Is my appetite for cock just weird? (L)
(L) – This story contains strong language.
This isn’t really a survey dear ones, but rather a sincere quest for honest answers to an honest question.
I think about cock all the livelong day, and like every time I spot a substantial bulge in a guys crotch. My husband Jim knows about this. We share openly about sexual thoughts, and he has the same “thing” with tits.
Does thinking about cock all day make me some kind of FREAK? Honestly, I masturbate 3-4 times daily when Jim’s gone, and with him when we aren’t fucking. I use three primary toys: a large dildo, a butt plug, and my trusty magic wand. I read here—thank God—that lots of you also do the same.
The truth is, about 10 minutes ago I had an intense orgasm in the shower (using the shower head on a massage setting). I was in the shower in the first place because I needed to clean off my creamy pussy after getting off while relaxing on the couch…
Am I nuts? Too much?
A women being high drive is not common (as I understand it) but there are key questions
– is this a sudden shift or change or have you always been this way? (Could be a hormone imbalance)
– does this negatively impact you or your husband?
– does it negatively impact your relationship?
Otherwise this is how God made you. Relish and embrace it. You aren’t weird or broken – Psalm 139:14 – you are “fearfully and wonderfully made”
Thanks Tee, well, I have always had a rather insatiable need to be satisfied sexually, and beginning in junior high I discovered masturbation, my fav go to. In college I enjoyed men and women and met Jim, the love of my life whom I worship as he does me. Thanks!
I don’t think it’s weird. I think you’re just a woman who has fully embraced her sexual self, and that’s great!
In our society of repressed sexuality, (church society, at least), accepting and acting on your libido within your monogamous Christian marriage may seem weird, but it should really be the norm.
If only more Christian couples could be so accepting of their God-given desires and act on them with their spouse…
Agreed KM, and thanks, as always, for your thoughts.
Very well put!
Not weird at all dear, your just super horny! That's being a normal human being with what sounds like a high sex drive. Enjoy! God bless and stay horny!
Love your support and encouragement! Believe me, I’ll keep up my pace and remain creamy…lol
Hey there! I’m married to the most beautiful women. But I wish she was more sexual and had a higher drive.
How do I as a husband encourage this?
Honestly, I think about sex a lot too when I’m not busy. To the point where I feel guilty about it. I know I have a high sex drive and I usually jerk off at least once a day. But lately I’ve been refraining from fully releasing and I started using the bathmate penis pump and it has made a “big” difference in the size (especially girth) of my cock. I use it in the shower before my wife and I have sex and quickly apply a cock ring before walking into the bedroom. My cock is big, firm, and all veiny ready for my wife. The loads I shoot are much bigger as well from retaining my sperm. So to make a point, at least for men, try retaining along with a penis pump and cock ring and see what you think.
Mmmm, nice picture you paint there, and I’m sure your wife appreciates every inch of your planning! I would be particularly appreciative of the added girth, as I love feeling his cock reaching all of my hot spots.
Brother this is amazing! I will need to start doing this for my wife
Good Gracious! You have found a clean and Godly way to deal with your overly horny nature.
I like women's butts. If I see a nice one living inside some flattering pants, shorts, skirt, or dress, I immediately turn my thoughts to my wife's butt and daydream about worshipping it. It's how I cope with my affliction. 🙂
I think it’s great to admire a hot woman and bring that hard cock home for your wife to enjoy. I have very tight fitting yoga pants and matching top that I really enjoy wearing around the house after my class…I usually “relax” just thinking about the many stiff cocks I create that I know will get a good workout soon after class! The memories shift to Jim’s unbelievable manhood and the many ways he serves it to my hungry mouth and creamy pussy … oops, see, got me going again…
I'm a "thigh guy". Recently, I started a new job. It's in a warehouse, and so everyone there walks a lot. There are a higher number of women working there than I had expected, and thus a number of women with shapely thighs. Sadly, I'm "in between marriages", and so there is no one to help me with my frustrations when I get home.
Wow! That IS a very high libido. But as has already been said, God made you that way. You are faithful (and passionate) towards your Jim. I’m sure he doesn’t complain. You have found a way to deal with your high libido that in my opinion is very appropriate. I think for couples who have a desire discrepancy that self stimming is a good way to manage that.
Also, that strong sex drive helps explain why you write such awesome stories for Marriage Heat! So, we readers are also blessed by your high libido.
My sex drive is also quite high. My Melody’s libido is more of a high-normal. So she “fixes my problem” on days we don’t have sex. That means she stimulates my nipples as I pump my cock to cumming. And we have full sex every 3 or so days. My heart meds have reduced my libido some but certainly not completely.
LM, your exploits with your dearest Melody are truly inspiring to everyone here I’m sure. Love you guys!
CP, I know I’ve had variances in my drive at certain times. I think I’ve always been on the higher-drive side, but I’ve gone through some seasons of my life where I regularly orgasm multiple times a day. It’s a natural stress reliever and in and of itself, I don’t think it’s unusual.
On a different note, it’s nice to see you posting new articles! 😊
Thanks for your support and encouragement – and as I recall, you have a very active libido, too!!
CP- yes, I’ve been known to need sexual pleasure up to 7 times a day, though that’s not my average lol…
As a woman who may have a high sex drive as well (or at least, high masturbation drive lol), I partially understand. My issue is allowing it to consume too much time and thought when I need to be putting Christ and service to Him first. However, He is teaching me how to do that and integrate my pursuit of Him into my sexual exploration. If I have an opportunity for enjoying and learning more about my body and nothing else important is waiting to be done, I take it! Otherwise I may put it off or spend some time reevaluating my priorities; with my mental health continually going up and down, seeking the Lord's presence is my first desire and comfort, and that comes before any physical release, though that helps too. From what you've shared here, I think you're a blest woman who enjoys sex with her husband and masturbation with or without him. There are too many couples who aren't thinking that way, so you are a refreshing break from the pattern.
you are SO right, I do enjoy both … Can't get enough of him and my fav toys when he's away… and I have added a couple anal toys to the mix when I have the energy and peak horninesss to handle both!
As for your appetite for cock, CP, Vanessa and I used to have different schedules and I’d often be in bed before her. We had a mutual understanding that I was “free use” for her, and I didn’t mind her doing stuff for her own pleasure even if I had already gone to bed when she was in the mood. I have many nice memories of waking up to my hard, brown member in Vanessa’s mouth because she was craving it. So I don’t think it’s anything weird, probably just a sign of good health and that you are in tune with your body.
Oh, yes NS! I really still enjoy getting up early, fingering myself and doing some serious nipple play, then rolling over and quietly pulling his tool into my warm and juicy mouth. A real blessing in that his cock is a good 5" long when limp…I really enjoy my power and gift from God to suck him into his amazing fullness, the ride him slowly at first, then at a very fast pace! mmmm, thanks again!
Not weird at all, I think a lot about sex and about pussies, and I masturbate 2-3 times a day, for some reason I have a sex drive too.I don't know if MH allowed me to say that but I love the wetness of the pussy, I actually I had a girlfriend who would give me a hand job with her lubrication from her pussy, she would touch herself and with her wetness would poured out on my cock, it was so hot, I know it supposed to be on marriage. but it was so good.
the point is that that you're a blessing for your husband and it's actually every man's dream to have a wife who is horny all the time and ready for her husband!!
just keep enjoying your high drive sex. you words just gave me a hard on, I just going to have to 🍆💦🔥
mmm, thanks, very pleased to help! Hope my words will keep you horny and you will take it out on her when the opportunity presents itself!
