Worth the Wait!
As you may have read in our first story, hubby and I have been married going on three years. I’m glad to say the spark is still there and we typically end up having sex three to four times a week! But last month we were asked by some friends to help watch three of their kids while the fourth had a pretty extensive surgery. Hubby and I knew we needed to help and said yes.
We ended up having the kids for five weeks, and everything went well, but due to the layout of our current modest starter home, there was no way we could have sex. We were both very, very horny. I mean think about five weeks, at an average of four times a week, that’s about twenty times of missed sex!
After the parents returned, we were ready for a break. Hubby came home with flowers and an iced coffee and asked me to join him on a date later that night. Obviously I said yes!
Before leaving for the date night, I changed into a new bra and panty set I was saving for exactly a night like this. We had much fun with our pre-date activities and ended with a nice dinner where I enjoyed a drink. (The drink isn’t typical, but it sounded good, and of course it made me more wet.)
As you can imagine, as soon as we got inside, clothes were coming off! We made it to our bedroom after pausing on the way there to make out against the wall.
After quickly discarding the new bra and panty set, hubby started to put the pink vibe in me, but I had to tell him to go slow because I was so tight and sensitive. To get warmed up faster, I grabbed my mini wand and started buzzing my clit. Eventually hubby took over the vibe, and he started going harder and turned it up. I was so creamy to the point that the vibe kept slipping away. But he managed to keep the vibrations in the right spots, and I came hard back to back three times!
When the fading orgasms finally let my thoughts clear, I ripped the vibrator away and said, “Now I want the real thing!”
Let’s just say he did not disappoint! I came a total of five times, and hubby came three times, with the last one being all over my boobs, and of course a little in my mouth.
After waiting five weeks and then having an explosive sexual reunion, I can say two things. One, we plan to upgrade in home to have our own side of the house before kids! And two, it was worth the wait, and it’s great to be back to our normal schedule 😉. Hoping you enjoyed our little story.
You guys are great friends. Abstaining for five weeks to help out another couple in need was a really nice thing to do.
I was kind of expecting a frenzied doggy or cowgirl session with a quick orgasm for the both of you, but taking the time to start with toys really kicked it up a notch.
It’s a super hot story and I hope you’ll keep writing!
Thank you! I definitely plan on it. Glad you enjoyed!
This is such a pleasant little, loving, hot story!
Thanks for sharing!
How does your husband cum three times? I was practicing a method where you really work up to max kegel strength so that when your going to cum you don’t let yourself ejaculate and only have the orgasm which allows you to have multiple O-s as a man. But I never have quite gotten the hang of it. It’s worked a couple times. It’s amazing. Is this the method your husband uses?
A percentage of men are multiorgasmic – meaning they have very short refractory periods after an orgasm. I am one of those so I know it’s real. Shorter refractory periods are more commonly found in some younger men. Some of us keep that blessing to some extent as we age.
Some men have a longer refractory period and that’s normal too. In fact, it’s more common for men to be done after one.
Also, some women are multiorgasmic and some are not.
The point is to be happy with what you have. Maybe you can work on training your man to have more than one orgasm, I don’t know.
What LovingMan said! It's just how some of us are built! I think some can learn to do more than one. We started out as a one and done couple, but that changed early on in our marriage.
Younger days, I could cum, and stay hard if Mrs. Tulsa kept me interested, (Something she is REALLY good at) and I could cum a second time within about 10 minutes. Each orgasm after that would take progressively longer, and I've had as many as 6 within 3 hours. Some 'suck starting' when I lose my hardon always helps! 🙂
I'm not sure how common it really is, but I know if I keep switching from oral to PIV and back to oral, she can cum and cum and cum as long as I keep doing it, or she gets sore! 🙂
Thanks for reading! It’s just something he is able to do! Like the two comment below. Definitely a blessing!
Yes, I enjoyed it, a lot! Oh my! All that time of pent-up desire finally spilling out – no pun intended – as you reunited…so hot and so sweet! That's great that you're thinking ahead and planning for privacy in your next home if you have kids. The marriage has to come first. Kids are blessings, but they are a bonus. Your spouse is your one-flesh partner. Ooh, please keep the stories coming!
Thank you for the great reminder! Glad you enjoyed. We definitely plan to write more.
Wow! Wow for two reasons:
First, you are truly being Christians to take care of those kids! They will remember that experience all of their lives & love you for it. You made a real sacrifice and your reunion was part of the blessings you received.
Second, this was, in essence, a reunion sex story. When we can’t make love with our spouse for a time the reunion sex is almost always spectacular!
A few other points follow:
You write very well.
We use vibrators too n they are a great blessing for us.
When we first married we had sex probably 4x a week. We’ve been married for over 30 years and we still make sex a priority. Raising kids and jobs sometimes led to 2x a week. Life can get busy but sex together is very important!
We had a sex schedule we established once we retired of sex every other day. Now it’s every 3 days.
Every couple is different but keeping the spark alive is very important!
So, I’m just saying, making lovemaking a priority is good for your soul, good for your marriage, and a lot of fun. Keep up the good work!
Thank you for the encouragement! We definitely plan to continue being intentional with lovemaking!
Young.Couple, in the five weeks, did you both at least find some time to masturbate yourselves?
Navigating sex when one has children would be a good discussion topic.
I was wondering that too, masturbation is really important and it needs to be discussed on young people, I don't know what should be the appropriate age to discussing these topics to children and let them know is a good thing
Sarah , yes we both did. The shower was definitely our friend! Hubby got me a water proof quiet toy that helped! I also would make sure to snap a few pics for him to enjoy during his shower.
God bless you Young.Couple, that is good to hear.
Of course, you would mention masturbation 😉
I think it’s wonderful that you champion self-pleasure. So many people live in a cocoon of shame over their solo habits, but they shouldn’t. I’m happy you’re here to promote Godly sexual release.
Hey Sarah, for you how often guys and girls should masturbate, my sister has caught me jerking off more than 20 times and I feel so ashamed when we addressed the topic because she believes is wrong, now I know is good but for men when we do it often we feel drained.
maybe women can have multiple but men need stamina to maintain an erection. sometimes I take a break of masturbating (I know, it's hard) for about 2 weeks or so and when I do it I'm a bull in heat and I spill so much semen and I enjoy it more. anyways. I think guts should abstain for a weeks, even t-levels increase you you're saving for semen… but I wanted to know how you educate your son on masturbation and how often he should do it
Oh, the days of sex 3-4 times a week. Fond memories. Thanks for the memories, & the wonderful scene of sex between the 2 of you. Loved the details you share for our pleasure, too. Hats off to you guys, & here's to keeping that steamy creamy action going throughout all the years of your marriage.
Wifey here- Thank you! It’s definitely important! Glad you enjoyed. Recently we dedicated one of the guest rooms for sex so that we wouldn’t have to change the sheets as often lol we call it the puddle bed as it has waterproof sheets.