What’s Your Favorite?
After reading one of LovingMan’s comments recently, I thought I’d just put the question out there:
Married couples – What is your favorite sex position and why?
Patiently waiting singles – What might your favorite position be with your future spouse, and why?
To play fair, I’ll go first.
When romance is in the air, it’s missionary. I love the eye contact, the full view and access to all her parts. And I love when she wraps her legs around me in an effort to pull me in.
When there’s just a naughty need, it’s doggy. There’s something primal and animalistic about taking her from behind. The view is also spectacular and it gives me access to her other tight little canal. 😉
So now it’s your turn, fellow MHers.
Oh for me it has to be her on top.Watching those big 38dds bounce up and down/side to side while she's riding my cock is the best of all!!
Bouncing titties while your wife rides your cock cannot be overrated 😉
Reverse cowgirl with her moving up and down slowly. She uses her vibe to get her orgasm then she continues moving up and down. Once I tell her she turns over and then wraps her legs around me. I love doggie too but it is uncomfortable for her for some reason. She is very small and I am not 😉
We haven’t used reverse cowgirl a lot, but I do like it!
It's being on top for me! For him it is doggy style. Although we both just love screwing regardless of position.
Definitely nothing wrong with that way of thinking 😉
The beauty of sex is there are so many positions and options. We like them all. I would say her on top facing me is a favorite This really brings out her beauty and I have immediate access to her lovely breast.
I definitely love the boob access when she’s on top. 😉
Cowgirl has always seemed incredibly hot to me, plus I understand it's the easiest position for women to orgasm, so that's win-win and potentially less work for me! 😀 Also a lot of positions from the Kama Sutra look hot as well–the Lotus, anyone? Come on…
I don’t know about all women, but cowgirl is the fastest way to get my wife to cum.
(Male here) Any variation – on her back, legs up in the air, legs pulled back, legs back knees near her head hitting her G-spot (sometimes too deep for her, so I don't go all the way in, which makes my cock feel bigger) and her tits bouncing. I also love foreplay in 69 or her sitting on my face. I also love wining and dining on her pussy, and occasionally lift her hips up in order to lick her asshole after I made her cum. (Getting hard now. Ready for some after Easter celebration sex).
I love to watch her bouncing tits…wining and dining never gets old either 😉
More often than any other for PIV, is for her sitting or lying on her back, on the picnic table, bed, wherever…..and me standing.
Great view for me, and both of us can play with her nipples & tits, as well as her clit with fingers or a vibe!
Works great for both of us!
Sounds like a great time 😉
Ooh, they all sound so fun that I can't wait to try them! Future husband is going to have his hands full with me! I think missionary appeals the most to me because it is so intimate. I'd also like to try both of us lying on our side facing each other so I can hook a leg over him. Cowgirl sounds fun, though I think my legs might get tired from holding me up if I'm doing the thrusting. Oh, and I'd love to have him either on the floor or bed and I'd sit in his lap and grind on his cock. That's so erotic.
So, cowgirl is great and there are variations. You can rest your shins on the mattress and grind your hips on his cock. It’s far less tiresome on your legs. This is how we do it and she cums very quickly in this position.
We’ve also done the other one you mentioned a few times. It is very erotic and it lets her “fuck me.” 😉
Your attitude is amazing! Your future husband is in for the ride of his life! Yip-eeeeeeeee!
We most enjoy the Bow and Arrow position. I am unsure if it is something others do or have another term for, but we call it as such because I usually am lying down on my stomach, with my upper body flat on the surface or slightly raised by my forearms. My legs are spread apart, wide, almost forming the shape of a bow. Then, my upper body is like the arrow. Though, if my Sir prefers, he is the arrow, lol.
We enjoy it because it allows for very intense and deep penetration from us both. More than any other position, it if as if I can feel his heartbeat and breath within mine. Sir enjoys it because he can place his hands on my back, hips, bosom, bum, etc. and massage, grab firmly or other more dominant gestures which come naturally for him and which I adore.
The feeling of being claimed, is wonderful in this position. One of my married friends once inquired about positions and as I did for her, I happily suggest this intimate pose for anyone. Sometimes, have your legs and bum closer to the edge of a bed or bench makes it even more enjoyable!
So I had to google this one and now it’s definitely on my to-do list! Thanks for the tip Soph-Tea!
Thanks for the shout out KM.
As the reader reads this bear in mind that my wife n I are elderly with major health challenges.
Although I have sexplained our “go to” sex position before on MH… here it is again:
Our best sex position is what we call X Position. It’s a funny name – sounds like “exposition!”
Melody, my sexy, well-endowed wife lies on her back. I line up my erection to her pussy while I am on my side. This position has been awesome for us because she can use her vibrator to buzz her clitty WHILE we are fucking each other. (Enthusiastically fucking each other is still great lovemaking!)