Having a high sex drive is so good and I actually I love everything about the pussy, I would eat my future woman out and fuck her with my cock and finger fuck all day. during the work I also get hard for some reason we have a high sex drive, I work out a lot in the gym I don't know if that's the reason I am horny, I'm also in my 20s hopefully this horniness last in my 60s or 70s that would be so good!
Dear Creamy Patty,
You’re not a freak at all, sweetheart. I think about Master Joe’s cock all the time. Sometimes the ache for him is so strong I can hardly focus. Like you, toys fill the gap when he’s away, but nothing compares to the real thing.
I’ve recently discovered cock warming, and it’s changed everything for me. It’s something that squirrels itself into my mind and makes me feel deeply comforted. Last night we were watching a movie and I lay across his lap, just holding his cock in my mouth, a little like a thumb-sucking comfort. No thrusting, no hurry, just his weight and his warmth filling me. Every twitch against my tongue reminds me I belong to him. I could stay like that for hours, lost in him.
So no, you’re not too much. You’re simply honest about your hunger, and you’re not alone in it.
Love,
Lauren
Love you Lauren, and I have kinda done the warming thing, just didn't know there's a name for it…I relate quite a lot to you, by the way – you are a true hottie! I better not mention what Jim and I said to each other about you and Joe recently while in bed ….. 😉
Lauren,
That is a delightful thing that you do for your husband.
I have often longed for some "cock warming", but never knew there was a name for it. (And, sadly, I never knew there was a wife that would want to do it.)
Dear Patty.
This melted me. "I better not mention what Jim and I said to each other about you and Joe recently while in bed ….. 😉"
We love your discussions and stories to.
love
Dear TurnedOn47
Only discovered I enjoyed it so much about a year ago. When MJ and I started talking about our kinks, loves and hates, we discovered he enjoyed being held and as people now know, I will do anything to please my Master.
xxx
Obsessions can take on different behaviors from person to person. Here lately, I have been obsessed with viewing ladies online, some would say this is sin, some would not. I won't give details. But, I found I was behaving different than usual. Responsibilities I should be doing were starting to take a backseat. I didn't like that, so I took control, & changed what was happening.
Regardless, of what you do, or don't do, I would suggest you believe you can change, if you want. Wanting to is key, but belief is your super power.
I don't judge you Creamy. You & your husband are in it together. But, if it gets in the way of proper responsibilities, spreading the gospel, healthy relationships, or other things you know are proper then I would suggest your obsession get dialed back. I would not say one would have to stop something that is not a sin, altogether, but adjust it, tweak it, to fit correctly into your mind, & life.
Thanks for sharing. Praying for you.
Thanks for the solid advice Mister. It’s all about balance, but since hubby travels three weeks a month, and he’s home weekend’s, that makes for lots of masturbating and some very serious fucking when he gets home…
CP is he a truck driver or an airline pilot? It’s difficult to be a part from one’s spouse, but makes the reunions so much better!
Not weird at all! Being horny for your spouse is a good thing, and if you are horny for your spouse, acting on it is an even better thing!
Mrs. Tulsa has surprised me with blowjiobs while I was on a ladder, laying on a creeper, in the shower, or just sitting around on the back porch! I’ve been woken up in the morning and the middle of the night to find her with a mouthful of my cock!
It’s all good, and I love it, and I love returning the favor when she least suspects it too!
You two have a great thing going, would love to meet her and compare notes! Lol
Blowjob on a ladder, now that is hot. You're one lucky man who has a wife who enjoys giving blowjobs.
It sounds like you have a really incredible sex drive! Your appetite for cock I think is a really awesome and unique thing and it is not weird at all! I'm certain Jim loves that! I know I would!
Thank you for sharing and being open! I understand your struggle of feeling like a freak because of your high drive, it's really awesome that you have found ways to let yourself be who you are sexual and not hold that back. I often am worried I am too horny, too much, too sexual. I think about sex a lot, I am constantly thinking of fantasies and different scenarios with my wife, and seeing an attractive woman with nice features like tits or a really nice butt is very arousing, like ISOhorny said using that to redirect to thinking of my wife is great! Also, especially MH stories, they get my horny like crazy.
I know I probably could jerk off everyday if not more than that, but I hold myself back. It is really encouraging to know there are others with very intensely high sex drives like me!
Mmmm, ur my kind of guy! Keep hard and keep her craving it!
Thank you! I really appreciate that! I definitely will! The stories help a ton with the staying hard part! 😉
Your desire and hunger for cocks is not weird, it’s wonderful!! Plus, it’s clear that Jim’s cock is your cock to have and to hold and to . . . do all sorts of things to it!! I’m nearly 75 and still think a lot about the sexual beauty of my elegant, slinky sexy Anne. Attractive women can and do catch my eye and swell my cock. When I jack off, my joy and ecstasy is reflective of my love for Anne and my self pleasure. Keep jilling, my dear lady, and embrace your cock obsession!!
Thanks, I believe I will! Thanks for your remarks and believe me, I’ll keep killing…in fact I’m doing it now …
Hope came so good, CP!!!
Mmmm, I am embracing it now…and to answer your other comment, I did come VERY GOOD thank you…
Question, do you like all cocks? What size and shape does it have to be? Are you horny for your man's cock and does he feel better than your dildos.
Well, I'll just say that I may be a bit of an exhibitionist, in that I enjoy flirting and showing off when hubby and I are out and about (making some men hard) but nothing compares to the unique feel and taste of Jim's spectacular member. I love how it feels in my mouth – thickening and expanding in my mouth when I suck and in my creamy pussy when we fuck…Nothing else compares!
PS: I will say that there is practical use for my toys, especially those two that I use for anal pleasure – As I'm still not able to take in all of his meat that way, but I love it!
"Is my appetite for cock just weird?"
I hope not! And I don't think so. You might have a high drive, but it sounds to me like you're setting a good example for other women to follow in their marriages! 🙂
Thanks Faith, thanks to you and the others who make me feel so comfortable! In fact, I’m VERY comfortable right now…🔥
NS, I just may be breaking your seven daily urges today; It's just a little past 10:00 am here and I have already cum three times, once with hubby just now on a FT video call, and twice while just rolling around in bed reading MH items! I may update this later … Sure wish I had that big, thick, hard cock in all three places today, and add a good climax with a hard tit fuck between my 36 dd's…mmmm, have a nice day all….starting on number four soon, when my sister arrives!
CreamyPatty,
At age 67, some people might not expect this, but I still get the urge quite often. And, right now, I had awakened in the middle of the night with both a desire and a need to jack off. Your story and comments are helping — a lot. I'm glad to read that you enjoy getting tit-fucked. But, the "story" didn't have an ending — so to speak. So, I must ask (although I think that I already know the answer) — do you enjoy getting a cum facial at the end of enjoying getting tit-fucked?
Everyone say hi to my sis, barb… (is that allowed?)
[From MH: Sure, as long as there's no detailing or promotion of any behavior you know would conflict with our guidelines.]
