Taking A Back Alley (L/A)
I just recently had an experiment I wanted to share.
It’s the middle of November, and I decided to participate in No Nut November, where the challenge is to not orgasm for an entire month. I’ve tried before but did not succeed. I thought it would be a good exercise in self-control at the very least (and jacking off at the end is gonna feel soooooo good).
So far it has been going well. It would be a lie to say that I don’t miss cumming like crazy, but I feel God has actually used it to teach me new things about Him, awakened a new hunger for the Bible, and continued to transform my mind to be more sex-positive even as I wait for my lovely future wife.
Now to the nitty gritty. Remember, the challenge is to not CUM, but that doesn’t mean I can’t do a little cock-teasing, right? When I came home from work, I plopped down on my bed and lay down, ready to rest, and fairly predictably, my mind wandered to more sexual matters.
First, I made sure the door was closed, then I rolled onto my stomach, my erection already taking form, and opened up MarriageHeat. I began reading through some older stories as it had been a few weeks since I’d taken a look. The more aroused I became, the more active I got. My hand had slithered down under the covers some time ago, and I placed my palm on my pubic bone, my strong fingers making a wave-like motion along my now rock hard dick. For over an hour, I laid there, reading delicious encounters of intimacy, writhing and gasping in pleasure, bringing myself to the edge of orgasm, then backing off while I caught my breath.
I then explored further under my boxers, lightly stroking while savoring each burst of feel-good. Now sitting back against the headboard, I couldn’t help but admire the dick God gave me. I closed my eyes, smiling and moaning as I explored it up and down, imagining my future wife laying between my legs, loving on each bit, gently licking around the corona, up and down the frenulum, and sucking off with a POP, while she firmly stroked my rod, lubricated by nothing other than the abundant nectars of her own garden.
I then began to read CliMaxx’s story, where he happens upon his wife jilling to footage of past escapades (nearly Climaxxing myself in the process). She dropped down to fantastically suck him off, and he exclaimed the pleasure he felt as she inserted her middle finger in his ASS. Strangely, that kicked me into high gear, imagining my future wife slowly fucking me in my ass with her long, slender, pretty fingers, while snacking on my cock.
Wrapped up in the moment, I reached up my previously engaged hand to gingerly lick and sniff it. The aroma of my sex now permeating the room, I decided that a shower was in order, with some further self pleasuring. Rushing to the restroom, I locked the door and opened up the hot water, stepping in and caressing my thoroughly hot and bothered body while steamy water cascaded down my back.
Again, the story of anal penetration entered my mind, and I couldn’t shake it. I thought this was odd, because I’ve always thought it was completely gross, or too gay-ish, or plain painful. At this point I decided, having quite empty bowels, and horny as hell, that I would give it a shot. I had searched the internet for some helpful information, but came up short (though stories of prolapse and septic shock sure gave me a bit of pause lol, though not to be overcome).
Furiously aroused, I slammed the phone down and frantically searched for some sort of lube, coming upon a can of Bag Balm. I stepped back into the shower, plugging the bottom to feel a sweet warmth encapsulate me as I laid down. At this point I was shaking with excitement, about to explore myself in a way I thought I’d never consider.
After thoroughly coating my fingers in the makeshift lube, I shut off the water and got in the fetal position. The silence broken only by my heavy breathing, I let my hands wander below the belt, and closed my eyes again. A picture of myself in this moment with my future wife flashed through my brain. We nuzzled as I kissed her neck, her long, tan legs wrapped around my waist, my long, hard, pulsing cock slowly pumping in and out of her hot love tunnel, while in reality, I moved my hands up and down, twisting my wrists, luxuriously stroking my meat.
Snapping back to the task at hand, I once more lubed up my fingers, and tried to relax my muscles. I dragged my finger up and down my crack, teasing my perineum and waiting hole, soon discovering that I had to cum at it from a downward angle, then once I hit the rosebud, rotate so I pointed up my spine. Very slowly, I applied pressure. At first I was met with the resisting sphincter muscles, but after a few short seconds of continued pressure, I passed smoothly in.
The feeling was incredible. Pleasure washed over me, and my eyes rolled back as I wiggle my finger around. Suddenly, I gasped and arched my back, pleasure wracking my body anew. I had just discovered my prostate, and I guess people were not kidding about it being a different type of cum button! I continued rubbing my fingernail against my p-spot, heavily stimulating it. But as the drool collecting at the corner of my mouth indicated, I wanted more of this mind-blowing new thing!
I lathered up my middle finger and thumb, wanting to test out my limits of length and girth. Twice more, I penetrated with a bit of resistance at the beginning, but ultimately with ease. Oh the despair, that I could not bring myself to orgasm, writhing in ecstasy with this new technique. Excitement overtook me, as my thoughts once again returned to matrimonious intimacy.
What joy to be more familiar, and comfortable with my own body, so that my future sex life begins with a full array of tools with which to grow closer to my bride-to-be. I dreamt of giving myself fully to her, taking her in the arms of a love so strong, and becoming well acquainted with her own lush garden as we explore the wonders of lovemaking in the safety of our marriage bed.
