Marriage Heat Fantasy Poll
Marriage Heat dares you to share your fantasy ideas in this poll. Have you role-played a fantasy in the past? Share the juicy details as a micro-story (400 words or less) in the comments. What has held you back from trying new fantasies? How did you overcome your hesitation?
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What a fun post!!
Parker and I love the high school sweethearts play, but it isn’t necessarily fantasy because it was true for us and we lived it! But we do sometimes like to pretend we’re just two kids sneaking into each others’ bedrooms and having quickies in the band or cheer closet or under the bleachers at the big game “for luck” before he plays!
We also dabble a little in workplace fantasies (we both have a few very attractive coworkers) and I’ve been known to give him a blowjob under his desk while he’s in a zoom call with his very pretty intern/assistant… One time for a conference they were going to out of state, I went with Parker and his female co-workers’ boyfriend came too! We loved getting to know them, and they had the hotel room next to ours. They aren’t believers as far as we know, but they have been very inquisitive about our faith as we’ve spent more time with them, so that has been a blessing.
But our favorite fantasy is hot wife! As for our interpretation, I hope I’m not reading the poll option wrong, but Parker and I are working with the urban dictionary definition when we have those fantasies.
Marriage Heat introduced us to role play lov’n! Here is a partial list of things we’ve done AND the title of the story I wrote about the role play. I write up the role play first and arrange costumes and paperwork etc.
Mesozoic Massage: about a married couple who are paleontologists out on a dig. They have a massage table set up next to their camping trailer and they are in an isolated place. Husband gives wife an erotic massage that turns into full on lovemaking.
Lake Powell and Back To Lake Powell: About a couple meeting, marrying, and honeymooning at Lake Powell. Sequel is a second honeymoon years later. We went to a themed inn both times. They have a Lake Powell room. I wrote the first story and we acted out the first one too but it was too long to post here.
Birthday Massage Role Play: where I was the massage client and my Melody was the masseuse. Acted out massage sex many times in our bedroom. We own a massage table.
Elf Loving, parts 1-4: We had an Elven Enchanted Forest themed room at an inn. We had Elven costumes and we really had a blast with sex multiple times in multiple ways 4-5 days in a row!
The Evaluation parts 1-3: I was the physician/sexologist who was evaluating my client’s body and sexual skills. It was of course, totally unrealistic but it was fantastic!
I designed and printed out a pre-made evaluation form that I filled out about my “patient’s” body and her performance in each sex act. Yes it was incredible!!!
Another role play was set in Belize. It featured me as a masseur and Melody as my client. I don’t remember that title.
I have yet to fully write it up but we did erotic photographer and model kinda recently. I bought a professional set of photography lights and a tripod with a remote for my iPhone. We store the photos and videos on our private photo app. I never finished modifying that one for publication but we sure had fun with it!
You see, I write up the role play and we act it out but reality is never quite the same as written. So I modify the story to reflect what we actually did sexually in our role play!
Thanks again MH authors who introduced us to role play lov’n!
These role play sexual experiences and many others have been some of the highlights of our love life together.
My wife and I have role played as professor and student, cowboy and his lady, and slutty librarian (this is even more fun now that she is the head librarian in our town). The cowboy was her fantasy, the other 2 are mine. We both had fun with all of them.
Amish Girl- My most recent favorite was my wife pretended to be a sweet innocent Amish woman who drops off eggs at my house when I’m at work. Would not be appropriate for her to drop off and come into my house if I was there. Ooops this time my car had broken down and she didn’t know I was home. Comes in and gets curious about my bedroom and what it’s like to be with a man. Wouldn’t you know I would walk out of the bathroom after showering and I catch her on my bed rubbing herself thinking of me? She turns out to be very curious about the wild and crazy English ways of the bedroom. We are doing this one again.
Ooooo-la-la, spicy!!! For me, my top pick would definitely be “hot-wife” as it’s defined by the urban dictionary… “A married woman who is allowed and/or encouraged by her husband to pursue sexual relationships with other individuals. Often, these relationships are in pursuit of fulfilling the husband's/couple's fantasies.”
