Need Help With Christmas Challenge
I work overseas, and I’m gone for four weeks and then home for four weeks. This time, I will be home over Christmas, and my wife and I have decided we are going to do something different this year. Instead of other gifts, we are going to have a little surprise for one another every day. I have the even days and she has the odds. I’d like to hear sexy date day ideas or fun bedroom ideas I can surprise her with! It can be mild to wild. What comes to mind right away would be things like a couples’ massage, a lunch date, or a simple bottle of wine with a nooner. Let me hear what y’all have for ideas!
Oh, man.. we are doing something similar! We are putting ideas into a stocking and pulling one idea out every day between now (well, yesterday) and Christmas. However, both of us are behind in submitting our ideas. I'd love to hear thoughts as well. I'm actually supposed to make my submissions this morning. I've just started thinking about them.
So far on my list is…
Make new videos
Photoshoot where I'm the photographer
A Fantasy Role Play Idea I know she wants
Neither of us has tried edging so I'm considering throwing that in.
WifeLover.. we can do this.. let's get our lists together!
Always Ready, Edging! That’s a good one, that’s going in the mix for sure. Would love to do the photos shoot too.
I also have an idea that we’ve talked about in the past but never tried, I have this large coin I received for some award. Anyway who ever has the coin can “play the coin” which means if I have the coin and play it, she has to stop with whatever she is doing, where ever she is at and Jill off and cum in front of me if we are together or do it and send video if we are not. And then she is the keeper of the coin and can play it. Whenever she wants.
One of my days will be to go to town for a lunch and stop by the spa, on an evening we have plans so she won’t be expecting a hotel romp, but after the couples massage, we'll go to a hotel room that will already be booked and have a mid-day hotel sex fest and then leave. Won’t worry who has to sleep in the wet spots.
I’d like something outdoors as well….
We sometimes exchange sex coupons. I’ll make a bunch for her, of the things she likes the best, and a few of things I think she might like to try thrown it with them. She’ll do the same for me.
Or, we will make multiple coupons for the same favorite act, but with different descriptions from the clinical to the raunchy.
And, we have made some for a ‘kinky’ day. Things a bit off the norm, but nothing so kinky one of us won’t try it.
As far as specifics, that you both will know better. What works for us and gets us going, may or may not for you two!
Although…..the outdoor thing is always on our lists!
Wife Lover- I'm also considering a remote control vibrator (or panties). I'm researching them now.
Yes that’s a fun one. We have the YTOY from amazon.
I am thinking role play; what’s everyone’s favorites?
I’m an amazon kinda guy when it comes to the toy box!
Stoke up the furnace, get rid of the kids, and have a Naked Day!
Enjoy the views, feel each other up, get hot and sexy!
Cook dinner together (mandatory) only dressed in aprons. Dine with you in dress shirt tie and aftershave, she in makeup, perfume and jewelry. Leave the dishes till morning to retire to your candlelit bedroom.
Mmmh mmmmmmmmm…
You could also declare it a Dirty Talk Naked Day so it's jucier, and it's a great opportunity to practise saying all those outrageous dirty bedroom thoughts you just haven't quite been game enough to say!
And here's another idea…
Mobile Stripshow
Make a dinner reservation somewhere about an hour's nighttime highway drive away.
Each takes turn to lay back and perform a sexy strip and cum show, maybe with a little bit of help from the driver.
You go first so you're good to go when you arrive home after being tortured by your wife's performance on the return trip.
Also write out what you plan to do to her at home. That way both of you will be tantalised by what you know is going to happen.
Very erotic and sexy!
This is inspired by Lovemyhoney's story here. One of my all-time favourites ???
https://marriageheat.com/2016/10/02/one-hot-anniversary-trip-part-1/
Yes this one will have to be a must. Sounds erotic!
I already have some form of this on the list… Happy about it.
One year I made my husband an Advent calendar with little activities I would do for him.
This is a great ideal! What were some of the activities?
its sort of the same thing we're doing.. They actually make some sexy advent calendars but we are making our own. Instead of the calendar tho' we are drawing them out of the bag. They range from pg-13 to xxx.
So have you come home yet? How is the challenge going?