suck her pussy. Oh, while teasing her rosebud and/or her perineum. For me, I love a passionate BJ while she works my nipples and fingers me. I am multi-orgasmic with ejaculation and drygasms. So, any configuration she can offer that provokes a drygasm is awesome! She even gives me drygasms via working my nipples and nearly a full ejaculatory orgasm one time licking, pinching, biting and sucking my nipples… OMG… I was nearly there!!!
Thanks so much for all of your comments and thoughts. They are inspiring.
Keep Loving!
Carol for Xavi and Carol
Over the years, I enjoyed lots of fantasy dreams and recall one time my Anne had a sex dream and awoke me as she climbed on cowgirl! I instantly awoke and was rock hard as she sexily and dreamily – half awake I learned in the morning – fucked me to incredible orgasms for me and her. So 🔥 even thinking about it!
Just the other night I fantasized a lengthy session where she lay with her cute ass in the air and begged me to play around her rosebud as she sexily moaned, talked dirty, begged for more touching and moved her ass up and down and side-to-side to position her rosebud to my fingers touch. Her rosebud opened and closed to my touch! So fucking 🔥🔥🔥 I awoke with an incredible hard on! It’s a fantasy that I plan to act out soon!
Fist time to comment here, have been reading for awhile. My favorite foreplay is French kissing and this story sent me over the moon. Will be fantasizing this scene for a long time!