Edging at Work
Like many guys, I have masturbated since my early teenage years. In those years, I would do it at least twice a day, maybe more if I could get away with it. I was very horny as a teen. I recall one time sitting in a class before it started, and watching a particular girl. I was examining her nicely outlined butt from her tight jeans. It was then I noticed an uncomfortable hard-on pushing my jeans up. I stopped looking at her and hoped no one noticed my stiffie.
When I was in my late 30s, I’d been married to my wife for about 18 years. I worked as a bookkeeper for a man. The odd thing about this “office” was that it was his bedroom. It even had a nice queen-sized bed in it. On top of that, there wasn’t enough work for me to do, so I had a lot of extra time on my hands. I played games and did some email conversations during the downtime. But I also did several solo masturbation sessions in that bedroom–when I thought I could get away with it.
I usually heard him coming because his truck would pull in (I knew the sound his truck made), and then he’d shut his door. I would look out and see that it was him, so I never got caught with my pants down. Though one time I came real close to it. Like he came into the room as I was zipping up and sitting down. If he noticed anything, he never said or acted like it.
This particular day, my dick kept letting me know it needed a release. So I eased myself onto the bed and pulled my pants down. My dick responded with glee at being freed from its daily captivity. As I rubbed the front, my dick immediately responded to my touch. Waves of energy rolled over my body, causing tingling feelings all over. A gentle brush of my fingers over the front of my cock sent a surge of orgasmic energy over my body. This was only the beginning! The climax arrived in fairly short order, along with much groaning and pelvic thrusts from me. I really loved it when it felt that good. The orgasmic energy rolled over me in wave after wave.
But I wasn’t ready for this pleasure to be over so quick, so I decided to edge my way into an orgasm. Now, in times past, I would edge for a while, then I would accidentally apply too much stimulation and cum. That happened usually before I was ready for it to. This time ended up being different. I stopped all stimulation for a brief moment. I savored the wonderful feelings echoing throughout my body. In a bit, I slowly started up again. The orgasm immediately kicked in again and knocked on the door to my ejaculation. So I stopped again, waited, then continued. It happened over and over. It felt like I could go on doing this forever. I was on the edge with all its wonderful sensations, but not going past the point of no return.
On one of those adventures to the edge, some pre-cum spurted out. I let it roll over my fingers and sucked it off them. So sweet! Then, during further rides to the edge, I not only got pre-cum but actual cum. In my excitement, I ate that too. Seeing my cum dripping from my cock’s head only made me hornier. I came and came and came, without ever going past the point of no return. I would hang off the edge, dangling in pure bliss. Then I would pull myself up and back over for another go.
I didn’t want it to ever end, and I could have gone on for even longer than I did. But I decided I needed to end it and get back to work. I’m not sure how long I edged exactly. It was more than an hour, probably closer to two hours. I don’t know why, but at that point, I had total control. I could roll right up to the edge of orgasmic bliss and hang there, without any fear of going too far. That day, I became the Edging Master!
With the decision to go for ejaculation, I kept applying stimulation. The sensations rose to a boil in my groin. My body arched as I came to the climax, flew high into the air, and dived into my orgasm with abandon. My cum erupted from my dick, shot up, and hit my chin. Creamy white cum continued to squirt forth as muscles forced it up and out. The ride down from the crest was wonderful! You’d think after all that pleasure, that I’d be all pleasured out and the orgasm wouldn’t be as good. However, I would say that was one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had. I lay there for several minutes, basking in the sweet afterglow of all the orgasmic energy that had crashed like waves upon me.
Finally, I rose and cleaned up, and went back to work on the computer. But my mind remained on those last two hours of sheer joy and delight that I had just experienced. The fact that I can remember it in this much detail 18+ years since it happened tells you how much of an impact it had upon me. I’ve had some really great orgasms after that one, both with my wife and other solo edging sessions. But that day stands above all the rest as the very best.