Thanks
[…] Sharing hubby stuff and just enjoying the moment…update: just hit #5- lol!
[Edited by MH: Pretty sure we've been over this before: this is not the place to talk about involving family members in masturbation or other sex acts, even if non-physically. The rest is fine, but that crosses a line that conflicts with MH's mission to focus on the expression of sexuality in marriage.]
Hi, Barb! 😉
I think your high sex drive is awesome Patty, and every man’s dream! I was wondering if any woman on MH experienced a sharp drop in sex drive once menopause hit? HornyGG (now MamaGG), did you? And for those women that lost their horniness and desire, did it come back post menopause?
I actually think I was even more horny during my change, but I was just lucky my symptoms were mild. Thanks!
Hot Tamale…my wife just turned 45 and is starting her changes Sex drive is through the roof which is a good thing lol
Hi Barb!
(She’s gone now, but I’ll pass along your greetings!) I’m sure she’s tired now 😉
I think that is hot CP! As long as your sexual energy is directed at your largely endowed (5" limp? What is it hard?) husband, keep it up. I have a high drive too! I love women's butts and love looking at all of them. I love yoga pants and my wife looks amazing in them! I rub my member nearly everyday, but almost never to completion. My wife says I can when I need to, but I feel bad. She has a low drive and I dont think she ever masturbates, although I encourage her to.
Keep the stories and discussions cumming!
BS
Thanks, and you should follow through with your masturbation urges, especially with your wife's blessings! And, yeah, about seven inches, and very thick (that's what I love even more,,,)
Thanks CP. I will continue to think about it as well as talk with my wife about it.
Also, congrats on the thick 7 inches! I'm not quite as long or as thick (not too far behind though), but I think my wife enjoys what she gets to play with.
B S, give this to your wife:
https://marriageheat.com/2024/06/02/masturbation-as-sexual-purity/
Embracing her sexuality will lead to masturbation, leads to higher libido, leads to better sex life and relationship with her husband.
Don't be afraid to enjoy a good wank to completion, and share it with your wife, but she must be encouraging of it – your wanking, it would be harmful to be discouraging.
Hey, sweets, your favorite husband here. Just wanted to say that I'm loving the upbeat comments you are getting on your very accurate and personal post. This group of your admirers is thoughtful and high-energy. I'm truly impressed with their candid thoughts and confessions.
Now, as for you, I have often told you how much I love you and cherish your enthusiasm and ultra high sex drive. And if yesterday's FaceTime show is any indication, I know we're in for a very hot, long weekend as I'm home late tomorrow.
I'll be looking forward to your usual warm (mouth) welcome during the long ride home in the car. And don't forget to bring along that anal plug again. Love, Jim.
T O 47, thanks for thinking of me, and to be 100% honest, I prefer Jim's (substantial amount) of cum painted over my face more than anything…I think because the warm and creamy cum feels SO wonderful when he shoots, and he then smears it all around with the head of his cock and offers his juices back to my mouth so I can clean his shaft thoroughly. He also loves watching me transfer some of his cum from my cheeks and forehead to my nipples, and I cum very hard rubbing and twisting…whew! Glad you asked, guy! lol
Oh my!😄
CreamyPatty,
You might recall from my previous posts and comments that, due to a surgical error, I have not been able to shoot any cum for about 12 years.
Well, glory to God, that has just changed. It was only a tiny amount, but it happened. God has been slowly and gently healing certain aspects of my body recently, and so I knew that this moment was coming before long. Your reply to my question was an unexpected instrument of His healing.
Oh girl today is my day off and just masturbated 2 times and I spilled so much semen…
to your comments and how horny your pussy gets for your husband, I can imagine the sticky liquid coming out of your perfect pussy. your husband is really a lucky guy.
nothing to do with this topic but my girlfriend and I just broke up 2 months ago and I'm still sad with my hear bleeding just the way it ended. we have zero communication because we had a fight and she blocked me on all social media.
i thought I was going to marry her this year. she was 15 years older than me I'm 28.
masturbation has become my daily habit again during this time and reading horny comments like yours or other horny women, it's just amazing! thank you Patty!
So sorry about your situation guy, if you feel there’s any hope for the two of you, I urge you to skip the sex and communicate openly and honestly…
In the meantime, think as many positive thoughts as you can; and feel free to read any of my 20+ stories on this site if it helps.
Stay horny and hard my friend!
Well dear, I'm in my '60s and I still have a very high libido. After I had gone through menopause I came out on this side with a much higher desire for sex. And it seems that my attraction to women had stepped up as well.
So like, as you said you notice a man with a bulge, for me it's double whammy there are times when I will be with a girlfriend and who might not have any idea of the fact that I'm bisexual who unknowingly is driving me wild inside.
As I've mentioned many times here before my husband and I are able to openly discuss these things and quite often it winds up with me almost molesting him because of how horny I feel..
Is it weird? I don't think I would term it as that! What I would say is do you think about God as much as you think about sex? And this is a question for all of us and my husband and I have had the discuss this question all too often. Because when it's something in our lives that supplants are worship and adoration and time spent with God then it's a problem. And it's not just sex this can be any kind of thing that can become an addiction and in essence become our God.
When something comes around to which we devote our bodies to and our thoughts to and our desires to that is idle worship.
Our creator made us sexual beings for a reason he told us to populate the earth and who's going to want to have sex if it's not something you really like.
As a female I can tell you I've talked to many girlfriends over the years who don't have any libido at all and many others who just have very little libido. Many times it's because the husband's just a poor lover.
And it can be the other way around as well. A wife can be a poor lover as well. Your husband is blessed to have you. A woman who is not only of a high sexual nature but also dedicated to being monogamous to him. But the real question we all need to ask ourselves is whether or not it controls us or if we control it.
The beautiful thing about this site, is that believers have the ability to talk about sexual things openly. There are many friends that I have which I can't and again I have many girlfriends that I can talk openly with about sex. Here, you can ask a question like this to see if it's somehow out of line or others are dealing with the same things.
Personally, my feeling is I think it's weird when a person doesn't enjoy sex. But then again I'm not judging because we are all different and there is such a thing as being asexual. Paul talks about the fact that he's able to keep himself without a wife. So I believe that there are different people with different physical responses towards sex. And there is a reason for it.
The same reason that some can give birth and others can't. And I want a child can have a loving family, It may not be the family that brought her into the world but it will be a family that will love that person just the same as if they'd had.
And now again as usual I've said too much. However summing all things up.
1 where does our passion or addiction lineup as far as our passion and desire for God.
2 how does this passion or addiction line up in our relationship to a spouse?
3 does our passion or addiction cause us to hide things and lie? Does it still our time and money?
Are we consumed by it?
Anybody reading these things I think will realize what the answer should be and will recognize when they have a problem themselves.
The first thing to do is realize that you are here in a friendly atmosphere where you can admit these things and ask for guidance or prayer.
BUT DON'T GET RELIGIOUS.
In other words don't treat sex as sin if it's not controlling you it's a blessing from God. Enjoy it have fun with it and indulge your spouse in it or if you don't have a spouse indulge your body with your own pleasures, for millennia people have known the pleasures of sexual fulfillment and satisfaction. And now scientifically we know what happens within them mind and body the release of endorphins and dopamine that can enhance our well-being is also attached to these things.
