Anal Training and Success (A/L)
(A) – This story contains anal intercourse.
(L) – This story contains strong language.
One thing I always yearned for was the feeling of my husband’s cock in my ass.
Unfortunately, my husband was initially not on board with the idea, fearing he would cause me too much pain. I understood his concerns and didn’t push the issue, but secretly I started “training” myself for this possibility.
I bought some lube and a series of dildos, starting small and ranging up to a size similar to my husband’s cock. During the day, when he wasn’t home, I used them to prepare myself. Gradually, I found that I was becoming more relaxed and able to handle larger sizes. As I talked with my girlfriends who had gone through the process of anal penetration, they gave me advice on how to approach my husband and what to say if the opportunity arose. I learned from them that communication and relaxation were key in making this experience pleasurable.
As time passed, our sex life flourished, and we experimented with everything from vaginal to oral to breast sex. However, my husband still had not ventured into my backdoor. He would sometimes teasingly run his cock between my cheeks, but that was the most he would do.
Then, one night when I was feeling particularly aroused, I took the initiative. I turned onto all fours and said to him, “Please fuck my ass! I need you to now!”
He was surprised by my sudden request. “Are you sure? It might hurt,” he warned me.
But without hesitation, I urged him on, saying, “Go for it. I’ve been preparing, and I’m ready!”
With that, he hesitantly agreed. We lubed up, and he slowly pushed himself inside me. The feeling of his cock penetrating me anally was indescribable—it was so tight, a bit uncomfortable, almost painful at times, and yet somehow it felt amazing.
My husband could sense my pleasure, and his own excitement grew at the sensation of entering a tighter passage. He thrust carefully but enthusiastically as I moaned in pleasure.
I barely touched my clit and I climaxed, and felt my tight ass clench around his cock. That set him off, and I felt him spasm inside me, filling my ass with semen. When we both recovered, he finally pulled his softening cock out of my ass, which leaked his cum. I was prepared with a tissue to cover my vagina, to minimize any contamination issues.
“That was incredible,” he said breathlessly afterward, and I couldn’t agree more. We decided that in the future, we would take extra precautions for cleanliness, like him wearing a condom, or me using a pad during anal sex.
As we continued to explore this new aspect of our intimacy together, we learned to communicate and trust each other even more deeply.
What a great story! It’s nice to see such dedication to sexual pleasure. I was more the initiator in our case, she wasn’t sure due to her concerns about pain but we mitigated that with lube and increasingly larger butt plugs.
When we did finally “go for it,” she did feel some discomfort at first, she was incredibly tight around my shaft but once I penetrated her fully and she was used to it, we were able to let go and fuck as hard as we wanted. It’s difficult to describe that tightness around my cock – it is so satisfying to the point I think I cum more quickly. She fingers her pussy when we go anal which also heightens our pleasure.
For us it seems more “primitive” somehow I’m not sure how else to describe it. I’ll add that watching her laying on her stomach, fingering herself after I pull out and seeing my cum drip from her lubed ass and down over her fingers is quite a visual! Thanks for the post Susanxx!
Agreed-great story and L❤️VE hearing and learning through the process of your journey! THANK~YOU for sharing!! May you continue to experience wonderful blissful moments 🎉 in the New Year ~in whatever position you find yourself in!!😀.
I loved anal play and penetration. I loved feeling Ben's dick in my ass. He enjoyed it as well, enjoying the tightness of it. That is one thing I'm gonna miss now that he is gone. The journey continues.
Loved the story! God bless you and stay horny!
We both enjoy anal play and stimulation. We never could success in anal sex. Just too uncomfortable for my dear Anne. Try as we did! However, fingering fucking her ass and pussy adds incredible pleasure to her Os.
It will definitely take me awhile to ever work up to anal (I think of what a journey it's been to get to the point of having anything in my vagina!). However, on a couple of occasions during masturbation recently, I have dared to reach behind and press a finger just inside my rear hole. Doing that while screwing myself with my vibe or dildo was very…filling. It will take getting used to. But I can totally see myself getting there and loving it.
Hi LLL,
My wife had a lot of luck with a beginner butt plug set. She worked her way up slowly getting used to increasingly larger sizes, plenty of lube of course. After a while it was more than just training, she enjoyed them while masturbating or during sex.
Love the story! My wife and I did anal once sur of thr moment, but haven't since. It was too painful/uncomfortable for her. We rushed into it without any proper preparation. I tell her if we did it correctly, she may feel differently about it. I would absolutely love to do it again.
