What’s Your Favorite?
I know that many of the horny readers and authors enjoy the use of sex toys, and I think it’s great. So, I’d like to open a discussion.
1. Which one is your favorite, and why?
2. Is your favorite toy different when you’re with your spouse versus when you’re going solo?
3. Has your taste in sex toys evolved over time?
4. If you’re a little more kinky, what’s your favorite piece of sex furniture?
5. If you don’t own any sex toys, which one(s) would you like to try?
As always, (except for question #2), singles feel free to join the conversation. (And please do😊)
Kingdom man,
We have used several over the years. FYI. We are in our early 70s. Silver bullets, Magic wand, Dildos( wife never really,liked dildos). 2 or 3 years ago we bought a Womanizer pro. I thought my wife had great orgasms before but this has sent her into such powerful orgasms sometimes I think she is going to pass out. She screams like never before. I usually try to cover her mouth so the townhouse neighbors don’t hear. Oh, and the larger size cup works for me as well. The feeling is different than any other vibrator. I very highly recommend.
By the way we are 69ers Big time.
Married over 50 years and having fun together. We ask God to bless us for many more.
First, congratulations on 50+ years together! That’s awesome.
Second, I’m very happy that your sex life is still going strong. I love that you guys have experimented with different sex toys over the years and have found what works for you. I’ve heard good things about the Womanizer before, and I think it’s wonderful that it’s working so well for you both.
Lastly, please write some stories about your sexy experiences!
Wife here😉
1. I’m really into rabbit viberators. I never use it on myself my husband does and I love it!
2. The only toy I use alone is a mini wand from Lola that has 10 speeds and is absolutely amazing
3. We are still new to toys and have not tired too much yet.
5. We’re always looking for new ones to try.
As we’re new as a couple we were both hesitant to try toys but we’re both glad we did!
Thanks for your response! I’ve read so many good things about the rabbit, and I’m very happy to hear that your husband uses it to bring you pleasure. I’ll have to google the Lola mini-wand, but it’s great to hear you find it amazing.
I think a lot of couples are hesitant to try toys, but I’m happy you guys did. 😊
Interesting question K. M..
I thought about the variety of toys I've tried over the years and that we've tried. And I've also learned things about the quality of toys in the possibilities of what can happen, which has changed my viewpoint on some.
And I think that I probably have expressed enough about us that a lot of you already know that we do have toys we used.
I can say one of the wildest I've ever used was the symbian that I told you about. It was borrowed to me and gave me some very intense and enveloping orgasms.
However, it's expensive and very noisy so for us that's a fun novelty but not what the expense.
Although both my husband and I do enjoy anal penetration his enjoyment of it is pretty particular in that it's got to be during the right moments where he would like me to slip a finger in or use a small vibrator in his, that mostly happens during oral or manual sex and at times when he's on top of me with my legs spread and if he's riding high enough on me to be able to reach back and get a finger inside. Being short my arms aren't that long.
Overall I think women have a better choice as far as sexual toys.
I have enjoyed being naughty during my work days (before I retired) and going into the office or meeting a client with an anal plug in. And I have for a while carried a vibrator in my car to slip inside my panties when I'm driving. Just the continuing feel of it keeps me on the edge.
One thing I used to love was a small vibrator which wasn't long at all maybe 3 in it was on a necklace and nobody would have known unless they actually knew what it was. I did have one woman who knew. But for the most part nobody realizes that it's a vibrator and it's very, very quiet. I have gone into the bathroom at work and used it on myself at times.
Also I have slipped it inside taking the necklace and hooking it around the gusset of my panties to keep it from going too deep and getting lost.
Carrying on conversations with people who have no idea that you're either vibing or wearing a plug or both can carry a whole different sensation of interesting. I found that it's a way of being naughty without anybody knowing you're being naughty.
And just to let you know there have been a few moments where I did orgasm at inopportune moments. Usually covering it up by pretending I had a little bit of a stomach sickness and excusing myself.
