What Is Your Most Recent New Sexual Activity?
This post is a combination of a discussion question and a sexy story!
To introduce the topic, here’s the question: What is the most recent new sexual activity you’ve tried?
Here’s what I remember of our most recent new experience.
The most recent “first” I can recall would be my wife masturbating. She had not—at least to my knowledge and experience—brought herself to an orgasm before. She had relied on me to apply lube to her “love tunnel” in the past, and had become accustomed to me massaging her clit until she had a few orgasms.
We learned by her getting off before I enter her that several things happen. Her private parts become swollen from excitement during foreplay. As they become swollen, they also become more sensitive. Though they are engorged, it also seems her love tunnel relaxes a bit, so when I enter her for PIV activity, there is less friction on my member. Because of that, I can last longer while thrusting before ejaculating.
I asked her, once we began our warm up ritual of kissing and fondling her breasts, to apply lube to herself.
With a little encouragement from me, she started doing this. I told her to be sure to get some lube inside her.
I noticed her reactions and coached her to continue touching herself in the way that made her feel good. I explained that there was no way I could touch her exactly how firmly or softly it felt best to her, or in exactly the place it felt best to her to be touched. There was also the question of how fast or slow I should move my fingers as her excitement built. I told her that she was the best one to determine the best speed. I also told her I was extremely turned on by watching her reaction to her activity.
I let her know that I wanted to see her come—hard—and instructed her to keep rubbing her clit as she came. I believe she had one of the strongest orgasms she’d had in some time. As she continued to ride her orgasm from one to the next, she expelled some fluid. It was very hot to watch, and we had some very pleasurable PIV activity afterwards.
Now, after experiencing this, she has no hesitation applying lube to herself and having a few quick orgasms in the process.
I may have posted about this in an earlier post, so as an update, I can say she has continued to follow the practice of applying lube to herself, and enjoying a few “warm-up” orgasms before I get in on the action, to both of our enjoyment.
This new activity has definitely benefitted our sex life! To turn the question back to you: What is the most recent new sexual activity you’ve tried, and what were the results?
Not very recently but over the last few years of our 30+ year marriage we were introduced to role play sex by wonderful MH writers. What a game changer!
Sometimes I will write a role play sex story n read it to my wife. Then we’ll act it out. Other times I’ll tell her the basics of a role play n we’ll do it together. If I wrote up a role play I’ll alter it some to match how the sex actually happened. Then I submit it to MH.
My Melody is sometimes a bit resistant to role play but it’s funny and fun how she can’t help but fall into character and go all “vixen” on me. These are wonderful and memorable experiences!
We’ve done role plays in our bedroom and on vacation. Some have involved costumes etc. Some have taken a while to prepare – like sexologist n patient bc I wrote up a long sex questionnaire. Some sex role plays are fairly simple but some are quite elaborate. All are fun and sexy bonding experiences!
We absolutely love role play. It's usually spontaneous in that during the day one of the other of us will have an idea pop into our head and we've learned to flow with this and that the other one will continue with the thought and let's tell the two of us have characters developed in our back and forth texting. Included will be photos or short videos of one or the other of us to the other.
One of the more recent ones of memory is where I texted him and addressed him as Mr. ………. As if I was his secretary and I was asking him a question about something he wanted me to do. I went to the extent of doing my hair and makeup and wearing something that looks like a sexy secretary might wear.
This time it was a thin white button-up , collared dress shirt with a black just above the knee pencil skirt with a slit in it of course black thigh highs with a seam and open toed heels. I sat in front of our computer desk at home as if it was my work desk. And sent him a picture.
He fell right in with it and started developing a story on his end. I had a picture of him from a while ago where he was sitting naked hard as a rock and stroking himself, this was one of many that we have sent to one another and I had on my phone.
For the next few hours I would take another picture holding my hand up to the screen with a look on my face sometimes my blouse would be unbuttoned with my hand cupping my breast another time a picture of me in front of one of him on the computer biting my lip with my skirt pulled up and my hand in my panties. I inserted my butt plug it took a picture of myself bent over with a knee up on the chair looking over my shoulder at the camera
This went on for a few hours. And in between the photos there was a sex story developing between the two of us.
At one point I had to go meet a client so I pulled myself together wearing the same clothes I had on. (Including buttplug)
After I had to go into the office to enter the information into the system and get the paperwork rolling. And on my way home I went to the store. The car rides is in between included a lot of my legs spread while driving and my hand up my skirt keeping my panties wet.
Holding conversations with others and walking and standing around with them is such a turn-on having that naughty secret.
I never took myself through the orgasm just edging all day. I got back home and continued with M.
This back and forth went all day through texts and sexts.
