Multiple O’s for Men
There is a lot of talk about women having multiple orgasms, and I love it. Making your gal cum over and again is a beautiful thing. There’s less talk about men having more than one orgasm, though, and I’d like to address it.
Not to brag, but I have a lot of experience with masturbation. (That’s a joke btw. It’s funny because it’s true. 😂😉) In my masturbatory explorations, I’ve learned to cum more than once. The honest truth is, I can cum more than a few times.
Granted, I’m not rock hard as the orgasms progress, but the intensity doesn’t really diminish. In fact, if I’m really turned on, just the opposite is true.
I’ve learned that if I slow down or stop for just the right amount of time after I ejaculate, then start again, it will build into another orgasm. This process can go on for several minutes.
It took time and practice, but my record is 15. Yes, 15. I realize there may be naysayers that balk at this number, but it’s true. Now, that doesn’t happen every time, but five or six is pretty common.
Why do I bring this up? Two reasons.
1. Are there other guys out there who have similar experiences?
2. I want to encourage guys to the fact that you don’t have to be one and done.
In addition, these multiple O experiences can move into the sex life you have with your wife, and can be freaking intense.
It could also be a sexy challenge for your wife. Just how many times can she make you cum?
As always, singles feel free to join the conversation.
I’d love to hear your questions or comments. – KM
I have read a lot about sex, the science of it etc. Some men can have multiorgasms, they have to learn how to do it. But, most men can not. There are several chemicals released during orgasms in both women and men. Men have much more released during orgasms, it causes erection to go down and a loss of sexual urgency. If they do get a second erection, the next orgasm will be more difficult, even in younger men. If they orgasm again, the third is more difficult.
But, some men don't lose their erection and can orgasm again pretty quickly. The chemicals released have been measured and they do not produce a high amount like most men. They are more like female levels. The increase a bit each orgasm just like women and eventually will be finished.
That recovery period in young men can be as little as 15 minutes, but as you age, it gets longer. At age 70, it can take a full day to recover from the chemical release. That means an erection is difficult and orgasm is really difficult. Older than that, it can take even longer, several days. A urologist told me once that some men in their 70's think they have ED, but if fact, their recovery time has become so long, it is not really ED but still recovering from the last orgasm.
I have to admit having no knowledge of what you’re talking about. My research hasn’t been anywhere near that thorough.
I would never be able to have multiple ejaculations in one session, but orgasms, yes. Let me explain. During the time my wife and I were still intimate, I learned a technique by experimenting. It takes practice and perfect timing (for me at least), but during intercourse when I would feel myself just about to ejaculate, I would pull out of her pussy and tense my cock as hard as I could. I would have the sensation of orgasm without actually ejaculating.
My cock would soften slightly, but it would still be hard enough to enter her again. I could then just go and go, and go for a long time, to the point of exhaustion where I would have to rest. She actually told me that I didn't have to cum to satisfy her, but of course I wanted to. After some time, I would become rock hard again and would eventually cum.
As I said, it takes perfect timing but I was able to achieve it a few times. Now that I am stuck with just masturbating, I see no need to delay, so I just jerk off until I blow my load.
I do ejaculate each time, even if the amount is smaller, but the timing is crucial for me too.
My wife gets frustrated when I don't cum inside of her. She feels not sexy which I find her hot
We stopped with the one and done routine many years ago! Our old routine, past some fun foreplay, was to start off with PIV, but before I would cum, I’d pull out and give her oral until she would cum. Then, back to PIV, so I’d get my O. The ol’ she cums first thing, but sometimes she’d have a second orgasm from the PIV.
Well, one afternoon, I blew my load in her way too quickly. I couldn’t leave her unsatisfied, so I went down on her anyway, and WOW, did she ever cum hard and long. Messy, but WOW!
Short story was, her spectacular orgasm made me hard again, and after a few times of the I cum first thing, I figured “why not”, and we did PIV and we’d both cum again. And, after that, I’d bring her to another orgasm from oral again……which made me hard again!
Younger days, I would cum 5 or 6 times, and she was about double the orgasms as me. These days, I’m still good for 3!