The fact is most husbands pray for their wives to have a desire for their cocks the way that you do for your husband. Most husbands want their wives to be the vixens full of desire for them.
As many on here who have read my comments or stories no there was a time when I treated sex like it was something to be treasured and had only on special occasions. My mindset was such that I didn't create desire I suppressed it.
It took infidelity for me to actually see the need for change and looking back now all these years later I can tell you that I personally am much happier with the way we are now and the person that I am now then I
Was then.
The woman that I am now thinks about him during the day and acts on that and prepares for him when he comes home. The woman I am now prepares myself for him in anticipation of fulfilling the desires I have for him. The woman I am now greets him in lingerie at times slips my arms around his neck kisses him passionately and shows him how much I've missed him. Unbuckles his pants lowers to my knees and demonstrates my need for him.
The woman I am now rises up to his ears standing on my toes and whispers for him to take me hard. The woman who I am now text Joy and being bent over a countertop or an armrest feeling the fullness of him and voices my pleasure in words and moans and whimpers and cries.
The woman I am now knows that just because we had sex once doesn't mean that's all there has to be. The woman that I am now tells him about my day and listens to his, we include everything even the feelings that we've had of arousal and the woman I have now feels no judgment or jealousy or insecurity.
And the couple we are now are madly and deeply in love and love our sexual life.
Lady L 💋
Thanks for such a wonderful commentary. I feel similar is SO many ways! I very seldom discuss my "lez side" to anyone but Jim, who loves me to express it while he eats my pusssy…it's a huge turnoff for both of us. Sometimes we will be out and about and he will point out a beautiful woman and comment "Now, she would make an excellent third for our lovemaking." Of course it's fantasy, but I have explored it many times while masturbating, as I have when I remember my college roomie years ago.
Love you hot stuff – thanks again!
To47, Happy that you are cumming along with your ejaculation situation – even more pleased that my and Jim's sexual exploits have helped a bit.
To be honest, I LOVE hearing from men, and women, who have have obtained strong orgasms reading my comments…and I wish I could hear from them so I know what is most effective as a seductress! lol
Trust me you have no idea. 😉
Just keep telling us how you keep taking care of yourself and Jim.
Me, me, did I say me,
Your stories definitely hit the right spot with me.
L
xxx
Patty,
For me I like the dirty details that you include. The dirtier the better! Also, the honesty, openness, and JOY you write with is amazing. Above, the way you described his cum on you and what you did with it. Wow! I believe everything you say. I don't always agree with everything (like the sister thing, that may cross a line), but your enthusiasm for your sexual exploits is wonderful. I wish my wife and I had that.
To paint a better picture for us, what are you approximate ages if you dont mind me asking. My wife and I are around 40.
Thanks and keep it cumming!
BS
CreamyPatty,
Well, since you asked…. 😉
I'm much more turned-on by descriptions of a woman using her fingers than a toy. And, I'm a "detail guy". So, the more detailed the description, the more that I will enjoy it.
For example, your description of how you enjoy Jim rubbing his cum around your face with the head of his cock made me feel as if I would shoot my cum to the ceiling! I got to do that a small handful of times with my first wife. (A 16-year marriage, and only a handful of times. That should tell you something….)
And, regarding nipple play, I'm proud to report that I can give orgasms by sucking nipples. 😉
Wow this insight is so incredible! Thank you for sharing all of that! I pray my wife and I have this kind of sexual relationship one day when we are your age! I pray that she has these same desires for me one, just like my intense desire I have for her now!
I want her to deeply explore her sexuality when she is alone and with me.
I want to take her and eat her amazing vagina till she shakes.
Play with her clit till sees stars
Bend her over anywhere I can and fill her deep with my cock and do her so well she can't get enough.
I desire to make her cum so much and so well she finds herself drifting off during the day thinking about it!
Again thank you for sharing!
Thanks you guys and L … I am just taking a break for a short time to catch my breath and rest my mouth too! Jim has been home now for about four hours and we are destroying each other in bed … beginning with a warm, sloppy blowjob on the way home from the airport where I swallowed one of his biggest loads ever as he screamed and face fucked me like a starving man….
I can’t write more now as we are ready to read some stories to each other and screw slowly but deep. And he already has the lube ready for hole number three…and I’m craving it so much! Love u all.
Oh, we are both mid- fourties
Just stumbled over this site in search for a new stimulation for.. relaxing nicely.. and then!! your question..
I am doing it right now, and did already this morning, alone… and before that, with madame before she left for work..
Seems we have the same.. habits and.. lust there..
You already got it from so many other answers: you are certainly not a freak. For some people in our society, namely those who get frustrted for not living their life freely… you might be a freak. But as a human, certainly not.
And I can even add some 'scientific' (lol) findings to that: I started looking for sexting and scenari with real people for my own masturbation some time ago, as just porn and stuff got a bit lame.
Well, I think I am quite.. nice at waking the heat in ladies who chat with me (not pretending to be a super seducer – this happens quite rarely) but I can tell you for sure that over the last years, I virtually met sooo many women who masturbate, some of them a lot. And there are a few other insatiable out there haha.
So, no, you're more than normal and even more: very cool.
May I continue pleasuring myself while reading through your stories and statements? May I use you as my masturbation fantasy ?
I almust cum when I read the thing ybout your sister (even though I didnt see any detail 🙂 ) and will more certainly imagine the fantasy of imagining you picking up Jim again at the airport.. Just the other day a lady from this dating site told me having blown her man while driving.. And now you…
Nice 🙂
[From MarriageHeat: Our site focuses exclusively on sexual activities aligning with a Christian and biblically-based sexual ethic, which excludes "sexting" with people outside of marriage. While we allow the mention of such things for purposes of free and open discussion, we want to make clear that such "sexting" or "sex chat" conversations, and erotic descriptions of such conversations, are not appropriate on our site, and will be removed in our comment moderation process.]
Hi MH! Thanks for the heads up. Yes, yesterday I got probably a tiny bit carried away by the discovery of your site and my message might have been ambiguous.. This is also the reason I sent the second message in order to avoid misunderstandings. And, of course, while I will try to avoid you to having to edit anything, I will be OK – fully – if you feel something needs editing or removing. Thanks! Great website! Very helpful.
[From MH: We appreciate your understanding! Thanks! Welcome to the community, and we hope you have a fun and life-enriching time here. :)]
Hi, glad you are enjoying yourself, and if you can use me in your fantasy in order to prime your pump for use with your wife, you are welcome. With Jim and I, it's all about revving up our engines for awesome sex, and that includes observing our effects on others…
We are not into sexting others, but we do love FaceTiming each other in various stages of dress.
Keep it "UP" my horny new friend!
PS, re: my comment above.. I am married and all I described is about 'virtual' moments, as I never cheat on my wife… I have a strong sex drive which I seek at satisfying but can't even imagine touching another woman in real..
Good for you my friend, especially if she enjoys doing the same. Example: Try reading one of my stories to her while she's sucking your cock – it may just take your orgasms up a notch!!
Hej again and thanks for your – erectile lol – answer. As most men, I love feeling a good erection and you definitely contributed to it.
I am in Europe and it is evening here, I saw that you wrote in your own early morning.
