Nudist Resort
Hello All,
I am long time reader here on MarriageHeat, but have not written a story. Rather, I am curious to know your thoughts on an issue. We are planning to go on a naturist holiday for a week. Has anyone here on MarriageHeat taken a naturist holiday? Is it okay to spend your holidays at naturist resort?
I would like your advice, and thank you in advance.
I haven’t, but I would like to do this. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with just being naked in this context.
It was amazing and fun… being naked is just awesome.. Vritomartis greece is recomended
I have never gone to such a place, but I think I might if I ever get married. Then I would have the protection of my husband from any possible creeps and an outlet for the arousal I am sure I would feel on viewing other naked people and being naked myself. Of course, I have heard nudists say that the sight of other nude people eventually loses its sensuality and becomes more normal, but I think I'd still feel it was pretty naughty and daring. I say, try it out!
Hon, there are creeps everywhere. However, if you attend an AANR (American Association of Nude Recreation) affiliated club you have the eyes and protection of other nudists and the club's management.
Other members watch out for each other and if something that's not proper is going on a quick call to the office will solve it.
Believe me there is no creep. They have rules and u have to follow that… Being naked was an absolutely hot part
Many years ago, I regularly went to a nude resort (and as a single man, knew I would have to be on my best behavior). I had a misconception that the nudism was a scam, and that everyone was there for sex, and half expected to see it out in the open.
It was not like that at all, and yes- after a while, being nude around others and seeing them nude did become routine, and not sexual at all.
There were some there who were interested in sexual activity, but any arrangements, activities, etc were very subtle and discreet – nothing was done openly nor was it flaunted.
I enjoyed the experience, and may look to experience it again someday.
BH, thanks for the intriguing question.
We have never been to a nudist resort. But when we were living in our own home as empty nesters, we’d sometimes hang out in the nude.
I don’t think going to a FAMILY nudist resort is wrong. Even a couples only resort IF it is a true Naturist resort or cruise or whatever. They have standards and a view that public nudity can be freeing but non-sexual.
A “Lifestyle” or “Swingers” resort is the opposite. It is designed to provide an easy way to have sex outside of the marriage covenant. I believe that God would consider those resorts, cruises, etc. an evil place. Even if you don’t plan to have sex outside of marriage – the Lifestyle or Swingers resort would probably be full of temptation.
We have looked into true Naturalist resorts and clothing optional cruises, but we’ve never actually been. There is ample evidence that Naturism and Nudism are generally psychologically & physically healthy. But remember to wear sunscreen when in the sunlight!
Our American society has connected nudity constantly with sex. I don’t think that is pleasing to God. The human body is quite possibly His greatest creation. He also sanctions and sanctifies sex within marriage. But not outside of marriage.
So although my wife & I have never been to a Naturist resort or cruise etc., we think it would not be a sin to go to one.
We only had sex in our balcony and may be some 1 or 2 couples from side window might have seen us but thats fine! we just loved the experience
Hubbie here: thanks for the post, bighead, and good question! My two cents is that it’s absolutely OK, within certain boundaries and intent. My comment from a while ago to another story …
“For me, language and intent are important, as I noted in upcoming Naked Kayak on Eden Pond, “This was not naturist or nudist nonsense. This was what I call a 'nakedist' enjoyment of making a strong, sexual statement for me and to her!”
Way over-generalized, but we don’t do it to connect with the naturist “be one with nature” vibe, or the nudist “no more textiles” revolt. When we’re naked, we’re “nakedists”, that is, naked to seduce to fuck! Maybe now, maybe later, but here’s my body for you, I hope it does something for you; and I see your naked body, and I’m dizzy with lust for you.
Yes, there are other naked people around, and that is amazingly hot! The exhibitionist in me loves to be seen, and the voyeur in me loves to see. But the married, monogamist, horn dog for Queen in me has to take all that heat and direct it back at her!
We have been to a nude beach three times* , and each one was exhilarating sexually and led to amazingly hot passion between us! I cannot recommend it enough, but your mind and your libido and your intent have to be within the right Christian focus! If you can’t control that, then don’t go. So as to your questions …
“Has anyone here on MarriageHeat taken a naturist holiday?” YES! Us!
“Is it okay to spend your holidays at naturist resort?” YES! If you can handle it.
