Update on our Pure Wand

We did a toy review some time back on the Pure Wand by Njoy. It is a heavy stainless steel curved device for her with a big ball on one end and a small one on the other. 

From the first use, my wife was in love. Many of our other toys just sit gathering dust now, except for the occasional game of “dildo roulette.”

The first time we used the wand, we placed a towel under my wife just in case. She slept on wet sheets that night. The next time, we doubled the towels. She slept on wet sheets that night too. Since then we have re-purposed a child’s mattress protector. She still ends up sleeping on wet sheets. 

The interesting thing is that we get one of two responses out of her body (as far as fluids are concerned). We either get a big mess of white thick (noisy) goo, or we get this big clear wet pool. I’m using the same stimulation. She’s reacting the same. Just different kinds of fluid.

We are currently researching a better protective layer for our nights with The Wand so that she can sleep on dry sheets.

So, I’m sure you want to know how the wand is used and how she reacts:

I spend some time warming the metal to body temperature. I used to run it under warm water, but I found it hard to get it to the right temp without going too warm. Now I use my hand friction to warm the toy. 

This last time, I started by spelling the alphabet (lower-case first) on her clit with my tongue. After lower-case “z” I moved to upper case. After upper-case “Z,” I moved to numbers. By the time I got to “5,” she had figured out what I was doing and could recognize the figures.

I had stored the metal wand under my stomach to keep it warm while getting her properly licked. By the time I inserted the large ball end, she was very ready. I felt only a little resistance and a grunt from her as it entered. 

I normally lift on my end of the wand while pushing inward to her back wall. Her response, coupled with the resistance, tells me when I’m there. I lower my end which pushes her end up to press on her front wall. While providing downward pressure on my end, I pull outward sliding her ball along the front wall until it stops against her G-spot. She moans, breathes heavily, twists her nipples, and I get fluid. It doesn’t squirt. It flows. It’s almost as if I’m plunging it out.

Just to change things up a little, I eventually begin to hold her ball against her front wall and slide in and out about the speed of a vigorous fucking. I think this brings the largest quantity of fluid. She tells me she likes the slower movement described above better than the quick thrusting, but her reaction at the time tells a different story. I love her pleasure!

After a while, I will pull the wand so that the big ball is pressing against the inside of her entrance. A lingering pressure like that seems to give her a lot of pleasure. Eventually, the ball pops out through her entrance, and I slide it up to her clit. She is always shocked at how hot the metal is against her clit. I remind her that it is only as hot as she is. Sliding back down to her entrance, I pop it back in and enjoy her guttural grunt of pleasure.

Occasionally, she will grab her vibrator and put it on her clit while I continue with the slower in, up, out, down movement until she cums very loudly. Usually, she reaches some point where she wants the wand out and my cock in. There is no negotiation at this point. She will have that cock. The attention given by the wand causes her interior walls to swell. That, coupled with the intense wetness, means I’m not going to last long. She says it makes it all more sensitive for her, too, so that lovemaking becomes somewhat animalistic with grunts, thrusts, moans, and an occasional scream.

We love our Pure wand.

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36 replies
  1. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    Awesome stuff. My wife is not a squirter but we have been known to make a mess of the sheets (and each other) with body fluids. We have tried fuzzy bath mats under her, which are actually quite comfortable and have a non-porous liner on one side, and a sex blanket we bought. Both are great options. We usually have sex in doggy style position, which often doesn't leave big messes on the bed.

    • Keystone Jack says:

      You are very welcome! Love to share the pleasure!

      Do some research. The "name brand" version is very expensive. There are cheaper ones, but be sure to read the reviews.

  2. Keystone Jack says:

    UPDATE to the UPDATE: We were using the wand last night, same as described, and she started squirting! This is a first for Keystone Jill. She's always been wet, but never actually squirted. It was so cool! It would start as little spurts matching my strokes, but then a longer more powerful stream. A minute later, little spurts & a longer stream. She had about 4 cycles of that and she was demanding cock.