And I know a few people here, also know about big Duke however I really don't use that thing I will on occasion to hold it , kiss it and maybe suck it a little during masturbation or use him for external masturbation. He's just too big for me.
(By the way Sarah, I didn't say hi to him and give him a little kiss and lick for you)
All that being said one of the women who is in my girl group which can get very graphic in our talks and more open happens to be an emergency room nurse.
She has given us examples multiple times of people who have come into the ER with sex toys or objects that they couldn't get back out of either their anus or their vagina. So take warning, when you do buy, don't buy cheap. Use common sense. And for goodness sakes, use the proper cleaners for your toys to keep the hygiene level where it needs to be.
And ladies, you are supposed to be your husband's only sex partner if you are in a monogamous marriage that means a monogamous sex life.
Therefore you need to be what he needs you to be in other words don't be afraid to show your body to him or to let him see you masturbate or to talk about things that are sexual. There's nothing wrong with the two of you being open about sex after all the two of you are the ones that need to talk about sex. And sex toys can be a huge part of that !
Lady L. 💋💦💦💦
Dear Lady L
What a delicious and honest post. Thank you for sharing so openly. It gave me tingles reading it, truly.
I can relate to so much of what you said, especially the thrill of being secretly naughty in public. I've worn plugs out under my skirt while shopping or sitting across from clients, and there's something deeply satisfying in knowing I'm obeying my Master without anyone else suspecting. It puts me right in that soft, submissive headspace.
That little necklace toy sounds delightful – I’d love something like that. I’m sure Master Joe would insist on my wearing it out and keeping it on until I begged to come… which, of course, He’d decide when.
Love Lauren
Hi Tutchh,
From what I’ve read about the Sybian, including your account, it’s truly next level in its ability to bring a woman to orgasm. I watched a video once of a woman using one, and it was really something else 😂
I love that your use of toys extends past the bedroom. Wearing or using one in public or in the company of others is extremely hot, especially if you had to excuse yourself to cum 😉
Your responses are always sexy, and I appreciate your chiming in here 😉
Thanks Lady L, that got my little nipples hard! Then again, your posts always get some sort of reaction in me…😉
Hi Kingdom Man.
1. Love my pharoah vibrator. It has a lions face with tongues sticking out to tickle my clit. The cock part vibrates and has pharoah on it. Its girthy and fills my pussy so good. The there's a snake for my ass. Mmm so good. I cum hard especially with hubby talking to me (fuck that pharoah baby). and pinching my fat tits.
2. No or I'll just use my fingers reading MH
3. Yes!! I never thought I would have a toy like pharmacy. We had used some generic vibes.
4. No specific sex furniture other than our bed
Hi chubbycpl, and thanks for responding!
That toy sounds absolutely amazing!
Three-way stimulation…wow, oh my. I hope you don’t mind me enjoying a mental picture 😉
I’m glad that toys have enhanced your sex life, and I would love for you to write about some of those sexy times!
Hi All, Lauren (L) and Master Joe (J)
Here are our thoughts.
1. Which one is your favourite, and why?
(L) My bindings – devotion and submission.
Being restrained is more than just physical for me. It's a ritual of surrender, an act of love and obedience. When Master binds me, whether with rope, cuffs or leather, my body knows it belongs to Him. It's when I feel the most grounded and cherished, completely given over to His will. Every knot tightens the trust between us.
(J) Currently enjoying using my TENS machine on Lauren.
The TENS unit allows me to exercise control in a more nuanced and sensory way. It teases and torments her just enough, mixing pleasure with discipline. The tremors make her writhe without any direct touch, and that helpless anticipation turns her into something beautiful. It's one of the more intimate tools for Dominance – remote, invisible and precise.
2. Is your favourite toy different when you’re with your spouse versus when you’re going solo?
(L) Yes, absolutely. When I’m alone, I gravitate to my Womanizer dildo with the clit stimulator, paired with a butt plug.
It’s a combination that makes me feel full, sensitive and utterly exposed even when Master isn’t watching. The Womanizer’s air pulse is intense, while the plug gives me that delicious reminder of how I’ve been trained to take pleasure deeply and obediently.
