I’m after a bit of advice and ideas of how to get my spouse to flirt with me. After many years of marriage and kids, this seems to have been lost somewhere along the way. I’ve tried to talk with them about it but I don’t think they understand how important this is for our sexual health as well as intimacy. I’ve tried sending sexy texts to get a response, I’ve tried sexy underwear, weekends away, and I’ve tried to flirt in an obvious way to get a response, yet I still seem to be failing. I personally need to build up anticipation, and flirting is a harmless yet fun way of doing this. It also can be done from a distance as we both work full time. I love reading all your stories on here and have even tried sharing them with the spouse to see if that does the trick. I’m going crazy not having this fun side in our relationship. How do I get it across to them and encourage them to join in?
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