Found the Right Toy (and Looking for Another)
Please read to the end for a related discussion/advice question from the author!
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My wife J and I got married at the young age of 18 and 19. Actually, it was the day after her 18th birthday! We have been married for three years now, and marriage has been great!
About a year into marriage we decided we would start finding some toys to spice things up. We started with buying her a cheap, tiny bullet vibe, which she liked, but never came on. A few months later we bought a bigger rabbit vibe, which she enjoyed alone with a bigger bullet-style vibe. She liked these, but would only use them with me, as they only worked well if I used them on her.
About a year later, as we headed to a yearly marriage retreat, we brought along a mini wand. We’d seen it and thought maybe we should try it, so we did.
After the final night session of the marriage retreat, we headed back to the room for our nightly shower together. The second she got undressed, I couldn’t stop looking at her amazing breasts and inviting pussy.
As I was getting undressed, she slid her finger between her pussy lips.
“Wanting some of her tonight?” she asked.
“Absolutely!”
We finished the steamy shower, and I led her back to our bed, barely giving time to dry off. I lay her down and handed her the new mini wand! She absolutely loved it, and squirted many times.
As she was about to cum, as she cried out, “Ohhh this is the one!”
We’d found our toy!
She then turned it off and said, “It’s your turn now.”
I didn’t skip a beat before positioning myself to find out just how extremely wet she was, and then enter her eagerly.
Fast forward to a few weeks later. I came home early to find her reading a MarriageHeat story, with that little blue wand buzzing away between her legs, and the bed soaked. I grabbed the bigger pink bullet, turned it on, and used it to vibe her inside while she buzzed her clit. Only minutes later, she was squirting uncontrollably!
This simply shows that finding the right toy can take a few tries. Don’t give up, and you’ll find it.
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On a related note: while this toy is great, we’re on the lookout for another! She’s wanting an internal vibe, possibly 7 or 8 inches long, but also something with powerful settings. We’re open to spending a good amount of money. Just wondering if you guys had any favorite recommendations before we buy one.
I really like how you both enjoy exploring new toys, I love your wife's cheekiness in asking you " Do you want her tonight ".
We use the normals size wand and a 9 inch dildo which your wife might enjoy.
Wifey here 💘😉- thank you! Those are definitely on our list. We actually got a full sized wand and it should be here soon.
Great story Young.Couple! I love reading hot monogamous accounts of married couples using toys, and this one was hot.
I don’t have any experience with it, but there’s one called The Power Pounder. It has 6.75 inches of insertable length and different speed and vibration settings.
It won’t happen for me, but I would to try it. 😊
Wifey here💘- thank you! Glad to hear you enjoyed. We will have to look into that one.
Very good story. Vibrators have been awesome for my Melody n I. We too started using vibes 3 or so years into our marriage. My early onset RA was making it difficult to manually help bring Melody to orgasm. So I purchased a vibrator and I am glad Melody was willing to give it a try. It was a game changer! Of course we’ve been married 10 x longer than you two nearly newlyweds.
As you mentioned, not every sex toy works for us. But some are wonderful! Our current most-used sex toys are a VeDO Gee G spot vibrator, a Doc Johnson iVibe, & a Sensuelle Plus vibrator. All are small but powerful. I will sometimes coat the G spot vibe with coconut oil and slide it all the way up into Melody’s pussy. Then as I orally n manually love on her nipples she’ll use one of the other vibrators on her clitoris. She’ll either cum during this foreplay or after we’ve had sexual intetcourse.
Sometimes we don’t use the G spot vibe & sometimes we use it after she’s been thoroughly fucked with my cum in her pussy. She uses the Sensuelle Plus or iVibe every time we have sex. She cums pretty much every time.
We also have a wand n mini wand vibrators but for Melody they only work as warm up. Also, I never liked the feel of a vibrator directly on my penis until Melody bought me a Hello Cake vibrating stroker. We use it very frequently. I never use it alone. Melody named it Julia so on days Melody n I don’t have full intercourse I get to fuck “Julia.” As I stroke my cock with Julia my Melody orally n manually loves on MY nipples. This vibrator is shaped like a horseshoe when you look at it end-on. You can squeeze it to any circumference so one size truly fits all. The vibrations mimic the vibrations I feel through Melody’s vaginal walk when we are fucking. And those vibrations are awesome! Often I use Julia in foreplay or to have an extra orgasm or two after or between fucking.