(J) Lauren is my toy.
I don’t require gadgets when I have her. Her body is responsive, trained and mine. I command, she obeys. Whether it’s fingers, voice, belt or breath, Lauren is the most intricate, satisfying instrument I’ll ever own (consentually and within our limitations). No toy could replace the trust and surrender I see in her eyes.
3. Has your taste in sex toys evolved over time?
(L) Yes, entirely. As our relationship has deepened, so has our willingness to experiment. Our collection now includes larger, more powerful vibrators, toys designed for prolonged play, and those that push my limits.
With trust comes bravery. I used to be tentative, but now I crave what challenges me, what makes me tremble before release.
(J) Definitely. I’ve moved toward heavier and firmer paddles, ones that leave marks she wears like medals.
Early on, I was more cautious. Now I know how far I can take her, and what she craves. The weight of the paddle, the sound it makes, the colour it brings out on her skin, it all speaks of ownership and devotion. I don’t need quantity; I value quality impact.
4. If you’re a little more kinky, what’s your favourite piece of sex furniture?
(L) The St Andrew’s Cross.
Strapped upright, legs parted, arms stretched, I’m exposed and helpless, yet entirely safe. It’s where I feel watched, displayed, and owned. Every strike, every caress becomes magnified, and I can’t hide my reactions. It’s powerful to give that much of myself.
(J) A mirror.
The best furniture is one that reflects the truth. A mirror lets her watch herself surrender. It forces awareness of her expression, her body, the marks I leave. She sees what I see: a submissive owned, used, and adored. It adds a psychological edge that turns a scene into theatre.
5. If you don’t own any sex toys, which one(s) would you like to try?
(L) We’re lucky to have a well-curated collection, including a large T-plug with vibrating dimples.
That one in particular is a favourite for extended wear. It keeps me full, buzzing quietly inside when I least expect it. It’s discreet but intense, and the shape teases my edges perfectly. But if I had to add something, perhaps a bondage chair, something we can build scenes around.
love Lauren and Master Joe
Reading your response was deeply satisfying. What you have is truly beautiful.
Thanks Kingdom,
As always, this community gives us all the space, opportunity and freedom to discuss wonderful topics and to star conversations at home and online.
You are all such lovely people.
L
What a fun topic.
We’ve had many sex toys over the years, some stay with us and some don’t. As our marriage evolved, we became more adventurous, but these have remained with us the longest. My favorite at the moment is the Lush4. I’d have never imagined a vibrator with Bluetooth, but it’s fun to have him work my G-spot on a whim and from wherever he is. You can create your own patterns, even sync it to music. Sometimes I’ll just use a regular, run-of-the-mill vibrator to get my pussy going.
One of my all-time favs is our Lovense sex machine. It has a powerful thrust, and you can mount most of your favorite dildos. It can be set up at different angles and set to different speeds. I love getting my pussy fucked by it, especially when I suck my husband’s cock. That is a deep fantasy of mine anyway, and our Lovense more than fulfills that urge. He can also control it in response to my moans and growls.
For solo work, I often use dildos, either RealDick brand or Solina Mega. We tried RealCock 2, but stay away from those; they look plenty real, but the feel isn’t worth the “girthy” price tag. I love to mount them on the shower wall for a good fucking. I also like rabbit-type vibrators to hit my clit when I’m alone in bed and need to get wet.
Our tastes in sex toys follow our taste in kinks and fetishes. Sometimes the best sex toy is a rope and a bit of knot-tying knowledge. The sex toys that grew with our sexual evolution the most are anal related toys, plugs, strap-ons, prostate massage type toys, wands.
We own a Tantra chair. This sex chair is pricy, but I will tell you, if I could only have one sex-related object, this would be the one I would keep. Nothing has enhanced our sex like this chair, and the curves allow for about every conceivable position and some delicious variations on common positions. My orgasms are often much more intense when I get fucked on this chair. Hubby says the same. The chair's curves support your body weight so well that you experience angles and depth in new ways. The downside is that it is not a chair you can easily hide. So, there have been a couple of awkward questions from friends LOL. If you look it up online, there is a sexy video to illustrate its use.
