Question to Writers

To those of you who write stories frequently, why do you like to write them?

Do any of your friends know about this site? Do any of your friends know you write stories?

I love to proclaim and shout from the rooftops about the incredible sex I’m having! I love to describe how intense my orgasms are and how many I’m having! And I love to tell how much I love my husband!

I hope that my words bring encouragement, heat, and ideas to those reading. It’s an outlet for me to express myself. I’m a private person and never kiss and tell. I would never be able to share these things with my friends. These Christian friends would look down on me and not understand. It’s sad because I know they could be having a lot more enjoyment in their relationships. So many marriages ending in divorce. A lot of them because they don’t work at intimacy.

How do you tell your friends about this website? Just curious.

Click on a heart to thank the author of this story!

Average rating / 5. Vote count:

No votes so far! Be the first to rate this post.

We are sorry that this post was not one of your favorites!

Help us understand why.

28 replies
  1. ClimaXX says:

    Such a loaded question to say the least. I think many (if not most) of the writers here are writing 'in secret.' If friends had to read about how I suck my wife's pussy and how my wife loves licking my cum off her boobs.. they would not be able to face me again. But, this is such a wonderful outlet for our thoughts and feelings. We can share here (wearing our masks) with others who would actually LOVE to meet other people on the site and probably enjoy seeing that they are normal people, old, young, beautiful, ordinary, overweight, blah blah, blah, BUT all of us are people who love sex, who love erotica, who love talking and reading about it, but are still private.

    I have a suggestion to make for MH.
    Have a place where we can send an email address of a friend who we would like to invite to this site, but without them knowing it was coming from "ME." MH can then send a message (using the person's real name that we have supplied) saying something like, "Dear Jack, one of your close friends (who asked to remain anonymous for now), asked us to send you an invite to our website. We are a group of Christians who share some of our erotic experience that we have as Christian Married couples. Please have a look at one or two of our stories………") Maybe we can even supply a link to a story that we really think would be good for the friend to read.
    Just a thought!

  2. Fiftyfitfidelity says:

    I have not told friends about the site. I do it because I like to reflect on our relationship in a more sexual manner and am building up to having my wife contribute to the site.

  3. hornyGG says:

    I write stories out of the love for my husband and sex. I also write hoping to show that a monogamous marital relationship can be hot and exciting. I too hope that my stories help encourage couples to enjoy hot sex with their spouse. Also, writing stories about my sex life with my husband is so easy and yes turns me on. When I first discovered Marriage Heat I was thrilled to see a site where Christians could express their love for their spouses and sex openly and honestly . I admit that I was a little nervous the first time I decided to contribute a story. First, I wasn't sure on how my husband would feel about me sharing something so intimate. Second, I wasn't sure how to write it and was afraid my story wouldn't be accepted or deemed as pornographic. I was thrilled when my husband Ben gave his approval for me to write and told me to just be honest and write what I felt. I did often get criticized for the language I used in my stories, mainly my use of the word "fuck ". This almost had me stop writing as it wasn't my intention to offend anyone. But with the encouragement of my husband Ben, Blondie and many others I am here today. I am proud to be a member of MarriageHeat and what this site stands for. I have told several of my friends and coworkers/employees about MarriageHeat. I even told my children, one of which (Alicia) is a member and has written a couple of stories herself. So, thank you MarriageHeat for this wonderful site as it has been a blessing to Ben and I as well as many others. Thank you to all the contributors for your continued hot stories and encouragement. God Bless you all!
    Over Fifty stories, a novella and staying always horny!
    Stay Horny Ya'll!
    ❤❤❤ Gina

  4. HeSaid-SheSaid says:

    I just started to write and submit stories. I guess for years I have wanted to share in general with someone who would understand about the many facets and greatness of sex. But I never did out of fear. Fear of rejection, fear of indignation, fear of judgement, etc. Growing up in the Church barely anything is mentioned about healthy married sex, unless you go to a marriage conference or read certain books. I mean really, why do you never hear a sermon on any part of the song of Songs??? There is this unspoken taboo surrounding sex in the church, which I think is sad. That gives an open door for our enemy the devil to plant lies and deception into our marriages. So many marriages suffer needlessly as a result of silence on the subject of sex. The underlying idea that even talking about sex is a no-no is so damaging. I know if you look back far enough in time, you will find high-profile and revered preachers who actually taught that sex was generally sinful and only meant for procreation. That was well over a hundred years ago, but the effects of that false teaching are still being felt today. So I read and write MH stories so as to celebrate and encourage married sex, and it feels right! MH allows for anonymity, yet individual voices can still be heard. I think we need to be more blatant, vocal, and proud of our sexuality in marriage, without being offensive. Really good sex is an amazing glue that keeps married couples together. It's hard to have great sex and a lousy marriage, or the reverse – a great marriage and lousy sex. God bless you all.