When he pulled in the driveway I had some papers in my hand a pencil in the other and met him standing at the door. As soon as he got in the door he closed it tossed my papers aside and pulled the pencil out of my hand and tossed it aside too. As I recall he literally ripped my blouse open, buttons popping. Back to me into the wall with his hands firmly gripping my hips and languishing kisses all over my neck. Yanking my tucked in blouse out of the waistband of my skirt and pulling it off of my shoulders you spun me around and used it to buy my wrists together behind my back as he started to ravage my breasts and kiss me all over my back and shoulders. He had my bra unhooked but it could only get down so far because my hands were tied behind my back with my shirt. Then walking me over to the kitchen table he yanked up my skirt and bent me over, all the time still continuing the role play of me earning my paycheck.
I just continued by saying yes Mr. ………..
yanking down my panties around my thighs and remarking how wet my panties were he began squeezing my butt and spanking it. The butt plug still in place, telling me I wasn't inappropriate at the Lee dressed and that butt plug is something for home and not the office. Telling me that I had been a bad girl by doing what I did with those pictures.
I kept asking him to forgive me and that I wouldn't do it again.
In between spankings he was caressing my pink cheeks and sliding the butt plug out of the place that had been for a good part of the day. I could feel my anus was stretched and was experiencing little spasms which he saw. He kept rubbing my vulva eventually sticking a couple fingers inside and slipping his thumb inside my anus as I was bent over. I don't think it was a minute or two and I had a massive orgasm.
He pulled off the shirt then slipped his belt off and wrapped that around my elbows keep in mind arms behind my back. Then he got my skirt off working it back down over my butt and down my legs pulling one of my stockings down to my ankle in the process.
Of course he made sure to keep the heels on. Lol
Then stood me up and instructed me to get down on my knees. Of course with his assistance, as my hands we're still behind my back. Opening up his pants he had a throbbing erection which he instructed me to suck.
I was so into the role playing The obedient secretary.
As he has aged, the time it takes for him to ejaculate as increased dramatically. There are times during sex where I will have four or five orgasms and be worn out and he still hasn't ejaculated.
So consequently I was on my knees sucking him for quite a while every once in awhile he would take it out of my mouth and stroke it in front of me milking out the precum and then smearing it over my lips before he's inserted it back in my mouth again.
I absolutely love the taste of his precum and his semen, he knows that. It's a big turn on when I taste it.
Eventually he brought me to My feet again as he undressed the rest of the way. We went into the office where his pictures were on the computer. He pulled the belt off my elbows and had me put my hands in the desk and bend over as he slid in from behind me being that I was in my heels and bent over with him holding my hips he was thrusting into me so hard the sound of his belly slapping into my behind repeatedly was filling our ears
And it was so hard I would lose my balance a little bit and step forward a little bit at a time until I was all the way up against the desk and his thrusts were causing the whole desk to shake.
I had another orgasm and then he had me sit in the chair as he slid his member back into my mouth. Now it was coupled with my essence and his and it was like eating my favorite dessert. I kept licking him all over and sucking him trying to scoop up all of it until he finally ejaculated in my mouth. I milked him with my hand from his balls to the Head until I got as much as I could get.
I'll tell you if anybody was around the house outside they would have heard all the moaning and commotion from both of us and wondered what the heck was going on in there.
So that was one of a number of role plays that we've done over the years. It's always fun and I highly recommend it!!
Wow Tutchh, I wish you would consider turning some of your comments into full length stories. I know I’m not the only one who would enjoy reading them. 😉
.." sexologist n patient bc I wrote up a long sex questionnaire. .."
IT's ironioc that you should mention this.. as it's exactly what I did with my Mary..but my"questionaire" was reality based. I wanted to learn what she enjoyed, felt best, what she liked.
I discovered it was difficult for her to express..she'd say things like " It all feels good" which wasn't much help.
from a previous post : " I believe this to be true for everyone. No one can determine intuitively how someone else likes to be touched for their greatest pleasure. Experimentation and learning how to provide pleasurable feelings through touch is great and fun. But no one can “feel” for someone else. Only solo play can determine the optimal level of pressure, speed, direction , and type of stimulation, which feels best. Once learned, this information can then be shared with a partner, if open communication exists."
I learned that for some, ( like my Mary) this is difficult to express verbally. It's great to read that some can clearly express what feels best , and or provide detailed instruction on how they most enjoy physical play. Congratulations & blessing s to those that can do this.
Unfortunately, I haven’t tried anything new in a long while, but I definitely enjoyed reading about your adventures with the Mrs.
There’s nothing hotter or sexier than a wife exploring and enjoying her sexuality.
