Buying Intimate Wear
M. and I were having a discussion about things we’ve adopted in our life, and we’re wondering what others do, especially as relates to intimate wear.
We went through years of purchasing something for each other only to find out it didn’t fit, or it wasn’t desirable for the person it was being bought for. Often things would be sent back.
Now when it comes to underwear or intimate wear, we keep in mind that it should be meant not only for yourself, but for the other person in your life with whom you’re intimate.
We came to an agreement where we do our shopping online when we want to buy something that’s intimate. This includes my bras, underwear (for both him and me), stockings, bodysuits, and what we have come to lovingly call “slutwear”—that’s clothing for me that means “I want sex now, and I mean business!”
We learned a lot about each other doing this together. I also learned a lot about myself by considering what I had been buying and my reasons for buying it. Usually I bought things for comfort and practicality, while he bought things for sex. Buying lingerie together and being able to talk it out as were purchasing it has definitely been a bonus in our sex life.
On more than one occasion, just looking at, discussing it and making the purchase would result in a level of arousal that would end up with the two of us having sex. And when it arrived, there was lots of anticipation and planning involved. It would usually include a date night, with the knowledge that when it came to actually undressing one another, there would be a present underneath!
That present might be a pair of sexy underwear for him, which would let me see the pouch being filled with his bulge, and would get me thinking how I would go about making it as hard as possible. Or maybe the present would allow him to see my breasts perfectly cradled, or let his hands running over smooth, sexy stockings, or let him spread my legs and use the accessibility of crotchless panties.
I think you get the idea.
So what about everybody else? Do you do this, or do you just buy things on your own when planning a special night for the two of you? Whether you are the husband or wife in the couple, what are the criteria for what you like seeing your partner in?
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What a fun discussion topic! I think you guys buying sexy intimates together is wonderful. I think it really adds to the anticipation of seeing each other wear those naughty things. Very nice Tutchh!
Thanks KM,
We really do love it and recommend it to others
“Buying lingerie together and being able to talk it out as we’re purchasing it has definitely been a bonus in our sex life. On more than one occasion, just looking at, discussing it and making the purchase would result in a level of arousal that would end up with the two of us having sex. And when it arrived, there was lots of anticipation and planning involved. It would usually include a date night, with the knowledge that when it came to actually undressing one another, there would be a present underneath!”
This!!! /\
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I agree.m Satin. We both started shopping together and it gets us super hot to do so.
We really enjoy uber-sexy lingerie. I buy almost all of the lingerie as presents for my sexy wife. There is the occasional disaster where the lingerie is too small or too big.
My Melody has cum to love the open cup open crotch lingerie. Needless to say I love how she looks in it. But how she behaves in the sexy lingerie is always quite a show!
Melody feels sexy in any revealing lingerie but she feels especially sexy in her open cup open crotch Teddie’s. She’ll stroke her breasts n nipples – and she’ll finger and stroke her pussy plus sometimes finger-fuck herself in front of me!
She loves offering her tits to me when dressed this way! I of course enjoy everything about her in these lingerie lovemaking sessions. Her breasts are so beautiful surrounded by the lacy open cups.
We also have sets of sexy Christmas lingerie that includes boxers for me. We make love wearing different Christmas lingerie under the Christmas 🎄 lights every year!
I have several creative boxer underwear that I’ll wear sometimes but Melody wears her lingerie more often. But she does not wear lingerie every time we have sex.
I must add a shout out to the easy-access via the open crotch lingerie. Pussy-play, cunnilingus, and PIV are especially fun through this opening!
Melody has some other lingerie including baby dolls. These are fun too but our favorites are the open cup open crotch teddies!
Thanks for the good discussion question.
It makes me happy that you too take such a joy in Vanessa dressing for you.
She sounds extremely exquisite. Being that the purpose for this clothing is the enhancement of sensuality and sexuality both of the wearer and the viewer being able to showcase the parts that we take delight in is so important.