Madame just left for a night shift but I can assure you that – yes! our orgasms were taken up a notch thanks mainly to you.. And she left with a good liquid souvenir of me (and, indirectly, of you guys and your stories) deep inside her (I always love the idea of her remembering our love making when it starts driping out at work.. She one day told me: it is delicious to then remember who's wife I am – I loved it)
And you might… enjoy the thought that we did almost exactly as you suggested… even though in an a little bit more intense way, so I found..
And it didnt happen while she had me in her mouth.. She had sucked me this morning and had found that I felt particularly horny.. I couldnt resist and tell her about having read here and giving opinions. She didt react first, and I ws afraid she might be upset.. But then she made a few discrete remarks over the day, insinuating she was horny because of what happened there… Us getting nice sexual moments enhanced by your texts, and us imagining you would get all… creamy by imagining us reading your words..
She even did something unusual… seducing me into bed just before leaving for her shift… she was very very horny and asked me to penetrate immediatly without any foreplay.. We made a few remarks (sorryyyyy… I know you'd like to know but I dont remember.. ) and when I felt my orgasm and her approaching, I just murmurred her… "you know they are watching us right now"…. She turned her face, some thought crossing her mind, she wanted to say something but then had this expression of utter astonishment and her orgasm hit..
She just texted me a few moments ago and asked… "Do you know what made me cum?… do you think… they would love to know we made it thinking of her swallowing him in the car.. do you think… Can you imagine… we did it at the same time and our thoughts travelled to each others… she would masturbated him while 'seeing' us here… Or do you think she would get creamy and do 'relax' with us in thoughts?… This is when I cum"..
So, well, not reading her one of your stories, but even stronger I'd say… being deep in our minds at the crucial moment.. having enhanced it and led to it.
I dint know you wrote other stories – which one would you suggest for the very situation you said?
Hey T &P, I’m pleased that you and your sexy wife enjoyed each other so much just fantasizing a bit while making love. With hubby away I really enjoyed your response. Well, I have 23 stories you can read, not sure which I would recommend to you … but the Cruise adventures was kinda cool.
Have fun and stay horny!
Hey there, new to posting any discussions. I don't think you to be a freak. Its normal to think about sex. I wish I knew if my wife thinks about sex or my cock anytime or all the time. I wear shorts that show my bulge and I hope to catch her staring at times, but I never am able to see her. I wear pants that show my hard on and I rub myself to get hard in the car so she can spot the bulge. I want her to either start playing with her self or reach over and take it. I wish you did not have to feel like you needed to masturbate 3-4 times a day, but as long as Jim knows about it and you invite him into the sessions sometimes. Maybe if he is enjoying the idea of you doing that, you can be sure to make him catch you some time. He would love that. I am always thinking about my wife masturbating and me walking in. You may be nuts about cock, but you are not strange.
Thanks, we both love the attention and we watch each other often. Nice shorts…
Hey Creamy 🙂
yes, thinking of all that spiced it up.. Over the last days again. I am writing you because it happened again this morning. We were again in one of these intense moments when ou rbodies are completely cuddled in each others. This time I was behind, spooning, and while taking her from behind, caressing her everywhere my (unfortunately only two!) hands allowed, I used my voice to add some up. She LOVES feeling ma breath brush against the back of her ear and neck, and so I murmured her details from your story, and that you and Jim would be watching us and that you would be masturbating just thinking of us.. That, strangely, made her so horny and thanks to you, her orgasm was stronger than usual.. 🙂 She told me afterwords picturing you, […] legs apart and your pussy being played with.. She told me having been surprised but completely caught up by your stories 🙂
About the stories, I didnt even come through to the 'cruise' stories you mentionned, as I got captivated by the car wash and water hose story. Before wedding, in my crazy times, ne of the things I so enjoyed was to discover the lust of my partners. Maybe been influenced by my mother who – after divorce with my dad – kept telling us about how only men like sex and women do it just for them – but when I started discovering women on my own, I found out a complete other story 🙂 And yes, seeing the lust of a woman, her deseire, her pleasure in taking and giving pleasure, fascinated me.
So I can just imagine those two guys looking at you while you masturbated, oups I mean, cleaned your car..
You asked yome interesting questions… whether your attitude showed what you were doind… or if the guys did notice something…
MAy I ask how long it all lasted? Was it kind of building up for several minutes during which you practically didnt move too much? Or was it rather quick?
So or so, I am quite sure the guys knew what was going on… Even if they didnt see your nipples poke, they defo saw your face and… your facial expression during eye contact… And it is impossible to hide an orgasm..
Btw, did you see some reaction in them, their gaze? Did you check for bulges ?
Can you describe what yourfacial expression would be during orgasm and how long does it remain after you cum?
So, me loving discovering lust, and see how it can completely overcome a woman… this story was fascinating and.. quite.. relaxing, as you would declicately say it
T&P, After thinking back to that afternoon, I can actually remember it in detail because it kinda happened organically, in that I didn't plan it and me being horny (creamy" most of the time, the sensation of the hose slapping against my pussy combined with the fact that I could actually feel the water pulsating thru the hose – it just kinda seduced me into a powerful, yet brief orgasms…
…and the only time I gazed across the other carwash bays was just before I was orgasmic…..I did notice two guys staring at me, each gripping hardons (no idea of the size) and I was unable to stop myself and I'm sure my hips were thrusting as the usually do pre-orgasm.
And I remember that I had a rare feeling of being embarrassed and so I jumped back in the car and headed out. I did look back to see them still watching me as I left….
I also noticed that my nipples were SO huge and hard that they begged for a little attention…
So, I obliged.
Again, I'm happy that my experience fed you guys a little horniness!
Hi Creamy..
well yes.. I am in Europe and not absolutely fluent in the finesses of your languages, but I kind of understood that creamy is a … state in which you are quite often. I love the analogy to the wetness, highlighting – but please correct me if I'm wrong – that unless other women I met before marriage, and sometimes my wife, you seem to be wet when horny, right? This adds to the charm of your stories.
I read your response to my wife when we had coffee after she came home. No, I won't pretend we fucked immediatly on the spot.. we both had things to do but just as she left for shopping, she murmured me something like 'will you read me the story at the carwash again later… and maybe we can… develop on it?..'
And, well.. it is 21:00 (9pm, for you americans lol) and she went to vosot a friend and will come home soon so I will be happy to oblige and let you know..
I will also be happy to include additionally details.. I will invent some… She will as well.. But yours, the real ones, are of course the ones turning us on. Just like Jim and you like the stimulation provided by our feedbacks here..
Again, apologies for my not always neat English.. When you said your hips were thrusting, what does that mean? That they were like, how to say – making fucking movements? Can we imagine the hose, additionally to the vibration of the pulsating water, rubbing your sex through this movement?
This must have been hot to see and completely… making sure the guys knew what was happening..
When you say they were 'gripping hard on'.. what does gripping mean?..
But, so, you saw their.. excitement? Did it add to your own excitement? Do you fell you cum stronger from that?
Knowing my wife and her… affinity to car entertainment… We will probably go this way… She will want to imagine her fleeing thescene in her car while I stimulate her… When you said your nipples were SO huge.. bigger than usual? And how do you gve them attention?
