A Few Private Moments
[Prelude – I can’t remember what exactly inspired me to explore prostate stimulation. It was, however, a long time ago that curiosity prevailed. I initially struggled with the stigma, but I came to accept that God created the male body with the capability of pleasure in this way. And since He did, then there must be a safe way to enjoy this without shame or guilt, without being submissive, (very important for me), or effeminate, and without having predispositions or personal struggles with Romans 1:27. I understand, though, if this isn’t your thing😉. All my best – KM]
My agenda was simple. First the vegetable aisle, then the pharmacy. Browsing the selection of appropriately shaped produce, I used my hand to measure a few until I came across a befitting candidate. Maybe a little on the larger side, but that would be okay. A quick trip to the pharmacy, and I was set. Excited about what awaited me, I drove the few miles home.
Upon arriving, I quietly thanked God for the girls night that would give me some privacy and settled under the warm spray of the shower to begin my cleaning ritual. The main focus was the deep crevice between my cheeks, and after my soapy fingers did their job, I couldn’t resist a little exploration. The gentle intrusion felt good, but tonight was intended to be one of rare indulgence.
Squeaky clean, I moved to the bedroom and got comfortable on a couple of thick towels. Preparation is everything, and once my new friend and I were properly lubed, I began.
There was some initial resistance, but slow and easy pressure did the trick. I felt really full, but after allowing my body a few minutes to adjust, the pleasure built from the inside and I began to thrust.
I moved it slowly at first, but as the delightful sensations increased, so did my pace. My cock swelled and drooled while moans escaped my mouth, and I allowed a fantasy to build in my mind.
“Your cock is dripping Baby,” she said as her dainty hand moved the makeshift phallus in and out. “I want it in my mouth.”
Never one to deny her gifted lips, I nodded my assent, then guided her thighs to either side of my head. As her tongue swirled around my purple head, I placed my hands on her cheeks and pulled her wet lips to mine. The taste and smell of her filled my mind, as did the sensations of her warm, wet mouth. We both moaned in ecstasy as our mouths bathed each other in an erotic oral dance.
A strong jolt emanating from the head of my cock shook my mind from the fantasy and I became very aware of the moment. My left hand was drenched with precum and waves of extreme pleasure from deep within now had all my attention. The moments leading up to an ejaculation, where everything else leaves the mind are particularly enjoyable for me, and the need created by my double assault brought my all of my focus to finishing.
I squirmed on the mattress caring about nothing but my orgasm. When it hit, I planted both feet on the mattress and thrust my hips straight up. This pointed my dick at my face and my first eruption sent wet, sticky cream my chin. The remaining spasms coated my belly and chest, leaving me in definite need of another shower.
I dropped to the mattress and let the minutes pass while I lay smiling in a contented afterglow. I idly played with my softening and creamy cock and made small, mini-thrusts with the well used vegetable to draw out the pleasure as long as I could.
I knew I had to clean up, but still feeling full, I wondered what I’d do the next time I had a few private moments.
That was extremely hot! I agree that since God gave us our bodies, there can be nothing wrong with enjoying all parts of them. It is Satan that perverts the good gifts of God. We can take back those gifts. Men have a prostate (and the associated pleasure) for a reason! I hope to learn how to give my future husband pleasure in that area. It will sure be a new thing for me, though, because I haven't gotten up courage to try anything anal on myself yet!
I’m glad you thought the story was hot LLL. 😉 I’m also glad you agree there’s nothing wrong with enjoying all of our bodies.
Initially, I didn’t have the courage either, but my curiosity won, and I’m glad it did. My first explorations were in the shower for cleanliness reasons, and I still always shower before the fun time. Anal play isn’t for everyone, but you don’t know until you try😉
Very well written KM! I have used a cucumber before as well. Like you, I am not the one to be submissive and seek to enjoy it honorably.
Thanks texasman76!
I was once on a christian blog, back in the day, & the subject was anal sex in hetero marriages. There were a lot of guys on there condemning ANY anal enjoyment of men, women, married, or not. One guy went off saying any anal activity was because of homosexual desires & it was of satan, & all kinds of evil.
I replied, & said, homosexual sex is a sin because God says it is, not because it's anal.
I still stand by this, today. Nothing is a sin just because it is icky, gross, or even that it could be harmful. All sin is defined as such because God says it is. Outside of His Word is just us sinners making it about preference.
I don't condemn a marriage, spouse, or anyone for enjoying anal stimulation. It is a part of our body, we are free to explore it.
