The 8-8 Challenge
Do you really know what your spouse likes in bed? How far are you willing to go to satisfy them? Below is a challenge that my husband and I tried which led to some of our best sex. It is intended to help communicate what each person likes when the other is performing oral on them.
The challenge:
The wife will start out by sitting on the husband’s face while he performs oral on her for 8 minutes. His goal is to get her to cum within 8 minutes. If she cums, then she will perform oral sex on him while he instructs her on exactly how to suck his cock. If she does not cum, she will move down and begin riding his cock.
Once she begins riding his cock, the timer is reset to 8 minutes and her goal is to make him cum. If he cums, she will climb back up on his face, where she will instruct him on exactly how to perform oral on her again. If he does not cum while she rides him, both can go about sex as usual, or choose from either or both of the other scenarios if they wish.
Note: you can change the length of time as you see fit.
My husband was hesitant at first, but the thought of him cleaning up his mess and following my instructions on how to lick and suck my clitoris gave me the most mind blowing orgasm to date. Knowing now how much this turns me on, he willingly offers to have me sit on his face if I do not cum before he does.
That’s interesting. I like the way you set up the challenge so that you have the possibility of something new. In our 40 years, we’ve satisfied each other in many ways. She has definitely ridden my face after I’ve cum inside her and she’s sucked my cock after she’s made it wet with her cum. Sometimes we 69 after sex (those sessions are often slower and more deliberate) it is incredibly sensual to taste our cum mixed together. And, at times it winds us back up. Challenges are fun especially those that involve good healthy chance.
It's good to talk through sex, to say what you like and instruct. When my wife does that it’s a real turn on – something between instructive and talking dirty is our wheelhouse.
So true man. It is so exciting to enjoy the fruits of your love together that you are ready to go for round two.
LOL! Ha!
#1: My wife will ride my face cowgirl style until she cums! She wouldn’t stop no way no how for an 8-minute time limit!
#2: Then she’ll slide down and ride my cock, and if all goes well, she’ll cum, which will make me cum! If I cum and she doesn’t, however many minutes, she will move to #3 regardless!
#3: She slides up from #2, and rides my face again, until she cums again! No, I don’t mind all my cum being there, and she loves it!
We figured this stuff out years ago! 😉
I told you you’ve got to write more about your wonderful experiences (as Kingdom Man stated below).
You CAN and need to try to put a little more flesh & bones on those brief ‘skeleton’ of stories you’re chock full of! You’ve got us all drooling to hear more… more detail – besides just the orgasmic ending.
Heck, I’ll be your “ghost writer” if you want me! 🤣. Just DM me and we’ll get to work. It might be fun. 👊
Every couple is different but it’s always interesting to see what has worked for other couples. We may try a variation on this game. But some of those things in your game are things we have definitely already done! I love the taste of our postcoital pussy-mixed protein shake. We sometimes use flavored lube and that makes it even better!
I don't think my wife will sit on my face, but that would be fine with me, but not after I cum in her.
But the thought of her smothering me with her beautiful pussy and ass would really turn me on.
Your wife "won't" sit on your face…?? I'm stunned.
Isn't that like saying that she "won't" pick up a winning lottery ticket off the sidewalk?
Another great idea I'll have to add to my marriage bucket list! This one will be favorited. I sure do appreciate these resources. Thanks for sharing!
I get that some guys are hesitant to eat out their wives after they cum inside them, but if I could lovingly encourage you…get over it! You’re truly missing out on something very special and erotic. The next level is kissing her with a mouthful of your combined juices – oh my, it’s just wonderful. Please give it a try. I promise you won’t regret it. 😉
I have to back up KingdomMan here. There is nothing like the flavor of my wife and my love juices mixed together. The marriage bed is pure and holy. As husbands, we need to understand that our sexual fluids are just as holy and honorable as our wives. We expect them to taste and swallow what we produce, yet so many husbands act as if it's almost poison if they take it. Definitely a puzzling attitude. Many husbands, myself included. think it's hot for their wife to taste and enjoy their own juice so why not us with ours? You truly are missing out on a wonderful addition to your marriage bed that the two of you (or solo) currently do not enjoy. Try it, you may be very surprised if you allow yourself that joy how intensely pleasurable it is.
I definitely agree tm76. I’ve always found it extremely erotic to kiss her after I’ve eaten her out, or for her to suck my cock while it was very wet with her juices. Not trying to be offensive to anyone, but I think it’s a double standard in a bad way if we’re not willing to do the same.
KingdomMan and texasman76 are both 100% right! We discovered how hot oral after cumming in her was when I did a two-minute drill in 30 seconds one afternoon! For us, it was the best thing that ever happened for us sexually!
For one, my wife had been fantasizing about me doing it for about a year. When it happened……WOW! Did she ever cum long & hard! It was so hot, that I started doing it routinely!
Next bonus, was those powerful orgasms she had when I did it made me hard again! So, onto another round of PIV, and then yet another good eating on her! (Bet you can't eat just one!)
And after a while, I we started trying other forms of cum-play, like a good round of tit-fucking, turned into a nipple squirting, with a licking & sucking cleanup! And instead of cumming in her and eating her out, I pulled out, came on her, and then went down on her!
After that, she surprised me with a kiss after a blowjob. We had always kissed afterward, but she didn't swallow! Also HOT!
Cum, mine, hers, and both of us getting a mouthful of it, worked like an aphrodisiac for us! Our original one & done routine turned into multiple orgasms as our norm, and multiple for both of us!
So, don't knock it, until you try it! It's a wonderful thing, to be enjoyed by both!
Tulsa…
A “two-minute drill in 30 seconds,” “tit-fucking, turned into a nipple squirting, with a licking and sucking cleanup”…
You’re killing me. You have to write about some of this stuff! 😉
KingdomMan,
After she told me how much eating her after oral turned her on, I got to thinking, and wondering what other things I could do with cum that would get her going too! Getting her all worked up is my favorite thing to do after all! So, I just started trying different things!
Tulsa you are so so right about getting them all worked up is simply the best ..let's just say the fun continued this morning and happy to report wifey went to work with a nice cum filled pussy.
I have to back all you guys up on this one. Once you start tasting each other's love juices you can't stop. It started about a year ago w me making out e her after eating her out for like an half hour then her sucking me off after sex. Then I started going down on her after I came in her and ate first I was hesitant but I would do it a million times over and love it. I'll even kiss her now after she gives me a blow job now…it's all hot.
It is like a aphrodisiac indeed..for instance after we read this together tonight it got her super hot and she rode my face and came 2 times almost instantly then I sucked her tits right after then she climbed me reverse cowgirl and starting sucking her tit and came instantly from tasting her juices which got me super horney and loaded her up instantly then ate her out again and started kissing her as I touched her down there and she came instantly which made me super hard again enough to fuck her up the ass as she fingered herself and kept tasting out combined juices.