Birthday Special
It was my 57th birthday, and my husband M wanted it to be a very special day for me. He asked me ahead of time not to schedule any clients that day, since he had booked a manicure and pedicure for me in the morning, and we would be going to be going out for an early dinner at one of our favorite restaurants.
What he didn’t inform me about was what was going to happen in between.
After getting my nails taken care, of I arrived home and pulled into the driveway to see a car that I didn’t recognize. Feeling absolutely wonderful, but also curious, I sauntered into the back door with a smile.
Inside, I found my husband standing there with a woman that I didn’t recognize.
She was dressed in a white T-shirt, grey workout shorts and tennis shoes, and she appeared to be somewhere around her early 30s.
He must have seen a questioning look on my face as he walked up to me and smiled, saying, “Happy birthday dear. This is surprise number two.”
Still not sure what was going on, thoughts ran through my head as to what the surprise might be.
First let me back up and give a little context.
Some years earlier, we had gone through what I refer to as our sexual revolution. After much discussion, we began an adventure of becoming sexual co-explorers. We created an open line of communication for anything and everything sexual between us, and we began the practice of trying new things.
Over the years, I had been fighting the fact that I was attracted to women. There were a number of occasions where I could have explored in that area, but didn’t.
It was a turbulent area for me because, being believers, it wasn’t something I felt comfortable thinking or feeling. It was during our sexual revolution that I confessed these feelings to my husband—feelings which I had been keeping to myself for years.
Being able to admit my feelings to him was freeing. After that, the things that we explored together began to include a few role play and fantasy scenarios. On a number of occasions we discussed or role played the possibility of another person being in the room with us. Both of us were in agreement that it would never happen for real, but that the fantasy was innocent enough and as long as the two of us remained open and honest about it. The scenarios we role played were various.
Another result of our revolution was the ability to overcome negative self image and jealousy. We were open and honest about people we may have found attractive, and quite often would discuss what specific attributes we found attractive, and at times worked ourselves into an aroused state doing this. Both of us understood my long battle with my attraction to women, and we embraced it together.
Now again, these were just thoughts that we played with. Both of us knew we would never bring it to fruition. We believed in monogamy and we loved one another. This breakthrough in our lives had increased our love and desire for one another by leaps and bounds.
Sex had taken on a new dimension for us. It was actually fun and something that was an adventure for us now.
With that background in mind, here I stood with a quizzical and somewhat worried expression. My heart was racing at what this might mean. He read my mind. Holding my shoulders, he reassured me that she was only a masseuse, and that he had hired her to come and give me a massage in the comfort of our own home.
I felt a cloud of worry pass from my mind, replaced by a sense of relief.
My husband introduced us as I stepped forward to shake her hand and discovering that her name was Colleen.
She was very sweet, smiling and looking at me with her hazel eyes. Her friendly expression was framed by straight hair which ended slightly below her shoulders, its color somehow reddish, brown, and blonde all at the same time.
M told us the office was set up and ready.
Now that our kids were all grown and out of the house, we had extra space, and had converted one of the bedrooms to an office space. There wasn’t much in there but a computer desk, a table and a bookcase.
I headed into the open doorway, and there in the middle of the room was a massage table with towels laid across it and another one rolled up. Colleen had brought scented candles, which were already lit, adding ambiance and the scent of lavender to the air.
I smiled, feeling a tinge of excitement about receiving a nice massage.
“I don’t know if you would rather disrobe here, or if you had another spot, since it’s your home,” Colleen said to me.
I chose to go into my bedroom, which was right next to this office room. I took the rolled up towel and left to go get undressed. Wrapping the towel around my body, I walked back into the room with a big smile on my face. She stood there on the back side of the table looking at me with a smile.
As I stepped forward, I glanced to my left and noticed the whole room being reflected in the mirrored closet doors, which my husband had installed previously in all of our bedrooms.
Colleen pointed towards the table with a smile asking me to start by laying down on my stomach.
Unwrapping the towel from my body, I held it behind me, adjusting as needed, so that it covered my behind as I climbed up on the table. I lay there, my face turned towards the mirror doors, taking in the whole scene. This wasn’t my first massage, but it was the first in my own home. It was nice and comfortable and made me feel special.
She started on my shoulders and gradually worked her way to every other part of my body.
Between her hands on my bare skin and the reflection of her attractive shape in the mirror, I had a difficult time controlling myself.