Probably my biggest sexual fantasy of all time is having extra-marital sexual adventures with other numerous sex partners (both male and female) while still remaining a loving church wife to my husband. It’s the hottest fantasy to me, but also one that I would not actually pursue in real life for obvious reasons.
Such sceneries included would be us indulging in threesomes, and also cuckolding / cheating on my husband while enjoying casual sex with both men and women.
BTW, speaking of such fantasy material, I would love to submit a story in the very near future with that spicy (F) tag! ‘Hot-wife’ being spit-roasted? 😉 Cuckolding/cheating on my husband while having sex with my boss?! Maybe even a little girl-on-girl action, who knows! 😉
I struggle with the hotwife/ cuckolding/cheating fantasies a lot. It’s something I strongly desire and think about daily
My wife loves the idea of being split-roasted! Honestly it turns me on to think about sharing a romantic, sensual evening with 2 other people. Just a weekend away to relax…
We can totally relate!
I look forward to reading your stories. I have masturbated to your stories before. you are my favorite writter! so erotic with the fantasies that you have and share.
I'll sum it up in a word. Pantyhose. I've been addicted to them my entire life. So if we can get pantyhose worked into it, I'm a happy guy.
Doctor/patient is one of our favorites. Once we did a sort of 3rd Rock from the Sun thing, where she was a doctor and an alien. I came in for a check-up. She didn't know what that thing was, and why was it red and swollen and seeping? Better rub this ointment into it. What?! What's happening?
Another is Spy/Femme Fatale. Once we did a series of pics, where she was strangling me with her spare stockings, scissoring my neck with her perfect silky nyloned legs, and about to stab me while I was engrossed in kissing her knee.
A lot of times in my fantasies, she forces, requires, prescribes, or even catches me wearing a pair of her pantyhose. Then depending on which it was, she's surprised or shocked that I am so aroused and teases my manhood through them. A good doctor can't let a guy leave with blue balls. It's not healthy. And of course She's dressed in a short hemline, pantyhose and heels. And often the gusset of the hose is cut open, or I cut it open and we have sex right in the moment, in character.
Two micro-stories.
The first I'll call "Rescue the Princess". This is the fantasy, but one which I've acted out in marriage, and in countless versions. I, the hero, have to find the captive princess, who is being held somewhere that her captors think cannot be found. But I find her every time, even if she's been silenced, because I recognize her voice when she tries to call out for help. I would never mistake her voice for someone else's.
We've also done a version of this. The bad guy (me) ties her up to train tracks. Then the hero(also me, in different clothes) rescues her and takes her in his arms. Think damsel in distress. Snidely Whiplash tying Nell to the tracks. We did this, and photo-documented it. pretty fun
Surprised that women enjoy cuckold fantasies, but from the current responses here they do. I thought men only enjoyed such fantasies. I think fantasy between husband and wife is allowed, but it can become an obsession and unhealthy, so pray and proceed with caution.
Micro-story #2. True story.
I was living in co-ed, student quarters in college. Not a dorm, or maybe think of it as a dorm on a smaller scale. Anyway, the house maintenance work was divided up among all of us, including kitchen cleaning. I was working night shifts as a security guard besides taking classes, and decided I would schedule my cleaning for Saturday mornings. It wasn't ideal, since I normally worked late-night Fridays, but there no Saturday classes so I figured that was the best time.
So I woke up after an hour nap, and got up quickly, because my shift on KP (as they used to call it, anyway) was next. The main kitchen was next door; two houses formed one co-op. I headed downstairs, leading to the other kitchen, still making a bee-line for the main one, when I heard my name.
"W," she said, using my name (here including only my first initial), "did you know that you had dishes to do next door?" She put her hands on both my shoulders, with an affection characteristic of her. "S" (also her first initial) had already become a good friend, and that was as far as our relationship ever got. But she did want to check with me on this.