And like Vanessa, I am sure along with many women do the same while looking at myself wearing lingerie that reveals our lady parts. That's why I absolutely love sheer and lace. I think it's so delicate and enhances femininity. And like Vanessa, quite often I do touch myself because of the way it makes me feel.
I had recently submitted a story about a time where we bought a set of lingerie and a particular sex toy and what happened when I opened it before he came home. I don't know whether they will actually post it , and I'm assuming it won't be posted until sometime in November if they do. But the sex that resulted when he did come home and find me was spectacular.
Lady L.💋💋💋
My apologies, I had read through all of the comments and then went back to answer them and mixed up names. It should have been your lovely Melody not Vanessa.
I'm at the way you have described Melody in all of your writing I know without a doubt that she is absolutely gorgeous and can truly see her as she presents herself to you.
Lady L.
Mmm, this is definitely something I look forward to doing with my future husband! I've already been getting into the habit by slowly replacing all of my traditional full-coverage panties with thongs (only keeping a few for "that" time of the month). I feel much more sexy, especially when I undress, and I enjoy thinking about buying things my man would like. And, me being the VERY visual woman that I am, I have tons of ideas saved for things I want him to wear for me. 😋
Mmmm lovely lady L. Having read so many of your comments and writings now and having a picture of you in my mind the way you describe your thoughts regarding this are so provocative. Whoever would have the opportunity to experience such a lovely person as yourself dressing for them in such a way as to exhibit your sexuality to them is indeed a fortunate person. To be able to run their fingers over your curves and to caress your soft skin would bring pleasure to anyone allowed to do it.
The way you describe the things that you would love to see your man wearing cause of visions of the two of you to dance through my mind. Watching your fingers run over the outline of his erect penis and wrapping your fingers around his shaft having [the] pleasure of knowing it's all for you and for you to enjoy. I can see the delight light on your face as the two of you explore one another.
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LLL your future husband will be one lucky man. Seeing my wife in a thong or g string gets me super worked up which gets her super worked up. She feels super sexy in them as well. She as well just got done replacing all her full coverage panties in the last few months and only kept a few for that time of the month as well.
Hi Toutchh,
Vanessa usually shops alone for intimate wear, but she knows what I like. I have a thing for swimwear, I love bikinis and also cute one pieces that show cleavage and thigh. She’s been working out a lot recently and so she really likes to wear sports bras. She goes to a specialty store that she likes where she gets them and other intimate wear. There’s some cute intimate lounge wear I like that she wears on special occasions, the mesh type onesies that you can see through.
You are a blessed man Northern.
To have a woman as lovely as your sweet Vanessa find pleasure and presenting herself to you.
There's much to be said for clothing that reveals enough to tease such as a swimsuit or clothing which would reveal her lovely curves to you and stirring your need to have her that the two of you could get lost in one another's passions.
Lady L. 💋❤️💋
We seldom buy intimate wear, but when we shop for toys online, we always do that together, and before we sit down in front of the computer, we get undressed! Might need to measure something you know! 🙂 It’s a lot more fun to look at vibrators and dildos when we are naked, and we usually don’t get anything ordered until after getting in a pile on the floor for a romp! After an orgasm or two, we go back to shopping!
We have lots of fun shopping, even if we don’t order a thing!
If only I was a fly on your wall. 😘
That's awesome Tulsa. That has been us as well lately. We started shopping for toys together rather then surprising each other lately. It's more fun that way lol
Hi all,
Although this may seen to be rather cliché, about a year ago I went shopping at a place called Tod (something) and selected a very cute pair of lavender silk, crotchless panties. They are so sexy and comfy that Jim has encouraged me to wear them frequently on "special" dates such as fine dining – and such occasions when we would "tease" just the right individuals or couples. His easy access to my creamy divide really kicks everything up a notch – and just knowing that a "target audience may be a part of our heat is SO damn sexy!
sounds absolutely yummy patty.
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I love that you don’t mind showing off a little bit. When I read your comment, I was reminded of an encounter I had while shopping a while back.