Part of me wished that maybe this was supposed to be a very special massage with a happy ending. But no—M and I were committed each other, to monogamy, and he wouldn’t undermine that. And neither would I, though parts of me wanted to give in.
But I was able to restrain myself, and she said that she was done. It was a 45 minute massage, and it seemed like it had gone entirely too fast. She asked if she had done a good job and taken care of my needs.
Resisting the urge to say that there was one more thing, I smiled and said yes.
As I climbed off the table, my towel fell to the floor, and I stood completely naked in front of her—a sight which I had assumed she had seen many times before. Colleen picked up the towel and handed it to me, and I wrapped it around my body.
We headed out of the room to the kitchen, looking over and seeing my husband sitting on the couch. Seeing we were finished, he stood up paid her gave her a tip. She shook our hands and politely said what a pleasure it was to be allowed into our home. She reached into her purse to give me a business card, and then went back to take her table and candles.
After she had left the house, the sexual tension lifted. M and I looked at each other and both of us started laughing.
“I knew what you were thinking,” he told me. “And that’s something I thought you might mistake this for, before I ever called her.”
There was so much relief, I reached my arms up to his shoulders and wrapped them around his neck, my towel falling off of my body into the floor. We kissed and I thanked him profusely for such a wonderful birthday.
I wanted to have sex, but it was too close to the reservations we had made at the restaurant. I quickly showered, got myself ready and dressed, and we left.
That night over dinner, we talked about the day, and eventually about what a lovely young lady Colleen was. I didn’t want to say it in the restaurant, but after we got into the car, I related to him all of the feelings that had gone through my body and mind during the massage. As I spoke, I ran my hand up and down his thigh. Occasionally I’d reach over further and find that he’d achieved a full erection.
As we got into the kitchen door from the garage, we were at each other with full-on passion. Our clothes were removed piece by piece as we took every chance to stop and grope one another as we headed towards the bedroom.
But instead of the bedroom, we wound up in the office. I leaned forward with my hands up against the mirrored doors as he entered me from behind, giving me orgasm after orgasm.
The next morning, M commented to me, “I think I’m going to hire Colleen more often.”
My reply was, “I think its safer not to.”
Lady L. 💋
First, happy belated birthday!
Next, I continue to marvel at your beautiful relationship. The level of trust, open communication, and just pure heat that you share is remarkable. From everything you’ve described in previous stories and comments, I know that it took a Herculean effort from the both of you to achieve what you have now. It’s beautiful.
Third, the story is both sweet and hot. M pampering like that speaks of his love for you, and a lot of husbands could learn from his example.
Last, I think you’ve shown how a personal struggle can be turned into marital heat. I’m smiling as I type this. Thank you for making my Saturday morning. Cheers!
Thank you KM for your comments.
Thank you for wishing me up late at birthday but the story did actually happen a few years back.
And it was after my other experience with a masseuse that I was going to quite a few times before and it actually made moves on me.
And yes our open communication enables us to talk to one another about it and the feelings that we have. Our lack of judgment and jealousy also allows us to use these in our own sexual interaction.
Glad to have brought a smile to your face big guy and I'm glad that you had a good Saturday morning as well.
Lady L.💋
There are so many things I love about your stories! The biggest one is how you and M addressed your attraction to women. That is the most Biblical and God-honoring way I've ever heard of someone dealing with that temptation. It's encouraging and beautiful. I really think that openness in marriage, knowing you can talk about ANYTHING and your spouse won't get angry or judgmental, is huge. How I pray for that if I ever get married!
Thank you for your sweet comments lovely one they always mean so much to me.
And you are so perceptive to see the way that the two of us have learned to deal with these experiences in our lives. To actually make them tools in the strengthening of our own bonds.
The fact is that when people are married it doesn't mean they will no longer be attracted to anybody else whether they be male or female. But it's the understanding that this can happen and overcoming The sins of jealousy and judgment of one another.
Being able to communicate the things that we feel within ourselves to one another is a more intimate connection that most never attain.
The hurdle we've surpassed in our marriage with something we did not have in the first half of our marriage but do have now and that is being able to openly talk about things honestly between us. Being able to admit to one another that we do find something attractive about someone other than our spouse. Being able to talk and converse openly about it. And yes at times actually use it as a means to stir arousal within one another and engage in our own lovemaking. In the end the joy and love that we feel in one another for being able to do these things and utilize what could be something that would fracture us to actually strengthen us.