(* I hope to write a couple stories about these adventures in the near future.)
We belong to a club here in Southern Cal-a-for-nee and its wonderful.
Now, we can't judge naturist holiday places, but ours is great. After a bit you get to know folks and socialize with them. We play water volleyball, hike in the hills, eat at the cafe, swim in the pool and get great tans sunning.
Check reviews on holiday destinations. Many are for sexual vacations. Some are for swingers. And others don't come out and say sex oriented, but its something that's unspoken.
Our club is family friendly meaning no overt sex or anything close. Many children attend with their parents. We have wonderful sexual fun there, but we keep it discrete just like you would at any hotel or resort.
CC I really appreciate your comment. You have an excellent perspective to answer this question. Thanks!
We have been to a few places that expect nudity together, and I have visited a few places by myself. I’m totally thrilled to visit as I’m a nudist at heart; my wife hates being seen naked but has gone along and stayed dressed as she can not get comfortable being naked, even at home. I just love being nude whenever I can, so a place where you can be free to be yourself naked with no fear of laws or judgment is so exhilarating and relaxing! There is nothing wrong with the human body as God made it. I have done much biblical research and cannot find anything wrong with seeing others naked in that context. I agree with all the comments above. To be fair to my wife, I will add that she believes our nakedness is only for each other and not to be shared.
BTW, I would love to go on a naked cruise. If anyone has been on one, I would like to know how it went from your perspective and your spouse's.
Longingforeden… I love your moniker! I feel similar to you but my wife feels similar to yours. However I have never done public nudity. But I kinda would like to. You sound like you are very respectful of your wife’s viewpoint- and she of yours as well
I don't really have any interest in going. I suspect it can get rather unsightly very fast. I am no body builder either. My wife is cute naked but this scene just isn't for her either.
I like clothes. Wearing them leads to more excitement when removing them.
I would, however, rent a remote cabin and spend a lot of indoor and outdoor naked time with my wife. That would be nice. Sharing that with her would be fine. If other people were around, it wouldn't be.
So i have an update, we visited the nudist resort in Greece. It was awesome to swim naked in the pool. Rules are strict , sex is not allowed at all in public. We did sex in our balcony open air…. It was hot n awesome…. breezy … Vritimartis Naturist is the one i suggest
There's nothing inherently wrong with the human form. However, personally, for my wife and I, we've dabbled in other things in the past, plus thoughts and ideas we might want to pursue, and we've come to the conclusion that nudist beaches aren't the best. We've learned to check our heart posture beforehand, and most of the time, it's not healthy. For us, nah. Nudist resorts aren't for us. Perhaps we lack self control and you might be able to handle it. I'm not going to govern you. Your conscious isn't accountable to me, anyone else on here, or the church at large.
We are looking for a rental with private beach we can layout in nude and make love in the eastern USA. Any suggestions?
stay at home nude is the best thing
My wife and I have been to quite a few nudist or clothing optional resorts and if visited with the right mindset can be very enjoyable. It rekindles the romance in us and we actually meet some very nice people. Lifestyle and swinger resorts are not what we look for. Sun in the fun and reconnecting. We usually go to resorts south of Cancun and have never had a problem with other guests. My wife hesitates in going now because she doesn't feel that the Lord honors the fact that we are nude. I never thought it sinful because we don't cross the line of our marriage vows.
Hello Retread, Are you able disclose what resorts you visited south of
Cancun? Also does anyone have any idea how to soften your spouses stance against social nudity. As you can tell from my moniker, I long for the simple purity of nakedness that I could share with my wife. I’ve told her many times I would love to take a long walk outdoors hand in hand enjoying God's creation.
I went to Vritomartis and would love to come to US for the same
Hidden Beach Resort south of cancun and Desire. HBR is small and very enjoyable with a great staff. My wife also thinks her body has lost it's look. That is not the case.
Lovely Lonely Lady expressed concerned about sexual arousal at being there.One way to get some idea of how your response would be is by viewing one on YouTube. There are numerous videos of them there.
I have the same concerns. At least she is female and it wouldn’t be so visible. I must say though that viewing one on video wasn’t all that arousing, and I am EASILY AROUSED. I think it would be a great experience. I am a world class voyeur and it might be beneficial in calming some of that.