Thank you KM,
We have some stories in the works but looks like were months out on seeing them posted.
This is one reason my comments are so long winded. I can kind of get stories out this way when it goes with the main story
Lady L. 💋
Kingdom man; I'm addressing this response here as when I commented by "reply" to LovingMan, in the 1at response to my post, for whatever reason my reply was posted below one of you rposts, below it ! (?)
Anyway , in response to your comment,
" There’s nothing hotter or sexier than a wife exploring and enjoying her sexuality "..
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I am blessed to have awakened strong passion & heightened enjoyment with my Mary through our playtime together, though it happened later in our lives.
I truly believe in "better late than never" My posts were / are made in the hope that younger couples may benefit from our experiences, without waiting to learn as late in life as we did,
to find sexual excitement & passion in their marital relationship. I believe this is what God intended.
Married 25 years so there isn't a LOT that we've not tried and either adopted or discarded…HOWEVER… My wife knows that I like her to "show off" or "perform" for me. I LOVE watching her with her toys, or having her act out something I've fantasized. And along with that came a surprising realization recently that she LOVES to be praised…so there's something of a "Praise Kink" we have been playing with.
That's one I'm not sure I've heard before! Do you mind elaborating on what that "praise kink" involves?
The phrase makes me think of telling each other things like "You're so sexy," "You're such an amazing lover," "You're absolutely irresistible," and other such praises. But in a way, I think that's less of a kink and more simply an expression of love and passion that should be present in every marriage!
Is there some way that your "praise kink" differs from what I described?
@patientpassion It's specifically praise in the bedroom. As far as it goes for us at least, it is kind of in a Dom/sub sense. I'm being dominant, she's tied down, doing orgasm control/delay, or some intense sensory play…praising her by telling her how good she is taking it, how proud I am of how wet its making her, praising her big orgasms, how much of a Good Wife she is being for me…giving her something to do and then telling her how impressed I'll be and then gushing with praise on the other side of it especially if she goes above and beyond which she does.
Now that you mention it I'm not sure if "kink" is the right word. Maybe "fetish"? It's not just "nice" to hear…it makes her even more aroused and wet and craving and borderline animalistic, really. Maybe it's the right phrase. Hmmm…
@patient passion,
As I had learned for money woman who was older than I and I considered my sexual mentor, who was full of knowledge about everything sexual and whose well of experience I never found the bottom of.
A praise Kink is one that drives people to receive praise from what they do. Much like most fetishes in they usually started somewhere in our mental/emotional development.
Some experience that made you want it to happen again and from which you receive satisfaction. All of us enjoy being told that we our appreciated for who we are or what we do. There's something that happens with a person who has a praise kink. Somewhere in the mental and emotional process, our body turns that signal into arousal.
Meaning it's a good feeling and we want that good feeling to happen again and again.
A praise kink can come occur in a variety of sexual settings one of those being the dominant / submissive relationship. Quite often this is where the term Daddy or Master comes from. It's the desire for the submissive to please, because that's how they find purpose and meaning. in this particular setting meaning the dominant / submissive relationship it requires that both have the need to be that particular person in the relationship. In other words the two people need to be matched in their needs in this regard one has to feel the need to be dominant and controlling the other has to feel the need to be submissive and controlled. If two people do not have this within their personality makeup it's not going to work. In essence it's a symbiotic relationship between the two. Each giving what the other needs and each receiving what they need from the other thus arriving at satisfaction in the relationship.
this symbiotic relationship should really exist in every monogamous relationship where two people are matched in their personalities in a way that their desire is to please the other and place the other and the others desires and needs above themselves. And it needs to be a two-way street between the both. If one is just receiving all the time it's not going to work. It requires love, trust and patience between the two.
Knowing that your partner loves you and would do the same things for you knowing what you desire and need.
The interesting thing about kinks or fetishes are that quite often we don't recognize them until somebody else brings them out of us and points get out to us where we can put two and two together.
Two people who love one another should be sexual coexplorers in other words trying new things to see if they are derive pleasure from it.
This sort of agreement and lifestyle between a couple in a monogamous relationship is one of discovery. Much like traveling to a new place together to see new things or going to a different restaurant to try different type of food or engaging in a new hobby. Sex is an extremely important part of a monogamous couples relationship. For to expect to be true and faithful to one another one has to step outside of themselves to become one with the other thus meeting the other person's needs and doing so out of love.
My husband, M. And I who are sexual coexplorations, have discovered that there were things we would have never thought that we enjoyed or found any pleasure in but what's doing found out how much pleasure and satisfaction it brings.
It's in talking out a lot of things that we begin to put two and two together.
