Swallowing The Juice- Help Needed!

Hi, Everyone! I am new to Marriage Heat and have been reading and commenting for about a month now. Let me first say, I am continually amazed by all of you! And I am so proud to call you my brothers and sisters in Christ! Thank you a thousand times over for letting me be a part of your little “family” here on MH! In His great grace, our Heavenly Father has used this website to renew my relationship with my husband and my sexuality in ways that I had not even imagined. And He’s not done yet, so keep ’em cumming! Lol

I’m not here to share a story. I hope to sometime soon, but I am in need of help, and I thought asking you all would be a much better idea than “surfing the internet” for the answer! I went into my marriage with a wrong view of sex in general and my sexuality in particular. My sweet husband has been so tender and helpful in this area, but I know it’s sometimes hard for him when I say “No. I can’t do that” when he asks if we can try something. He has never gotten upset or angry or denied me anything when I don’t “experiment” with him, and I am so thankful to him for that. With God’s help, I am becoming more and more comfortable with my sexuality, and I’m becoming more excited about trying new things. However, there is one thing that I cannot seem to bring myself to do, and that is swallowing his cum. Whenever I give him blowjobs, I take my mouth away when he’s near climax and let him “let loose” on my chest or my hands or anything other than in my mouth. I feel so sorry about that! He knows my struggles, so he doesn’t say anything, but afterwards, as we drift to sleep, I beat myself up every time. Whenever he eats me out, he will eat it all, and he loves it! And I love the feeling, especially knowing that he likes it. But, no matter how hard I try, I cannot swallow his juice. I end up gagging and then feel sorry and then, of course, the mood isn’t quite the same. Ha.

Our wedding anniversary is coming up, and I would so love to be able to swallow his cum with excitement and show him that I love it and that I love him and everything about his incredible body! My question is, is there a way to, I don’t know, make it taste better? Or get used to the texture? I have no idea, and I’m embarrassed even asking because most of the women on this site write that they swallow their man’s juice and lick up the drops that got away. I find that sexy and can only imagine how hot my husband would feel if I sucked him dry and had fun doing it! So, if anyone has ANY advice, encouragement or even critique, I would be most appreciative! Thank you, All!

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42 replies
  1. Silver says:

    I’d say, first, don’t beat yourself up too much, just as there are women who aren’t into swallowing cum there are men who aren’t into eating up pussy, and you know what? It’s actually fine to NOT do certain acts if you’re not interested in them. That being said, if you want to do this for him on a special occasion, more power to you! 🙂 Semen is kind of salty and the substance itself shouldn’t make you physically ill. Maybe you could start by having him cum in your mouth but not swallowing and spitting it in a sink, then eventually taking little swallows to accustom yourself. This may help you reach a place where swallowing the entire load is easier.

  2. Ever erect Hubby says:

    Hello dearie,

    Glad you asked…. And God bless you that you are working hard towards pleasing your hubby too. It is as easy as you preparing this for him atleast 2-3hours before. You could also indulge in this recipe too .it would make him always want you for desert after each meal. Stay blessed and also wet for him honey

    Super Spunk Smoothie
    1 cup pineapple, fresh or canned
    1 banana, frozen
    1 cup apple juice
    1/2 tsp ginger
    1/2 tsp cinnamon
    1/4 tsp nutmeg
    1/2 tsp vanilla extract
    2 TBS honey
    Optional ingredients: 1 raw egg white, 2 TBS wheat germ, 2 TBS flax seed, 1 shot wheatgrass juice

  3. Ever erect Hubby says:

    In addition, anytime you desire slurp on the juice you have got to tell your hubby to promise you that day to stay away from spicy food that contains garlic, onion and the like and most especially coffee dearie cod those alter the taste. I guarantee you that once you place him on my recommended cum smoothie you will still desire a lastly taste when he is already dressed up for work each morning just to keep you through the day till he gets back later in the day. We await to her your outcome using this.

