A New Sexual Discovery
Though my wife and I have been married for 32 years, our sex life has moved in fits and starts. Recently, has taken a turn for the better. Much better. Tonight is a good example of that.
I sent her a couple suggestive videos throughout the day. She came home to me finishing up our stir fry wearing only a pair of sexy underwear. With that backdrop leaving little doubt on the direction of the evening, just some uncertainty on how we’d get there. I had my hopes set on something.
After dinner, she changed into a birdcage bra (a regular bra with extra straps above the regular cup). For reasons unknown, I find most exciting and arousing. She added a plunging shirt, still covering most of her breast. I have been telling her about intrigue. Not only about now, but what might be, and how exciting that can be. This definitely fit the bill.
We started out in the living room and spent equal time kissing and me admiring her body. For the longest time if I looked at her body sexually, it was followed by a good dose of shame. That wasn’t good for us or our sex life. Part of that comes from her upbringing and part of that comes from her body image issues. I often compliment her body in the hopes she can start to see her body as the gift it is.
Tonight, as I looked at her body in admiration, she now has no problem letting me do that. She says she even enjoys watching me look at her. I repositioned us so I could more easily take in her visually stimulating breast. It wasn’t just about her breast and we also spent equal times talking, kissing, and caressing each other’s body. She stated that I was in charge this evening, and I had hopes of expanding our sexual territory. The living room would not do, so we headed to the bedroom.
Eventually, she lost her shirt, bra, and pants. I could now take in her whole body. I told her I had cleaned and trimmed and ask her for some oral sex. This is something we are still exploring and she is still learning. Tonight was the best she had ever done, and she gave me much pleasure. After doing this for a while, she shifted and placed my cock between her tits. This is one of my favorite ways to orgasm. I let her stroke me for a short while and felt tempted to let it continue. But I had other plans. She resisted as I began to push her off. I reminded her she said I was in charge and she reluctantly rolled off.
I got some lube, lubed her clit, vulva and vagina and got one of her favorite vibrators. Vibes are only a recent addition to our sex life, probably in the last two years. I laid beside her and worked her clit and slit the way she likes, bringing her pleasure. As I sensed her building to climax, I moved between her legs.
I put a pillow under her hips and continued to work her clit. I then slid my cock into her vagina. She let out an, “Oh jeez!” expressing a pleasure that she had never experienced before. This evening, she was vocalizing with moans and groans. This was something she seldom did.
I asked her to take the vibrator so she could direct it to her ultimate pleasure. She rejected it and that did not surprise me. Self pleasure has not been in her vocabulary. I took the vibe back and continue to work her vulva. Soon, she started to give me verbal directions. I did as best I could. Soon, her hand took mine in order to better direct me. That did not last long and soon she took the vibe from me.
I stayed in her vagina, but did little thrusting. She continued to pleasure herself with the vibe. I had my “Oh jeez!” moments as the vibe periodically touched my cock. My gawd, that felt good.
I sensed her building pleasure and began to thrust. We both were receiving pleasure from our play. Her moans became loader and more breathy. Shortly thereafter, came her ultimate sexual release. She said, “That was powerful!” Less than 15 seconds later, I experienced my ultimate sexual release. That’s about as close as we have come to simultaneous orgasm. Normally, one of us has an orgasm and then the other is brought to peak and orgasm.
Afterwards, we laid in each other’s arm in our post orgasmic bliss. Again, she expressed the joy of our most recent exploration. “We have a new position!” By the way, I found it very exciting and pleasurable, too.
I am over-joyed in the events of our evening, and experiences we have not experienced before. I also hope this will be an open door to further sexual exploration.
Nice! I liked it! It makes me happy that you two are still exploring new sexual things after 32 years of marriage. Well done!
Very nice story. I often times let my wife use her vibrator on herself while I am inside. It always touches my dick and feels amazing. Then when she starts pulsing as she hits her orgasm I have all I can do to not pop off myself. It is especially wonderful when she is reverse cowgirl kind of laying down so I can see her pussy pulsate and feel it at the same time. 🤯🤯🤯
Nice to hear that you are working to explore your love life and finding success at that! This story is very exciting in detailing your journey, and very enjoyable to read.
I know my wife had body image issues early in marriage and for a few years…took me a long time to convince my wife I didnt make love to her out of 'obligation' or some weird concept…
but one thing yu might try…and just plain fun…if it would help…take time to thoroughly explore a body part or area—like not even an overt erogenous zone..like the groin crease ive mentioned…take part of the time to concentrate and cherish it..ie make love to it (a small part of her) and make her feel special w/o going after the normal spots—altho,,then do same w a good area like one breast….learn every little bump or mole about it…but maybe dont go all the way…she'll appreciate the willpower but end up wanting you to continue….well its works most of time hee hee
Thank you for sharing your very relatable story. I suspect that sex life moving with fits and starts is pretty normal in marriage. But you two have persisted and sex is getting better & better. That sounds like my wife Melody's n my story of our marriage. So good for you both for continuing to introduce new ways to make love to each other!!!
My wife also was not into pleasuring herself on her clitoris at first but has enjoyed years of using a vibrator. And for years we have been using what WE call the X position. It allows us to have sexual intercourse while she buzzes her clitty.
For the X position we lay on our bed at right angles. I am on my side with my erection lined up with her pussy. She is on her back. Of course we do a lot of foreplay first. (We adore each other’s nipples!) I hate feeling a vibrator anywhere on my penis. However, feeling the vibrations along with her pussy pulsations on my penis as we make love is fantastic!
Introducing new techniques or developing new skills has really improved our mutual sexual satisfaction. For instance, a year and a half ago, Melody (who has a small mouth) figured out how to deep throat my big cock.
MH introduced role play sex, and that has led to some amazing sexual encounters. I’ve written about many of those for MH. MH stories have given us ideas on new things to try. In fact, I think we’ll try the position you described in THIS story, so gracias!
Yes, suggestive videos provides a hint. I just had an experience with my wife. Stay tuned for Annie II. Again my stories are truthful.
Nice Story. New Discoveries are always fun.