  5. SexyBeasty says:

    I enjoy sharing the highlight moments as somewhere to keep these memories. Also if someone gets ideas then perfect! I have told only one friend where to find my stories. He read one and he found it funny, and crazy. I have told other friends I write but not where to find them. My wife unfortunately has no interest but is happy I’m happy. I am just so happy with my sex life I want to share with this community.

  6. LoveMyWife56 says:

    Southernheat,

    I echo your thoughts. I read stories to my wife and they excite her. I enjoy talking and writing about our sex life. It is a thrill for me to share this information with others and read their experiences. I have two close Christian friends that I have just told that they should go to marriageheat.com, and I have described the stories. I do not know if either has looked. We used to share the details of our married sex lives by text or phone with each other. But they do not want to do that anymore, believing it is lusting. I miss that. It is even more exciting to me to know a couple and then hear about their sex life. I wish I had a Christian friend I could share stories with now. That is so exciting.

  7. Southernheat says:

    Horney GG I always appreciate your openness and honesty. I also love your stories. So curious how you told your children I’m supposing all are older? How did they respond initially? I have always answered any questions for my daughters honestly and openly,but never talked at all about my private life. They honestly are grossed out by the idea of mom and dad doing IT! College age and I think reading these stories would educate and encourage though I didn’t want it to frustrate them to the point of trying things either. I think much of their education is based on the music and movies not reality. I think their first experience would be better with more information. At this stage they don’t like me to bring the subject up very often.Just curious how you told them and their response. Though I’ve told them I pray that marry someone who makes them happy in every way like their father has made me happy all these years!

    • hornyGG says:

      Southernheat,
      Hey, sorry so long responding!
      Ben and I have always tried to keep an open and honest relationship with our children. We try to always keep the lines of communication open, so that they feel they can talk to us about anything. Including sex.
      As far as telling them about Marriage Heat, well that was really easy.
      Ben and I love Marriage Heat and truly believe in its message.
      I am so glad that you enjoy my stories. I write with the hope of inspiring others to enjoy a loving monogamous marital relationship.
      I hope singles take from my stories that marriage is good and monogamy can be really hot.
      Thank you so much for asking and know that I have truly enjoyed your interaction here on MH.
      Keep writing, God Bless and Stay Horny Always!
      Any other questions, feel free to ask. I am a open book!
      ❤ Gina

  8. Southernheat says:

    Climaxx I guess your right about it being difficult for close friends to look you in the eye when they know all about you in that way. I have one friend I may share a little but being raised in ministry family I learned to be very cautious who I open up to in any way. I have been burned several times held to different standard. I like the anonymous email idea.

    • LoveMyWife56 says:

      Hi Southernheat,
      I value your opinion, so I thought I would go back to a previous story of yours so that not so many others might read this. I am male, and I have a male friend who keeps asking for a naked photo of my wife. I keep saying no, but for some reason it is a temptation to share a pic of her. I do not want to betray her or sin, but what do you think? My wife is 54. Thanks.

    • seXcaliber says:

      LoveMyWife56

      Under no circumstances would it be ok for you to share a nude photo of your wife without her knowledge and consent. That would absolutely be a betrayal.

      But even if she consents, what possible good comes from it? And what possible evil? I can’t imagine ever asking another man for a nude photo of his wife. First of all that would hurt my wife deeply. Secondly, what motive could I possibly have but to lust after my friend’s wife?!

      I’m not sure why you are not offended by the request. I don’t think I could be friends with someone after that request.

      Almost sounds like you are being groomed.

    • SecondMarge says:

      How is sharing a picture different than walking together on a nude beach. Excuse me for asking but sometimes the lines some draw between right and wrong are confusing to me. Or telling others about sex acts that take place in the privacy of your bed. I suppose it’s because of the varied interpretations of the Bible.