Lady L
❤️💋
@Rab Keth
Well whatever you call it, it sounds both very loving and very, VERY hot! I definitely have a Dom/sub kinky streak, so that context sounds super sexy. Interestingly, while you say your wife is turned on by this "praise kink," it would really turn ME on to be the one saying such things to my wife! Saying things like "You're being such a good girl," or "You've done such a good job getting your pussy so wet for me," gets my imagination going really strongly! I genuinely hope my future wife enjoys hearing such things, because I would love to lavish such praise upon her as we enjoy each other.
Part of the reason I love MH is because I get all kinds of spicy ideas like this one to use in my future marriage. Thanks for the inspiration!
Rab Keth, thanks for your response. When I read your comment, " there isn't a LOT that we've not tried and either adopted or discarded.." I congratulate you on your creativity. You are blessed to have a mate that enjoys experimentation, as sadly, I feel too many wives are hesitant to "experiment", and believe this a reason why they may lose interest in adult ( sexual ) play.
I too find great enjoyment in watching my Mary 's excitement build, whether it's from my efforts or her own. Although she enjoys a variety of toys I've purchased for her, and becomes quite sexually charged by them, she hasn't "put on a show for me". I'm going to try and encourage her to do this, after explaining how exciting it would be for me to watch her "act it out"
Thanks for the idea..
I love this!! I enjoy the same things as you. It turns me on so much to watch my wife enjoy toys, being restrained, having orgasms. I am going to start exploring your idea of praise. I believe she will react as your wife did.
I think our latest new experience was last fall when we went to a wedding. During the reception we found a closet and we had sex in.
When we exited, one of the waitresses was walking by and I almost guarantee she knew what was going on because she had a smile on her face but just kept going.
Lady L. 💋
Tutchh / Lady L.
When I read this in your post above, describing a praise kink,
" this symbiotic relationship should really exist in every monogamous relationship ", I couldn't agree more, but it must not be a concern for most marriages, as so many end in divorce.
When there is a focus on what is in it for "me" and "am I getting my needs met" ( instead of considering the needs of my mate ) finding long lasting pleasure in a interpersonal / sexual relationship often leads to dissatisfaction. This dissatisfaction too often leads to finding their needs / wants met by someone outside their marriage, resulting in the end of trust and a loss of marital connection.
MH is a way for married couples to read, learn & perhaps discover new ways to improve their relationships. Unfortunatelt i've never attended a church that encourages this to any degree, though, years ago when living in S. Calif. We attended a church led by Tim LaHaye who co- wrote a book with his wife Beverly, entitled," The Act of Marriage" which I believe is beneficial for every married couple, or those contemplating marriage.
New to us has been ass-play, not that we haven’t touched on that before, but oral ass play has become a bigger part of our sex, especially in concert with masturbation. I’ll stroke my cock while she tongues my ass and she’ll play with her pussy while I lick her tight little asshole. Penetrative ass-play has become more common with us as well. We’ve always role-played, though our characters have become more involved as our needs and desires have matured.
I would say outdoor sex has increased, though it’s not new to us; it’s more frequent, and sometimes riskier in terms of getting caught.
Got to agree with you Colorado about analingus. Over the years we have visited anal penetration quite a few times. And it's not unusual for me to put a butt plug in.
When it comes to analingus it's usually after showers so we know we're clean. I absolutely love the feeling of his tongue when I'm up on my knees or bent over a table and he's licking me from clitoris to anus. When he lingers looking around and trying to poke his stiff tongue into my anus it just does something to me.
He also likes it when he's up on his knees and I looking from his balls to his anus doing the same thing while I had milk him in that position. But as soon as I see that precum starting to drool out you better believe I'm on my back in between his knees with my mouth open well then milk it all out.
If it stops I'm back up on my knees doing what I did before.
Surprisingly that part really didn't start until the anilingus didn't start till the later part of our marriage, when he decided he wanted me to put a finger in his ass while I would suck him.
We've looked into prostate play and I guess there's quite a few people that do it. He doesn't like it all the time but when he does feel in the mood for it and asks me for it, climax really is intense. And I like the feeling of his sphincter tightening on my finger.
Lady L. 💋
Outdoor sex is the best. We have done it many times at home, vacations, camping, etc. Something about the outside air and the thrill is exhilarating!
Have been caught before, but fortunately it was only our elderly neighbor who didn’t seem to mind the view and hasn’t slowed us down!
Also, have always wanted to do anal, but haven’t ever made it past a little of my penis head getting in.
Did you do anything to “train” or practice?
anal penetration takes time, patirnce and LOTS of lube.
But once we passed the initial pain it came easier and we have both read and watched videos to learn more.