    I gotta get a better mattress protector!

    P.S. MH, love the pic. Hilarious!

    • alwayswet101 says:

      That’s so awesome! Yay! Squirting is probably one of my favorite things to do, haha. It just is so amazing, and I know it just turns my husband and me on like nothing else. I’ve mentioned this before, but only recently (since being pregnant) have I started to squirt. My hormones are crazy, and we’ve been having sex more than we even thought was possible! We had to go down to our local sex shop and get a couple of the waterproof Liberator throws because we’re having sex too much to just have one or two! When I squirt, I gush, so we need to be prepared! Definitely had that whole "need to pee" feeling and still do before the squirting cums, but once I was able to relax and let go… well, let’s just say I soaked the poor hubby!

  3. SouthernHeat says:

    Have not bought the stainless yet, but the glass firefly is shaped very similarly. I have much the same response: it gets me so wet and swollen that I’m much tighter when he slides his cock inside, and the feeling is much more intense. The firefly makes me squirt, also. He really enjoys using it on me. He has trouble pulling it out because I usually have a death grip on it. I have to force my muscles to release that wand. Thanks for the review; I need to get me one of those!

    • Keystone Jack says:

      I think it was your firefly story that got us into looking for this. I guess turn-about is fair play! I hope you get it, & I hope you enjoy it!

    • Keystone Jack says:

      Do your homework. The "name-brand" is nice, but very expensive. The cheaper ones you need to read the reviews on. We bought one that was middle of the road.

  4. D&D says:

    We have two similar wands. One of them is stainless, the other is a combination of acrylic and silicone from Jopen. My wife loves the stainless steel but says it's dangerous not only due the intense orgasms but the weight of it, It can hurt if she looses her grip. I love it for milking my prostate. I can have multiple orgasms with it, and I'm still hard and able to finish in her!! Story on this to cum

  5. StillLikeNewlyweds says:

    Great story! Thanks for the update. And the update update. I see that SouthernHeat already commented about her Firefly. We bought one of those based on her review (it’s named Serenity, some of you may get that) and your movements sound very similar to how we use our Firefly. What would seem like an advantage of the Pure Wand is the more drastic curve and the ball on the other end. I have trouble keeping my grip on the Firefly after she really gets going. That glass gets very slick. Regarding the mattress protection: there are “sex blankets” available; the most well known made by Liberator. But they are expensive. We bought the Catalonia Waterproof Blanket on Amazon for a lot less, and so far it has done well. Although, I don’t think we have had quite the same level you described. There are many sellers of them on Amazon so compare prices. We actually bought two and are glad we did. While it is machine washable, it is a little difficult to dry. The waterproof internal lining hinders the spin cycle, and requires no or very low heat in the dryer. So you end up having to hang it out for a while to finish drying.
    Oh and nobody else has asked yet, but would you want to explain “dildo roulette”?

    • Keystone Jack says:

      Thanks for the suggestions. Another difference between the Pure Wand and the Firefly, I think, is the weight. It is a surprising asset for the wand.

      Dildo Roulette! Yes! I wondered if anyone might ask. It's a game I made up where my wife closes her eyes, I insert one of her toys into her, do some thrusting for her pleasure & my fun, and then ask her to identify the toy. She's not very good at guessing, but we both have fun!

    • StillLikeNewlyweds says:

      Thanks for that explanation. We’ve done that as well just didn’t have the name for it.
      Two additional things. When I said “it’s named Serenity” I was referring to what we named our Firefly, not SouthernHeat’s story. Second, we also found a cheaper option to wedge and ramp pillows than the expensive Liberator. Search Amazon and they will be listed as medical supplies. The reviews can be quite amusing as people try to be euphemistic about using them for sex.

    • O-surfer says:

      I’m not very good at guessing either, but we haven’t officially had it as a game. Funny thing is that sometimes a toy feels to me like it’s mechanically vibrating when it’s merely my amazing husband’s skills causing the sensations.