Do not go cheap if you don’t have to, where sex toys are concerned. Cheaper toys and devices don’t last, don’t tend to perform well, and are often from parts of the world that don’t have the best regulations in terms of workmanship and cleanliness.
We've been together for decades and these devices and toys are a part of our sexual evolution. A little advice to the younger married couples. Don't go out and buy all this stuff at once, let your sexual urges and kinks govern what you buy.
I love your response. It’s so hot that you have incorporated and embraced the use toys to enhance your sex life.
I hope you’ll bless and tantalize us with some stories involving their use 😉
Thanks KingdomMan
We've used many toys over the years and honestly have discarded most of them in favor of the ones above. Toys are only as good as the attitude and at times the fantasies couples incorporate with them. I can think of one particular story that might be worth telling, I'm getting a little wet just thinking about it!
Thanks for the discussion topic, it's near and dear to us!
Sarah Colorado, I would just like to add that I love the DP scenario with your hubby and the machine. I think it really brings to bear your comment about how attitudes and fantasy can fit into a marriage. And btw…please tell that “one particular story.” 😉
1. Which one is your favorite, and why?
– So far, I love my lifelike dildo! It feels so good to slide the realistic, veiny cock in and out and touch sensational spots deep inside me. My Purple G vibrator didn't do much for me, except for use early on as a dildo, but I will try it again.
3. Has your taste in sex toys evolved over time?
– I'm getting more adventurous, for sure! I can't believe I use a dildo. Once upon a time, putting even a finger in my pussy scared me. Now I ride and screw myself to delicious orgasms! I want to look into getting a rabbit vibrator since so many people have good things to say about them.
4. If you’re a little more kinky, what’s your favorite piece of sex furniture?
– Haven't used any. Yet.
5. If you don’t own any sex toys, which one(s) would you like to try?
– Something that sucks my pussy and clit.
Dear LLL
I love the idea of life like Dildos. I searched online, and there are moulds you can buy to take a cast of your man's shaft. Master Joe will be getting that in his birthday pile in a few weeks. Let's hope it's not a cold day when he gets the mould done, jeje.
Thanks for the inspiration
Lauren
It has been so wonderful to follow your sexy journey. I’ve smiled my way through your stories, (and been very aroused 😉), as you’ve taken the steps into discovering and enjoying your sexual self.
I can’t wait to see what have next 😊
Favorite and most used for both of us, is the magic wand. We have two. The original, and a rechargeable one. All our toys are in the bottom drawer of the dresser, except the wands. They both live in the nightstand!
Although we use a wand together from time to time, more often when we use a toy together, it’s me using a dildo on her while I slurp on her clit!
We have bought and tried many toys over the years, but no real changes in what we like and use.
Our favorite piece of sex furniture is our picnic table in the back yard! She sits or lays on the top, and I can stand and pump away in her pussy. And, I can sit on the bench, and eat her pussy till she explodes in orgasm! Outdoor sex, is why we bought the rechargeable magic wand!
I’ve heard so many good things about the magic wand; it’s pretty much a guaranteed orgasm 😉
It’s wonderful that you enjoy the use of toys with her. I hope you continue to have many sexy adventures!
I’ve written about this before but here goes again: Many years I began to develop early rhematoid arthritis. Getting a vibrator was a huge blessing for my wife & of course me. Over the years she has used several types of vibes. We’ve worn out a lot of them.
The first was a 10 inch one that used 2 C batteries.
Next bullet vibes on wire to battery pack of 2 or 3 or 4 AA batteries. (The wires always wore out.)
Eventually we moved to rechargeable bullet vibes including Sensuelle Plus and Doc Martin iVibe & iPlease.
We have a small g spot vibrator that works great all the way up in Melody’s pussy.
Often she starts a sex session with a 1/2 size 7 inch wand. The big wand vibrator we bought doesn’t do anything for her. Neither do clitoris suction devices.