We follow Dr Rena Malik, shes a urologist and pelvic surgeon and has a lot of information on a variety of sexual and fitness subjects.
Oh, and I had a few girlfriends who gave me guidance. […]
Lady L. 💋
[From MH: That kind of "guidance" in sexual matters is a little too hands-on to be appropriate for MH.]
Agree with you completely Tutchh, there is something about a stiff tongue in your anus that is so damn erousing. I love licking her pussy to anus as well as licking her while I finger her tight little asshole, she cums really hard when we do this.
We’ve progressed a lot in our ass-play, including prostate play, whether with her finger or a strap-on. There is something about her gazing into my eyes, my legs wrapped around her waist as she fucks my ass. She will finger my ass while she sucks my cock as well, the feeling is incredible. Ass plat orgasms for me are highly intense. I enjoy her spincter tightening whether around my finger or cock. I’m glad to see someone else enjoys this play as well. Sounds like you both are having a great time!
@Monogomyman1
We were never caught in the act, but were spotted by a park ranger soon after. So, he caught us naked. National parks do not have a nude policy, so be sure you know local ordinances! LOL
Single and have tried many forms of masturbation over the years. I drifted away from enjoying penis-centered pleasure for a long time but I'm back at it now with a vengeance! I've been ejaculating almost every day and have been using a variety of different lubes to see which one I like the best. I just bought two new ones to try in the next few weeks…
Also, thanks to LLL's example, I am trying my hand at writing erotic fiction for the first time. I don't know what will come of it yet or when I'll feel like having it published but it's great to get the juices flowing…creatively and otherwise! 😉
Try Albolene if you have not already done so for jack off/edging. I used to use coconut oil all the time but Albolene is excellent. You can get it in the makeup aisle at grocery and drug stores.
I have, and it's nice, but I find that it can be rather thin for longer sessions! Also potentially stains the sheets…I'm still trying to find the perfect lube which will fulfil all my criteria but I thought that I might write up my findings into a story here.
I’m not sure if the exact chronological order and what is newest to us. Newest items include: (1) I can cum on Kate’s face, which took her years to try (2) She is more open to using her wand and other sex toys (3) She has swallowed small amounts of my pee (4) She likes my finger up her asshole when I’m eating her pussy.
Can’t wait to think of something new to try with my lovely one and only. 💞
Thanks for your response, Alan Adventurous. Trying new things or different ways of doing old things is what keeps a relationship fresh & exciting. You are blessed to have a mate that allows your experimentation, and encouraging her input in new things to try, is the way to keep that spark of excitement in your play alive.
My latest new sexual activity is reading stories written by hot-wired married Christians while I masturbate. 😉
Or, is it masturbating while I read sexy stories…?? Either way, it's fun!
Alas, I'm still hoping to find my next wife to share the fun with.
We had a date night so I bought my wife a new dildo the only thing is, this dildo was an extremely girth one so wasn't sure if it would fit. My wife dressed in her new lingerie, unclipped to locate her pussy, I lingered her with 3 inserted until she came, lubed her up and then tried the dildo which I couldn't even get the head in. It was still a good sex session.
How girthy? Wanted to try a similar thing as well
9.5 inches circumference
Mrbrightside, reading your post saying , " It was still a good sex session." is what matters most,
if she's in agreement. Considering the pleasure she receives in your activities will encourage her further participation in exploring new things. It' has worked well for me If she's game, you can always try again. I've learned from experience if she is multi-orgasmic, things get more relaxed after she's had several orgasms,.. not just one.
I just want to fuck my wife. That would indeed be a recent new sexual activity.
Hopefully that induced a few chuckles, even though it is sadly true.
Tutch… wow! We gotta give that secretary- boss role play a try! KM is right, add more detail n dialogue and submit it as a MH story! Thank you MH for posting her extensive comment.
OldTimer, this was a GREAT question to ask. I thought of a lovemaking experience my Melody n I shared recently and I spontaneously wrote this poem:
I remembered a new sex experience
That we shared yesterday
When we in the throes of passion
Did some sexual play
It’s funny you should ask
If we’ve tried anything new
You’d think after 30 years
We’ve tried all the sex you can do
But a wonderful thing
Did happen yesterday
I fucked my sweet wife
in a brand new way
With one knee on the bed
& one foot in the floor
I thoroughly fucked her
Like never before
You’d think that at our age
We’d not find new things to do
But you would be wrong
This position for us was brand new
My climax was epic
As I filled her with my cum
Then I latched on her nipple
Until she too was done
As I joyfully sucked on
First one then her other tit
With her bullet vibe
She was busy buzzing her clit
She shook like an earthquake
And her back arched off the bed
“I’m cumming I’m cumming!”