Great Story MaxLoving! I can relate totally. Several times I have had to stay late at the office. Feeling really horny, I would pull my trousers down and just enjoy the ride. Like you, I have encountered the joys of edging for many years. It's amazing how you can feel the orgasmic pleasure wash over you while still able to keep your magnificent hardon. As you mentioned, it's a treat when some precum or cum will make itself available. It's so sexy to watch it come out of the slit in great anticipation and lick it up. The more you get, the hornier it makes you. My longest edging session was four hours. My wife left to go out of town and, figuring I would be edging, said to have fun. That I did. For four long hours of manly bliss thinking about us and the wonder of being a man. God is an incredible designer and glory to His name for making our male and female bodies so wonderfully.
Amen, texasman! He has given us some amazing gifts through His creation, our bodies being one of the more special. Thanks for your comments.
texasman76, this is so sexy. I'm a huge precum lover. One of the reasons I love to watch my hubs masturbate. His cock gets super hard and leaks so much precum.
Nice!
Hard ones at work have to be challenging to hide. I know my hubby gets them when I text him anymore. Being a teenage male is often what I compare my pregnancy sex drive to nowadays…
As sexy and enjoyable as this sounds, I hope he wasn't paying you by the hour but for the work completed! Lol!
LOL. Yes, he paid me by the hour, but he knew I didn't have enough work to fill all the time and I would be doing other things. As his business grew, that changed, but at the time of this event, I would have more than a few hours of time I could do whatever I wanted. Of course, he probably didn't think that would be one of my activities during that down time. LOL.
This was a fun and interesting story! I'm a little curious about your experience.
You mention "orgasmic energy" several times and you say that "The climax arrived in fairly short order," but you didn't ejaculate yet. Were you feeling an actual orgasm, or just close to it? In other words, Did you get the whole feeling of orgasm before actually reaching the point of no return that leads to ejaculation?
I practice edging every time I masturbate, and it seems like my point of no return is at exactly the same point where my orgasm starts. If I hit one, I hit the other 99% of the time. Very rarely I stop a tiny bit before orgasm and still have a partial ejaculation, but I can't make that happen intentionally. And just by edging, I've never been able to experience full-on orgasm without also reaching the point of no return.
Hi PP. I've learned, over time, to feel the orgasmic energy building up and generally know when to stop stimulation so as to hold off. I consider all feelings leading to ejaculation and the point-of-no-return as orgasmic energy. I went through a time of doing multiples through using the "key sound" method. That's where you get a feeling without getting close to the PONR, then you make the key sound. You experience a mini-climax that way. Not as intense as the normal one, but more of a gentle wash of orgasm that gradually builds with each time.
At any rate, I learned for myself what it feels like when I get close, and when to stop to avoid the PONR. That's pretty much all I do. So, no, it isn't the full-on, ejaculatory orgasm-crest that you get when you "go for it," but it is pretty darn good most of the time. I've also learned that I can, if I do edging long enough, get to the point when I can get right to the PONR and stop. This usually results in a mini-ejaculation, sometimes just pre-cum, often with real cum. It is sort of an ejaculation without hitting the PONR. However, it is very easy to go past that, and that is when I tend to have my "accidents" and end the session prematurely. This particular time, it felt as if I had total control and could have stayed in that zone for hours. I ended it because I felt I had had enough and needed to get back to work. So I stopped after about two hours. Note: I've not done the Kegel exercises that texasman talks about, but I imagine I may have worked on them anyway by doing so much edging and learning to use those muscles through experience.
That's my experience, anyway. I have no idea if it is something you can do, but keep at it. It is a fun ride no matter how long you last, and you never know when you'll discover the right muscle combinations to make it work for you. Exploring your body is what masturbation is all about. Well, at least one major benefit of masturbation.
PatientPassion,
I experience the same thing he is referencing. Over time you can train yourself to be multiorgasmic. It is a different feeling that the orgasm/ejaculation. In my case, I can feel the pleasure coming in wave after wave. The beauty is you keep your hardon and your cum load. I have had a dozen (sometimes more) in one long session. I have exercised my kegels to where they are so strong I can stop a full ejaculation by clamping down on them. It takes practice but is so worth it.
Thanks for the reply, texasman!
I'm actually working on the kegel hold method for multiple orgasms myself. I mentioned this in a different comment thread, but I had some success with it several months ago before I fell out of my practice routine. I asked my previous questions because I haven't experienced or heard much about this other kind of "edging orgasm" situation before.