Also – I can guarantee that in madame's fantasy, she will … relax… directly in the car. But you, you did it only when at home, no ?
One little question… Is Jim on business trip or reading this with you? If he is there (or even if you just ask him…) please say hi 🙂 and then… what details would he add? I am sure that if I add a male voice out of nowhere adding to your own story telling… it will have madame .. well you know
T&P, as much as I would love to keep you two motivated, I must remind you that this Marriage Heat platform is not meant to be a private email vehicle… your offerings here should be directed to all – and they will all welcome your input.
It seems you have managed to translate my writings very well…and yes, my name cums from my pussy juices, and the thrusting in to that pulsating hose was my clit getting off in a big way.
Thanks again, and heed my advice concerning one on one chatting.
(MH: first time for everything, ‘eh…imagine me censoring! lol)
[From MH: Thank you for your awareness and consideration, Patty! 🙂 And yes, to echo what Patty said, while we do allow discussions and conversations, we do ask that comments not devolve into extended one-on-one chats about topics unrelated to the original post. It's rarely beneficial for the mission of our site, and has a high potential to be used for purposes not aligned with our mission and values.]
MH, any problem with my latest story submission?
[From MH: We have quite a backlog of stories in the queue, so we probably just haven't had a chance to schedule and edit it yet. Thanks for asking though. We'll check on it when we get a chance!]
hey Creamy and MH, all good.
Didnt intend to do the one on one thing. I might post an own story or topic, just wouldn't know what… this is why I let myself get inspired by some like minded spirits 🙂
[From MH: Sure! We always welcome stories and discussion topics! However, we do have a long queue and wait time at the moment, because we have a lot of submissions, so it will probably take several months to get through the process and get published.]
I will keep avidly reading but not answer to Ms Creamy. Keep everyone comfortable !
Will go have a look right now !
And thanks for this quite unique platform!
[From MH: Thanks for being respectful of our guidelines! Please don't feel like you can't chat at all with other members, just try to keep it relevant to the topic of the post you're commenting on, and keep the discussion focused on the beauty of marriage. 🙂 ]
Hey, keep me in the loop, I love hearing how I "motivate" readers, and I love the juicy details….keep it hard and her happy!!
Hey CP. Nothing wrong w craving cock all the time. My wife is the same exact way especially now that she just turned 45. Like 10 years ago we were lucky to do it 1nce a week…to now where she is constantly craving cock and i constantly want her pussy tits and ass.
Mmmmm, Giant, now you have got my creamy juices flowing! Congrats on your improved sex life, hope I contributed!
Hej Creamy, yeah I would keep you in the loop, but don know how to do this 'loop' haha.. Am a bit confused on how to "keep it relevant" to the topic, and also how to 'chat with other users' but to which degree 🙂 Am very happy about contributing to other's marriage sex and to spice up my wife's and mine through this site, but I don't really know how to, without overstepping 🙂
Keep it juicy and creamy yourself! All the best 🙂
A comment like this is perfect. Commenting on a story I have written is perfectly appropriate, especially if you get specific about what you liked the most, as oftentimes it pulls in readers with similar opinions and desires.
For example, one of my stories during a hurricane down here mentions the fact that Jim and I may have been caught having sex (or, spied on) by my brother in law. Did you think that was hot? Give you a hardon you had to stroke? That’s cool my friend…
Creamy, I think you're quite normal. My wife and I are the same and she even loves other women's boobs too – so we're always getting aroused by cocks, pussies or tits but we just end up masturbating or fucking each other because of it
Ah, that’s the way! As long as you two are honest and secure with your fantasies, you well stay wet and hard! Awesome!
We made the decision to always be honest Creamy. It's when one starts to hide things, even innocent things, that trouble starts.
Thanks for your message!
By the way, one of our fantasies is to see women masturbate… […]
Lots of love!
[Edited by MH: Revealing and discussing fantasies like this is fine, but we do ask that comments not communicate sexual interest toward other MH members (including the viewing of sexual acts). We try to maintain a safe and respectful environment for all members, and some members, readers, and potential members would understandably be off-put by such comments. We hope you understand!]
Creamy, I see my wife's and my comment was edited with a part removed, but we hope you could connect the dots as it were :p
Yes, I follow what you mean, now, you must follow the rules and make general remarks as opposed to private ones addressed to me. MM rules are reasonable and protect full – and I should know, having broken most of them! Lol
I think I will continue breaking the rules, even if by mistake at least. I will always speak as I see fit, but it's never to offend anyone. The thing is, rules won't stop us from wanting to interact with each other on a personal level, I think trying to stop that is foolhardy.
[From MH: We don't expect everyone to follow the rules perfectly, especially if you're new around here! But we do ask that you make an effort to do so to the best of your ability. And of course, you may speak as you see fit, but we may also moderate as we see fit. We do allow the discussion of opinions that differ from that of the site leaders, but we also have certain boundaries in place to keep things in alignment with our mission of promoting "hot monogamy", and to avoid letting the focus drift from that mission.
We're not at all against personal interaction, either! Community interaction is a vital part of this site! We just want to make sure that those personal interactions remain appropriate. Of course, each person has a different standard of what they believe is "appropriate," including our moderators and admins, and so moderating certain comments and stories can be a subjective call. That's especially true because the wording and tone of comments play a big part in the appropriateness of something.
For example, a comment like this would usually be appropriate:
"Wow, that's hot! What a beautiful scene that must have been! I'm sure your husband would enjoy that view. I sure would if my wife did that for me!"
But a comment like this, between two people who are not married, would not be appropriate:
"Wow, that's hot! I wish you were my wife so I could watch you and then do some other things… ;)"
One keeps the boundaries of marriage clear, while the other one starts to blur them.
We do our best to allow all members their freest possible expression, but we also want to maintain a sharp contrast between this Christ-focused space and all the other misuse of sexuality that resides online. For that reason, we'd frankly rather err on the side of overzealous protection than lax licentiousness, though we do our best not to err to either side. Even if you disagree on the specific places where the boundaries have been drawn, we hope we can agree that the aim is worthwhile.]
To illustrate my above remark Creamy, you stated in another reply in this article that a comment from another user got your 'juices' flowing. That is, even if indirect, a personal remark between two users. I of course have no problem with what anyone says, but what I was trying to say above is that if one had to use indirect means instead of direct, it's just dishonest, and for me that's not protecting anyone really, but these are just my thoughts
[From MH: That's fair! We're not trying to force comments to be indirect—that would be rather silly—we're just trying to keep them appropriate. See our more expansive reply to your previous comment for a clarification of our position and aim.]
To MH: I'm not sure I agree that the aim is wholly worthwhile, just because I think it promotes a dishonest, sly speaker. If I may explain: I we're all honest here, or if most of us are, we want o personally interact with each other. This doesn't mean we want to be adulterous (my redacted comment never referenced any extramarital), but because we're all here because we're horny, we want to interact. Now don't you think it's a bit sly to constantly word oneself in a passive light just to get a response equally passive but nonetheless "directed" towards another user? Why is the honest and direct man being chastised? When you become overzealous to protect a rule then you become no better than a Pharisee. If the concern here is that another's words are going to negatively impact "Christian monogamy", then you've got a lot more to worry about than a commenter.
Thank you for your thoughts. We'll respond point by point here to explain our perspective.