I walked up on this very sexy lady perusing a rack of clothes. When she saw me, she immediately moved in such a way as to give me a peek. She wasn’t overly provocative nor was she flirty in a way that said, “I want you.” However, it was clear that she dressed that way on purpose and she deliberately gave me a little show.
It was very brief, but I walked away smiling. It was lovely to see a beautiful woman confident enough to give a stranger a glimpse.
I like to think she walked away happy knowing she got noticed.
I am far too shy to go in-person to places to purchase anything like this, and so I adhere (mostly) to online. Sir is not particular or demanding on what I ought to purchase in regard to intimate wear so I simply purchase with permission some number of items within budget. I know he has colours he prefers, and he prefers very feminine intimate wear on my body. I would not show him designs and ask it of him, I find it far too much and I would blush to the red of a tomato if I did!
I can't tell you how much this means to me. This shows the simplicity, yet the depth of intimacy, play, & camaraderie. I want to be a sponge & fall into this & soak up every last bit. This is my dream, my longing. So, simple, but complexly hits & satisfies so many aspects. This is the picture of marriage. Thank you. It's very hot that a marriage exists this way. It is amazing how this speaks to my soul. So, many spouses run from this without even knowing. So, many spouses feel neglected, but this is where NOTHING gets neglected. Fulfillment, accomplishment, satisfaction without hardly working for it, because you're doing what you love with who you love. Such a powerful thing. Please, tell me this is your approach to all things marriage, & sex especially, not the online ordering, but the inclusion. I see a wife wanting to be her husband's wife. And, a husband wanting to be his wife's husband. Inclusion. What together really means. Marriage. Mutually step to each other & neither one holding anything back. Thanks for sharing.
I feel like I just had sex! Haha!
Well said SCMM
Kate has very small breasts, so I don't focus on them when buying sexy outfits for her. Early on she would wear lingerie on occasion, but her complaint was we would find ourselves removing it rather quickly. Therefore I move to crotchless body suit type outfits. They are very hot, although we only break them out on occasion, often time opting for more of a quickie with work schedules. I look for a large enough crotchless feature to easily allow for backdoor entry if that is on the menu.
The wording of your first sentence makes me wonder if your Kate is self-conscious of her smaller boobs. If she is, that’s a shame, because smaller breasted women are very sexy.
They make some really nice lingerie catered to the smaller cup gals and I have to admit, it’s very arousing to peruse.
I see her point on not having them on long, but I do love the crotchless body suits, especially sheer or fishnet.
She is somewhat self-conscious, but doesn't let it bother her too much at this point in her life. I completely accept her and love her as she is. The only time I ever got a different experience sexually is when they were larger during her pregnancy and I could titty-fuck her. That was great and I would love to be able to do that, but they're just a little too small as is. She is pretty shy about period sex (only once in a while) she I would love to just be able to utilize her knockers prior to a nice suck and swallow. Aside from that wish, I am indifferent entirely on the matter. If I could change Kate's cup size, or her 4'8" height, I would do it because I know she would love it, not because she's anything other than my priceless soulmate as she is.
As for the body suites, sometimes she'll have a tight fishnet bodysuit on that her nipples protrude out of and I enjoy playing and sucking on them. One time she wore a very wide fishnet that I could just manage to tightly fit my cock through, so I lubed up and fucked her up the ass right through the fishnet stockings, which was pretty hot.
AlanAdventurous, I would love to read about some of those suck and swallow or body suit anal adventures, if you feel so inclined as to write them. 😉
Wow Alan that's hot with the anal with the fishnet body suit. We just went on and ordered my wife one…we can not wait for it to get here.
I love shopping for panties with my wife. Especially because I also enjoy wearing them. It's a win/win!
I also love going with my wife to shop for lingerie. I have put on her panties too
Alan, My wife also is small breasted, and I LOVE them!! She would prefer tone one to two cup sizes larger, mainly to look better in clothing. She is accepting of them when nude, but some clothes would be a better fit if she was a little larger. I am very happy with her though. I have found the body suits do look great on her. I’d love to find lingerie geared to smaller breasts though so I could surprise her. I’d like to hear where all of you are purchasing your lingerie. Please share.