Dildo Opinion
I’m asking for input from the MH followers on a toy purchase.
We are going on a vacation at the end of November and I was think of purchasing a dildo that can stick to the wall to surprise the wife. We don’t have anything like this in our collection. She doesn’t mind doggy style when we have entertained that position. My questions are as follows:
#1 What length should I purchase? (I was thinking around 7″ with 5 1/2″ of it being insertable.)
#2 If you have used a toy like this, can you really tell the difference between the dildo and a real penis?
#3 Should the purchase look as lifelike as possible, or does that not matter?
#4 Should the dildo have a place for a bullet vibe to add to the pleasure?
I’m anxious for the feedback! I have been looking online and there are many options, and I don’t always trust the reviews that are posted.
Thank you!
I have just bought my wife her first dildo….shes had vibrators since before we were married but never a dildo. It took a while but I managed to find the perfect one on the first try. Look for something soft and smooth, for her first dildo .i don’t think life like is really that important. the size you’re thinking is fine for a first toy. I ended up going with the LOVE TO LOVE DILDOLLS – UTOPIA and she loved it.
I’ll check those out 😊
We bought a couple of suction cup dildos, both as close to my real deal as possible! Probably the most fun, was when we both sat in front of the computer, and measured my 'insertable length' and girth, to get one as close as we could! We got off on a tangent, inserting my insertable length before we got anything ordered! 🙂
The one she prefers, silicone. It's softer, and closer to how I feel in her, but still not the same she says. Good, but not as good.
She prefers lifelike ones. Says they feel, well, more lifelike, besides looking more lifelike! They are better than the smooth ones!
If Mrs. Tulsa uses a dildo while she's alone, she almost always uses a vibe too, and the bullet vibe is the easiest to maneuver. I found her one afternoon, dildo stuck to the top of the weight bench. She was straddled over the dildo, slowly romping up and down on it, as she buzzed her clit with the bullet! Her O was a powerful one! So was mine! All that action forced me to jack off on her tits!
We haven't found one, that has a built in vibe hat hits the right spot when using it. We always use a dildo and a separate vibe, again, usually a bullet.
A suction cup dildos are also great to use while I give her oral. I can hold it by the suction cup, and slide it into her G-spot while I lick her clit! Always gives her a fantastic O.
Good luck, & have a lot of fun!
I never thought of the last option GREAT idea !!!
Tulsa,
QUOTE: "We got off on a tangent, inserting my insertable length before we got anything ordered!"
I got a chuckle out of that. Bravo!
Make sure that you measure the girth, also. (Or, better yet, have her measure it for you.) Both of my ex-wives said that my dick was too thick to fit in their mouth, although the first wife sometimes did it anyway. I have a couple of nice visual memories of that.
Wifey here- we just bought our first and I love it! We bought the “ Adam & Eve Sunset Dreams Dildo” it’s the perfect size has a strong suction at the end. It’s also easy to grip when I’m going for solo use but also great for couple use.
I’m definitely checking that one out for an option. Thanks for your input
Our suggestion is do it together. Look online and see what she likes and what interests her because she will be the one using it.
Lady L. ❤️💋
I would LOVE to do that but if I were to suggest it she wouldn’t do it & say save the money. I have purchased all of her toys & only 1 I threw out. Once she has them it’s ok.
Cindy here. I love dildo talk, she’s going to thank you so much for the new toy.
#1 this depends. Most of my dildos are around Cal’s length. So pick a toy similar in size to you. In my opinion.
#2 yes. A real cock is always better than a toy, again some women disagree but rock solid cock wrapped in soft skin is impossible to beat. But I still use plenty of toys and gush all them
#3 This is a style and/or roleplay preference. If you guys want to rp a mfm get lifelike. If you want to save her from the monster, get a monster toy. I prefer realistic dildos with mushroom heads.
#4 no. Hold it yourself, daddy. But again it’s a preference.