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"To MH: I'm not sure I agree that the aim is wholly worthwhile, just because I think it promotes a dishonest, sly speaker."
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We hear the concern about driving comments "underground" so to speak, and making them more sneaky. It's a valid point. However, just as the sneaky use of illicit drugs doesn't mean they should be fully legalized, the fact that this policy may push some commenters to be sneakier about their comments doesn't mean the right move is to more openly allow content that we deem inappropriate for our site or in conflict with its mission.
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"If I may explain: If we're all honest here, or if most of us are, we want to personally interact with each other. This doesn't mean we want to be adulterous (my redacted comment never referenced anything extramarital), but because we're all here because we're horny, and we want to interact. Now don't you think it's a bit sly to constantly word oneself in a passive light just to get a response equally passive but nonetheless "directed" towards another user? Why is the honest and direct man being chastised?"
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As we explained in a separate reply, we're not against personal interaction. We encourage certain kinds! The whole reason this site exists is so that people (primarily Christians) can interact personally but anonymously, for their mutual encouragement on matters of sexuality. However, we also discourage and/or disallow certain other kinds of personal interaction that we deem to be inappropriate, mostly identified by things that take the focus off of marriage. Admittedly there are tough and subjective calls that have to be made sometimes, but we believe it is a worthwhile and necessary step in order to preserve the environment we have cultivated here.
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"When you become overzealous to protect a rule then you become no better than a Pharisee."
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We agree with that principle and the caution against it, but do not believe it applies here. One key difference is that Pharisees claimed to be speaking for God in the rules they made. But we are not religious leaders. We are a private group who happens to belong to a certain religion. There's a big difference. We're not requiring that people follow certain rules in order to be right with God. We're requiring that people follow certain rules in order to be part of a private, voluntary association.
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"If the concern here is that another's words are going to negatively impact "Christian monogamy", then you've got a lot more to worry about than a commenter."
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We allow plenty of opinions that differ quite significantly from the beliefs of those on the administration team. We're not overly concerned about people being led astray by differing opinions that we disagree with. Our concern in this particular area is more about creating as welcoming an environment as possible.
Our mission is to reach Christians (and others) with the message of the deeply beautiful and erotic nature of married sexuality, countering both the secular world's self-destructive licentiousness, and the Christian world's self-destructive sexual repression. To reach those people who have been told lies about sex—especially those on the hyper-conservative side—we need to keep as welcoming and as inoffensive an environment as possible. Those who are tentatively exploring and opening up to the possibility of throwing off religious sexual repression need a gentle, minimally-offensive introduction to that exploration. If they're on the fence about joining and interacting here, they could easily be turned away if they start having the wrong kind of comments directed at them.
For example, imagine a wife who has been married for 20 years and has a couple teenagers with her husband. They have sex maybe only once or twice a month, and even then it seems like a chore, and she knows her husband can feel she's not into it. At some level, she has believed the implied message that she got as a kid at home and at church that sex was dirty, and engaging in it made HER dirty and frowned upon by God. But now she's challenging some of those beliefs, and searching the internet for Christian resources to help her find what is true. She stumbles across MarriageHeat, and is shocked to find CHRISTIANS, of all people, celebrating sex in all its beautiful and erotic detail! She starts to think that maybe, if other Christians are so unashamedly celebrating it, and moreover offering biblical references for why it is a good thing, made and approved and celebrated by God himself, then maybe she can learn to embrace it more too! But what if on one of the first stories she reads—maybe about another wife learning to let her inhibitions go and embrace and enjoy sex with her husband—what if there was a comment from a random, strange man saying something like this?
"Wow, girl, you sound hot. I can imagine your big boobs. I'm going to jack off thinking about you tonight. I'm going to imagine myself in your bedroom, stripping you naked and having my way with you all night."
Now, if a HUSBAND said that to his own wife, that would be completely appropriate. But if a total stranger online said that to a woman he's not married to, a shy wife just learning to come out of her shell would understandably be put off by that. She'd probably think, "She's MARRIED! Why is this total stranger talking about having sex with someone else's wife? Am I going to get those same gross comments directed toward me if I post here about my own journey?"
In addition to basic social propriety, our aim is to keep that kind of thing off our site so that we can be welcoming to those who are new to embracing sex in a positive way. In other words, we want to be gentle with those whose sex-exploration journeys are new and fragile. (Similarly, this is also partly why we put tags like (A) and (L) and content warnings at the top some stories—so that people can filter out some of the more intense content that they perhaps prefer not to read.)
We won't claim our approach is perfect. It's an ongoing balancing act, and we are always open to ways to improve our guidelines. (In fact, we've been hoping to update them for better organization and clarity at some point, it's just hard with a small volunteer team with limited time.) But these policies have served our site and our community very well for many years, and helped us remain a unique place. For those reasons, we stand by them.
Most of us like the way things are here on MH. I’ve been around a long time and there’s always somebody trying to push the boundaries and bulldoze the guidelines.
MH is a refreshing way to share in the very private lives of likeminded individuals and couples. There just isn’t anyplace else where Christ-centered monogamy can be shared and celebrated the way it is here.
I think it’s a blessing and do not wish to see it disturbed.
For those seeking something more, there are places that cater to more licentiousness desires. Here, those desires are an uncomfortable distraction; adding nothing to the reason we visit MH or edifying our brothers and sisters in Christ.
Jim and I are now discussing the MH and Erect discourse here….then got very busy. BTW, Jim feels the MH person commenting must be "vey hot." So there's a compliment for you… CYA, getting busy again …
[Haha, thanks. Have fun!]
You’re not at all weird, Just one of those marvelous women who enjoy God’s gift of sexual desire for her husband. I myself love looking at and then turning my desire toward my wife. When I see distinctive out lines of a women’s vagina through her clothes and firm breast. I turn this lust toward my wife or when she’s not in the mood masturbate thinking of ejaculating on her pussy and licking her clit. So the desire you have I’m sure your husband loves especially if you masturbate in front of him. I love watching my wife use a nice size dildo and vibrator to climax. Love seeing her pussy cream on that dildo, and licking it all off after she comes. So enjoy the strong urges but as God planed turn those desires for cock to your husband.
ok then, I give it a try and please, bith Creamy and MH put me right on track in case comments are not aligned 🙂
I seem to be not real intelligent enough : I still can't find a full list of your stories!!! Is it Ok if you show me the link (on this website of course) with all your stories?
And yes, they are … motivating.. Both when I am with my wife, and also alone. I read some of your comments and get excited just by thinking of what you describe, and almost even more imagining how intense it will be sharing the moment with my wife.
Yes, I would probably get a hard on while reading your hurricane story. Voyeurism, while not something I did, is a taboo adding some spice and intensity to masturbation fantasy.
But in this case the inverted question would be so interesting: what did it make YOU (Jim and you) to find out your brother in law might have seen you or even observed you? Did it add some thrill afterwards? I suspect you talked abotu it with Jim
To find an author's page with all of their stories, just scroll to the top of the page on a story they posted (like this one). Their name should appear just under the title of the post, and you should be able to click on it. It should take you to a page that lists all of their posts.
Look at the top of the MH home page. To the right, under the main headings is a search box, enter my name, Creamy Patty, there.