I highly recommend it! Multiples for both of us!
Your earlier sex scenarios sounds too much like ours. I say let’s have sex and she says ok and either gets lube out and hops on or sometimes she lets me go down on her. Then she grabs her vibrator and turns around on top of me. Bends over at the waist and cums. Then says ok ready to come on top? Then I get on top and finish missionary. Boring and quick.
That’s great Tulsa! I also recommend multiples for both! 😉
Thanks for opening the discussion.
I will be open enough to say I'm not as yet able to be a multi orgasm man at 53. Always willing to learn though.
You should definitely try. What’s the worst that could happen?
I experience a double occasionally, particularly when I’m really horny. I’m able to do so by ‘dancing along the edge’ of my PONR when I masturbate. It’s an incredibly satisfying O with cum and then I’m able to back down from the ecstasy and my next orgasm is very strong and much more cum.
That sounds great SG!
It is a minority of men who can have full multiple orgasms. I have always been one of those. When first married to my wife I was able to have my second orgasm of a sex session with zero refractory period. Then I often went on to have 5-6 total. One Saturday we had a long lovemaking session and I had 9 orgasms. Each orgasms cums with less cum but not necessarily less tingle & zing! Sometimes the second or third orgasm is more intense!
As recently as three years ago I had six in a sex session at a themed inn… then four more orgasms the next day. As age has increased I’ve needed a small refractory period.
The orgasms when young were mostly PIV. Then over the years the orgasms in a sex session tended to be a combination of PIV and then FMP. “FMP” means Fix My Problem. That is when my wife orally and manually stimulates my nipples as we take turns jacking me off. Often that got me wound up for more PIV or I’d have more orgasms manually. FMP now often involves a vibrating male stroker.
Funny thing is that I’d usually have more orgasms than my Melody. But she often had 3-4. (It’s never just about MY orgasms-duh!)
Now with age, breathing difficulties, & heart problems – a sex session still usually includes me having two orgasms & Melody having one or two and sometimes three. Once in a while I can still get to three. Yet we have had occasional epic sex sessions in roleplay sex and/or on vacation recently that included 2-3 orgasms each. (We just had a ten day vacation with four rip-roaring lovemaking sessions that included oral, PIV , & FMP!)
Nowadays I sometimes feel like I’m gonna die after I climax. It’s kinda scary but worth it.
We have enjoyed our 30-year run and feel VERY grateful for our incredible friendship and passionate sexual love!
Once again, the bar you set is very high. It’s a pleasure to read about your relationship and your sex life.
That's amazing and nice! I have masturbated 4 times in one day when I was younger, 4th time, I made very little if any semen.
I read a study where they took men like you that can have multiple orgasms and had them have sex, then took blood samples for various hormones. Then they had a second orgasm, more blood samples etc. They found the increase in those post orgasm blood chemicals/hormones went up very little. Not like men that can only have one orgasm.
Great post KingdomMan. My multiple orgasms are quite different. I am a really horny guy (always have been – I remember jacking 12 times in one day when I was 16). I edge pretty much daily. Over the years, I have learned to have unlimited orgasms. However, I keep my hard on and my load. The way I learned to do this is when my wife and kids were out of town I would have long edging sessions, my max is 4 hours straight. During those sessions, one learns to sink deep into a masculine state of enjoyment that is hard to explain. I can feel the orgasm coming and it washes over me. Just a euphoric amount of pleasure from head to toe. I have had dozens in one session. The caveat is I have never been able to replicate that during sex. Strictly edging/jack off time.
tm76, yours may be different, but they still sound amazing. You’re exploring and enjoying the ride, and that’s what counts!
Whew, this thread really added to my already-hot-and-horny mindset today! The idea of someday marrying a guy who could have multiple orgasms (or learn to have them) is extremely tantalizing. I'd love to try to make him cum over and over!
I’m glad I could help 😉
You and your future hubby could turn giving each other multiple O’s into a very sexy game!
I've been fascinated with this subject for many years! I've experimented with various techniques a little, but never found success in consistently achieving multiple orgasms in quick succession.
