MH Poll for Women: Why I Embrace My Sexuality: An Open Letter
Loading ...Hey there, sisters! It’s me, Sabrina, and I’m going to get personal and share with you why I make sure my bedroom is a place of pure seduction and passion. My husband and I have created a space that is ours and ours alone, and I want to share with you my journey to embracing my sexuality and keeping the spark alive.
My Body, My Gift to Him
From the moment I wake up, I want my husband to see me as the sexy, desirable woman that I am. Whenever I can, I start my day naked, and I make sure he sees me that way. Showering together, brushing my hair naked—I do it all because I want him to admire my body, my curves, and my skin. My bedroom is our sanctuary, a place where I can be bare and beautiful for him. It’s a privilege to be a woman, to have a body that can drive him wild, and I flaunt it with pride.
Lingerie: My Weapon of Choice
Lingerie has become my secret weapon in the bedroom. I love the way it makes me feel—sexy, powerful, and utterly feminine. I have a drawer full of different pieces, from sheer bras and panties that tease and tantalize to sexy corsets and garters that drive him wild. I make it a point to try on new lingerie weekly, just to keep things interesting and to see what he likes best. The look in his eyes when he sees me in something new is priceless, and it reminds me of the power I hold over him. The bedroom is our stage, and lingerie is our costume. I strut my stuff, and he eats it up.
Embracing Seduction
Seduction is a game, and I am a master at it. It’s in my nature to be alluring, to drive my man wild with desire, and to make him crave my touch. I use this to my advantage, and it works like a charm. I want him to fall deeper in love with me every day, and seduction is the key to that. Whether it’s a slow dance in the kitchen, a passionate kiss in the hallway, or a night of pure ecstasy in the bedroom, I make sure he knows he’s desired and wanted.
Keeping the Flame Burning
A marriage without passion is like a flame without oxygen—it fizzles out and dies. I refuse to let that happen to my marriage. I keep the spark alive by being creative, spontaneous, and always willing to please. I make sure he wants me, craves me, and needs me. I am his fantasy, his desire, and his everything. And in return, he gives me the world. Our love story is one of passion, desire, and an unbreakable bond.
So, sisters, I urge you to embrace your sexuality, to free your body, and to make your husband happy. It’s a journey, but it’s one that will bring you closer to your partner and make your intimate life flourish. Trust me, giving it a shot will change your life—and your marriage—for the better.
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Wow Sabrina for me it's a check on all 7 of the first boxes.
I mean aren't all of these symbiotic in the overall experience of a wife who finds enjoyment in her sexuality and the core of a monogamous relationship with our husbands? For us, our sexuality extends to almost all parts of our life outside of the bedroom as well as including outside of the house.
However, that being said.
It hasn't always been this way for me. And I no for a fact talking with other women that it's the same situation for them as well.
Over the years thinks have happened to my body which has eroded myself confidence in essence to go away my ability to feel sexy.
What I have learned since is that we cannot compare ourselves to women who are able to wear clothing we can't or the self assurance that we are physically desirable.
It's a matter of , as you stated embracing our sexuality as women.
It's not only us that we withhold sex from when we continue in a defeated self-view. It's the one that we are pledged to be a sexual partner too and expect to remain monogamous to us.
The one thing I have learned over the years is it's not only the women with the model like body what desired by men. She can be of any age or shape but if she is sexually willing and confident and her sexiness She is desirable
And that is what partners want from us. They want us to be sexy for THEM!
Everything you say your article is true and I applaud you for sharing this. For these are the very things I have learned and applied in my marriage.
And the thing is to do these things together. To learn what it is that he likes what he desires and to make sure it's the same thing that you desire and feel comfortable. Shop for lingerie together online, and the same thing goes for sex toys.
You want him to do what you find sexy right you want him to shave or grow beard or wear suit or whatever it might be because you find him sexy in that. We need to do the same for him we can't just expect that everything we do will be something they desire. But the key is to fulfill one another's needs and desires.
Thank you for your post Sabrina, we all need to take these things to heart and apply them in our lives.❤️
Lady L.💋💋❤️❤️
You are 💯 correct in saying all what husbands want is for their wife to be sexy for them. We understand that people's looks change over time however, if you bring the sex, kink and confidence, things should be good.
I fully agree Mrbrightside. (And also Tutchh 😉)
Wow, Lady L, you've hit the nail on the head! It's truly inspiring to hear how you've embraced your sexuality and transformed your relationship. You're absolutely right; our sexuality is a vital part of who we are, and it permeates every aspect of our lives, not just the bedroom.
I completely agree that confidence is key. It's not about comparing ourselves to unrealistic standards, but about embracing our unique beauty and desirability. When we feel confident in our own skin, we radiate that confidence, making us even more attractive to our partners.
Your point about mutual learning and exploration is spot-on. Communication and understanding each other's desires are crucial for a fulfilling relationship. Shopping for lingerie or sex toys together can be a fun and intimate experience that strengthens the bond between you and your partner.
It's also important to remember that everyone is different, and what one person finds sexy might not be the same for another. The key is to be open, honest, and willing to explore and adapt to each other's preferences.
Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences, Lady L. Your words are a testament to the power of self-love and the importance of nurturing our sexuality in a healthy and fulfilling way. Keep inspiring others with your wisdom and courage! ❤️
I am favoriting this post because it is EXACTLY the mindset I want to cultivate if I am ever married. I'm doing all I can in my single years to prepare for that. Thank you for fresh inspiration to embrace my femininity and sexuality in a God-honoring way!
I love this !!!
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Lady L. 💋
Your approach to preparing for marriage by embracing your sexuality in a God-honoring way is commendable. It shows a deep respect for yourself and for the sacred nature of intimacy. Keep nurturing that part of yourself, and remember that your worth and desirability come from within, not from external validation.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment, and may your journey be filled with self-discovery, growth, and the joy of living authentically. ❤️
The 3 biggest things that keep the passion alive in our marriage is: communication, Communication and COMMUNICATION!!!!
We were taught that passion flows from a relationship fostered on communication and trust. The things you do are not important it's the being one with the other that is important.
Also, just because someone likes, or dislikes, something today doesn't mean they will like or dislike it tomorrow. There are things that we do now that I wouldn't have dreamed I enjoyed when we first got married, and vice versa things we did then I am not interested in now.
For example, when we first got married hubby was crazy about the wild-racier lingerie (what I call stripper lingerie). Now he prefers the more classic lingerie pin-up style with stockings. Even though it covers more of my body he seems to respond to it better. The important part is to ask him what he likes and come up with a way to change based on the other's expectations.
After a few months of the initial "honeymoon period" you need to learn how to read your spouse, and vice versa, as to what they want and why. For me the goal isn't doing the crazy red hot thing, it's finding out what he wants at that moment and fulfilling him.
One good way is to keep a shared journal of desires. We have a journal which we write in, date and things we want from the other. That gives the other ideas on how to satisfy the other person. I have a trusted friend that has promised if something ever happens to my husband and I she will burn that journal 😀