Her sex-charged husky voice said
To other married folks
I would make a suggestion
Try new things in bed
It leads to marital progression
Progression because
Doing new sex things is good
It helps brighten that flame
Like good married sex should
Our newest experience, 2 of the last 3 times, was during our usual routine. We didn't set out to do anything new. But, something way different did happen.
For about the last year to 6 months I have been more successful at lasting longer, in the act. At least more consistently. My wife has never complained, but as a guy I want to pleasure her to the maximum that I can muster. However, with our usual sex sparseness, sometimes, if it's been too long, you get what you get.
Recently, I was pumping away in her & I was on a good run when she started to cum. What was new was her orgasm was longer. It was so hot. It was triple her usual time, easy. And, most assuredly, it was one orgasm. The next time we had sex it happened again. But, still different than the first. I started at just a medium to slow rhythm. One that ended each thrust with a thud deep in her. Every time it jolted her. I thought I was about to speed up, but she started showing signs. So, I kept at that beat. She came hard & longer like last time. But, she did something she never did before. Her orgasm mounted with more intensity with every thud. She met each thud with a thick breathy, "oh." Not a surprised oh, but this orgasm has a voice, oh. Each oh was her gettin' at it as she was scrunching up into me. Riding one long cum around my cock just keeping a mid tempo thud in every landing made her reaction phenomenal.
I will add a copy of our texting the next morning. After the second one…
Me, "Looked like you had another pretty intense orgasm yesterday. I loved it! You were hot. You're always hot, but when that happened 💣💣💣"
Her, "Yes I did have a wonderful wet orgasm!"
She's never described an orgasm as wet, like that. It must have been very noticeably wet for her to say that.
@ she calls me Mister
I could totally identify with your wife.
Generally when in missionary I just have my legs spread but then he had me start wrapping my feet around his back digging my heels in his butt. I found that I could start meeting him as he came down into me that thrusting my pelvis up. I know one that's really quiet anymore usually I really vocal during sex, it just turns both of us on that much more. But I found that I was grunting when I would trust back up into him and he liked digging my heels into him and pulling him farther into me.
Then he did something different. He lifted up my legs and wrapped his arms underneath the backs of my thighs so my feet were straight up in the air. When he would drive into me it went so much deeper. I found that when I speak or say noises during this it's almost like I'm breathing out the words for gasping them out.
And when I'm on the on-ramp to orgasm I'm grabbing on to his neck and shoulders for dear life as I'm almost screaming with want.
Being that we're older and in our late 60s we don't always do it like that anymore because I'm not that flexible but there are times where he just wants to drive deep or I want them deeper that I will lift my legs up voluntarily or he will with lift them before he climbs on and slides in.
It's interesting how changing something up every once in awhile make certain sexual practices so much more exciting and pleasing.
Lady L. 💋
Last experience was about 15 minutes ago after reading all these hot comments. Actually did a nice cable guy and customer fantasy. I feasted on her one tit while she feasted on another which makes us both super honey. This is something new she does and it is so hot. This brought her to 2 super stronger then normal organisms. I was much harder then I normally am and she saw it and said that thing will feel amazing in my asshole. I handed her, her small wand vibe which she never used during anal but went to town on her clit..I felt her pulsate so hard from her orgasm I exploded in her ass. Just when we thought we would go to sleep we both agree it is time to take a shower and have some soft passionate love making before sleep.
We should have dinner together and discuss our role-play projects, I'm sure it would be stimulating conversations!
We bought a penis sleeve from Blissful Creations. Adds about an inch in length and also an inch of girth. It feels so good to me to have that extra length to extend each stroke. She likes the feeling of fullness. We are still exploring how to best use it.
Well, I was sooo horny last week that while I was waiting for our local library to open I laid a loose towel over my lap and had a lovely little orgasm. Who knew it would leave a little spot in the crotch area of my leggings!
What a sexy visual! I need to get back to the library one of these days –
Patty,
You had me nodding my head in agreement with a smile. Going to the gym I used to wear light colored leggings but sometimes the sights there get me a little tingly.
After having a rather dark grey large wet spot in my light gray leggings an opting to go home rather than have someone see it.
From that point forward only dark blue or black leggings.
Lady L. 💦💦💦💦
Oh my CP. What a naughty little bookworm 😉
I'm single (male), so I haven't gotten into the real fun stuff available to married couples. However, every once in a while, I find a fun new method of self-exploration!
Over time I've enjoyed more and more nipple play, which I'm so blessed to say seems to be slowly growing more pleasurable over time!
The most recent thing I've tried is hands-free masturbation! Well… kinda. Hands-off-penis is more accurate, but that doesn't have the same ring to it!