I assured her that I had not forgotten, and as quickly as I could, explained that I had just gotten off a night shift with next to no sleep. "So you were headed next door to do them?" I again told her, somewhat hurriedly that I had not forgotten. After all, the more time I had to take explaining all this, the more it was going to delay my getting started. Possibly even risk getting reported to the work coordinator.
I think she understood all of that, because to my surprise she broke out in a huge, wide smile. Then, looking right into my weary, half-asleep eyes, did a perfect imitation Southern belle. "Well then, I'll *shut my mouth!*" The "my", of course, sounding more like "mah".
I fear that the number of paragraphs telling this story belies the brevity of our encounter, and her friendly, almost flirty confrontation. I didn't think about it much in the moment, with kitchen duty calling. But I did look back at her for a moment. Long enough to get the point. All of it. I later understood that she could be assertive and submissive. That time she was both – at precisely the same moment. When a woman did that to me, it excited the daylights out of me.
The incident grew and grew on me. We went our separate ways in a few years, but parted as the best of friends. "Well, then I'll shut mah mouth!"
My wife, to whom I related this story early on in our dating, told me it was the way she looked at me, and I think she was right. She would say the same words – "shut my mouth!" – to either help me cum during lovemaking, or cum even harder if I had started – or she had.
So I'll title this micro-story either "Shut My Mouth!" or "Assertive and Submissive at the Same Moment". Take your pick.
My husband and I love role play. We have done many scenarios including, Doctor/ Patient ( often alternating roles), Hot wife, Stranded Stranger ( once again alternating roles ), Hotel Escort( where I pretend to be his escort for the evening, then he fucks me), Prisoner/ horny prison guard ( this is usually a prelude to my pegging him), Mafia Boss and The Lady ( always fun).
All in all it's all about having fun with one another and sharing our fantasies. There are others but I want to keep them private.
Awesome post!! Stay horny always!
What I appreciate is that the couples on here understand that in the bond of marriage, they can act out their fantasies in safety and purity, but making them real would be sinful. Not everyone can draw that line and say, "I'm going to keep my desires directed towards Godliness". It lifts a load off of my mind to know that these things which many people fantasize about can be enjoyed in a good way, and thus do not have to be sinful. And I agree with Victor0884's comment: that we don't allow any fantasy to become an obsession and pull us into sin. If our hearts and bodies are fully given to the Lord, then we will honor Him in our actions.
Now, for my fantasies! I have many, and the more I grow in my sexual adventurousness, the more ideas I get! Of course, y'all know my WWII mania, so I'd love to act out some kind of scenario with a girl and a soldier, or two spies, or a German citizen rescuing a Jew, or a sympathetic guard with a prisoner. Anything where we could dress in the parts and make it real. Just waiting for my future husband to appear so we can make it happen! I do have a fantasy of making our own erotic video, but I have no idea how to make it look good without professional videography, and I'm not sure if I would be up for doing sexual acts in front of a third party, no matter how professional they were. I'll discuss it with my future husband, but it's certainly okay if he doesn't care for the idea. I've got loads of other things we can do together on a constantly-growing list!
Hi. I might have spent too much time composing this. Maybe this is chapter one of stories I could write inspired by seeing this poll. The truth is that my husband and I are not the only one who want to explore masturbation fantasies.
This truth hit me with the force of a raging wave, leaving my mind spinning in disbelief. According to this MH poll, Masturbation Fantasies – How "getting yourself off" turns each other on – ranks as the most popular fantasy. It was hard for me to process. I thought we were the only ones. But wow, the number one fantasy. Memories of my husband's confession from years ago echoed in my mind: his desire for me to engage in secret masturbation, not just at home but also in hidden corners of our retail store.
We are the owners of a small women's clothing boutique, a space that held dear memories of both our business and family life. We are in our mid-forties. We started the story when they were young children. Our daughters, who used to spend time amidst the racks of silk and cotton, had grown up in this very shop and their hard work here had helped fund their college education. Now that they were out in the world, it was just my husband and I again, continuing to explore our mutual love and appreciation for the human form – God's creation that we loved to adorn and make others feel sexy and desirable.