      Seems to be more a question of getting her permission than showing the picture being wrong.

  9. christmakesithot says:

    I love this question! I want to write more later but I really like hearing from horny GG and how it all got started for her.

    I will say I have told a few close friends but they don't know what my user name is. My friends know we have a great sex life but I don't go into all the details, I would really struggle if I knew what my best friend was doing to his wife. I know myself and when we hang out I would have a hard time not thinking of the details about her. My wife has given tips to her sisters and close friends but strictly on a one on one bases.

    As wonderful as it is it can be a slippery slope

    We love being able to express ourselves here with discretion

  10. seXcaliber says:

    Why write? An outlet for my gift. (I have a way with words, says Mrs. Sexy) But also, I love erotica and know that the more people who write, the more will be available.

    I stumbled here on accident. I had no idea that any Christians would enjoy reading sexy husband and wife stories. But when you go looking for sexy stories, 95% of it is not God-honoring. It's all threesomes, I slept with my stepson, My next-door neighbor kissed me and we ended up having sex, etc. Almost none of it is my wife or my husband is awesome and we have great sex.

    I would love to share this site with a few friends, but honestly I don't know that any of my Christian ones would get it. Most would judge, especially since photos are included. I know the photos are not of people actually having sex, but as a former porn addict, I could see even some of the simple nudes leading some to stray into that. I have to watch myself.

    But with the stories, I can focus on me and my wife. And I'm not led to compare my wife to models as I would be watching videos. That is one of the big reasons I think pornography is wrong. It damages your own relationship as you are tempted to compare yourself as well as your spouse to the people in the video. "He's bigger than I am." "She's skinnier than I am." "She moans better." "He goes longer." etc. It doesn't lead to a healthy view of yourself or your spouse.

    But reading these stories, I see two people enjoying God's gift to them in a way that does not stray outside the marriage and also can spark desire and ideas for people to enjoy with their own spouse and there is no discontent or comparison. (aside from possibly, "my wife would never do/wear that" or "my husband is not quite that adventurous" 😉 )

    Keeping writing folks. I love to hear about your great sex.

  11. christmakesithot says:

    seXcaliber, I love your response and honestly! I too am a former porn addict. It has been an intense battle since I first truly confessed to my wife but now I do not struggle the way I used to and everything is in the open. (I'd like to share more about my story, some time here Marriage Heat).

    It is one of the main reasons that I do not share this page with many people. I work with a lot of young men, battling to walk in purity and I know the art would make them struggle. I know there's been many conversations about this and I'm not judging marriage heat or those who have no struggle, just sharing my opinion. I'm sure the art gets a lot of people's attention. (Honestly, a good picture will get my attention to read a story)

    I know the Marriage Heat staff are way over busy and under paid but it would be nice to have a way to load this sight without pictures.

  12. snagd says:

    A few of my friends like the stories I tell them about sex and love with my wife. Some of them have similar stories to tell but for the vast majority it sounds absolutely fascinating . They can’t believe that my wife is such a freak for hot sex, and many when they hear the stories they actually get hardons. Most come back to me and tell me what I told them to do, but their their wife’s are not willing to try. With a few lady friends I have who like to discuss sex and love, almost all come back to me and tell me how their sex lives have spiced up. The key to their success: They must make the first move as most men want to do different things but are shy that their wife’s may reject. Fair enough, but in my own capacity, once my wife started the kinky stuff, it didn’t take me long to go my way in coaxing up her desire.

    • seXcaliber says:

      Yes. Women are conditioned by the church and Christian culture to be careful and chaste and holy, which is a good thing. But many are never taught to look forward to and revel in the liberty of sexuality in marriage. That you can enjoy anything you both want to do as long as it doesn’t involve a third party, which becomes adulterous.

      But many Christian wives when they simply sit down and think about it for a moment and evaluate it from scripture they realize God never forbids oral sex or being sexy (lingerie) or crazy positions or sex toys, etc. He only says to be faithful to each other exclusively. Once they get a taste of passion and married lust (not sinful, but deep raw sexual desire) they open up and become far more adventurous than they or their husbands would have thought.

      This passion and adventure helps couples affair proof their marriages in my opinion.

