Written Romance
One of my absolute favorite things to do with my husband is something we call written role play.
One reason I like it so much is that it’s a written collaboration that comes from two different minds about the same subject. Having done it a number of times together we have a good feel for where we want to take something.
Another benefit is the fact that we both thrive on details. For instance, the removal of each article of clothing during the story. It’s not like you’re dressed one moment, and then all of a sudden you’re naked and on all fours. No, we like to capture everything that’s in between.
Quite often it starts with one of us texting the other something innocuous like, “How’s your day going?” After some back and forth, one of us (usually me when I’m feeling horny) will write a suggestive comment or a sexual thought we were having.
The other will write something back in the same vein of thought. Before we know it, we are into an erotic story.
But it’s not really a story. It’s talking with someone you know and enjoy being sexual with.
Sometimes these will go for hours throughout the day, and many times I’ll have to find a place to spread my legs and shed part of my clothing while writing. I will have to find myself a bathroom if I’m out somewhere public.
Our words will often paint a story, not only of what’s going on between the two of us, but whatever scene we may find ourselves in.
And the thing is, fantasy can take you anywhere you want it to be, and in any way you want it to be.
My husband M puts it beautifully: “Even though two people can be separated by thousands of miles, when they are writing a story about the same subject, they are in fact in the same place, engaging in the same story together.”
The words provoke thoughts. Thoughts provoking emotion and feeling. Emotions and feelings provoke desire. Desire provokes physical reaction.
Does anybody else do this sort of thing?
Well that’s all for now I better go. I feel a role play coming on. 💋😉💦💦💦
Lady L. 💋
I think this is absolutely wonderful! You’re fiercely and passionately engaging in your marriage, and I wish more couples would be so deliberate. (It would be great if we could read about one of those role-plays here 😉)
Thank you so much for your kind words once again KM. Yes I have to agree for us we have found the key to our sexual happiness and section. And it is our hope that some way we can enhance the romantic relationship in other marriages as well.
And your statements was duly noted. I'll see if we can write about one of those role plays.
Lady L. 💋❤️
Tutchh,
Yeah, It's very cool what you guys are doing for sexy fun – and this is exactly where Jim and I allow our fantasies run wild.
For example: I remember once when Jim happened to be on the road in a hotel during the same time I was attending my 20th High school reunion. He sent me a text and I returned a quick one telling him a guy (Jim knows) stopped by my hotel room to help me set up a little bar and refreshments for a gathering I had planned for about an hour from when he arrived.
I told Jim I would get back with him via text shortly, and I had to take a quick shower to clean off after making 4 trips to my car along with Todd, my "helper."
"You mean it's just the two of you in your room now?" he texted…
"Yes, he's cooling his jets, just having another drink after helping me out."
"ANOTHER Drink?" How many have you had?"
"We both had two screwdrivers, but it's all good."
"I'll bet it's good, I know how slutty you can get after two drinks," he said. "Just tell him to come back later as you need to shower."
"That would be rude, Jimmy – I'm just rinsing off real quick, and I do have my comfy robe with me."
"You mean the one that rides about six inches above your knees?!"
"Chill, I'll get back soon – have a drink."
"Wait, isn't Todd, the guy you told me used to wear the tight jeans and you were always commenting on his massive bulge?"
"Uh, yeah – but he's married and, by the way, he had a huge bulge because he could never keep his eyes off my rack, so give me a little credit her …lol…
…. Anyway, Tutchh, you can imagine the fun we had together as I strung him along during my complete [fantasy] servicing of Todd – as well as the much closer look I got of his Jeans stretcher!
[From MH: To be clear about the important context of such things, this little comment story was approved ONLY in the context of sharing fantasies with a spouse. Outside of fantasy, this would be entirely out of bounds for our site, but is allowed here for discussion and example purposes.]
I'm not sure how I feel about this. So you were in a hotel room alone with another man who you admired his bulge? This seems out of bounds for me. Even if you and your husband have fantasies of you servicing other men, it doesn't seem appropriate for that situation to present itself.
[From MH: As stated in our note at the end of her comment, we approved the comment only under the assumption that it was only a fantasy. Even though that wasn't as clear as it would ideally be, given the discussion post context being about sharing written fantasies with a spouse, we guessed that's exactly what this was: a fantasy/roleplay situation, rather than an actual event. As we noted, if this was an actual physical act, we agree it would not be appropriate.]
Well Patty, I always smile at your comments. You and your lovely husband sound like you have a very vivacious love life.
I'm assuming that in the context of what I've written you are also talking about fantasy in that you and your husband were talking back and forth in this fashion and that there was no man in the room.
But I do have to say you always do have me guessing.
For M. And myself. We do have a very open candor in talking about what we find attractive in others. Being that I have an attraction to women he very much enjoys the fact that we can talk openly about that. And we do use it to play with.
He will also watch me when we are in public that if I happen to notice a man in my eyes follow him to quiz me as to what I find attractive about him. Although he's not attracted to men he is open enough to admit with another man has something that he could see a woman admiring.