We start a full sex session with kissing then oral n digital nipple-play on each other. She’ll go through a sequence of viberators as we do this. We’ll take turns pumping my rod.
Sometimes we do oral (fellatio &/or cunnunlingus) as foreplay but sometimes as the main event.
But usually we move to our X Position and fuck each other until I come. She is great at squeezing my cock with her Kegal muscles. Sometime she cums too during intercourse but more often I fill her pussy then scoop our mutual cum from her leaking pussy. I will apply our proteins shake to her nipples and proceed to lick it off as she finishes with her vibe. She usually has her first orgasm in less than a minute. And lately much of the tile as I keep loving on her nips she’ll cum again. Lately she’s been being double orgasmic during most of our lovemaking sessions.
Sometimes we go back to fuck-fest round two… but more often she’ll orally love on my man-nips as I stroke my cock with my hand or with a vibrating male stroker – to my second orgasm.
That’s pretty typical but typical is still great. Sometimes we do roleplay and do lots of different things like doggy – extended oral sex etc. 3-5 orgasms etc. Massage sex, cowgirl etc. But our X Position is our favorite!
I’ve said it before, but I’ll say it again. The devotion you two have for each other despite your health issues is inspiring. I really wish you could teach a class.
Oops! I gotta add that in a major sex romp Melody wants to kneel on the edge of the bed while I pound her pussy from behind. She has told me so and we’ve experienced that as well.
I love this one too. 😉
I pretty much a agree with KM here.
I do like seeing her cowgirl, as it gives her the control, but it's probably the least satisfying for me.
Doggy style is raw erotic sex and we've got better at finding just the right position to make it more comfortable for both, (and more energetic), in the last couple of years, so it's featured more often of late. She will use a toy as well for her to get the bigger O. It does get us yelling.
But I think missionary with a wedge under her bum is the tops for me. Either face to face watching the others eyes, or sucking a lovely bite on her neck while I control all the movement gives me the biggest orgasms.
I do love it when she demands a particular position, I think she would say the same of me. It does prevent the occasional awkward "which do you want….no, which do you want" short pause!!!
I have always wanted to try a wedge. Just having her positioned on one would be sexy as hell, and pounding her there would be fan-freaking-tastic.
We prefer a modification of a position that has been termed a “fusion” or “rocking horse.” The man sits on a towel with his back to pillows and his wife sits on his erection facing him. Then she lays back onto his legs. He covers them both with female ejaculate by giving her labia a slow gentle clitoral orgasm. She then returns the favor by raising her hips and sliding back and forth on his erection. It requires having a shower afterward, but it is worth it.
Everything about that sounds hot. 😉
Her’s is cowgirl & I really like the view but I don’t last very long.
Mine is having her on her back me standing at the side of the bed and going to pound town,
Another favorite but doesn’t occur that often is she’s on her forearms bent over the side of the bed I’m standing & have a wall at my back to lean against & I’m like the dildo stuck to the wall for her. A small hotel room or cruise cabin for that one. 😃
Nice! All the more reason to go on a cruise 😊
Gotta say, my all time favorite is missionary. Love my wife playing with my nipples/chest hair and butt hair. Turns me on so much. Also love her on top facing me. I can see her breasts and entering her. Nothing like getting woken up from a good nap, too. A while back I was taking a nap naked, as usual, and she started playing with my butt hair. Got me an instant hard on. She moved to my nipples and then played with my chest and stomach hair down to my cock. Needless to say, I mounted her after that. We also did it missionary with me only wearing cowboy boots and a cowboy hat. It was rodeo season, what can I say? She loves me to be a cowboy sometimes since I wear suits and wingtips most of the time.
It’s cool that your wife is a fan of role playing. Sounds like a great night!
We do the wheelbarrow which is doggy style while holding her feet like handles.
Wife on top riding me watching her DD breast bouncing up and down.
Oooo…that sounds hot!
I tried that "wheelbarrow" once in a hotel on vacation with my first wife. I really liked it.
Unfortunately, she started complaining that it was "too much work", and thus ruined the moment.
But, someday, I'll have a new wife with a better attitude.
We’re always trying new things but we love the basics. She likes spread eagle. He likes missionary.
Nice! I love the term, “spread eagle.” 😉
Single guy here! I used to comment a lot more, but this topic brought me back out of the woodwork! One position that I've had fixated in my mind for a while is a variation on spooning where I lie on my back, either flat or at a slight incline, with my future wife on top of me, also on her back.
After a little searching around, it seems at least a couple sources agree this is called the "Bent Spoon" position. My particular idea may involve slight variations, but this is a pretty good approximation. It can be found on ChristianFriendlySexPositions.com at this link (if MH admins approve) or by searching that site for "bent spoon". (https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/bent-spoon/)
Here are a few of the reasons I find this position attractive!
