God-Given Pleasure
You are loved. God loves you. God, who created you, looks upon you and says, “You are good, indeed, you are very good! You are wonderfully made. Your body is wonderfully made.”
God has made your body with many functions and feelings. God loves your body and wants you to enjoy it. God created sex, has designed your body for pleasure, and wants you to feel good!
Are you feeling horny? Find a quiet, private, comfortable place to lie down. You might like to put on some relaxing music, light a scented candle, or turn the lights down low. Take your top off so you can access your wonderful skin on your marvelous chest. Keep your underpants on for now. Take some deep breaths. Relax. Be still. Breathe in God’s love for you. Be still and know that you are loved. You are wonderfully made. You are desirable. Smile to yourself as you accept this truth. Breathe in the knowledge that you are desired. Imagine loving yourself as God loves you.
God has given you sexual imagination and sexual desires too. How good!
Rest one hand gently just above your crotch. Let it linger there. Slowly lick your lips, and with your other hand glide your fingertip sensuously along your lips. God has made your mouth for enjoyment. Imagine being kissed by your lover, your tongues meshing and swirling together with intimacy. Feel the warmth and horniness increase between your legs. You want to touch yourself, but leave your hand resting just above the waistband of your underpants, teasing yourself. It’s ok, you have time. Let the pleasure build.
Move your hand from your lips to your chest. Feel the goodness of your fingertips touching your skin. Massage your chest. Circle your nipples with a fingertip. Now pinch them gently between your forefinger and thumb. God is so good to make your chest feel so good.
Slowly work your hand under your waistband and rest it on your crotch. Mmm that feels good. Start to stroke yourself with a fingertip, use small circles, up and down the length of your crotch, discovering or rediscovering your favourite pleasure spots. Keep going. Take your time. Breathe. Your crotch should be swelling with enjoyment by now. You might want to slip your underwear off for better access.
Squirt some lube on your fingers or use your body’s juices to pleasure yourself even more. Use more of your fingertips, fingers and palms as you go. Keep breathing deeply and go as fast or as slow as you like. This is a time for relaxation, self-care and rejuvenation. Use your imagination. Imagine being with your lover. Imagine it’s their hands pleasuring you, and take the time to enjoy yourself!
Thank you, God, for designing sex, creating us for pleasure, for loving us, and helping us love and enjoy ourselves!




Amen and amen!
Great writing, Sexytimes! It’s so easy to just be horny, jerk off or rub one out and move on with life… instead of really taking the time to enjoy yourself, be thankful for the pleasure God has blessed us to be able to feel, and slow down in the process. This is a great reminder.. I’ll have to remind myself to go slow and enjoy the process next time I pull my cock out for some fun. Are you new here? Haven’t seen your name show up before!
This is one of the best posts I’ve seen on here, celebrating the blessing of masturbation. 👏🏼 👏🏼
I’m so grateful for a Christian upbringing and a wonderful, sex positive mother that talked and taught us with matter-of-fact openness and no shame about sex including the natural God created drive and desire to masturbate. My beautiful, elegant, sexy Anne also grew up in a sex positive Christian home.
Thanks for this affirming and encouraging piece on the importance of our desire and need to masturbate as designed by God.
Anne and I have enjoyed solo and mutual masturbation for over 60 years. It has enhanced our cumming together by cumming alone!
No offense but am I the only one that had to chuckle reading this story? Ok maybe a bit tempted to touch myself too. But as anyone that has spent anytime at the zoo or where apes, monkeys, or chimps hang out, knows they all enjoy sex too including masturbating. For the simplest reason, just like the reason we do. We need to have sex or no little monkeys or people. So if it didn’t feel good our species would have long died out. Ok after stating the obvious, I think I will try touching my nipples with one hand and making little circles on my lips with the other hand. Because the only reason for this story was to make me masturbate. So thanks.
God blessed women with a clitoris, use it in a good way. Masturbate with your spouse, do it alone while thinking about your spouse, if you’re single, invent couples that don’t include you. God gave you a source of please, use it for good.
The Jerusalem Talmud states that a person will have to give an accounting on the Day of Judgment for every permissible pleasure their eyes beheld but they refused to enjoy.
Jerusalem Talmud, Tractate Kiddushin 4:12 (66b).