Thanks for your comments I always enjoy them!!
Lady L. 💋❤️
Wow, I love that idea! That's going to have to be something I try someday, if I ever have a husband to do it with! 🤪 The ways you and your husband creatively focus on your passion for each other is just beautiful and inspiring.
Dear lovely lady. Whoever your husband will be will certainly be a fortunate man. For you have already found the keys to a satisfying sex life
I see you as a beautiful woman who is the perfect lady in public but who is The ideal of every man's fantasy in private.
As far as doing things like written roleplay. I can tell you that you will enjoy it so much because it has brought us so much pleasure over the years.
Lady L. 💋❤️
That's interesting. I've never heard of texting quite like this. before. I like the long hours aspect of texting & allowing the freedom to message whatever you feel.
I may have to try this with my wife. At least try & set the bait, but I'm not sure she will bite. It'll be worth the try. though. Thanks.
You might want to start with something that is obviously asking for her response maybe setting a scenario and asking her what she would think and then rolling into a roleplay fantasy so that she will not be left guessing as to what it is that you mean by your comments. Once you establish that rapport between you it will begin to flow more freely. But I can tell you that I have had some of the most satisfying orgasms
Merely by I own fingers or a toy while I am fantasizing with him roleplay. And by the time that day ends and becomes home or we meet somewhere we are all over each other.
Lady L💋❤️
Wifey here😘- I love the idea of heating things up over text! We love trying new things we just recently have been trying some oral stuff and the other day heard about our friends anal experience and are in the process of trying that out. Hubby and I are always open to new things. Love the idea of starting a spicy text in the morning and letting it play out. I have to be careful in some sense since he works 3 minutes away 😩😉 knowing he would drop work and come home for a break.
Thank you so much for reading the story young wife.
Cheers to you for trying new things together. Here's we have done well over a hundred different things that we wanted to try. Not everything works and a lot of things end up on the trash heap but there are things which we never stopped doing because we enjoy so much.
I have never heard of a husband yet who does not enjoy having their wife think up new and innovative ways to enjoy sex together. And I'm sure that he would love the idea!
Lady L 💋❤️
I love that you share these experiences with each other, and us.
My late wife loved it when I wrote fictional sex stories. Mo of the Tim I’d write then on graveyard shift, and working as a controller for our USAF Security Forces Flight, or shift.
Though I’m a good Christian, the military instills in our minds some very nasty thinking. So I had a myriad of ideas for sensual, monogamous stories about couples role playing.
Thieve stories would really get her juices going, and the sex we would have was absolutely spectacular.
I really miss her. This month, august, will be 13 years since she passed away.
Sarge, first off I'm so sorry for your loss. From which I've read it sounds like you had a storybook love affair.
And you found the secret to successful marriage and satisfying sexual adventure together.
Yes we are very thankful that we have come to this point in our life where we are so happy enjoying new things constantly. Our hope is that others would be inspired to do the same thing well keeping in mind the parameters of our faith.
And thank you for serving !!
Lady L. 💋❤️
Love this. My wife and I recently have dabbled in this a bit. She is totally out of her comfort zone, which makes it hotter! I love telling erotic fantasies with her. She actually had me doing her in the ass in this last one! That isn't something she enjoys normally. I'm hoping to uncover a more raw, sexual, animalistic side of her.
This reminds me. We have a story that's been paused for 2 weeks!
BS,
Thank you so much for reading this and thank you even more for your comments.
It is definitely the confirmation to hear that you engaged together with the way in this same endeavor and your comment about the anal is definitely a part of it.
There are times when we've engaged in it surprise each other with what the other said. That in turn stimulated conversation between us about what was brought up in the roleplay.
Ed wouldn't you know it quite often we try it. It's a constant learning but what lies within each other's minds desires.
A psychologically sexual exercise between two people who love each other.
So happy to hear that you are both enjoying this as well I hope to hear from other couples who are doing the same thing.
Lady L. 💋❤️
All I will say here ass a follow-up to my (perhaps, too) candid share above, is that my sexy text was simply feeding Jim's occasional fantasy in bed involving watching another guy with me, then eventually shifting into a free for all threesome.
The key word above, is Fantasy.
We employ such techniques to spice things up a bit, always knowing that every fantasy is focused exclusively on one or the other of us.
I've always loved how Jim sizes up his feelings on this topic – "Creamy, it's like an out of body experience when I fantasize watching you with another male or female. .. Watching you in all of your extreme sexiness from afar, capturing every nuance is mesmerizing."
Very well said Patty,
As I have stated. M. And I
Have had that discussion many times. With my coming out that I was attracted to other women for him it was a fantasy come true. Although we knew it would have never happen it comes up as fantasy play quite a bit.
He always says, and I can concur because I feel the same way about him.
He just wants me to have pleasure fully and completely and feels that seeing me with another woman usually but sometimes we will play with another male or another couple. All fantasy of course!