Still shaking, I got out of the shower, and quickly dried off. I needed more. This other avenue of pleasure had more to offer, and I knew it. I erratically searched through my bathroom, pulling out cabinets, and swinging doors wide open. Finding some dildo-like object to feel the incredible stimulation and fullness even more was not easy. Alas, there was nothing there, but I hadn’t given up.
I wrapped a towel around my muscular waist, peeked out the door. Thankfully my family was still downstairs, laughing loudly at some show playing on TV. I crept to my room and continued my search. I saw a dummy aircraft ammo cartridge I received as a birthday present from my family in the air force. Solid brass, the bullet well tapered and an inch wide, I knew I had found my toy. I grabbed a nitrile glove as a makeshift condom, and concealed my MacGyver’d dildo. Sneaking back into the restroom, I was breathless with excitement.
Covering it up with balm, I practically flew back onto the tub floor. I took prepped myself by pumping my thumb in and out of my ass, then began insertion. It took about ten seconds before I fit the tip in. I continued to rotate the bullet around and around, moving it side to side as I slowly eased it in.
As I passed the tapering, I gasped and a drawn out moan escaped my tight jaw and pursed lips. My eyes even crossed with the intense pleasure. I put it in deeper and began to thrust it in and out. Starting slowly at first, I picked up speed and intensity, as it slid back and forth over my prostate. As I later measured, I had taken a solid-ass (pun intended) five inches of hard metal. A low, growling “Fuuu—uuu-uuu—uuuCK!” emanated from my throat as I continued my anal assault.
After further pleasuring, I withdrew the round and put it on the corner of the tub. I then rolled onto my back in the still steaming water. I thanked the Lord for His creation and grace, and continually teaching me to properly embrace my sexuality. This was important coming out of a purity culture mindset. It felt so great to have something this small inside me. I can’t wait to hear my wife say how my well-sized cock feels deep in her tight, wet pussy.
I continued playing with my semi-hard dick laying there, basking in the pleasure. However, since I vowed not to cum for the month, it seemed a good place to stop. I got up, dried off once more, and proceeded to get ready for bed, dressing and brushing my teeth. I gave a prayer of thanks to God and drifted to sleep, lulled by wind and rain outside my window.
The End
If I can offer any encouragement to those who have considered anal play, I would say go for it! Lots of lube, more oil than water based if possible (Bag Balm for me) made the experience 100% painless. I also used to think it was gross, difficult, and hurtful. But I kept an open mind and can definitely say it’s worth the effort! No need to go all the way in your first go, but a pinky finger isn’t a bad start. In less sexy terms, I completely emptied my bowels beforehand, washing and using a bidet. Thus, I had no visible fecal residuals or bits that may have lessened the experience.
Thanks for reading if you made it all the way through, lol. Please let me know what you think in the comments below!
Really great story. I LOVE how personal it is. And I love that you are embracing a sex-positive attitude about your body and sexual arousal. I’ll be honest, as I was reading this, I was hoping that you would have a big cum (whether intentional or involuntary). After all “One Nut November” is also a remarkable feat! LOL! But I still enjoyed hearing your first “hand” account!!
Glad you enjoyed!
Kate massages my prostate regularly during BJs, not so much during foreplay BJs, but always if she is craving a warm load to swallow. The additional stimulation helps ensure success before she tires out. It feels absolutely amazing. Sometimes during a 69 I'll get fixated on her lovely asshole and end up with my finger up her chute too, and she enjoys it.
As for your experiment, Bag Balm is a curious choice. I can understand the advantages of an oil based product, but I would get something more for the specific purpose. Coconut oil is supposed to be a great product, and I used it several weeks ago when I fucked Kate in the ass, but I felt like her rectum absorbed it as fast as I could put it in. I used the liquified coconut oil and maybe I should have tried the solid and let the heat of her tunnel melt it as I massaged and prepped her. We normally use water-based for anal, but one did dry out on her a while back and made the experience painful in the final moments.
As for the bullet, get something with a more flared base if you repeat the experiment, again made for the purpose. You don't want the ER extracting your bullet if you lose control of it… 🙁
If it helps at all, none of the balm really dissipated, So it may be worth a shot. And the bullet is over a foot long, with a large flare between projectile and casing, so I have plenty to grip on! Thank you for thoughts!
Wow! Such a hot and intimate retelling of your solo time. I can relate to much of it myself. Since it's no longer November, I hope you've shot a big load by now.
You bet! Only made it to the twentieth, but I was a virtual firehose😂
Wow, this was hot! I like hearing single guys talk about their exploration. It helps me understand male sexuality and mindset better. I'm not a stranger to those exciting moments of self-exploration, though I haven't tried anything anal yet. Your story has me very antsy now, so I think I need to go take care of myself!
Awesome to be of some assistance! Go enjoy yourself!
Strummer…
You have an excellent way with words, drawing the reader into your most intimate self play!! You are commended for recognizing Who created this body and its points of beneficial ecstasy while awaiting the gift of your future bride! Certainly if more guys would engage in self~fucking while waiting & dating, there would be less broken promises resulting in unnecessary guilt from the promiscuous activity! So “self-pleasure away” my friend, with a few recommendations…
1. Anal Plug~available in all different lengths and girths. I use a basic medium-ish one sometimes all day and especially when I’m at the YMCA, swimming laps.