Your contents here are fine – and the question you asked will be answered…
Keep it hard, and using [my stories] to get horny for your wife is the name of the game…
And if you're alone, feel free to "use" [my stories] for a fantasy, but be sure to include your wife.
MH: What's the best way a reader can access all of my stories? Not sure I know, other than the search box…
[From MH: PatientPassion's suggestion above is probably the simplest way: just click on the author's name at the top of one of their posts.]
Well said KM and (is it) Missy? [From MH: Actually it was PatientPassion who wrote up that long response. Hi! 🙂 I take care of a good chunk of the comment moderations these days.]
Anyway, all I know is, to tell you the truth, MH keeps me creamy and horny in the absence of Jim – and when he's here, like this past weekend, our "Oral Hour" where we read to each other while servicing each other, I am pleased with the format, but I guess I am one who always tends to stretch the limits, (pardon the pun)!
I can think of at least three things that Jim could “stretch” for you, and they would all be fun to read about 😉
I love that marriage family loves these kind of topics, now we know that you love your husband's cock and that is a good thing. now as a man I ask, is it weird for me to have s strong desire for pussy, weather I fuck it with my cock or eat it with my mouth and tounge? I just love the taste of a wet pussy and I also love fingering when she is so wet and mouning and screaming of pure pleasure, am I weird my longing for pussy?
If you are wrong, then my hubby should be locked up! lol
Pussy, ass, feet, mouth, tongue, breasts…Well, there’s my obsessions 😂
Well, since you mentioned it KM, Over the past two years, Jim has actively worked on making my (no other way of saying it) asshole more user friendly for anal, which I have learned to appreciate VERY much now, to the point where I always experience a more intense orgasm than ever before while be hammered hard from behind while I reach under and work my pussy and clit as he firmly grabs each breast for max leverage.
So, in that sense, he is very much stretching me, as I do alone at times like these … mmmm …
Ooo, do tell 😉
…Oh, and say hi to Missy – tell her I'm thinking about her – and PatientPassion 😉
Sorry, KM, If I told you all the creamy details I know it would never survive editing….(see, MH, I do have at least a little filter!)
I think about my husbands cock all day
Very nice, like my Jim, he is a lucky guy! I'm wondering if you do what I do at times while thinking about his delicious cock! 😉
Hello CreamyPatty, lol cant believe I just typed that. Just wanted to say thank you for sharing your sexperiences with your husband to us. As far as your question is concerned of is it weird, my response is of the following:
1. Thank to brave women who are godly too, like you, single men like me have hope to know God did not create women as sexless robots, or sexless humans, in a world that presents traditional women as abnormal & immoral ("pro-sex") women as normal.
2. I have done an extensive amount of research with the help of the Holy Spirit, and came to the conclusion, lead by him, that it is as normal as a man's attraction to the body of a woman. We men think about some sexual thing or the other, throughout the day, or somewhat, depending upon our health & worries.
3. I think that your desires of thinking about penis/dick all the time, is vastly coz women like you, who happen to have a strong sex drive, are rare, and that is one thing that I find incredibly beautiful in women who actually happen to be like, than those who pretend for mere validation.
4. I think as a previous user said, if it helps you to be grounded in faith & marriage, then all the more power to you, but if it costing you your faith & marriage with sinful venues, then no, self-control & carrying the cross is the only viable option to protect what good you have from God.
5. I want personally thank you for your honesty, as your post here, had encouraged me, to keep believing in God's promptings, rather than sins promptings and lies in thoughts & suggestions.
6. I hope the Lord blesses me with a woman who is having a high drive like you, not just for the sex, but for the beauty of such a creation, and the nurturing loving attention required for such wonderful women.
Women who are not like that, are beautiful too, just differently.
7. I sympathize with women who have a higher drive, only because the Church still does not quite understand that, and women in the Church who are not having a high drive, tend to make distasteful remarks towards the same. I would rather defend such women with high drives, & hope that God blesses them, their co-operation with God's Spirit matters to receive that.
Again thank you so much for sharing your joys with us. Shout out to BigDick (your man 😉 XD ) Have fun, God bless.
Well, Cam, what a beautiful and thoughtful commentT Thanks for your sincerity and I wish for you nothing but the best with your future partner; may you have a life enriched with great sex together as well as the passionate togetherness it affords you two.
There are plenty of horny women out there, so happy hunting!
And I'll give Jim an extra little tug on his balls the next time I suck him off, in remembrance of your comment! LOL
Great to have a high sex drive. I have and need to pleasure my self at least twice a day. Unfortunately my wife dosent lucky if I get her once a month but great when we do.
Norstar: Just keep on working on your sex relationship; these are tough times and pressure definitely puts a crimp on lovemaking plans.
Keep on stroking and be sure to devote time for her needs.
Thanks creamypatty I will definitely keep on stroking and trying to make time for wife it’s hard with kids with additional needs though. Either knakered or caring. But going time for me always. Just need to get another naughty night away. Mm.
I found an article reviewing a book, "The sex lives of medieval women" by Dr Eleanor Janega.
"They (women) were once considered far more lascivious than men – so how did women become the meeker sex?"
"Medieval historian Dr Eleanor Janega (words of the reviewer, Rachel Cunliffe) For while writers, thinkers and Church leaders in the Middle Ages did believe the sexes were different, it was obvious to them that it was women, not men, who were obsessed with sex. “European society has a far longer tradition of women as sexually rapacious than our newly agreed upon idea of them as frigid,” she points out. Something for the trad wives to consider."
– I liked the comment of the reviewer's last sentence – that "trad wives" should be "sexually rapacious".
Rachel Cunliffe: "Janega delivered an account of medieval attitudes to the female libido that echoed those I’d encountered studying the classical world: sex was messy and chaotic and overpowering, so it was natural that weak and poorly formed women would be more easily swayed than men, who were the ideal humans – at least according to Aristotle. (That’s why any self-respecting Athenian man should lock up his wife and prevent her from leaving the house unaccompanied, lest she be overcome with lust and commit adultery.)"
– Dr Eleanor Janega, above is referring to Christian Medieval Europe. A time and culture when religion was part of every aspect of their daily lives, when adding Rachel Cunliffe's comment about the classical world. I question as to whether "obsessed" is the right word, and that it is what was and should be normal for a woman's libido. Why is it now low in many women? Often we see husbands wishing their wives had more sex drive. That does not appear to have been an issue of women in Christian Medieval Europe and before.
– So regarding appetite for cock?
In regard to the above. I'd say it is weird for a woman not to have an appetite for cock.
Nor do I think masturbating 3-4 times a day is unusual either, although it is more than most women nowadays in the western world.
Here is a question, what should be normal?
That’s interesting, and I feel like in times past that sex was more important and more celebrated due to culture not repressing it so much.
In our modern world, it’s “Good girls don’t do that,” and men are seen as a problem that must be contained or controlled, even in the marriage, especially with regards to their sex drive.
I’m not pushing perversion in any way, but I believe sex is designed to have a much larger role in marriage than is commonly accepted or practiced.
In many cases I have seen, sex is used as a tool to secure a relationship early on, then dismissed as an unnecessary aspect once the children have been born.
Very insightful Kingdom Man, and as I guess you know, I am one to stretch the limits (literally 😉 and I agree with you!
Happy wife fucking to you!