  13. Southernheat says:

    Lovemywife56 I’m glad you respect me enough to ask my opinion. I agree with the other response. I think it would be wrong for two reasons. The first is it would be a betrayal of your wife’s trust to send a photo like that without her knowledge. She made that photo for your eyes only. I understand you may be very proud of your wife and wish you could show her off. What kind of friend would ask that kind of question of you? What would be his motive? The main reason I feel it’s wrong is it gives your friend temptation to lust after and covet your wife if he isn't already. I don’t feel that type of thing gives any glory to our Savior. Romans 14:13 says stop condemning each other and decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble and fall. Also 1Corinthians 10:32 do not cause anyone to stumble. And in Exodus 20:17 do not desire another man’s wife or anything that he owns.
    It’s just not worth risking the love and trust you have with your wife. It would be opening a can of worms as the saying goes. Hope this helps. Love your stories and comments. Cherish and protect that marriage of yours.

    • LoveMyWife56 says:

      Southernheat,
      Thank you for your reply. I agree on all of your points. Those are my beliefs, also. But, it is so good to be encouraged to stay strong and to have one's beliefs reinforced by another Christian. I need that. I look forward to hearing more from you. My next story is scheduled for March 24th.

  14. Southernheat says:

    Lovemywife56 I pray your marriage flourishes and stays strong! The enemy of our soul doesn’t like happy homes and strong marriages and he can be very sneaky in his temptations. Be diligent and pray over your marriage and your family as they are a wonderful gift from God! I look forward to your next story!

  15. SecondMarge says:

    I wonder if anyone that writes stories on MH also writes or once did write on other sex story sites. Before I found MH, my husband occasionally would have me read stories from other sites. While many of the topics they contain were not of interest to me, those about a husband and wife were often very similar to those here. As far as addiction: just as having one glass of wine does not send most people into a drunken stupor with a dozen empty bottles, reading one of the stories here nor seeing the pictures would make anyone go down the drain to porn addiction. I assume the stories here are written to create arrousal of the reading husbands or wives. To help them share pleasure in their marriage.

  16. YumYum says:

    In an answer to Southern Heat, I enjoy the anonymity of this site to share my feelings for my husband with you all.
    I do have a few, very close friends that also share their intimate details of their life with the man they love. They also enjoy sucking on their husbands & willingly accept their husbands cum as a reward. I'm a bit submissive & give myself to my husband. My pussy is his & I willingly provide him with the pleasure that he loves. I enjoy giving the intimate details of how our orgasms are produced & hope the graphic wording does not offend anyone. I hope I provide some assurances to others that pleasing & pleasuring your husband is an act that is a reward itself. It is very exciting to share with others what I could never share elsewhere. My pussy gets wet while I write & I enjoy being naughty. My husband is very reciprocal & I love what he does for me & to me. He has always loved sucking my pussy & I have always loved sucking his cock. I do love when he cums in my mouth. I can't think of anything more intimate than pleasuring your partner with oral loving. Multiple orgasms are the norm in our home. Well, at least for me.

    • Frankie says:

      This has been a really interesting discussion from several years ago. Thanks YumYum for bringing it to our attention again.

  17. Bootylicious says:

    Yum Yum (great user name!): "I love what he does for me & to me. He has always loved sucking my pussy…"

    This would be another fantastic discussion: pussy eating. We all love having our pussies eaten by our husbands! My hubby makes me cum over and over again with his tongue…and fingers. What techniques do y'all love most? Does your hubby do something in particular every time that rocks your world? Do you like mouth only or a good fingering too? After I cum a few times, my husband will usually suck on my inner lips…sucks the whole works into his mouth…and then out again, and then in again etc. Makes me cum every time! Speaking of fingering: Any unique G-spot stimulation techniques out there? Do you like gentle stimulation of the opening? Or a good ol' finger fucking? Oh, and what's your favorite position to get eaten? My husband LOVES when I sit on his face! He also LOVES eating me from behind. Truth be told, he loves eating me in any position at all! LOL

    Anyway, sorry to hijack the thread. This could probably be a new discussion post all on its own (which I suspect MH will do). In any case, I think pussy eating techniques and what we all love (or don't love) would be a great topic, for both men and women. We all could learn new things and benefit!!

Leave a Reply

Want to join the discussion?
Feel free to contribute!

Leave a Reply