2. Prostate Massage (a urologist encouraged activity.) -wide range from self-manipulation ($20- “P-shot Massager”) with a handle which provides the ecstasy-to remote control one with a price of $200 (A great “investment”! The shipping is discreet, and since it sounds like your living with your folks/family-it would not be a revealing issue and even if it was-tell them your taking care of yourself in a healthy way! 🙂 )
3. Journal – to any single person, I recommend taking your self-ecstasy experiences (as “Strummer” has done) and creating a intimate~journal for your future fiancé. When things get serious and you're headed towards marriage and giving your bodies to each other, provide your written journey as a gift and talk about these moments of exploration and your desires for life together ~ as God designed!
And if you are part of a guy’s group or are able to start one, even with another friend, it helps in the journey! Before marriage, a bunch of us from our church singles group and other friends were part of a group, holding each other accountable from pre-marital sex by getting together weekly or so to swim, play basketball or whatever and to have what we called “testosterone-release time.”
All The Best!
Thank you for your encouraging words, and your recommendations are of great value! I'll be sure to check out some of the aforementioned products to step up my game lol!
And I agree withFearless Hunk, Alan Adventurous, & Tinwaiting247 that your personal adventures are very insightful, hot & horny with rippling effects on us! I agree that coconut oil is an excellent product (one that is in your local grocery store) that will assist your ass and cock in your handjobs! It’s a safe product that my wife & I have been using for all aspects of lovemaking! And when it’s warmed up a bit and applied-look out! :). ENJOY and looking forward to hearing more of your adventures!!
Great job describing what all Christian men enjoy – honorable solo time thinking about sex with their future wife or their beloved God has given them. I have tried the back door stimulation as well, but it just doesn't do a lot for me. My nipples, on the other hand, are out of this world. Glad to see you keeping your focus on God and staying away from porn, brother.
Yes indeed texasman76, it took some time, but I'm on the right track now. Glad to be among people with a similar outlook!
Hello, I applaud your exploration into the world of semen retention, anal and prostate stimulation! There is no hotter fantasy for me than to be open and inviting to my future wife as she penetrates me and brings me incredible prostate orgasms, one after another. You're at the beginning of your journey and I would CAUTION you on a few points:
-Using a toy (makeshift or otherwise) that is not anal-safe (with a flared base to prevent your rectum sucking the whole thing inside you) could be dangerous and precipitate an embarrassing trip to the Emergency Room! Ditto for something made of a material which isn't common for anal toys.
-As well I don't agree with your recommending Bag Balm: to my knowledge it is for your skin only and not for internal use. PLEASE get some lube that is actually designed for sex and stay away from all-purpose products or anything which says something to the effect of "For external use only."
-Water-based lube can dry out in your anus and need to be re-applied which I see as a bit of a necessary evil, but there are things like anal-specific silicone lubes which are much thicker and longer-lasting. Food-based oils are generally accepted as safe to use internally and some can be thick enough and long-lasting (like coconut oil), I would recommend that as a safe alternative to any petroleum-based products.
I'd say you should check out Aneros prostate massagers as your next step and while you're on their website browse their forum because it has a wealth of information and posts going back 20+ years: you'll learn a lot there! An Aneros massager is potentially pricey but definitely a worthwhile investment.
I too participated in NNN and think that semen retention can have great benefits, though I take it to extremes occasionally: I have practiced semen retention for Lent for the last three years as well. If you haven't heard of the Mindgasm app you might check it out, it can really help expand your outlook on all things sexual that goes far beyond the "rub dick until something spurts out" kind of mentality. They do a free 30-day challenge during November which I found enjoyable to participate in, as well as encouraging. Happy exploring and please stay safe!
I do appreciate your thoughts, I'll definitely keep them in mind!
I’m glad you enjoyed the anal play. I do the same from time to time. I also have a story about it scheduled to post.
I'll be awaiting it with great anticipation!
What a great, erotic account of the ecstatic experience of self-pleasuring one’s prostate to an orgasmic explosion! There’s nothing like it! Being blessed by a wife to sexily fuck her hubby in the ass is an incredible gift! Ladies, keep doing it if you are already into it. If not, find the time and moment to ask and suggest it to your guy. Also, give him the encouragement and freedom to fuck himself!
I hope this account of my pleasure will inspire single men, married guys, and ladies that embrace or would like to embrace back door pleasure!
https://marriageheat.com/2020/11/02/hands-off-ecstacy/
I must admit that when I was finally able to receive Jim anally, It added a new, more intense buzz to my orgasms. No doubt that the entryway adds more pleasure/pain, but when I finally release its mind boggling. Tip: practice on yourself slowly, and with lots of lube – and bring your vibe along for the ride!
I'm going to say, 'no', hubby says, 'no', medical advice says, 'no'.
Risk of tearing and contamination by fecal bacteria is too great.
If you like a finger or butt plug, that's okay, but fucked anally, too much preparation required and too big a risk of poor health outcome.
No thanks. I like my pussy fucked.