Finally, we have a sex position that works well with my wife using a vibrator. I lay on my side & Melody on her back. Our legs are intertwined. We are at right angles to each other. I’ve heard this called cuissade position or scissors position. We call it X position. Melody can buzz her clit while I penis pound her pussy!
I hope this was helpful for you two.
Wifey here💘- thank you for the tips. We will definitely check them out.
LovingMan,
After reading about this device named Julia by you but is really called Hello Cake, I had to check it out. After ordering one, i realized what you were talking about and I ended up with a double-sided one. Which works pretty well, but now I'm interested in the one you were talking about.
For years my go to toy is part of a sucker that the sucking shell has long since given up the ghost. So now it is the rather odd looking, insert that still works great. I've had so many O's over the years with that thing.
My wife knows of its existence, and as a matter of fact has given it the nickname of my "girlfriend." I think at first she though of it as taking her place, but now I think she is just happy that I have a method of release when she's not available.
Anyway, I think I'll give the 'horseshoe" one a try since you love it so much. Thanks for the recommendation.
Max
one toy you might consider is a Hitachi Magic Wand…there's a corded model & a cordless / rechargable one. Though they are an external massager (one of the most powerful) there are many attachments of varied sizes & shapes, allowing for internal stimulation. As the OG of vibrators, there's lots of variety available. We have a corded model ( bought before the cordless was available) & I ound a variable speed controller that allows going from very slow to full power by using a slide controller..much more controllable than the std. hi/lo switch that is standard.
Wifey here💘💘- Thank you! A friend of mine actually just recently recommend that one so we got it and it should be here soon!!
Sorry I don’t have a toy suggestion, but I wanted to say this was hot! I hope my wife is a squirter 😂
Wifey here💘💘- glad you enjoyed it!! Squirting is super fun and adds so much!!
My wife and I have been married for 23 years and toys were a part of our marriage early on. Started with the simple bullet vibe and classic vibrating dildo. Then the rabbit dildo with rotating beads. But Her favorites have been the Hitachi wand (upgraded to cordless years ago.) A couple of her favorite dildos are the Spartacus Blown Medium Realistic Glass Dildo also the, Aptitan Large Balls Glass dildo and a dual density silicone realistic dildo that vibrates/thrusts.
Wifey here💗💗😉- thanks for the recommendation! We just tried the full size Hitachi last night, I absolutely loved it! We got a corded one because I can’t stand them dying lol. Definitely worth the money. We’ll have to look into a few of the others!
I'd suggest looking for attachments for your Magic wand..just be careful, since there are so many copies of the Hitachi, not all of them have the same head size..some are smaller & the smaller sized attachments won't fit the Hit. wand.
May I suggest the Lovense Rabbit vibrator, "Nora". It has the penetration you seem to be looking for and the clit vibe but the internal portion also thrusts, and vibrates. As a bonus it can be controlled remotely and even long distance via wifi. That's a very fun addition of you get creative.
I loved your story and appreciate that you squirt. My wife is the first squirrel I have experienced. She didn’t know she could squirt until it happened once accidentally. I love it!!! I am also a big fan of toys and always on the lookout for a new to add to our collection. My latest is the Njoy Pure wand. It is a stainless steel curved dildo. There are a couple of stories on MH about it. These stories helped me decide to invest in one. Let me say that everything that was described in these stories was validated by my wife. She squirted like crazy!! I gave her a full body massage before intervening the toy. I warmed it with water and verified it wasn’t too hot. I took my time and followed the instructions given in the MH stories. She climaxed repeatedly and made the most erotic sounds while I used it on her. I was so turned on seeing her reactions, especially when I witnessed her squirted almost to her knees while flat on her back! The sheet on our massage table was soaked!!! Highly recommend this one.