Update on Where I Have Been
Hey everyone, you may or may not have noticed that I used to post fairly regularly, and in recent months have stopped posting. I had a few stories waiting for approval, and I do have a few more that are still waiting for approval, but I haven’t been actively writing.
Unfortunately this is because we lost a pregnancy in the second trimester due to a rare genetic condition. I haven’t been able to be intimate with my husband without crying or really write about it since we lost the baby.
We are working on rebuilding intimacy in our relationship, but for now it is impossible for me to mentally separate our intimate life from the process of trying for and subsequently losing our baby. As such, I haven’t really had any new experiences to write about.
If you’ve ever been in a similar situation, you are not alone, and I wouldn’t wish this kind of pain on anyone.
Thank you all for the support! I don’t know when I’ll return, but this is where I’ve been.
May the Lord who wept with Mary and Martha walk close beside you in your pain, and comfort your hearts as only He can! 🥹🙏🫂 I can't fully grasp the sorrow of your loss, but I did have a little sibling who was miscarried early in the pregnancy, so in a roundabout way I understand. Praise the Lord that every innocent little soul is safe in heaven! It will be so joyful when we reunite with all the sweet babies who went to Jesus!
Yes! Praise the Lord for that! It is truly my faith in God that is getting me through right now, as I know she is with the Lord and that’s the best place she could ever be.
I don’t truly understand why these things happen, but I know in my heart all of the babies who we lost on earth are in heaven and we will see them again one day ♥️
Bless you LLL. A perfect reply.
Having miscarried our 3rd child, my heart feels your pain.
The Lord blessed us with our now grown son, and we know that when that day comes we will meet the son we never were able to before.
I'm so sorry for your loss, and yes, your presence is missed here. You are a part of the family here and are loved.
Lady L❤️❤️❤️💋
I am so sorry for your losses ♥️🪽 we lost our baby girl at 22 weeks and it completely blindsided us as everything before the 20 week anatomy scan was completely normal and I had no other symptoms.
What was supposed to be a joyful occasion of finding out the gender of our baby turned out to be the worst news we could hear and two weeks later we lost her 💔
I know the lord has her in his hands and I take comfort in knowing she was most likely pain free and comfortable all of her days and the first thing she saw upon waking up was Jesus and heaven. I know we will see her again one day too 🤍
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I’m so sorry. I can only imagine what you’re going through. My heart is with you in prayer
My condolences on the loss of your child Dedicated Love.
The death of an innocent one, especially so young is a tragedy.
We pray for the child's soul and you and your husbands healing.
Sarah K.
Praying for you both as you grieve 🙏🙏🙏
There are seasons to grieve. When we miscarried our first, yes blindsided. God heard us in our grief and subsequent period of infertility.
Now, another season of grief after a sudden loss of an adult daughter.
Remember to touch, even [if] sex is out of the question. Sit together and hold space. Kiss when you can. Walk holding hands. Let time pass. Pray and eat together in different spaces and do little kindnesses like making tea for the other.
God is still good, even when we hurt deeply.
Dedicated Love, you will remain in our prayers. God will get you through this