The stories in this category are about masturbating with your spouse. This may be as foreplay, to spice things up, or because of physical requirements. You may be together in person or connecting through technological means when separated for some reason. Mutual masturbation can help overcome many different obstacles to married sexual relations.

Masturbation can be a way to connect sexually when one or both partners are unable to have intercourse at the time — maybe due to age, illness, or distance — but they still want to engage in intimacy.  This can take the form of self-pleasure while watching each. But, for some, it can also encompass pleasing each other manually or with toys, one at a time or at the same time.  Usually, though, masturbation refers to self-stimulation and mutual masturbation to doing it together and for each other’s pleasure as much as for your own.

These stories illustrate how married couples who can’t or don’t want to engage in intercourse may still enjoy a fulfilling sexual encounter through masturbating together.

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Husband and wife explore fantasies using giant dildo ~ MarriageHeat

New Toy Roleplay (L/A/F)

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This post contains strong language (L), anal sex (A), and involves the fantasy (F) of non-monogamy. My…

A Night in the Cave

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Recently Amanda and I were watching a movie together.  The kids were gone, we had the home to ourselves,…

A Shower for Two

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My panties hit the floor as I turned on the water to the shower. I slipped one of my feet out and kicked…

The Freedom to Masturbate

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In the Apologetic Considerations of Controversial Topics, Bee/Cindy wrote honestly about her and hubby’s…

Good Girl

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Even though it’s mid-Spring, there’s still snow in the mountains where we are, so Lucy and I decided…
Wife initiating phone sex with husband during long business trip ~ MarriageHeat

Phone Fun

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As soon as his name popped up on my phone, I answered, telling him how much I miss and love him.

A Quick Stroke Before Coffee

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I wake up before my wife and head to the kitchen to start making a coffee. We use a pour-over coffee…

Mutual Partnership

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My wife and I (in our 30’s) have recently explored mutual masturbation.  One of her vibrators stopped…

Caught (L)

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This post contains strong language (L). Heather was out of town with her best friend.  I was…
Husband and wife making love in the great out-of-doors ~ MarriageHeat

Outdoor Adventures, Part 1: Fall Drive (L)

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This post contains strong language (L). Hey, MH Family. I’m Brian—the writer and husband half…

Let It Slide

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It all started with making a bunch of soap bubble solution for the kids and grandkids one warm early…
Husband and wife embracing in shower ~ MarriageHeat

Used for Sex

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I am the luckiest man alive. I am married to a beautiful and loving woman who still enjoys sex at a far…