To My Future Wife
It’s hard, honey. Staying true to God and you by remaining pure until we are married. I’ve made it through so far into near-adulthood, so I will do my best to keep it going. I have so much love for you in my heart that I couldn’t let anyone else have the most intimate moments with me.
Honey, I dream of meeting you one day and having God give me some type of indication that you’re the one, as we know not everybody magically falls in love upon first sight. I want Him to guide my heart and bless our future together, my only two remaining goals are to please you both.
I have dreams about falling in love with you, laughing with you, smiling with you, crying in each other’s arms during the most difficult times, and growing in a relationship closer to Jesus with you.
I will be so amazed by your beautiful heart, it will be my job to make it feel loved for and cared for. I want to fall asleep embracing each other after we make sweet love to each other, feeling the warmth of you cuddling me to sleep. I want to wake you up with a kiss and tell you how much I love you and that Jesus always loves you, too. I will have long days at work where my end goal is to get home and give you a huge hug and tell you I missed you.
When the time comes, I want to raise a family with you. I can cum deep inside your soul with my mind, body, and heart “one” with you as we gaze into each other’s eyes and fall asleep thanking Jesus for our other half, that He is the only reason we are so happy and blessed together.
Lord Almighty, you understand everything more than anyone knows. You created everything. You know it’s not easy for me to have a pure heart at times and that I greatly struggle with temptation. I pray that you take into consideration that I yearn for you and a future spouse to love me unconditionally even though I am far, FAR from being a perfect man.
It’s not as fun doing this in terms of the short-term aspect, I have an empty other half of the bed that one day I hope will have someone on who loves You and loves me. Jesus, I ask you to bless my heart and see my better half, I am a good person who would treat the other and better significant half of my heart better than many men ever would. Please give me the guidance to find her.
I love you God, and I love you my future beloved wife.
Amen.
I know you can do it! It WILL be worth it! I know this my experience, young man. It can be done, and you'll be saying "ow, that was worth the wait!" God bless
The struggle is real! Thanks for the submission; it's nice to hear from others in the same boat. I also like that you write with faith as though she already exists and isn't just a theoretical platitude. Faith is belief in things that haven't happened yet.
Something that has helped me lately is to pray for her. Not for her to come into my life, but pray for her to be blessed and fulfilled like I will pray when we are married. Just because I don't know her name yet doesn't mean God can't find the right recipient 🙂
Be immovable my brother, I'll be praying for you!
Wow…I cannot say how much this post and these comments blessed me! It is nice to see 1 Peter 5:9 come to life, as I am not the only single Christian struggling with purity. May God continue to bless all of you and your individual walkd with Him! You all will definitely be in my prayers❤
It is Sooooo worth the wait.
It was certainly worth it for us! 38 years later we're still having great, amazing sex! God bless
Hi! Single woman here just entering her 20s! The waiting is SOO difficult believe me I know, but I am praying for the day that I meet that person and I would be over joyed if they had waited. I'd love to know we gave each other the gift of a clean past with neither of us having to feel shame or hurt. I am waiting for the day that a man tells me I'm the woman he's been praying for, and that he loves me for all that I am even with the flaws I have. God I pray this will happen someday and that this won't be just another non lived fantasy, I pray this for myself and every other single man and woman out there who is waiting ❤️
I am 18 and single. I am also a virgin. I hope to get married one day, but am not in any big hurry.
I do not have any big expectations on how my future wife might be. I figure that will take care of itself when that time comes. I did enjoy the story. Bye!
It really is worth it. Only those who managed to remain pure virgins until they wed can know. The sense of exclusive intimacy that you have in a true marriage is a foretaste of Heaven. It is what the gift of marriage is meant to be.
I remember writing like that to my future partner for life. It seemed a long, long wait; it was years. And when we first saw each for the first time we recognised each other within seconds. We managed to wait until we married, we really did, but you can imagine what that felt like! Our reward is the purity of our marriage bed and it is such a place of joy that it becomes a place of worship also. God blessed us and we pray that He will bless you too.
Couples that come together as pure virgins share a perfect 'oneness' that they share with no-one else. If either of them has been joined to another this is no longer possible, because memories of previous experiences will be part of their most intimate moments. This means that they can never know what would have been if they had been joined in a true 'one flesh' union only to each other. (You always remember what it felt like the first time!)
On the other hand, if you do have experience, you have something to compare your present partner with and will know better how 'good' and 'compatable' they are. Many couples nowadays think this experience is important. While they can no longer know what could have been, what they do have, with God's foregiveness, is still very good.
Thank you for this letter. I know just how difficult it is to wait for her. I find myself scribbling down letters to my husband in my journal sometimes and I don't know him yet either.
I pray that we can stay strong through His mercy and grace. One day we will get to spend the rest of our lives making up for the time we had to wait.
May God keep us and bless us in this way.
Amen