Essentially what I do is sit in a chair, mostly or totally naked. I let my balls hang down between my open legs, then bring my legs together to trap my balls softly between them. This soft pressure on my balls is one part of the pleasure. Then with just the right thrusting motion of my hips, the skin of my trapped ball sack tugs the skin of my shaft back and forth just slightly, providing light stimulation. Pressing my legs together also provides very gentle stimulation to the deep parts of my shaft where it exits my body and even further inside. This technique provides a subtle and very deep kind of stimulation. Since my hands are free, I can add the pleasure of playing with both nipples at once, which heightens the sensations much more! Overall, this combination allows for a slow and very enjoyable buildup to an extremely powerful orgasm. It creeps up on me gradually, and I can often teeter right on the edge for a while, my shaft twitching pleasurably, almost at that point of no return, but just barely shy of it, basking in those pre-orgasmic pulses. Then when I let the full orgasm hit, it hits with overwhelming power, and it fades very slowly.
This sort of technique isn't completely new to me, but it's a different variation than I've tried before, and one that works way better than the other kinds I've tried.
I hope my future wife will enjoy watching me pleasure myself, because in a reversed situation, I think her doing something like this would be unbelievably sexy! If I got to watch as she played with her nipples and made herself cum without even touching her pussy, that would be so hot! I hope she will enjoy me putting on a similar show for her.
Last evening, we were watching a movie together. I was on one couch and Amanda sat across the room on our second couch. She started things off by loosening her blouse revealing her naked breast, she began to lightly tease her nipples. I didn’t notice at first, but then saw what she was doing. After a period of time, she slipped her hand into her shorts and began rubbing her pussy between her panties and shorts. Having seen this before, I knew where she was headed, a full-blown masturbation session. She encouraged me to join her, each of us masturbating across the room from each other. Eventually she moved her panties, using her vibrator on her pussy. She really enjoys masturbating this way, especially when she sees that I am also enjoying this with her. She continued to masturbate until eventually she gave herself a moaning with pleasure orgasm. At that point she joined me on my couch by first mounting onto my hard cock. All the while, she verbalized how much she enjoyed by stiff hard cock. It end with her spread open on her back, me pounding her pussy to a powerful orgasm of my own. I love when she takes the lead, especially when I get to watch her masturbate and see how much she is enjoying herself!
Just what kind of movie were you two watching hon?😘💦💦
Done this same thing Caveman . We love it!
Lady L.,
When my first wife and I were newly married, she kept putting her legs higher in the air — the way that you described. I'm a definite "thigh guy", and one of the things that had attracted me to her was the fullness of her thighs.
After one afternoon fuck session, about a month after we were married, she said that she had felt a new sensation after having her legs up in the air — and that it had taken her a little bit to figure out what it was. I asked. She said, "It was your balls slapping against my ass."
Well, even though we had just finished a few minutes before, that got me hard all over again, and so I fucked her again — only a "quickie" the second time. In fact, almost five decades later, I still often get hard when I think about her saying that.
Wearing her panties is a new thrill.
Such a fun question, def spent some time going through all the replies here!
A recent first was more of a spontaneous, excited new position we ended up loving: We had just fucked and walked over to the kitchen to drink water, naked. I sat on the back of the couch (nyc living in compact apartments…) while Hubby was getting us water and we ended up kissing and that let into him fingering me. He leaned to kiss me and that made me lose my balance and I fell on the couch, while my butt still on the back of the couch so I was upside down, head hanging off the couch.
Hubby continued to finger me there which felt incredible and we finished me in the same position but Hubby came around so I could suck him while he fingered me. The spontaneity and being in the moment was so hot for both of us and we both came, Hubby in my mouth and me all over the couch. There’s a slight stain on the cushions but I don’t mind the daily reminder of that orgasm 🤷🏼♀️
Now, that sounds fun!
Love this Jill. Although we have tried multiple positions that one didn't work for us I just couldn't do it because it was just too uncomfortable for me. Although being in a position where you are vulnerable yet restricted like you were is something I absolutely love as well. Being at his Mercy often brings this whole different dynamic to the sex. And as far as stains on the couch we went to a leather one because the cloth one we had had too many states on the armrest from the
me riding it. Then again we have had sex so many places in our house if he wasn't leaving the stains I was. Something for everyone to think about the next time they visit friends. 😘💦💋
Lady L., 💋
I really knowing that a woman has a pussy that gushes and squirts! That is a very high compliment to her man.
The fact that you enjoy seeing it as a reminder is a really cool and interesting turn-on.
Lady L, I’ll def be looking at the stains on friends’ furniture with different eyes 😂 and I feel you, I didn’t think the position would have been comfortable but I guess our couch’s angles and softness worked out for us!