I've had multiple orgasms in masturbation sessions before. I had two within an hour of each other just a couple days ago! But those are just regular, ejaculatory orgasms with a normal refractory period in between. The refractory period is relatively short though, since I'm still in my 20s. These orgasms are wonderfully pleasurable, but nothing unusual or extraordinary.
I have had a little success with multiple orgasms in quick succession in the past, though! I thought about sharing my experiences on MH, but didn't think I had much useful to share or teach, since I only had successful experiences a couple of times.
I would masturbate and do something like Steady89 describes. But to add a little more detail, it's not my penis that I tense. Instead, following some articles I read, I focused on tensing my PC muscle (the pubococcygeus muscle, essentially what makes up the perineum). I'd masturbate to the point of no return, then just as I started to crest into orgasm, I'd stop stroking and contract that PC muscle as hard as I could and hold it. It was so hard to stop stroking, because when that orgasm hit I just wanted to keep pleasuring myself and feel that blissful release of ejaculation! But a few times I was able to discipline myself to stop stroking and hold the PC contraction, and it would (mostly) prevent the ejaculation! It would also make the orgasm less intense and make it fade faster, but because I didn't ejaculate, that meant I stayed erect, stayed aroused, and could go for another orgasm immediately! In one session several years ago, I was able to chain several of these cycles back to back and have 4-5 mini orgasms in just as many minutes!
It was an interesting start, but overall not a satisfactory result, so I stopped practicing. I also noticed the excessive contraction (in frequency and intensity) caused some pain in my penis, which probably won't happen to every guy who tries this, but I stopped partly out of concern that I'd cause damage.
I've also explored prostate stimulation, which, while it hasn't provided multiple orgasms, it HAS provided intense, extended and very satisfying pleasure.
At the moment, I'm slowly exploring some ancient Taoist teachings and practices for manipulating the body's sexual energy and causing multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms, mostly through bodily awareness, mindful attention, and breathing exercises. It's adapted for a modern audience in the book "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia. I'm not far along in the journey, and I haven't established a consistent practice regimen, but I can tell you that there's definitely something here! I've been able to cause some wonderful involuntary contractions of pleasure, and more than once I've spent several minutes writhing in bed, feeling this different but very enjoyable kind of pleasure.
God created our bodies with far more capacity than anyone knows, and I'm convinced some of the ancients stumbled into some of the amazing sexual capacities our bodies have, which modern science has yet to fully recognize. I'm very much hoping that I can learn and master some of these skills, to bring myself and my future wife truly extraordinary pleasure, and then share that knowledge with the MH community and beyond!
I agree that God created our bodies with a huge potential for sexy pleasure. Enjoy the ride!
The closest I’ve been to multiple O’s is when using the shower head directly on my cock head. If I direct the water on the fat of my tip eventually the sensation will get so great that I have to release pee. It’s definitely not cum haha. Alternating between that and aiming the water at the underside of my cock is amazing. I can do this multiple times over. Then when I’m done I’ll just leave the stream shooting on my frenulum until I blast my load
I’ve not had the multiple O gift like some of you beast men – amazing. Probably 4 in a day is my max. But like Bughuged I’ve learned to hone that “pee” release prior to climax. Sometimes during an edging session without lubr, using a soft cloth or towel, grazing it gently but continuously against the head or even rubbing the head back and forth against my belly can cause a hard to describe pleasure sensation almost like a pre-tickle, pursued enough eventually can cause urine to well up and spurt out. Messy but warm, best in a tub or shower if you want to experiment with this. The attempt can make my erection go soft, so I’ll switch back and forth between the head grazing and traditional jacking to get hard again. Still not sure if it enhances the final orgasm or not, more of something titillating and different to experience.
Interesting, I've noticed the same odd "pee response" with focused glans stimulation, although it doesn't happen every time. I'm not sure what causes it to sometimes happen and sometimes not. When it does happen, I don't find it particularly pleasurable or unpleasurable, just different. It's interesting to learn that it's a response other men experience as well.