Smile58, have you thought about making a copy of your own cock? I made a copy of mine a few years back by using a kit called – Clone a Willy. It was really fun to make together and I like having it around for her to use if she wants the “real” thing sometimes. It doesn’t come with a base mount but maybe you could rig something up to mount it for her.
That’s different I’ll check out the website
From a husbands perspective, i purchased my wife a Johnny vixskin dildo. It is supposed to be very realistic and while i love seeing her use it, her biggest complaint is the “drag” or stickiness of it. I have to admit even with considerable lube it still irritates her and she isn’t eager to use it for that reason. We have ordered and just received a comparable sized glass dildo and I am looking forward to us trying it soon. I can tell by the feel, that is is going to slide very easily, so i am glad it has veins for texture. I like it to be realistic looking, but i think my wife will appreciate the clear glass better. For the sake of novelty, i appreciate a toy that is larger than me but i would also caution against going too big too fast.
I’m still leaning to something that can be attached to a surface at this point. Please share with us the results of the glass toy.
our experience in using insertable glass toys is : pay attention to the temperature of the toy.
Glass dildos / toys can be placed in warm water ( be careful not to get it too hot) before use.
This makes them much more comfortable upon insertion, & lube allows for very smooth movement.
Then again, you can get your kink on by experimenting with different temperatures.. a cold one could provide a quite different experience..
My Melody has preferred vibrators that can be inserted. Her favorite is the Vedo Gee G spot vibrator. It can be inserted all the way inside her pussy. Then she can use a bullet vibe on her clitoris. We have a bigger vibe that we call “the silver bullet” but it definitely is way bigger than most bullets bc it is 8 inches long and 1.25 -1.5 inches in diameter. When she’s in the mood for it it’s fun to “fuck”Melody with that vibe as part of foreplay!
Start off with something not too big or daunting for your wife but not small either. I would suggest a 6 inch dildo and then work your way up. My wife has several in all different sizes but she is a size queen now and loves the thick one
Do any of these have a suction base & does it work on various surfaces?
The bigger ones do but we don't use the suction cap. I know they do on tiles though as I may of sent my wife a little message with the dildo stuck on the bathroom tiles.
First and foremost make sure your wife is ok with a dildo. I have a friend who is ok with vibrators but phallic shaped objects weird her out (except her husband of course).
Maybe bring it up casually or send her a link to one from a respectable online store and asks what she thinks.
#1 What length should I purchase? (I was thinking around 7″ with 5 1/2″ of it being insertable.)
–Every woman is going to have different length and girth preferences. If I'm in the right mood, and after a glass of wine, my husband can fist me. Other times the size of his member is too much. Maybe go off of your penis length–does your wife ever have trouble fitting you in? If no then go with whatever your size is, maybe a little bigger. If your going for the suction cup doggie (which I highly recommend) then you will want something longer. Find one that is your girth but longer so she can back into it.
#2 If you have used a toy like this, can you really tell the difference between the dildo and a real penis?
–I have several of all types: plain looking dildo, real veiny penis, dragons. They all have different textures depending on my mood. Sometimes I just want to hold something smooth inside of me while using the vibe on my clit. Other times I want my husband to slam the big bad dragon deep into me with all it's ridges and textures. It just depends on how I'm feeling that day and how much time we have. Sometimes my husband and I roleplay with the life-like penis dildo and pretend we are having a 3-some with another man.
#3 Should the purchase look as lifelike as possible, or does that not matter?
Some women are ok with a dildo as long as it doesn't look too realistic and others they don't care. It depends on her comfort. She is not going to enjoy it if she is icked about a real veiny penis looking thing. Again, talk to her and maybe send her a link. Or even better: send her 3 different types and ask her to choose one.
#4 Should the dildo have a place for a bullet vibe to add to the pleasure?
–That's up to her. For me I like a vibe on my clit and the dildo to be non-vibe. The texture inside me is what makes the dildo great. I like being able to adjust the vibrations on my clit as my needs change throughout the session. Maybe you should get a bullet vibe and that gives her the option to use it.
Good luck!
Your input will be quite helpful & I understand what you are saying that certain moods require different toys. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me.