It was me who brought it up to my husband. I was perusing another Christian marriage sex forum that had a discussion on anal. It was uncomfortable at first but I didn't really do anything to prepare. My hubby was absolutely thrilled I brought it up as I was hinting at doing something special that weekend. I had read many accounts where it was wonderful for the wife but I didn't have such that experience that first time. Our first attempt was neat because it was our first and something different. I'm glad we did but I didn't feel any pleasure and after a few minutes had to tell him to stop. Since then I've learned how to prepare myself and get into the right mindset. Usually anal happens after we've both been drinking and he's gone down on me fingering me back there at the same time. After I'm relaxed and stretched out I can take him anally and it feels wonderful! It's not the same pleasure as PiV but more satisfying–for a lack of better term. It feels like he is more inside me and connected–kinda hard to explain. Sometimes when we go to be intimate I don't care about my orgasm I just want that fully satisfied feeling that anal gives that I don't experience with PiV. Our problem is he finishes too quickly from anal right when I'm really starting to get that full body satisfaction feeling. Our last time I convinced him to wear a condom and was able to last quite a while letting me really get into a deeper place.
I think any husband would be thrilled to have his wife offer herself to him in this way. It is a way for her to show her trust in her man that he will not hurt her and that she is giving herself completely to him. That is so hot.
Agree Karen…your entire comment reminds me of me and wifey. Usually it happens after she gets super horny from wild foreplay especially me going down and fingering her ass first or nipple stimulation. I wear a condom sometimes when I pick her up the ass and it feels really good …comes in handy against cross contamination last time I just popped it off and came in her pussy
How do we usually use that body feature? A nice, healthy turd is very similar [in size] to a man's penis. Just do what you do when you defecate. Pushing automatically relaxes the anal sphincter. Provided there is some lubrication, in he slides. Enjoy.
It's part of the playground and God doesn't make mistakes.
Thank you for sharing your very well written and exciting story. Your husband is a very lucky man to have a wife who put in the effort to convince him to go in her backdoor. Our experience was a little different. I couldn't wait to enter her backdoor and she was not so sure. I reminded her that when we were wed she gave herself to me to "have and to hold". I wanted to have all of her. We went slow with plenty of lube and she found that she actually enjoyed it.
Thanks again, I really enjoyed hearing a woman's perspective on this subject.
It’s so wonderful to read about a wife taking some sexual initiative, especially something so naughty and intimate.
What TurnedOn47 said.
https://marriageheat.com/2025/02/28/boundaries-for-single-sexuality/#comment-67045
sarah k,
Thank you. Per the advice of MH Admin, I'm including the link to a blog post that goes into depth about why anal sex is prohibited.
https://ancientfuturechurch.online/?p=236
I must admit that it gives me a momentary thrill when a woman says, "Please fuck my ass." But, I would get a much bigger thrill if she said, "Please fuck my pussy." And, that way, I would not need to tell her, "No."
I'm sorry but I find that argument incredibly weak, and very little of it to be Biblical, the conclusions drawn are all wrong. If you choose to use that to reinforce your own beliefs, then so be it, but it's unlikely to convince anyone who doesn't already think the way that you do.
I found this story after having his written about our own experience with anal sex..
If a few things I want to say upfront that I didn't include in my story when I submitted it.
The anal opening can be subject to a lot of things as far as tears and the possibility of infections.
This being said, we enjoy anal sex and I have some massive orgasms with it.
One can easily search and find information on the correct way to do this. And yes talking to girlfriends definitely does help concerning sexual things. Being older quite often I have found myself being The confidant and advice giver to younger wives who were friends.
YouTube as well is a good source. But seek out true professional advice.
Dr. Rena Malik has become a trusted resource for us.
Back in the seventies when we met. My husband had already a number of sexual partners. My experience was far less than his and quite a bit more run of the mill type sex.
One of the things he told me about was anal sex with a former girlfriend. I knew he really enjoyed it and he never pushed it on me but I always wanted to give it to him to make him happy. In my story I talk about how we began with fingers and worked our way up through patience.
If it is done with a lot of lubrication and patience and concern it can develop into a very pleasurable experience. One that I became to enjoy immensely.
Thank you for writing this Susan. It was a pleasure to read and I look forward to looking up your name to find more of your writings.
Lady L 💋
Just re read your story as this afternoon while jilling I felt the need for a little change up.
I used the 6" vibe well lubed of course.
Theres just something about the feeling of a vibrator in at least my vagina or anus with his cock in the other or while jilling as today a vibe the vibe in back and our friend the thrusting dildo in front and a clitoral suction vibe . It takes a little choreography because with one hand on the dildo and the other on my clitvibe I have to prop a pill just right to keep the anal vibe fom sliding out..
But wowww….. After orgasm I just let things keep going until the next…. And then third orgasm roll through me.
3 is my limit because by then I'm drained of energy or want.
Lady L. 💦💋💦💦💦