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you, ever erect! I so appreciate the recipe and the advice!!! I’m gonna make a smoothie ASAP! I’ll share the out-cum! LOL thanks again!

  4. ilovemywife69 says:

    I think it is awesome that you are willing to try new things. I know there are certain foods that make semen taste different. You may just have to search for them. My wife has a similar issue in the fact that semen makes her feel nauseous not long after investing it, so needless to say i don’t get blow jobs very often. But I love love love eating her and tasting all I can. I say take baby steps, maybe try new food and just do taste tests until you find something that works.

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you, ilovemywife! Im glad to know there are other wives who have a hard time! Like you said, though, baby steps!!! God is good and the spirit is willing! Thanks again for the comment!

  5. PassionateForChrist says:

    Dear CMLove, first I want you to know that you do not need to feel at all embarrassed for asking about it, I can assure you there are for certain many wives or future wives out here, who are in the same process of discovery as you are, having the same challenges with the gag reflex and the taste as you do for now. You are not alone in this. Second, I also want to assure you that you don’t need to beat yourself up. You’ve got a lovely, understanding, patient husband and with him together it’s just a matter of time till you’ll break through in this area.

    Now, I’m not married yet but as you may have seen a little while back from some concersation I’ve had with our fellow MH family members, where I myself asked for some advice concerning the BJ, I can weigh in with the following… I’m a preparation kind of girl, so I thought about how I could be prepared/train my jaw and throat for the BJ situation because I too was a little concerned whether I would be challenged by a gag reflex or not. I’ve made the decision that I would get myself a toy (a realistic replica of a manhood (not too big) – with veins and such) to work in private on the matter for myself. I made that choice because it makes me feel more secure and confident when I don’t have to go completely blank into the yet unknown – for I too have been of the kind, who was very good at beating myself up if I felt like I wasn’t being good enough at something or if I wasn’t meeting my own expectations in any way. So, I believe, if you train slowly (on a toy or a carrot or a banana or your husband) without putting any performance pressure on yourself, just some consistent, easy, relaxed training, so your throat can get used to it, then I can imagine you to get more and more comfortable with it.

    As for the taste of it, I’ve read as advice on here to get yourself some flavored oil (I believe… correct me MH friends if I remember that wrongly) or cream… tasting like chocolate or coconut or strawberries or I don’t know… and rub your hubby’s precious part all in with it… that should be helpful with the taste until you get more and more comfortable. You can train yourself to get used to it too… by picking up for instance a fingertip full of cum from your hubby after he shot it somewhere on you and licking it off your finger, tasting it, getting used to it bit by bit. Again, little by little, putting no pressure on yourself. Your hubby will surely help you to make the “training” a thoroughly playful experience and make you feel relaxed.

    You’re someone truly awesome, CMLove! I salute you for being someone, who is brave to stretch and grow and learn and reach out. You are a lovely wife and I’m sure a treasured blessing to your husband, just like he is to you. I’m confident that you got this! You’re an overcomer! Love and blessings to the both of you! 🙂

    • PassionateForChrist says:

      Sorry, I mixed it up a bit… you got the gagging because of the juice and its texture, not at all because of the manhood. Sorry for the little mix-up in understanding. I had a super horny day and have had a hot conversation going on with a dear friend of mine… that’s the only excuse I have for this happening on my part 🙂 Hope it may be still helpful in some way. God bless you big time!

    • CMLove says:

      Don’t apologize for a thing, PassionateForChrist! Thank you so much for all the encouragement and the advice! It is very helpful and I am planning on going through some “training” tonight! Practice, practice, practice! My husband is excited that I’m “going for the gold”, so to speak! LOL Thanks again for everything! May God encourage you just as you encourage others!!!

    • PassionateForChrist says:

      You’re sweet. Thank you!! 🙂 I’m all for you, dear, and cheering you on in all your hearty endeavors from over here. You go, girl! Love and blessings!