Also, I should have attached this to my other comment, but would you mind talking about your experience with multiple orgasms via kegels a little more? For example, are you able to use that technique during sex without stopping for a few seconds? The few times I got it to work, I had to stop stimulation in order to hold the ejaculation back. I don't know if it's a strength or technique/discipline issue (or maybe both), but if I added any extra stimulation during the orgasm, I would lose the kegel hold and ejaculate.
Any other advice you have would be much appreciated! I'm trying to use my single years to become the best husband and lover I can be for my future wife, and this is one of the means I'm pursuing to that end.
Unfortunately, I have not been able to have the multiples during actual sex. However, edging has allowed me the ability to hold off shooting my load during sex until I want to. Edging is something that I highly recommend. Especially if you have the time to do longer sessions a few times a week. It allows you to train your mind to just enjoy the experience with no goal of cumming. You will also learn more about the erogenous zones you were designed with such as nipple play, etc. I like to think of it as celebrating my masculinity – my strength, broad shoulders, hairiness, sex drive, protector and provider to my wife, etc. to give honor to my Creator.
Nice story. Thanks for sharing. I love to masturbate and edge too.
This is a weird but hot story. I'm a guy and this turns me on.
We're talking erection here!
Guys? What about switching hands or even sucking yourself? I've tried but no luck. Any suggestions?
I'm right handed and have used my right hand all my life. I have, on occasion, used my left hand, but I've rarely, if ever, come using my left hand. That is, until after my Deep Brain Stimulation surgery. Fast movements with my right hand usually results in being out of control. So I've learned to use my left hand more. I still tend to come with my right hand, but i use my left hand more frequently and have even come a couple of times using my left hand.
As far as self-sucking, I have wished I could do that since I was a teen. But you have to be blessed with both a long penis (mine is, let say, not short) and/or a flexible back, which I don't have at all, despite trying multiple times. As a matter of fact, I ended up with a slipped disk in my neck due to trying.
So I'm content just to reach orgasm now, however I can. 🙂
Edging is certainly enjoyable, yet difficult to master. Edging to the point of the pre-onset of orgasm – the point at which it really feels good – is something that I can do repeatedly. However, after about 5 or 6 points of reaching this ecstatic point (no mini-ejaculation) I can’t resist going to the PONR for a full release. This type of edging can result in an amazing, explosive orgasm, so it’s well worth the effort.
Edging to achieve a ‘multiple orgasm’ is much harder to do. I have been able to edge to achieve a mini-ejaculation while experiencing an orgasmic, climatic wave of pleasure followed a minute or two later by a full-blown cum load release and mind blowing orgasm.
In fact, it happened the other night as my Anne was asleep. I got very horny reading some MH stories and found myself edging just by pressing on my cock through my sleeping shorts. Once I edged and had a mini-ejaculation and mini-orgasm, but I didn’t want to go all the way, so I backed off just in time. For a while I thought I’d blown my load, but after a couple of minutes of reading a horny story, my cock responded and when that happened, I took it all the way. My orgasm was fantastic and I ejaculated a copious amount of cum. When I told my Anne in the morning what happened, she wanted to give me a second helping hand. Needless to say, I was fully satisfied and satiated!
Thanks for sharing about edging and masturbation at work, something I guess many guys do but feel guilty about.
I share an open plan office with several women colleagues. After hours of sitting at my desk being unable to avoid seeing the short tight skirts, thin curve clinging blouses and occasionally an unintended display of a woman’s bra or panties I confess my lust builds up to a frenzy and I have to masturbate.
I go to the men’s restroom and lock myself in a cubicle. The walls and door come right down to the floor. I drop my trousers and briefs and stand with my legs spread with my feet braced against the sides. Then I masturbate. I’m usually erect by the time I enter but sometimes need to finger myself up really hard.
I often “edge”, that is I stroke and tug my hard erect penis till I feel my orgasm rising, then ease off, perhaps just tickling my penis head with a fingertip, till my orgasm fades. Then I start again. I’ll do that two or three times. I find I edge best when masturbating standing.
While I masturbate I try to think only of my wife nude in erotic poses, and us having sex. I’ve got some nude pictures of my wife on my tablet and sometimes I take that into the cubicle with me to ogle. But so often all I can think of is the women around me in the office, their legs, breasts, bottoms and glimpses I’ve caught of their underwear.