Everyone is different I assume.
Until 2 1/2 years ago I didn’t care for vibrators. I had used sleeve-style madturbators but although they were good, clean up is a mess and sometimes they were painful. The first was too small n the bigger one was better. Being open at both ends helps.
When my wife was going to have back surgery 2 1/2 years ago she bought me a Hello Cake Male Stroker. End on it looks like a horseshoe. You can squeeze it onto your shaft as hard or as gentle as you like. It has a bullet vibe embedded in it the first time I used it my wife talked for it and named the stroker “Julia.” I use it often on days we don’t have sex. Melody orally loves on my nipples as I stroke my cock with the vibrating male stroker. My best orgasms cum from inside Melody’s pussy, then from oral, but “Julia” sure works for me – especially when Melody is talking sexy as Julia: “Oh Tommy, that feels so good! I love having you up in my pussy!” etc.
1. Lately my wife likes the iVibe because it has a loop handle.
2. I only use Julia when Melody is there to love on my nipples n squeeze my balks.
3. Our taste in vibrators has changed as the technology has improved.
4. Tried sex furniture but it didn’t work well for us.
5. We own several but I hope to try a rabbit vibe.
L
It was so hot to read, “ We’ve worn out a lot of them.” Just thinking about how many orgasms it took to make that happen…😉
I love that Melody talks for “Julia”. Also, good luck with that rabbit vibe!
First, I think that the Aneros Helix Trident, either in plastic or silicone, is a phenomenal toy, but just the whole mindset behind prostate massage and the ways that I've expanded my practice of self-pleasure, it's a true game changer. If you get only one prostate toy, the Helix from Aneros is the one I'd recommend.
Another one I really love is the Cobra Libre from Fun Factory. Penis vibrators give me sensations I'd never experienced before too, and a guy can cum hands-free without too much trouble!
I think that my taste in sex toys has changed a bit, but just this year I haven't used any so far, I've been just trying out all different kinds of lube and seeing which is best for me. I've been experiencing a lot of sleep problems in the last few years and taking care of that (plus just getting more healthy in general) is my primary focus for the immediate future at least. I'd love to own a tantra chair someday, though perhaps a few liberator pillows would be a good way to dip my toes, I'll bet, though I should get married first!
The wonderful thing about sex toys is that it's an area where technology keeps getting better over time and there are interesting ideas that are just now coming to fruition. Just yesterday I came across a Kickstarter campaign for a music-related toy called Groove Thing, and it sounds like such a cool idea. We're still in a golden age, as far as technological progression goes!
Hi FM, and thanks for responding. I love that as a single guy, you have taken control of your own pleasure. I applaud your exploration of prostate play and those particular toys you mentioned sound great!
Keep going!
Wifey here. I love using the rose toy. For solo and together play (especially in doggy). I use a toy that kinda looks like a squid lol on him the legs wrap around the shaft and head and vibrates. Makes him squirm.
We love our sex chair as well. So many different positions to do.
Those sound fun! I’m going to have to google the squid toy 😂 I haven’t heard of that one, but kudos to being adventurous in your sex life!
I’ve heard others mention the sex chair, and I have to admit that I watched a video 🥵
We have made a video using said chair. Not to share but for us to view ourselves. Was so hot almost broke it lol
I love couples who make their own sexy videos. Deliciously hot!
like many of the older..err.." more experienced" posters here, we've used sex toys, for about 35 yrs? maybe a littler longer. Started with a "kit'.. a simple plastic battery powered vibrator, maybe 7" long, probably what most think of when they hear "vibrator' mentioned. It was sort of a selux kit, as it had several attachments, made of soft plastic-rubbery material. They changed the sensation as some attachments had small nubs, others had short thin thread-like "ticklers". My wife was adventurous enough to let me try using them, to see how she responded. To my delight, they worked well..all of them. Well enough to induce orgasms fairly easily. Her first "squirting " orgasm was from using that 1st toy.
As we had 2 young boys, and no one I'd trust to watch them- we didn't have a lot of adult play time.