1) Contact: I've realized I have a powerful craving for full-body contact. While I love the idea of seeing my future wife in positions like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy, etc., and seeing her beautiful breasts and booty, what I crave even more than seeing her is feeling her. This spooning position would let our entire torsos be pressed together as we make love. Plus, I think I'd adore the feeling of her beautiful backside pressed into my lap as we grind together.
2) Access: In this position, my hands would have complete access to so many of her special and sensitive places: clitoris, breasts and nipples, neck, and more. I could hold her steady on top of me, while simultaneously stimulating her inside and out. It would also be the perfect position to nibble on her ears and whisper sweet or naughty things into them. When I imagine feeling her back against my chest, thrusting into her womanhood, teasing her clit with one hand and a nipple with the other, and whispering my love in her ear, all at the same time… whew! It drives me wild! I hope it does for her too!
3) Relaxation: Since we'd both be lying down, maybe at a slight incline, I think that would minimize the exertion needed. In my self-exploration, I've also begun to discover that intentional, deep relaxation helps me last much longer before ejaculating. Less effort from muscles and slower progress toward ejaculation could result in the lovemaking session being sustained for a longer time!
One potential downside I can think of for this position is that it makes eye contact difficult, and I know I want us to be able to gaze into each other's souls as we make love. But this could be partially remedied by a mirror, if we're feeling a little kinky! We could mount one on the ceiling above our bed as a permanent mark of our unashamed passion, or we could sit up on the edge of the bed or in a chair and face a full-length mirror in front of us, to allow that indirect eye contact and give us front-row seats to watch the beauty of our own lovemaking.
Such a hot discussion! Thanks for re-sparking this beautiful fantasy in my mind. Lord willing, that fantasy will become a treasured reality some day.
Sounds great to me! I hope you can experience it with your future wife!
My favorite position is doggy style, but I like to start in the missionary and role her over and finish doggy style. There is something amazing about fucking my wife from behind. The view is great and when she needs it she can use a toy. I also like screwing her from the side so I can watch her boobs bounce while we fuck!
All I can say to that is…Yes!!! 🥵🔥
Doggy!!! I get to see that sweet ass from behind and can even stimulate her ass hole on occasion. Also when we are done I can shoot my load all over her sweet ass and back!!
You’re choice and your reasons are sound Ccyall. Doggy is awesome! 😉
Sorry KM, but I can't stick to just one.
ORAL: 69 is 98% of the time we get intimate. Love the practical simultaneous stimulation. Every once in a while we do it all the way to climax and devour the otherwise messiness. 69 is also really good for ass fingering, which we'll sometimes do. If Kate solo, sit right on my mouth and grind away with that sweet treat. If me solo, while we don't do it very often, I love to hang her head over the edge of the bed and fuck her throat slow but deep.
VAGINAL: We rarely do missionary, with our height and weight differences, but after considerable weight loss (giving me about another inch of cock), I'd love to try it again. It's hard to beat the intimacy of the eye contact and deep, passionate kissing missionary affords a couple. Kate has liked doggy in the past, but that has gotten more challenging as my cock has gotten bigger. Her current favorite is her ass on the edge of the bed, legs wrapped around me, while I'm standing. Cowgirl is one we both like too.
ANAL: The most comfortable for her is to spoon her. The most practical is doggy and that is my favorite. I would love to try seated with her on top of me, probably feet on my thighs and weight resting on my torso, with me doing most of the thrusting from underneath. I probably would need her to have sneakers on to get a grip on my legs, as we use lots of coconut oil that can get messy. Thinking the "squatty potty" nature of that position could lead to natural muscle relaxation and maximum penetration without discomfort.
No worries!
As far as 69 goes, I have to admit that I love the eroticism of the position, but there’s a lot going on and it’s very difficult to keep both mouths full. 😁 I’m glad y’all love it so much, though.
I’m also glad you guys have so many favorites 😉
This is an easy one for me. It’s doggystyle. And the reason. Well there are many. My husband has easy access to both of my holes. He smacks my ass, pulls my hair and with his big cock he goes balls deep in my pussy.
I don’t know how I managed to overlook your comment, but my apologies.
I love every single thing you described.
We do not have any single position we like more than others. It often depends on our mood and where the lovemaking session takes us.
Our mainstay is 69, doggy-style, cowgirl and flying-V or flying eagle missionary. We often make use of our Liberator Wedge and Ramp pillows. The pillows allows for comfort, differing angles and deeper penetration.
We mainly do 69 with my wife on top or on our sides. This allows me to massage my wife's butt cheeks as I orally please her. The ramp/wedge combination works really well when my wife is on top. The wedge is under my head and ramp under my butt. In this configuration we both have comfortable access to each other, allowing prolonged pleasure.