I’ve practiced my masturbation skills and standing like that when I jerk my load all my semen splashes into the toilet pan, though I wipe the last strand of it off my penis with tissue. I know other men masturbate in the restroom because sometimes I’ve found fresh semen splashes trickling down the cubicle walls.
So its quite common, but it helps to know its not just me.
It must be really hard being turned on to that degree by the attractive dress and unintentional views of undergarments of your colleagues. I believe it is a normal response to be aroused by the opposite sex, and clearly, you don't desire to act on that attraction beyond relieving yourself of the tension caused by it. So I don't think it's fair to categorize your thoughts as lustful. But if it hurts your conscience to revisit the memories of those images in your mind while you masturbate, then — though it seems weird — maybe you could pray when they come up, thanking God for the opportunity for relief from your arousal and the strength not to act on it in a way that would dishonor Him, yourself, or your beloved. I admire your creative use of technology to help keep your mind focused on her when you just can't take it anymore.
Any of you ladies ever get worked up and masturbated at work? Just like us guys, I know that ladies love when we guys are all dressed as well. Like we guys love stockings/ pantyhose/ dresses and heels, I know you ladies love guys in suits. At least, I've heard this both in magazine articles and in real life. Is this ever a stumbling block for married ladies? Singles?
Ok, well, I’m officially masturbating as a result of these comments. To me, men in suits are a real turn on, especially when their package is semi-erect, which they can’t exactly help. I have seen many men adjusting themselves and turning red in front of me, and it’s always a turn on even though I would only want my husband. I do believe that those penises have a complete mind of their own!!! As far as the guys on this post, can you share some times you’ve gotten hard in the office or at work and what was the situation/how did you go about hiding it? Also what was the end result of it? Huge turn on for me!
Many teen boys think they can edge and control their ejaculations.
And all the mom’s of teen boys that wash their sheets know they can’t.
@SecondMarge…this made me think of my nephew who went on a curiosity dive with my sister the other day asking questions and then actually telling her he is having trouble being around me because he’s so attracted to my pregnant body! Yikes! I didn’t know how to react at first but he is my nephew and I’ll always love him…I also know that their hormones at that age can’t exactly help themselves! Teenage boys—gotta love them!
To reply to alwayswet101: I have gotten hardons lots of times when they were inconvenient. When I worked in corporate America, it never failed. I would be in my office and a colleague would request an impromptu meeting in the conference room. I would have to put papers or a pad in front of my trousers to hide my hardon until it would subside. I remember another time, I was in my suit talking to someone at the front reception area. Our receptionist was at eye level to my trousers (I was standing while she was sitting). I am a really large guy (hang at 6.5" flaccid – 8" hard and 6" in girth). She just kept staring at my crotch. Wool trousers will allow an outline, even with pleats. Oh, the joys of having a penis!
Too funny – and too true! We sure did have fun though!
I can add something interesting to this discussion. Jim and I were in Atlanta for one of his sales conventions a few years ago and he was scheduled to give a brief speech during lunch where the delegates and spouses were in attendance. I told him I intended to cock tease him during his speech and he warned me not to.
Anyway, when he stood to speak he already had a midsize boner just from me playing with him under the table, but about five minutes into his speech I began “adjusting “ my blouse in such a way that exposed maximum boob. As always, Jim is unable to ignore my body and his (very) large cock was instantly tenting his crotch area! Looking around me it was clear where the women, and some guys, too, were aiming their stares.
He had a tough time hiding his awesome tool, and since there was no podium to hide behind, he just kept turning in place and he bent over a few times to drink from his water glass. We laugh about it now, but he was helpless at the time, and I’m sure he sent lots of horny women to their rooms after the break, either masturbating of screwing their partners.
Jim earned his sloppy blowjob from me and I rode him very hard after.
…And he received many looks of admiration later, and I also was given many knowing eye blinks from horned-up women!
Omg, I do not know how I missed this response @texasman76! Reading it has actually made my panties wet and now I need some lovin' down there! So hot. I love love love when my man texts me that he’s been erect all day or can’t get control of his member it’s like an instant turn-on switch and gets me wet. I know it may be embarrassing at times but I find it so so sexy when a man has that beautiful (and totally natural!) reaction and stiffens and grows creating an erection/bulge at some rather awkward moments. My man works in corporate America, and he is always coming up with ways to hide that member of his! It’s so sexy to me when a man gets a hard-on and an obvious bulge, whether it’s at work, in public, on the beach, or even with family. Ugh, nothing hotter!