"Explore" – such a simple word yet it felt inadequate to describe the journey he proposed. Yet here we were, diving deep into the realm of his masturbation fantasies that I would indulge in. He affectionately called me his "masturbation hot wife," a title that would always make me blush. The results of the poll only. Still shocking! We were not alone in this private game of pleasure.
I remember feeling shock when he first shared his desire for me to be his 'married masturbation slut.' His words painted vivid images that triggered an intense physical reaction; my body responded beyond what my mind could comprehend as I grew wet with arousal. Looking at him, I could see the bulge growing in his pants, proof of the power of shared fantasies.
"No way," I pretended to be outraged, my voice laced with fake shock and genuine hesitation. Could I do it? Would I do it? These questions raced through my mind as I abruptly stood up and stormed out, using anger as an excuse to retreat to the bathroom.
Sitting alone on the cool porcelain, my hand seemed to move of its own accord. The touch was electrifying, connecting directly to my deepest desires. Any thoughts about what my mother or friends would say if they knew vanished in the face of this undeniable need. My clit throbbed under my fingertips, and with each movement, I surrendered more and more to the sensation until I finally reached climax, gasping for breath.
When I returned to him, still composed but buzzing with aftershocks of pleasure, he could smell the scent of my surrender on my fingers. Admitting the truth – that his fantasy had sparked a feral fire within me – seemed to reignite him as well. I pulled my panties down, he pulled his pant down.
With my dress bunched around my waist, I straddled him, enveloping him in my heat. Each movement pushed us higher and higher until another wave of ecstasy built within me. As I reached the peak once again, I whispered my consent into the charged air between us.
"I am completely yours as your masturbation slut."
He smiled at me, and he injected me with his cum. His eyes shining with love and primal desire. Maybe I will write about some of our adventures.
I so agree! Ben loves watching me masturbate and I so love watching him masturbate. Like you, I am his masturbation slut! Stay horny.
Oh my. Definitely write a series!
Lovely story Lizzy, do write more.
There are never too many masturbation stories, and they are helpful for our readers.
Agreed, SK!
We love to meet up “as strangers” in a bar. Sometimes hubby watches on the other side of the bar other men hitting on me before he comes to buy me a drink. Flirting and kissing sitting at the bar is just sexy and the tension gets hot. We did this just last weekend and once he asked me to “come over to his place”, he led me outside and we didn’t make it home before we started to make out. It was late at night and hubby pinned me against the wall and while kissing my neck, his fingers creeped up under my skirt and he dipped his finger in my pussy. He is so much taller than me so he pretty much covered me and I let him finger me there for a bit. It was just two-block walk home with many stops for make out and once back home, I so loved the animalistic passion of him ripping my clothes off. Hubby fucked me good that night and now I’m getting turned on thinking about this again. Maybe we’ll try something else this weekend..
stagdoe, yes it's a LOT of fun. Besides, there is an element of reality to the rescuing the damsel fantasy. I think a lot more men, and a lot more women, enjoy that, even crave it simply because it is so elemental, such a – shall I say ancient desire. I'm not saying we're all alike in that way, but it is a lot more widespread desire than even some who have it want to admit.
I'd be interested in any such stories, as well as others, you may have.
The main thing holding me back from acting out fantasies is the fact that I'm single! I do fantasize about being married, of course, and all the sexy things my future wife and I could do together.
A lot of the poll ideas sound fun, but aren't a major desire or fantasy for me. One exception is masturbating for each other's viewing and pleasure, which sounds super hot, and I definitely want to try.
To expand on the "submissive husband" poll option, I definitely fantasize about my future wife and I letting the dominant and submissive parts of our personalities take over, and engaging in some kinky play. It's probably my most frequent fantasy! The focus there isn't necessarily on roleplaying a scenario, but in playing the role of a dominant or submissive partner. To me, kinky power play like this exercises and builds trust and vulnerability in intimacy in a way that little else can. I crave that deep, vulnerable intimacy with my future wife.