However, I have some thoughts (not in judgement, but only as points I think of whenever this topic comes around)…
1. I believe God gives us the freedom to do righteousness & sin. Yet, both having consequences. What I mean, here, is that, I believe, we have the freedom to ruin things for ourselves, if we want. No, I don't mean we should set out to go against God's will. However, God allows it, if we so demand it. On the righteous side of this, we can explore & take risks, without sinning. Take bdsm for instance, it might bring pleasure, but it can leave marks. It can even damage tissue. Within consenting marriages, have at it. Take the risk, have the fun, but know of any consequences.
2. I do not believe that pleasure sensations equal permission to indulge, though. Whenever I hear this sentiment I cringe, a little. Because, feel good sensations are very helpful, in non-sexual ways. Meaning, if pooping were a horrific painful act, like childbirth, life would really suck. I'm really glad that waste, fingers, & the Dr.'s scope in my butt is not a painful experience. It does not mean, though, that God meant us to make extreme anal insert videos for pleasure. I am only saying that pleasurable feels do not always mean have sex with it, yet we can responsibly play with those sensations, if we so desire.
3. We are called to stewardship, over what God gives us. We are to make informed, & wise decisions concerning sex play. A vagina is made to expand & recover its normal size. Yet, the sphincter can lose its ability to function correctly. It is warned that anal play can lead to incontinence. Prolapsing is a thing. As much as anal is said to be pleasurable, it is also cautioned against, depending where we want to look. I say this, because a lot of sex & sensation out in our world today is just promoted as good. None of it hurts, none of it is harmful, & none of it is sin. We live in a world that actively wants to hide/cancel anything that offends. We also indulge the new high, & feel good activity, as finally finding Heaven. I'll never stop, can't believe I didn't start sooner, everyone should just try it, they'll be hooked, too. Yet, we all know that alcoholics wish they never took that first drink, etc. etc. This doesn't mean a Dr.'s scope, a finger, or dildo is a sin up there. Yet, things have a reason for existing, & sex is not the reason our digestive system exists.
Not poo pooing on your anal play;) I appreciate your post, KM. I know you are not kicking God out of the room, to do it. Rock on.
Sex isn't the reason our digestive system exists, yet God did build men with their prostates immediately adjacent to and easily reachable by their rectums. I'm glad He did because it opens up a world of sexual possibilities for men who for so long have thought that sexual pleasure was penis-only, and by extension Sex = insert into vagina, thrust until ejaculate (~2-5min), fall asleep. Yet anyone who still clings to THAT idea of sex probably has a hard time explaining the existence of the clitoris as well, and I don't even want to know their attitudes towards oral sex. In reality there is a lot more going on beneath the surface for anyone curious enough to explore, not that a lot of men do or feel comfortable with that idea.
I think your concerns about safety are incredibly relevant, though, because I've continuously seen on this site writers depicting or even recommending unsafe anal practices, and it makes me uncomfortable. As anal play becomes more acceptable and something that more people are curious about, I think this site would do well to have an info page which educates people about safety before exploration. People can of course do their own research and will make their own choices regardless, but still…
Fruit/vegetables are really not designed to be used as sex toys, yet people do. It seems unwise to me for several reasons, starting with their inability to be sterilized and ending with not being anal-safe. Even regular sex toys are not designed for anal penetration unless there is a flared base to keep the anus from swallowing it up completely, a good reminder that such scenarios might precipitate a rather embarrassing trip to the emergency room.
Perhaps it's less of an issue the larger the item is, but that brings in its own problems. The anus is a muscle and can be trained & strengthened in a way that someone can accommodate larger items (of penis size or larger, say), but you are absolutely right that if stretched too far too fast (ie: without proper warmup for instance) there can be irreparable damage. In extreme cases, people having to wear diapers for the rest of their lives.
A good rule of thumb is that you need to go slow, use lots of lube (and NOT something that says "for external use only"), and if it hurts: STOP and reassess. Pain is your body's way of telling you that you're going too fast, possibly doing something you shouldn't.
Hi SCMM,
A lot of guys do condemn all anal play, but (IMHO), this is due to misunderstandings and misguided preconceived notions. Both the penis and the prostate are male sexual organs, and both, (I believe), are fair play for sexual pleasure.
It is true that care should be exercised and precautions should be taken.
Excellent story! I too have indulged in some anal play with my wife’s small glass dildo while I had some time to myself. The ridged surface added some intense pleasure while I stroked my slick shaft. A bonus of this discovery was when I shared my findings with my wife, she took over my anal stimulation while I masturbated to a great orgasm. She was happy she could help increase my pleasure, and after all, isn’t that what spouses do for each other?
Thank you! It’s fantastic that your wife was willing to help you out. And you’re right, spouses helping each other with their pleasure is what’s supposed to happen. Thanks for your comment!