What makes a great sex story…for women?

I’m a newbie.  Hello.

My wife sometimes travels without me.  I stay home and frankly, I get lonely.  As part of my anti-loneliness therapy, I write an erotic story for my wife and email it to her, sometimes a chapter a night.  She says that she loves them and always requests the next chapter.  However, with her response the last time, it brought up a question for which I’d appreciate a response.

When I asked her what she liked about the latest story, she listed several things.  However, they were not the things that would have turned me on as a guy.  The point is, I am apparently writing the fantasy stories for a guy (me), not for a gal (her).  Now I know that my wife likes romantic things and context (waves crashing, candles burning, etc.), but what other things, in YOUR opinion, make for an erotic story with features attractive to a woman?  I know that people are different with different likes and dislikes, but I would be curious to hear your ideas.

Obviously, this question has been posed to my wife, but I would like to be creative and include things she has not mentioned in my future stories.

If this is an old question, just direct me to the posts that have an answer and accept my apology.

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5 replies
  1. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Welcome to MH! And God bless you for wanting to please your wife in this way. Well, romance is a no-brainer, as you know, and take the things your wife said into account. Try to maybe put something like you romancing her, holding her hand, telling her she's beautiful, telling her you love her, that sort of thing. Maybe a little seduction might be involved… 😉 If you get to the foreplay part write in detail how you make her feel relaxed and aroused. With that and the sex part, write down all the things she likes during sex, adding them to your story. Symbolism is a big one, and it's used in the Song of Solomon. Metaphors are good too as are poetic terms. My husband has written me those, and they still sweep me off my feet after 33 years of marriage! Hope I've been helpful. God bless

  2. Jessica says:

    Visualizations of how sexual acts happen, it was so tight, balls slapping, words spoken in ecstasy, how you move from position to position…. etc

  3. Juicy says:

    Words are important to me, it is my main love language, so something written would fill my heart. I love affirmation about my body, how I feel, how I smell, and so on. When my husband tells me those things during sex, it really makes me soar. A woman also loves to be affirmed about the effort that she may put into her appearance; her hair, the perfume she puts on, her lingerie, her grooming, etc. It can be difficult to take note of these things but if you make the effort and then write it down, it just may pay in dividends!

    I personally also enjoy descriptive writing about what might be done to me. Light touches, massage, slow this or that, kiss up the back, nibbles on the neck, and other such things. I would also like if my husband wrote a fantasy, in detail, of what he would like to happen. It would be a window of opportunity to know what it is he would like or what he would like to make happen.

    This is great that you are wanting to make the effort for her!

  4. hornyGG says:

    Expressions of love and sensuality. Honesty and openness combined with hot sexual communication. Does it for me anyway. Stay horny!

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