    • alwayswet101 says:

      The blankets are a must! Squirting is amazing, so it’s totally worth getting the blankets! And you don’t want to have to wait for one to be dry/clean until you can get busy again!

  6. JJ says:

    Highly recommend the Mambe Blankets (dot com) furniture cover to protect mattress and any other surface you don’t want fluids to reach.

    We have multiple sizes of these and always use them during sex as my wife is a prolific squirter.

  7. Andrew says:

    Keystone Jack, I took screen shots of your update review and the update from comments section and sent to my wife to read. (I am currently at work and my work keeps me away for 3 weeks at a time) She read the story and sent me a 👍. So I sent a message back asking what she thought. Well I didn't hear from her for a while. When I finally got a message back from her, she told me she had went and got her favorite toy (Greedy Girl rabbit), turned on the vibration to the shaft, rubbed her clit with the head of it then slid it in. When the ears hit her clit she turned them on and started to work the head of it on her g-spot until she orgasmed. (Which didn't take long) She said when she pulled it out, it was soaking wet. Of course reading that got me instantly hard. I asked her if that made her horny, she just sent back "lol". Which means yes.
    Nice review!

  8. Roadrunner says:

    Keystone Jack.. hi! I’m new here 🙂
    Has your wife always been able to have female ejaculation ? I have been reading about how to do it and g spot O’s with squirting. No luck yet .. I actually watched a demonstration a couple weeks ago on the Njoy wand and want to try it out !

    • Keystone Jack says:

      Keystone Jill has never ejaculated until the other day. It's a pretty cool event.

      Keep in mind, she can feel too pressured if you make it too important. It happens when it happens.

    • alwayswet101 says:

      When you feel like you have to pee and you feel that pressure on your G-spot, just let go, girl; don’t hold back. I recently discovered I could squirt (only since I’ve been pregnant) and it’s amazing. When my G-spot and clit are both stimulated, I am most likely to squirt. I will sometimes even push my husband's cock or dildo out of me with the force of the squirt and my orgasm. I actually asked my OBGYN to make sure this was okay because I had never experienced it before, and being pregnant, it had me a little nervous. She told me to keep squirting, having sex, and even suggested the waterproof blankets!! I could hardly make it out of there before I had my hands in my panties.

    • texasman76 says:

      I LOVE making my wife squirt when I eat her out. It's just amazing and nothing like it. You really do get to drink from your exclusive spring!

    • alwayswet101 says:

      Oh this has me sitting here very wet and aroused…I always love the comments on MH! Squirting is amazing and I hope to have a little solo time and be able to gush a little before I squirt on my hubby afterwards! I had my pants off but panties on when I started reading this but I hace since removed my panties and laid down our waterproof throw (I am a little too wet to put nothing down). Roadrunner, which demonstration did you watch? Any luck yet?

  9. 2Becum1 says:

    Keystone Jack and all those who have replied…

    As I take in all the fascinating descriptive details of the wand and info in the additional replies I can’t help but ponder that the recipient wives have been blessed with wonderful, caring husbands who take the time to understand the “next level” of their soul mate! What a healthy and beautiful way to live ~ with that one God has provided! This discussion (and the other MH community “chats”) are helping build stronger, passionate, and erotic martial love! My sweetie thanks you all for going before us as I am a student, constantly learning, of bringing her to that next level of ultimate satisfaction! Blessings!!

  10. Salcpl says:

    I am very excited from reading the review of the one and everyone’s comments. Our anniversary is approaching within the month. Always try to do something different for our anniversary and combine it with our anniversary trip out of town. I have been unable to find this toy on Amazon. Can someone tell me some specific words I need to enter in the search bar?

    • MarriageHeat says:

      Salcpl, I just searched the name of the product "njoy pure wand" and it came right up. But if you buy through the link in the story, you'll be helping keep MH up and running. 😊

  11. Frankie says:

    Keystone Jack – A pad like they use in hospitals – available from any medical supply store – will keep the sheets dry (unless she has a full bladder, in which case, add a bath towel on top of the pad).

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