  6. Wife Luver says:

    My wife won’t swallow or even take it in her mouth. Never has in 16 years and it hasn’t been a problem at all for us. We still have lots of fun. I have heard that if you let the head of his cock past your tongue, taste buds, that you can avoid the taste but there’s still the swallowing. You might try swallowing just a little then have him pull out and finish on your breasts. Maybe you could ask him to lick up and swallow what spills so you both enjoy it.

    I have another desire though that she’s not all that into. You see, I want to eat her out, I mean clean her out after I have filled her with my cum. She just doesn’t want me down there at all after we have had intercourse and I think we are really missing out.

    Oh, I have masturbated into my hand and licked it up and swallowed. It is thick and salty and leaves an after taste but I don’t mind. I have, though, wiped some of her cream off of my cock and eaten it while we are having intercourse. It is a wonderful sweet n salty taste.

    Sometimes when we start and we usually always start with me eating her out to her first orgasm, I’ll enter her with my cock for a few slow strokes. This brings up some of her cream on my shaft and I’ll wipe it off with my finger and eat it. Next, I’ll go back down on her. This is a great turn on for me but I really want to go down on her after I cum in her and lick her clean.

    Ladies have any thoughts or ideas for encouragement?

    • CMLove says:

      Good thoughts! Thanks for the comment! All i can say is God is One who changes hearts, even when it comes to sexual things we’d like to try! Keep praying for your wife! There’s power in prayer! I know from experience!!

    • gcms - great christian marriage sex says:

      Wife Lover, I was surprised at how honest you were about this. But, I was surprised in a GOOD way. I think the idea is rather cool. If you like the woman to do it, then guys should not be afraid of the same thing. Nice !

    • gcms - great christian marriage sex says:

      Actually, it may work if the couple did that together. Maybe she would be more open.

    • gcms - great christian marriage sex says:

      The research I have looked at says semen (sperm, cum, whatever you want to call it) is actually healthy for people. Doing some research may actually help ease your mind about it. Here is one sites 10 health benefits:

      1. Semen is a natural anti-depressant: Studies have shown that semen elevates your mood and even reduces suicidal thoughts (YES, really).

      2. Semen reduces anxiety: It boasts anti-anxiety hormones like oxytocin, serotonin, and progesterone.

      3. It improves the quality of your sleep: Semen contains melatonin, a sleep-inducing agent.

      4. Increases energy.

      5. It improves cardio health and prevents preeclampsia, which causes dangerously high blood pressure during pregnancy.

      6. Semen even improves memory.

      7. Improves mental alertness.

      8. Semen prevents morning sickness. But only if it is the same semen that caused your pregnancy.

      9. Semen slows down the aging process of your skin and muscles: It contains a healthy portion of zinc, which is an antioxidant.

      10. Reduces pain.

    • gcms - great christian marriage sex says:

      I have always wanted to french kiss with cum, but my wife is not open to that.

  7. cameron says:

    Don’t worry CMLove I am sure you will get there. It took a little for me to swallow. If Jake came on say my breasts or face I would wipe some off with a finger and taste it. At first I did not like it at all, but I really love it now. It is a taste that you have to get use to for sure.The texture is a bit funny though and I don’t know if there is really any thing that can get you ready for that.

    I don’t know what kind of person you are, but after I got use to the taste I just kinda jumped into it. It may be a good thing for you to take it slow or it may be good for him just to shoot his load in your mouth and swallow it as fast as you can with out thinking about it. What ever wont go down have a cup there or some thing that you an spit it out in.

    Don’t know how much this helps, hope it does some.

    Take care

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you so much, Cameron! That’s terrific advice! I like how you mentioned that its an aquired taste! That’s encouraging! Little by little! I can do that! Thankfully, my hubby gives me ample time to practice!!! Thanks again!!

