Penis Shape
Thanks so much for your most inspiring stories. I am a single Christian virgin man looking forward to marriage next year. I believe in purity but am concerned about my penis shape when erect. It curves to the left, and I am well endowed. I am getting married to a slim lady. I am not sure if it’s normal, but it’s been like this as long as I can remember. Do ladies like a curved dick? Ladies, kindly advise?
Thanks a million.
Mobi,
First of all God bless you for waiting till marriage. Second congrats on your upcoming nuptials.
Don't worry about your dick having a curve to it when erect. Some curve to the left or right, some have a slightly upward curve when erect. There is nothing abnormal to worry about. Your bride will love you no matter if you're cock has a curve or not. I guarantee your sex life with your new bride will be awesome and blessed.
God bless and stay horny!
Depends how severe the bend is and if you have pain when erect. Peyronie's Disease is treatable. But if it’s a slight bend with no pain don’t worry it should enter her without a problem.
Congratulations and good luck.
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, and well done with your commitment to purity! I pray for many years of loving, intimate and sexy marriage for you two!
As for your question, it seems relatively common and normal for there to be a slight curve in the penis when erect. It only becomes a problem if it causes pain, makes intercourse difficult or causes some other kind of sexual dysfunction.
Your question comes at an interesting time, because I happen to have been doing some research on this recently. I too have a slight leftward curve when erect that I was a little concerned about. I found that there are devices you can order that work using constant moderate tension over the course of a few months to straighten out a bent penis. As far as I know, you don't need a prescription or even a consultation with a doctor, though that may be a good idea anyway if you're really concerned. (Keep in mind that doctors generally lean toward using drugs, injections and surgery, which are often unnecessary when there's a more conservative, less invasive treatment like tension devices available.)
Based on my reading, it seems like a curved penis can be genetic, but is often caused by a plaque buildup in one side of the penis. You might be able to feel some hard lines that run along your shaft around where it curves, on the side it curves toward. I found this is the case with me; both when flaccid and erect, I can feel that extra bit of "hardness" on the left side that's not there on the right. Apparently the tension devices can slowly break this apart (without hurting you) and let the penis become straight again. (It sounds like ultrasound machines, and even sonic toothbrushes with the right power and vibration frequency can also be used to break up the plaque, but I'm not exactly sure if the toothbrush is medically recommended, haha!)
This tension device treatment also *might* have the added effect of slightly increasing penis length, but I'm not sure how permanent or common that result is. Since you say you're already well-endowed, that might even be a drawback if additional length would make penetration even more difficult for your future wife.
I haven't done enough research on any of this to strongly recommend it, but you should know that there are options out there! Take a look. (I got a good overview of this topic from an article called "How to fix the bend in your penis naturally without surgery" from endtheproblem.com. I can't vouch for its total veracity, or other content on the site, but it might be a place to start.)
With all that said, a curved penis isn't inherently a problem, because every woman's preferences are different. As the wedding draws closer and you're able to discuss more and more intimate things, tell her about your concerns. (If you're already engaged, you should be able to openly talk with her about things like this.) Unless your curve is causing pain or other issues, my recommendation would be to do nothing about it until after the wedding. Learn as much as you can about good sex in general, and have fun in the early months of marriage! Reassess every once in a while and ask your new wife how she feels about it. Decide with her whether or not it's a good idea to pursue some kind of treatment. But unless it's causing you issues, don't do anything to change your penis until she has a chance to "test it out" so to speak. She may end up wanting it to be more straight, but she may also love the curve! (In fact, try a position where your penis curves toward the front of her body and her G-spot, like missionary but where she lies on her right side instead of her back. That might actually make your curve a big advantage in bringing her pleasure!) I think there's mainly just upside and little downside to waiting for treatment, because you may find it's not even necessary.
I hope this helps! Prayers and blessings for your future marriage!
Mobi,
Others have addressed the possibility of medical issue so I won't. Assuming that it's not a medical concern, let me reassure you that being well endowed and with a slight curve will likely prove to be more of a positive than a negative. As a wife married to a wonderful husband who shares the attributes you mentioned, though slightly upward rather than to the side, it has been a God send for us. For us, in face-to-face positions, his size and shape hit my deep spot exquisitely. With a little practice and adjustments, you and your bride my be blessed with these wonderful sensations too. Just explore and be grateful for the amazing gifts you've been given.
Agreed! My husband curves slightly to the left. So to deep-throat him well, I come in from the left. Easy-peasy! It also makes the "scissors" position great for hitting my A-spot (a deep spot on the anterior or front side of my vagina) if he lies on his right and my P-spot if he's on his left. In doggy, I sometimes like to shift my angle just a bit so he doesn't bang into my left ovary (which can get pretty uncomfortable, especially at certain times of the month.) But that curve also means he's less likely to make contact with my cervix when he's really pounding me. It doesn't limit us in terms of variety; we just had to find what worked best for us! And goodness, the experimenting is fun!