I worked with kids in a mental health facility, & had seen so many abused kids..I developed serious trust issues involving the safety of my boys, sadly didn't trust leaving them with strangers & no family nearby.
As years passed , I'd buy an occasional toy to toy, & my Mary always seemed to find enjoyment in my using them on her. She did not use them on herself, I did enjoy watching her response to them, was quite exciting to watch her energetically orgasm from their effec5t.
After our boys left the nest, & I retired, I had more time & opportunity to lavish my attention on her.; I posted details about our sexual re-awakening in a post titled.." Multiple Orgasm Training" ( written January 10, 2024)
I'd purchased a variety of brands & types of lube, as well as sex toys on Amazon ( Amazon certainly made it easier to buy toys) Read about Lelo's Sona Cruise,& after reading glowing reports on it's effectiveness, decided to splurge on our 1st "luxury" level sex toy.. It certainly was a game changer, in how quickly it produced results..too quickly ?
Not for me to make a judgement call on it, the Sona became her favorite, & I believe the 1st she started taking control of..once I started using it on her. Just when I thought, "that must be the BEST sex toy ever".. they improved it, with a model called "Sila" I've written an evaluation of it entitled " my anniversary present for Mary this year"
that's scheduled to post July 26th.
That’s a pretty storied history oldtimer, and I love it. It’s just awesome that they have worked so well for you guys over the years, and it’s even more awesome that you’re still experimenting and finding new toys.
I can’t wait to read that story
@oldtimer
I love my Lelo Sila! I should have mentioned that in my response to this thread. How could I forget. It is a great clit stimulator!
My wife enjoys her magic wand and occasionally we will use her 9 inch extra girth dildo.
We have multiple size dildos which my wife is a bit of a size queen so she goes for the large dildo.
It’s awesome to hear about another magic wand user!
It’s also interesting to read that your wife is a size queen. It seems there are quite a few ladies who enjoy being stretched and filled that way.
I don’t know how big you are, but assuming you’re, (like me😉), and less than 9 inches, do you use or have you ever used a penis extender to fill her that way and touch all of her insides?
we used to use our Hitachi wand fairly often..though since it was a older corded model ( bought years before the cordless model was introduced, we found having to use an extension cord was literally a "drag"..I will admit, finding & purchasing a variable speed controller increased it's usefulness. The std. 2 speeds of the wand were too strong, for starting out, anyway. With the speed control , it could be slowed WAY down, to a stop. Sliding the control introduced a progressive intensity in vibration. Really handy when using a few attachments I'd added to our toy collection. Downside to the speed controller ? It added another cord to the massager. Ended up taping the massager power cord & the speed controller cord together, which both then attached to the extension cord.
Thinking about this, it's bben some time since we actually used the Magic wand…need to get it out & search for some of the attachments, we've got a new lube to try out.
We have used the extenders however, she doesn't like them now for some reason. I love seeing her full and stretched.
1) I think my collection of glass butt plugs are my favorites! I have quite a few, some of which I tried and decided don't work for me, some I use occasionally, and 2-3 that are favorites. They provide wonderful pleasure, and a kind of pleasure that lets me bask in it without worrying about orgasming too soon and ending the play session. They're amazing for edging and enhancing the payoff at the end! And as I slowly build to that peak, I get amazing, full, deep pleasure from my anal area and prostate, as well as the indirect pressure on the internal base of my penis, AND I still have my hands free to caress my bare skin and tease my nipples. It's an amazing experience that has sometimes left me writhing in pleasure long before I orgasm! I haven't made time for a session like that in a while. Maybe I should! And another HUGE plus is that they're super easy to clean, unlike all the sleeve/stroker toys I've tried. Those feel great, but they're such a pain to clean and dry (especially since I don't live alone and can't leave them out to air dry) that it's just not worth it to use them.
2) Not applicable since I'm single!
3) Yes my tastes have evolved, but not a ton. Glass butt plugs were one of my first purchases, and they're still my favorites. I've tried many toys that I've stopped using for various reasons.