Once the horny part of my brain got thinking about this topic, I remembered I also have some fantasies with a little more of a story to them.
One is related to the kinky play I mentioned: I imagine being a special, sworn servant whose job is to see to the sexual needs of the Queen. I feel like I'm going to melt with joy when I think of the opportunity to put my own physical pleasure to the side for a time and focus all my abilities on loving her and pleasuring her as intensely as possible. Her pleasure is my pleasure, not only because a wife in ecstasy is the sexiest thing ever, but because it is truly pleasing to me to serve her!
My second roleplay premise is a little more romantic, with the royalty switched: I'd be some kind of king or lord who gets into an arranged marriage for political reasons. We could even roleplay the wedding! Once married, the new queen expects the king to want to take her to bed immediately, but he surprises her by being kind and treating her as a woman, as a human being, rather than a sexual object, and does not insist on sex immediately after the marriage, when they barely know each other. (See LovelyLonelyLady's recent story for a similar dynamic: https://marriageheat.com/2024/05/20/cedar-and-vine/) Over time, they actually fall in love and, of course, eventually have some steamy sex. My future wife and I could even try this roleplay over the course of several days, during a long weekend or private vacation trip. This would give us a lot of time together to "get to know" each other and intentionally avoid sex the first couple of days to increase anticipation and add to the roleplay, building up to a passionate night of pretend-first-time sex.
I'll write these ideas down to remember them for my future marriage. Thanks for getting me thinking, MH!
I decided to add this separate from my other comment since it has a different tone and purpose.
I'm personally very uncomfortable with fantasies involving cheating or multiple partners. I don't like to judge others' preferences, but I feel like pretending adultery for fun has something fundamentally wrong with it that goes beyond matters of mere preference.
I explained my thoughts on this matter in more depth in a recent discussion post, so I won't reiterate all that here. But here's the link to the discussion, in case anyone's interested in my thoughts on cheating fantasies: (https://marriageheat.com/2024/04/06/roleplay-swinging-with-toys/ – 11th comment down at the moment, with a few follow-ups further down).
I understand the turn-on of multiple-partner fantasies because of the physical novelty and new options for stimulation, and the excitement of their taboo nature, but these kinds of encounters also ruin emotional intimacy for me, which I think is a foundational part of sex as God meant it to be. Of course, I recognize that some people can fantasize about this and not feel a breach of emotional intimacy with their spouse. These are just my personal feelings.
Because of this, in the rare cases I think of multiple-partner scenarios, I do it in a way that achieves the physical novelty but maintains the emotional intimacy. For example, if my future wife or I had a fantasy of her being taken by several men at once, as it seems several MH readers have, we could act that out as a sci-fi or superhero scenario, where one man inhabits 3 identical bodies. One would be me, of course, and the other 2 would be simulated by dildos, made more believable with a blindfold and maybe even a couple of layered audio recordings of my own voice and sounds of pleasure to enhance the illusion. This way, while we're simulating 3 male bodies making love to her at once, they're all still one mind, one heart, one soul, one person, so there's no cheating going on. Maybe that's a weird set of mental gymnastics, but that's how I make it more comfortable for me. I have to do that because for me, even merely pretending to bring another person into the sexual relationship ruins the emotional intimacy, and is one of the biggest turnoffs I can imagine. Even if I know it's just pretend and will never be real, it feels deeply disturbing to me.
I know others don't share the same feelings, but these are mine, and I thought they could bring a different, useful perspective to the discussion.
OMG. I think we have found our people. We are Christians and kinky sex loving people. This is a great poll. When it comes to fantasy we have always thought we were pretty wild. It is nice to see we are not alone. We have a wild imagination. Most common fantasy we play with is hotwife or mfm threesome. We wouldn't act on it however, it is just our fun fantasy! We also love exhibitionism/voyuer situations. Primarily stemming from a spontaneous same room encounter with some friends on a trip we took early on in our marriage. NO swapping occurred but it did awaken us to our exhibitionist side! Stories for another time!
I really hope you post this story. I’d love to hear about it! 🙂