Deep-Throat Tips
Discussion Question.
My wife attempted a few times to take me in deeper, but whenever we got to the back of her mouth she gagged easily.
I’m 6-3/4″ in length, 6″ in circumference almost 1.9″ in diameter, and thickness is the biggest challenge when it comes to deep throat.
I want to ask those of you who could not successfully deep throat due to thickness, but have overcome the challenges and now can do it.
- How thick are you? (if you are a man)
- How thick is your husband? (if you are a woman).
- How did you do it, what helped you, and what tips can you give?
I’m very gentle when it comes to oral sex, and I never force it upon my wife.
But I still wonder if there is anything we can do to make it a success.
Hi picklez
It took me a long time to get used to deep throating Joe.
I trained myself over a few weeks. Every time I brushed my teeth I would use the brush ti clean my tongue pushing it back until I gagged. The more I did it the easier it was to take it deeper.
Joe is also quite wide so it helps to take him slowly and lubricating him with saliva as I go.
Be patient with her and she will get there.
Pet
My wife was never shy about oral, but it took her many years to deep throat me. The best advice I can give is time and patience.
This is something I have resigned myself to not ever fully mastering. I have an immense gag reflex; even brushing my back teeth can trigger a gag. It's been like that since I was little. You can imagine all the horrors I've dealt with when going through dentist and orthodontist appointments. So, when it comes to giving my future husband oral pleasure, it may be that all I can do is lick and suck the end while using my hand. I hope I can compensate in other ways. Sometimes I really hate gag reflex. Why do some people have it so bad and others don't?
Hi LLL,
I’m sorry you have such an intense gag reflex, but if I may say so, I wouldn’t worry too much about it when it comes to oral. All of the drive him crazy, make him orgasm nerves are at the end anyway. Giving him the attention you described is more than sufficient and would be greatly appreciated. 😉
LLL,
Please take my advice on this one and TALK with your future husband about it BEFORE you get "in the moment".
If the first time that he learns about your intense gag reflex is in the middle of a blowjob, then he might feel that you are repulsed by him and/or his dick.
Oh, and don't minimize the effectiveness of sucking on the head while you use your hand. I think that one of the kindest, most loving, sexiest things that a woman can do is jack me off into her mouth or onto her face. (Uh-oh…. Typing that just gave me another hard-on.)
We too struggled with deep throat for a long time and just recently were able to check it off our bucket list. For us, the key was position. I lay on my back at the edge of the bed and my husband stands by the bed. My throat seems to accommodate his curve best this way. He's about 7 inches long and a little over 5 inches thick.
My wife suffers from a similar gag reflex as you, LLL. Because of this she’s never performed full fellatio on me. Your thoughts and ideas of being creative and importantly a deep desire to please him and his cock is fantastic! Maybe one day you’ll be able to take him deep as New Wife loves to do for her hubby!
Please tell me that is circumference and not diameter. LOL
New Wife,
Wow, I just flashed back to the first time that my first wife laid on the edge of the bed like that and let me mouth-fuck her. It was SO amazing! And, yes, she was able to swallow my dick a bit deeper that way.
Keep it up. (So to speak….) 😉
My wife never had the natural ability to take very much of my cock into her mouth, but I discussed deepthroating with her and she worked on controlling her gag reflex with toothbrush exercises. It definitely made a difference. She was able to take almost all of me and I could definitely feel a few times when the head of my cock was within her actual throat muscles, an incredible, unmistakable sensation. The biggest challenge for her was always breathing. When I'm deep enough in her, it cuts off her airway entirely. I always make sure to work with her and not let a panic experience set in. Kate has no problem with me grabbing her head and "forcing" my cock into her, but I only do so for a few seconds and release, telling her to breathe and relax.
Unfortunately, for deepthroating purposes, I have lost a substantial amount of weight and therefore have a noticeably larger organ. I am about 2" in diameter now, based on cock rings and ring gags we have tried to use. I am about 7.5" long if I get a good firm erection (I struggle medically with that at times). So, the progress she has made deepthroating has regressed, but safe to say I wouldn't undo my physical accomplishments. I can't complain at all 🙂
Hi Alan,
To properly measure your girth, take a sewing tape and measure around the thickest area when you're hard. For length, use a plastic or wood ruler and press it into your pelvic bone. That will give you the accurate measurement for length. I am 8" long and 6 1/4" in girth. I have never had a BJ as my wife can barely get my head in her mouth. I measured her shaving cream can and it is the same size. Tried putting that in my mouth and it made it very understandable. Being a large girth does have challenges but thankful for what the Lord has given me.
Practice.
My husband is 10 inches long and 3 inches thick. It took me forever to be able to deep throat him. When I suck him I use only my lips never any hands.
Maturewife66,
WOW!! God bless you for your efforts!
Wow that would put your husband in a very, VERY small percentage of men! Probably comparable to being seven foot four inches tall or something like that.
Is that a bone-pressed erect dorsal length? Non-bone pressed erect dorsal length? Ventral length?
Anyway you slice it that’s very long.