    • Wanted Always says:

      Try putting a pepper mint or life savor in your mouth either when you know he’s getting close to cumming or when you start giving head. The pepper mint will drive him wild and the life savor mixes well to make swallowing an easier process. Unless he shoots a 2 quart load either of these should make this much easier. Also ask him to eat a few stalks of celery for a few days before it’s amazing how it changes and helps neutralizes his fluid’s flavor. None of this will change the fun but if you really want to swallow, these and some of the ideas above should help and as you get to the point where you can let him cum but do want to take the next step and swallow, hold his love juice in your mouth with the mint or candy to start and just swish it around, then spit it into a towel or tissue. Before long if you really want to do this and he doesn’t force it will become second nature. Enjoy him and believe me most and I say most not all, guys love to eat a women.
      Pray for God’s help above all, remember He invented Sex just for us couples.

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you, Wanted Always! I had not even thought about the mint or the lifesaver! Terrific idea! And amen! Prayer is the most powerful thing on earth! Thank you for your help!

    • cameron says:

      Hay CMLove. Just another thought, I founded it easier to swallow when you mined is not on it. I founded the best way to take your minded off of it is to try 69ing. This way he is pleasing you and you are pleasing him, so you can take it a little bit more and please him by swallowing.

      Like others said it is a minded thing. So just another thought I had that you all might try.

  8. Michael/Lexi says:

    Hello, CMLove! From reading what you have written, I understand that your problem is not only about taste, but about the fact that you’ve been raised in a home where you were taught that sex was wrong. Coming from a non-Christian home myself, I never got that message. I find that when it comes to things like that, though, it helps to find examples of it in the scriptures, when it’s not talked about in a negative sense. The best example that I can think of is in Song of Solomon, “It goes down smoothly for my beloved, gliding over lips and teeth,” (7:9). There are a few others, but that’s the only one I know off-hand. And as for an issue of taste, it’s like when a child hates the taste of their food, but they swallow it anyway, to appease their parents (not that I have that issue though)

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you michael/lexi! That verse really helped! I didnt know it was in there!! I’ll keep looking for others! May God bless your marriage!

  9. J Y says:

    I was totally surprised the first time my wife gave me a blowjob because she let me cum in her mouth and swallowed! She does it regularly now and almost always swallows. She says she is always willing to return the favour as I love going down on her and can lick her sweet pussy for ages. Seems a fair exchange to me.

    My previous wife loathed oral and only once in 25 years gave me a BJ.

  10. Drew&Holly says:

    Dear CM, I was the same way. It took me a little bit, but like others have said, it’s an acquired taste. I got used to it. I shared the experience here where I surprised my love by swallowing his load for the first time. It really gives him a charge when I swallow and makes him hornier; he’s usually right back up again after that.

    Also, I appreciate the smoothie recipe that EEH shared; Drew and I will both try that.

    Lastly, we’ve been away for the last several weeks, and we have missed you. Drew’s sweet Dad became ill and passed away all within just a few weeks. Drew and I have shared some tender experiences together during this tough time that has really strengthened our bond. And we have Morgan’s wedding in a month. So, life is busy. But our Lord and Savior sustains us through it all, and for that we are grateful.

    God Bless,
    Holly

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you so much, Holly! I can’t tell you how encouraging your comment was! Do you remember what your story was titled or what category it was in? I’d love to read it! Im so sorry about Drew’s dad. That’s so hard.

    • cameron says:

      I am sorry to hear about Drew’s dad Holly. I am very happy to hear that you daughter is getting married!!! Encourage here to right about he honey moon here lol. Hope you all have a wonderful time at the wedding and that it goes like clock work.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Dear Drew & Holly

      Sorry to hear of your father’s passing. So glad for God’s comfort in your lives. I will pray for your family

      God bless you

      LH

  11. She Writes says:

    I learned to like blow jobs. It was always a turn on to control his pleasure in that way, but it wasn’t always easy to swallow. The gag reflex, the concern about swallowing that much quantity, and the flavor are intimidating things to deal with. But when you do it enough, those fears subside and you know what to expect and generally when to expect it. These are my best tips.