Newest sexual activity for myself & Vanessa is that we’ve begun making audio recordings of some of our sexy times.
Some of it we’ve even posted online! 😏
That’s hot! Where do people post audio recordings?
@Monogomyman1: Look up Soundgasm. There are also some NSFW subreddits where users can post (I will mention that some subreddits are definitely more wholesome than others, as some are extremely kinky/raunchy in the type of user-submitted content they platform). Tumblr also has some decent places to post, and some people use SoundCloud. I’ve also heard of a pay-to-use app called Quinn, but that focuses more on professionally-submitted content, usually role-plays. I’m sure there’s more places as well.
Gotcha that sounds fun.
We’re definitely a bit more kinky and have some exhibitionist tendencies. We’ve always thought it would be fun to share some content between couples, but never found a way to safely do it where it also wouldn’t be used poorly. That could be fun. Have y’all enjoyed it? Is it audio of y’all actually having sex, acted out role play, or what?
@Monogomyman1 just sex sounds with no talking. Yes it is fun. Role play does sound fun though, but I think we’d need to put more thought into that.
That’s really hot. Would love to find them and listen!
(MH, are there rules about sharing links to explicit content involving ourselves? Asking in reference to this conversation with Monogomyman1. Thanks).
[From MH: As a general rule, we don't allow links to outside explicit content. However, we have allowed mentions of other erotic platforms and such. A link to a specific piece of content is a bit different. I'll bring this up to the admins, and maybe get an answer some time after the busy holiday.]
Hey MH! Just checking back in regarding my conversation with Monogamyman1, regarding the policy on sharing an audio of my wife Vanessa and I both orgasming during sex. I’m not one to try to skirt the rules, so I’m not gonna try to sneak any links past in the comments or anything like that. … but he did express interest, and we are turned on by being listened to.
If you’re okay with it, I can make a story and either include a link, or else maybe make hints for people to find. Or if not, I can just let sleeping dogs lie.
What are your thoughts? I’ll respect whatever you decide.
[From MH: Thanks for reminding us of this, and for your very agreeable attitude. We've discussed among the admins. No one has a serious moral objection to the idea—after all, we're all about celebrating wonderful, monogamous, married sex. However, due to various factors, including a lack of spare time availability among the volunteers who operate the site, we're unable to open that can of worms at this time. Setting the precedent of allowing links to audio recordings could make the moderation of the site anywhere from slightly to vastly more difficult, plus there's the potential for other unforeseen issues. It may not be a huge thing, but we're not equipped to handle even just a little more at this time. Sorry! In the mean time, we're more than willing to continue accepting your spiciest comments and stories! 😉]
To MH:
Thank you for your reply. I understand, and I can respect that!
I hope you all know what a blessing this site has been to my marriage. It’s helped me articulate a lot and really process just how much a blessing my marriage has been, and how much it’s helped me to grow as a person. Vanessa also has now started telling some of her favorite of our marriage stories for me as I write them down for her, and I’m so excited for the readers to eventually see those as well, as I know they all love her.
Finally, sorry for asking one more question, but I’ve made artwork online depicting us, can I request that occasionally the artwork be posted as the headline to a story I submit instead of the shutterstock images? Also, I do a lot of nature photography as a hobby. Could this be posted if it relates to the story? If so, how could I go about doing this? If not, I understand, but just thought I’d ask.
[From MH: Thanks so much! It means so much to us to know that our efforts are having real, positive impacts on people's marriages.
No need to apologize for asking questions! As for the artwork and photography, I'll ask the other admins. It's possible you could send it to us as an email attachment at contact@marriageheat.com, and we may be able to attach it to a post. There may be policy or technology issues that prevent it from being a viable option, but I can at least run it by the team.]
Two ‘new’ experiences cum to mind.
The first one isn’t recent, we’ve been doing it for 35 of our 50+ years in our marriage bed. It first happened when both of us, without a word, began a dry nursing routine. Most husbands and wives enjoy breast play (some women do have sensitive breasts and nipples) and we certainty enjoyed plenty of breast play even before we were married. Dry nursing is an intentional, intimate time of nurturing. It can (usually does) lead to fantastic Os for us. Sometimes we just enjoy the lengthy, soothing, intimacy of me latched onto her nipple(s). We do this often in our 70s.
The second, more recent experience is the mastery of a double O for me. When I stroke and edge, I’m able to just crest over the PONR without full body (prostate/balls) release. I cum very good! Then I keep stroking my cock and within 45 seconds, I cum again. This second orgasm is full and powerful. Mmmm so good!
You should write stories about both experiences!