In this particular case. Not only was I relating to him the feelings and thoughts that I was having but he was able to also relate to me that he thought she was attractive as well and did have his own thoughts about she and I.
Lady L. 💋♥️
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Good for you n the masseuse for keeping the boundaries. We too can talk about other people we find attractive. We both know we adore each other and we don’t feel threatened.
We give each other sensual n erotic massages that often turn into full sex sessions. Other times happy ending massages. Amazing experience every time! We’ve even done massage role plays! We have our own foldable massage table.
Thank you LM. It brings me joy to know that the two of you have such a wonderful love life and an open communication between the two of you. Sadly too many couples withhold from one another feelings and thoughts they have and fear of judgment or pain or possible loss. And the very things that would cause this to happen are also considered sins.
Thank you for your writings as well often you pull me in to your stories with you and I enjoy your sexuality having at times read them to my husband and use them for our own starting point.
Lady L.💋
It’s totally subjective, but I believe that monogamy is a state of mind and heart and not a lack of physical contact (yes, this means an emotional affair is non-monogamous). This means that if DH and DW are consensual, and it doesn’t interfere with marital fidelity (like falling in love with another) you can remain monogamous. Just my take.
Very insightful fearless one. Yes our minds and hearts are also to be included. However as we look at the world it has always been the fact that quite often sex is just sometimes a physical thing without love. Years ago it was called friends with benefits. I don't know what they call it now but there is a very thin line things like polyamory where a person is allowed to love and be lovers with others although married. These are things that fall outside of the lines.
Being able to actually taxi extra step of intimacy and baby honest with one another without fear of loss, rejection or judgment is a major step to many couples don't take.
If we are brutally honest with ourselves we've all found attraction in others then our spouse and quite often it's someone we have never personally met or in most cases never will. But yet there's something about the way they act or the way they carry themselves or present themselves which to us brings great appeal.
But unfortunately most of us never crossed that line of being able to confess these thoughts and feelings and discuss these things openly with one another. The ability to do so brings with it the ability to use these things to enhance our own bonds and strengthen them.
Lady L. ♥️💋
Hot story Tutchh. My mind left to wander sometimes plays with different notions of sexual play often only reserved to the sinful world of adultery & fornicating. My personal no. 1 rule is not to cause another to sin, or go against their conscience. So, I am only one to think in possibilities, of finding ways to do things without them being a sin, while I will never bring these thoughts to my wife, or other people. So, they will never be done, as I leave it to others to bring these scenes up to me. Knowing the typical christian thought on such things, it will never happen.
Your story is very fascinating, as many of yours are to me, having another person in it. Your mind. & experiences, run along my fantasy interests, & some experiences.
This one bringing your husband in as the instigator of the scene is hot. I personally would have wanted to be in the room watching as a woman massaged my wife, or maybe be getting my own massage right there with you.
In my mind, I would want to watch the masseuse give you a happy ending. I often think if it were ok with God I would be ok with my wife getting such treatment. So, I wander into possibilities. This is the closest story I have heard actually happen, & both husband & wife be in on it.
Playing to your strengths like this, some would cry, too close! Don't do! But, I see the dynamic change that I can respect. Instead of fearing weakness you play to your strengths. I don't see this as testing the waters & hoping you don't slip. I see it as well defined, well thought out, & well communicated abilities.
That gives me goosebumps. That is such a thrill. To know it does & can happen. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for your comments Mister and sharing your own feelings and thoughts with us.
You are not unlike many because of any of us are brutally honest with ourselves there will be others who are not our spouse that will cause attraction and sometimes arousal in us. And they may not even be anybody we would know or ever know. But there would be something about them that is appealing.
The fact is this experience happened a few years ago and it did happen after my experience with a masseuse that I have been seeing for a while which I wrote about in a different story. Which by the way , My husband and I have talked about and used for our own purposes of arousal a number of times since.
You are not unlike many others who would find pleasure and being able to see something like this.
For us it took a long time to jump over the hurdle of jealousy and judgment and hurt. And begin to use these types of experiences for our own purposes. And yes are open means of communication with one another also includes when we have taken thoughts and use them for our own personal time of pleasure.
The fact is when the two of us will begin at the point of conversing about these things and using these things to bring about arousal and one another and engage in our own sexual exchange afterwards brings with it such a strong feeling of love and joy and a sense of being one and being able to have done so. In essence picking up something that was meant to be a weapon used against us and use it to strengthen our bonds .
Lady L
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