    1. If his impending orgasm isn’t obvious, ask him to tell you when he is about to cum. No fun trying to take a big swallow if you are already out of breath.
    2. Imagine cum as the sexy thing it is. Part of this is a mental battle. You are dreading instead of looking forward to it. When I really think about it, his semen is obvious proof of the sexy thing that has happened between us. It’s like a personal victory for me. Done. Nailed. Conquered. It’s full of sperm which are like his little messengers right into you. It’s made by very sexy parts. Yay for cum.
    3. Address shame. Women who blow and especially swallow have stigmas attached to them, by some, unfortunately. Do you have trouble looking him in the eye or vice versa. You don’t have to. It’s not a rule. But if you do and shame is playing a role in that, go to those feelings and work through them. If those feelings aren’t resolved, you don’t have to give blow jobs. You should never feel like you have to do something that doesn’t sit right with you.
    4. Incorporate your pleasure into it. It’s not just about him! Find positions where you can pleasure yourself (think toys, his hands, you hand) and work on him at a speed and pace that brings you to arousal and orgasm. He will not mind if you lose a little focus because you are bucking your hips in simaltaneous pleasure with him.

    I miss blow jobs. They are sexy, vulnerable, and powerful all at the same time. Have fun discovering how you like them too.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Hi She Writes,

      I love what you wrote.

      I don’t want to be insensitive in any way – but I am just curious – why are you missing blow jobs? Does your husband not like them? If you feel free to answer, I’d like to know. God bless you. LH

    • She Writes says:

      Thanks Lovinghusband. I don’t mind your question though my answer will be purposefully vague. Blow jobs are a vulnerable act. Something happened that hurt the how safe it feels to be vulnerable. Unfortunately, we have not been the same sexually since. Prayer appreciated.

    • CMLove says:

      Hi, shewrites! Thank you so much for the advice! Its so helpful. You will be in my prayers. May God bless you!

  12. Happy Husband says:

    To all of you men whose wives enjoy swallowing, you are quite blessed. My wife loves to suck my cock, but she does not like to swallow. I will not pressure her or ask her for it, but I won’t pretend that the few times that she swallowed were fantastic. The downside of her discomfort in doing so, however, is far greater than my selfish desire for the experience. I will not lie, however, and acknowledge that swallowing is a wonderful gift for a wife to bless her man with, but not at the expense of making her naseaus or ill.

    • Happy Husband says:

      I did not word my last comment very well. To be clear, it is fantastic for a man when his wife takes his load in her mouth. For those wives who can do that, or who are working in that direction, you are truly wonderful.

  13. Booyah73 says:

    My Wife doesn’t swallow either and I’m perfectly happy with that. Though not her fav sexual activity, she is a willing and loving participant when giving me head…and she’s willing to catch my climax in her mouth but never swallows. There’s been a couple times where she’s allowed me to climax on her chest, breasts, and stomach which I found quite erotic … one instance afterwards she used her hands to spread my cumm all over her torso and breasts, smiling and telling how much she loves me.
    In any case, I’m just happy my loving wife gives oral and I really don’t mind or even care that she choses not to swallow.

  14. Jason Gordanier says:

    My wife very rarely swallows, and it is not an issue. I always let her know when I’m going to cum, I think it’s only fair. Most of the time she gives me a blow job I cum on her breasts. While I love watching my cum shoot onto her breasts, I have let her know that her hand does not feel near as wonderful as her tongue, and when a blow job gets to the best part and then the feeling of a tongue is replaced with a hand, it can be a bit of a disappointment to me. She slowly built her way up to the point where now she does let me cum in her mouth on occasions. She still very rarely swallows, most of the time when she does let me cum in her mouth she lets it leak out of her mouth, down her chin and onto her breasts, I can’t even describe how hot that is when she does that!!

    I say all of this to get to the point that I don’t think swallowing will be overly important to your husband, I think if you can get to the point of letting him finish in your mouth that he will feel beyond blessed!

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