4) Oooh, I definitely have a kinky streak, but since I'm not married yet and don't live alone, I haven't had any reason or means to get any sex furniture. However, I have recently been fantasizing about some bondage furniture that I find extremely sexy. Two such pieces are made by "Master Series" and are available on Amazon under the descriptions "Adjustable Bondage Table" and "Adjustable Bondage Chair". I have a hard time choosing just one, because I crave the variety of restraining my future wife (and being restrained by her) both face up and face down, and these two pieces seem designed for only one position or the other. (Also, readers beware in looking these up, because some sites use nude models, which I know not everyone approves of, and I too prefer to avoid.)
5) I don't have much on my own to-try list, but there are plenty of toys I'd love to try on/with my future wife.
The glass butt plugs sound awesome. I really love the fact that as a single guy, you embrace and nurture your sexuality. I think it will serve you well in marriage.
I would love to about your kinky streak. Maybe you could write a story detailing something you’d like to do with your future wife😉
Thanks KM! Yes, I nurture my sexuality now in hopes that it will serve BOTH of us well in the future!
I definitely want to write about my vision for our future sex life, including the kinky parts! In fact I do have many story drafts in various stages of completion, I just struggle to make the time to prioritize completing them. I have a high standard for the quality of my writing, which means it takes time to build and polish these stories.
Often I randomly get super horny and inspired one day and speed-write a very rough draft of what I'm imagining, then let it sit in a document folder unfinished because I have too many other priorities occupying my schedule. But I do get occasional chances to work on things, so hopefully these stories will eventually get finished!
I had the chance to revisit, reread, and make some additions to an 3-part series that's in progress, and is now maybe 80% finished, so there's some hope that some of these will eventually see the light of day! (This one's not exactly kinky, but it IS a bit adventurous; it's about a courting couple expressing their deep desire for each other, and how they deal with it while still being unable to have sex before they're married.)
One thing I plan to do, whenever I finally get involved in a relationship with a potential wife, is to share with her a handful of erotic stories I'll write in order to more clearly outline my vision for our sex life, and see if she's on board with that. But obviously that's for a time when the relationship is appropriately mature, not first-date material, haha! So even if life keeps me busy, those are some stories that will DEFINITELY be made priorities, and I'll be sure to share them with my MH family as long as my then-soon-to-be-wife is on board with it.
Kingdom Man, such great questions and I loved reading everyone’s replies here!
I’m a big fan of toys and always down to trying new ones. While I was single, I built a great collection of toys and still prefer masturbating with different toys.
1. Which one is your favorite, and why?
My faithful $20 rabbit vibe is still going strong years later and I still like to warm up with it. My new favorite is a snail vibe and it makes contact with not only my clit but also with my lips and I can grind against it. It’s my new favorite. However, my favorite style of a vibe will probably always be a g-spot / clit suction vibe. I love the crazy orgasms those vibes give me.
2. Is your favorite toy different when you’re with your spouse versus when you’re going solo?
For me, nothing is better than Hubby touching me and fucking me so we don’t really use my vibes when we are together but we incorporate a lot of toys in our sex life. DP with a suction cup dildos, cock rings, paddles, remote-controlled panty vibes, butt plugs, cuffs and a sex swing are our most used.
3. Has your taste in sex toys evolved over time?
Absolutely, becoming more connected with my sexuality and enjoying pleasure has grown my curiosity to explore different toys and making new memories with Hubby. It’s fun to see how both get giddy about trying something new.
4. If you’re a little more kinky, what’s your favorite piece of sex furniture?
We once booked a sex house on Airbnb and we fell in love with sex swings – we love the endless positions and the option of combining bondage with it. Now we have a sex swing at home too and it’s so much fun. The AirBnb also had a sybian which gave me a good time!
5. If you don’t own any sex toys, which one(s) would you like to try?
Reading some of your comments, now I’d like to try out some sex furniture too!
Thanks for your response Jill Marie!
I think your attitude towards and use of toys is fantastic! It’s great to read how they work so well for you (and your hubby). 😉