My wife loves doggy-style mainly for the deeper penetration she feels. I like it as I have access to her luscious round butt, and I can massage her boobs and nipples. My wife also likes this position when she wants me to thrust into her hard.
Flying V or flying eagle is when the woman lies on her back, legs up and spread as wide as she comfortably can. This is mainly a visual stimuli position. We can look at each others pleasure as I thrust in and out of her while holding her ankles. My wife will massage her boobs, pinch her nipples and/or rub her clit. We often use the wedge in this position as it allows for deeper penetration.
We like cowgirl as it allows my wife to better control depth of penetration and stimulation. I like the view of her boobs bouncing as she rocks herself on me. Placing the wedge or ramp under my butt allows her to vary the stimulation she feels more. She can also lean over me where I can suck on her nipples, which drives her wild.
On occasion she will lie on the ramp with her butt on the high side and her head hanging off the bed. I will go down on her and slowly work her up to an orgasm, or I will penetrate her while using her vibrator on her clit, again slowly taking her to orgasm. The blood rush to her head combined with her orgasm adds a new level of euphoria.
More ramp users…I love it. The Flying V is now serious goal 😂🔥
Definitely woman on top because she can control what feels good to her(depth, rhythm, speed). It also frees me to watch her breasts, feel them and kiss them. I also love the eye contact and the ability to watch her facial expressions as she builds up to an orgas,m.
I like just about ANY position, any time, and almost anywhere.
That said, I'm kinda partial to a position that I read about in a porn magazine back in the late 1970s. It is called the "crab" position.
The name sounds weird, but it is a great position. The couple lies on their sides, facing each other, but with their upper bodies angled somewhat away from each other. (Picture dancing the tango, but horizontally.) The woman lifts one leg, and the man is able to penetrate.
The amazing thing about this position is that, after you get used to it, it takes a lot of the "work" out of sex. Both spouses are lying on the bed, as opposed to only one. It kinda isolates the pelvic area, which makes it easy for the pumping action, but without as much stress as missionary. Each spouse gets a really good view of the other one, as opposed to doggy (where the wife can't see her husband at all).
And, there are even a couple of minor variations. For example, if the husband holds a small mirror with a handle on it, then the wife can WATCH his dick going into her pussy! (Usually, men are more "visual" than women. But, for the woman that is turned-on visually, just imagine being able to see and feel the penetration at the same time.) The other variation is that, if the wife gives her hips a half-twist (like a dance move), then the husband gets the dual advantage of being able to see her face (like missionary) and get the feel of banging her ass (like doggy) AT THE SAME TIME. Women seem to like the feeling of "getting owned" in this position, because they are kinda twisted up in a pretzel, and yet without much physical stress or effort.
I'm also fond of the "starfish" position, which might be the same as the "bow and arrow" described above. And, for those times when BOTH spouses really need a quickie RIGHT NOW, standing doggy style (with the wife bent over the kitchen counter) can't be improved upon.
Lately for me, now that I am able to take Jim’s enormous tool in my rear entrance, doggie style is SO awesome! I always begin my fuck sessions with Jim with a delightful cocksucking warmup right after a sexy and soapy shower, one where Jim lathers my creamy pussy with a handful of body wash, followed by a vigorous tongue lashing from behind.
As mentioned, lately we have been going right into a serious doggie fuck with me on all fours until my arms collapse after my first orgasm. At that point Jim will offer me his cock so I can taste my own juices before he remounts and begins playing with my asshole using an ample supply of my cream and some lube to slowly glide his 8-9” into my tight hole.
This always causes a bit of pain which awakens another pleasure center to my senses and within seconds I am wildly bucking against his meat while I finger my cunt with one hand and eventually moving on to a serious nipple twisting that immediately ushers in an intense orgasm.
And after those severe ass poundings we can’t go back to pussy fucking for fear of infection, so, our only decision remaining is where he chooses to pump his load at the conclusion of my sucking him again (which one would think would taste yucky, but doesn’t- maybe because of how deep he penetrates me.
TMI? I hope not, just telling it like it is…
I recently discovered something called the Tantra Chair.. and holy fuck! I want one and I’m not even married 😂😂 it seems like a great way to try a lot of these positions! Has anyone used a chair like this before?
Tantra is a word from Hindi that is a form of sex that summons the Hindu gods. Beware!
We both love it when Jeanie is on top riding me with her sexy tits swinging. I can grab her ass and help her fuck me. We also have a mirror that we can watch my cock disappear into her cunt. We can kiss too which can get sloppy
We also love doggy style. She says I get very deep. I grab her hips and pound her hard spanking her big ass too.