Haha and oh the joys of having a penis is so true! Yes no matter what type of pants or shorts my husband is in…that manhood of his is visible especially when it stiffens and grows. He’s actually your size too, and there is no hiding one that size, lol. And I love that about it! As for your receptionist staring (while I only have desires and intentions for my man), I surely would not be able to look away either! I can’t blame her.
Great story and comments, edging and pre cum are great.
Yes they are! Glad to see this story again. It hasn't come up in a long time.
Porter, you are spot on. Sometimes the comments can be as hot as the story. Edging and precum are definitely awesome.
I feel for you, though as a single guy I probably would not feel guilty at all.
Like others have said, arousal is natural and intentions are what are the most important.
I would amend to say "arousal is natural, intention defines lust, but actions are what's most important."
Guys on this post, can you share some times you’ve gotten hard in the office or at work and what was the situation/how did you go about hiding it? Also, what was the end result of it? That scenario is a huge turn-on for me! I have gotten hard at the office from checking out all the ladies walking by. I tried to cover my erection as best as possible. I have never jerked off at my place of work; I was afraid that I would get caught.
Also, did any of you ever date someone older than you? Did you marry? I sometimes take an interest in some much older women—in their 40's or 50's—such as friends of my mom, teachers, etc. I wonder if relationships with big age gaps like that can work out in the long run and lead to happy marriages.
I have gotten really hard at university. It happened after talking to a girl I was interested in and often after talking to one of my female teachers, whom I had a crush on. There was one time when I was talking to my teacher in her office and her boobs were directly in my line of vision. I was trying to be polite, but I could not stop checking out her boobs. Furthermore, when I sat down, I got a glimpse of her thigh-high stockings. All of my teachers dressed professionally and attractively, but I just had such a big crush on her. Most of my teacher crushes were in high school, and this was the only time in university that I had a teacher crush. It was probably because she taught my favourite subject, which is history. Also, she was Russian so had a sexy Eastern European accent and exotic appeal. I always sat up front so I could talk to her during the break and watch her coming into class. The sound of her heels clicking would drive me crazy, and I loved the way she wore her long hair. She also quite frequently wore thigh-high stockings as well, and the edge of them would peek out when she sat or bent over just right. I was really interested in her and would get into many personal conversations in her office. Unfortunately, I never quite got up the courage to ask her out. Oh well, that's life!
I never have, but I was wondering if you or any of your friends ever dated or been interested in someone from work or school? Did it work out and lead to marriage?
I must say that since I started swing dancing, I've met girls from a wide variety backgrounds (i.e. exchange students and folks from out of my local town region) than I have usually encountered. On a further note, one friend's grandmother was a Dutch war bride. As my dad always says, variety is the spice of life.
Take care,
Mr. Lover.
P.S. alwayswet101, Where did you get you're username? I could tell you how I got my username, but you have to read one of my upcoming stories to find out. Finally, you should try and get your husband on here too.
I remember having constant erections without any reason (it happened literally everywhere and often had NOTHING to do with being aroused sexually). It got so bad that my father took me aside and gave me old-fashioned jock straps to wear. While a bulge could obviously still occur (and did!) it kept things from getting out of control. I remember the relief whenever I could remove it. (I suppose much like the relief a woman gets from removing her bra). I wore those darn things for at least 10 years before the advent of better underwear (boxer briefs with some built-in support)
Man, that jock strap had to have been uncomfortable all those years. I also remember getting boners all the time in class, church, just about everywhere without any sexual stimulation. Being a man is such a blessing.
I got a boner a few years ago during a meeting with my female supervisor. She had on a very tight top and her boobs were very visible.I had a little bit of a crush on her, but I did not ask her out because I have always been advised not date co-workers as it can cause different situations if you break up and are still working together. I remember having a boner the whole meeting. Afterwards, she said to have an enjoyable lunch break. I most certaintly did. I went to the nearest gas station bathroom and had some fun.