And I really don't think it's that much uncommon.
All I can tell you is that when we're sitting together and I'm stroking him and I'm whispering in his ear about me with another woman and walking him through the story of us his erections get incredibly hard and his breathing very heavy.
Lady L. 💋❤️
So this whole situation was fantasy? I'm so sorry I jumped the gun Patty. I should have slowed myself and assumed much better of you. That is my fault.
May God bless you.
Keep the stories cumming!
Wonderfully written Lady L! I so enyoy your stories and comments. Ben and I used to love doing something like this. God bless and stay horny love.
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We have done this often. Not so much the back and forth story building, although we have done that on occasion. Usually it is more me building a story one text at a time and waiting for her to respond in some way in between. More of a reaction than adding to the storyline. Sometimes it’s a question which is usually her trying to steer the story. Sometimes I’ve built it to a point and told her it was her turn. It’s always a great heat builder. Another one we’ve done (although not lately, I’ll have to fix that) is that one of us would send a picture. Not a sexy or “naughty” pic, just any generic pic. Like a picture of a living room, or a park scene or any generic thing. Not with us in it, not necessarily with any direct connection to us. It could be one we take or just found on the internet. The receiver has to the come up with a sexy scenario of the two of us built around that pic. I took a picture once of a Cadillac in front of me at a light, and she created a very sultry and envelope pushing story of us in the back of an Uber ride. One of mine was based on a pic of a home exercise room, and involved her being bent over the big exercise ball and grabbing the weight bar on the floor in front of her while I pounded her from behind. Lot’s of fun. Side note: I highly recommend using an app dedicated to just the couple messaging each other. It is way too easy to get a message in the wrong thread when this is going on all day. We use Signal and only use it for each other so no chance of embarrassing ourselves or someone else.
Love it !
Being able to have a husband or wife who was in tune with you and can flow with you in various scenes coupled with two fertile imaginations can create a world of enjoyment for life!
Lady L. 💋❤️
One of the great benefits to a couple in doing this together is this.
When we write sexual fantasy together we learn what resides within the mind and heart of the writer.
That writer being our lover.
This is a tool for us to learn from. Finding out what sort of fantasies they have about us and what they might like to do. What it is they may feel and what it is they may desire us to feel. What is it they do that makes us love it so much that we write about it? And what is it they want to try and how they may want us to feel as a result of it !
I encourage all couples to practice this with each other. And let it spur conversation with you about it. Learn what lies within the deepest recesses of one another.
Lady L. 💋❤️
A few years ago I started texting erotica about us to my wife. The first one I wrote she replied, "Is it bad that masturbated to that?" Well, that was a first for me. 1. For her to respond like that about anything, & 2. for me to have a hard on at work.
My problem is that when I have some success I want to capitalize on it. So, I wrote more. Once or twice my wife even wrote some hot little stories, too.
Then one day she turned it off. Her excuse was that I sounded like I was using the texts to get her to do things she didn't want to do. I will admit, after rave reviews from her I did write wilder stories as we went. Things that involved people watching us, or same room sex, or elaborate role playing. My thought was that we built a safe place to be ourselves together. But, somehow she didn't see it as such. She said she liked only the stories that involved us only. Of which, I never wrote of adultery, or swinging type stuff. The worst of it was a role playing where I took her out to a remote woods & tied her to a tree & left her. Driving away. I wrote in the time she was left there a dog came & sniffed her up & licked her bare skin. But, nothing else. That story ended with me being a hunter that happened upon her & had sex with her. This was the worst one, the rest were very tame in comparison.
I get it. Different things may trigger bad emotions, but my wife never explained it that way. She has never divulged a bad abusive episode to me ever.
If I could maybe figure it out? My wife is very fearful of things being out of control, & she fears the worst. We have had great times of sex, like I've wrote on MH. But, seems when things start opening up she closes them. Without any open convo of teamwork & safety to explore together.
Today, I rarely try to text anything sexy. I keep it within her safe zone. Hoping a little bit of peace will help her expand her horizons. My earlier reply to this post said I will have to try this? I tried. I told her I just noticed she was out & about in a see through top without a bra on. She looked stunning, & the jacket over it was a good choice.
Nothing.
I pointed it out to her, & she explained that it came at a time when she was texting me something else, & it didn't register that it was a new text. So, she didn't see it. Ok. But, even then…
Nothing.
I will keep at it. My wife is sexual, but only in her way. So, I try & still be sexual in my way, only minding how I step, & where. She lets everything else be priority over sex. She never really sees sex as hers to enjoy. Like sex is just an episode where she plays a part in a show. Show up, get off & cut! Go back to your life. She may never break out of it, but I will be who God made me to be, here, with her. I love her & she loves me, I know. I'll treat her the way I want her to treat me.
BS, you NEVER need apologize for expressing your thoughts and feelings … keep that cock hard reading these thought-provoking contributions… lol!