For the Wives: Turn-Ons and Fantasies
Hello, this is the misses of this account.
I was wondering ladies: what turns you on the most? Have you ever told your husband your fantasies?
For me, I love it when my hubby comes home, takes control, and just ravishes me without saying a word. It makes me so turned on knowing he wants me that bad!
What say you?
Well, I would offer a detailed response, but I have a feeling it will not see the light of day.
[From MH: As always, it all depends on how it's worded. In discussion contexts like these, turn-ons that would be out-of-bounds for stories may still be discussed, as long as it's in a matter-of-fact, non-eroticized manner, so as not to glorify immoral acts.
For example:
Acceptable: "My husband and I used to be into swinging, and I have to admit, the idea still turns me on, even though I know it's wrong and we regret doing it. Sometimes we roleplay such situations while remaining monogamous."
Unacceptable: "My husband and I used to be into swinging, and I am still turned on by the idea of another man taking me while my husband watches, and watching him take another woman. Watching him balls-deep in another woman as HER man pounded ME was such an erotic experience, and we'd love to repeat it if we could."
See the difference? It can be a tricky balance, but mainly, we're trying to avoid a pro-sin attitude, and maintain a marriage-focused attitude, which is possible even while admitting out-of-bounds turn-ons, like the first example.]
no worries girly, I have a few stories in my profile that were to soicy to post as well.
Thats what I love about ya! ❤️❤️❤️
That’s super hot
I'm turned on by my husband's handsomeness and body and how he allows me to ride him to my heart's content.
❤️❤️❤️ so sweet
We wrote a story for MH about this very thing, called Sexy Over Sixty. What turns me on about my husband. Little things. Him “being a man,” not stressing, being in control, confident, kind, smart. I get turned on by him being turned on by me. He has muscles. He is hard where I am soft. I love his eyes, hands, chest, his cock (of course). He likes the way I taste. I get turned on by his kisses. One good kiss and my nipples get hard. I like to listen to him. He is interested in many different interesting things, and when he gets interested, he consumes it. He reads all the time. Rarely without a book in his hands. He takes care of us, provides for us. He isn’t needy. He is fun to be with, fun in bed, intense sometimes, playful always. I know he loves me. He is a man of faith. I know it sounds weird but that turns me on too. He is disciplined. He cares. He’s a bit introverted and doesn’t brook fools. Let’s see. I get turned on watching him read, listening to him play his guitars. I get turned on reading what he writes. He writes to me. Isn’t that nice. I get turned on by rubbing his back. He loves to watch me give him blowies (we don’t call it a job) and that turns me on.
I’m getting carried away. He’s not perfect. But he’s mine. That turns me on more than anything I guess. Great question. Thanks!
❤️❤️❤️ we would be great friends girl
I love that. Super hot
I just talked to my wife so here is a list of what turns her on:
What turns my Melody on?
Kindness is sexy. She grew up in a house with a lot of unkindness so me being kind is sexy to her. By the way, HER kindness to me is very sexy to me.
Role plays tend to set Melody off into what I call her “vixen mode!” We’ve done many types of role play – often including costumes. These include:
-Doctor Patient
-Massage therapist n client
-Cruise personal pleasure director
-Elven loving in enchanted forest
-Sexologist & client
-Sex toy salesman & customer
-Many of these role plays have been recorded
here on Marrisge Heat. Some were done at
themed inn rooms.
Flashing her boobs at me in the car has led to some great foreplay & sex outside in somewhat isolated areas. Or the sex when we get home is powerful!
Wearing uber-sexy lingerie. Melody’s favorite lingerie is open cup – open crotch teddies. These show off her beautiful big boobies. And she likes being fucked through the open access hole.
Sucking, nibbling, fingering her Tommy’s man-nips turns her on. (I’m Tommy!) I admittedly am very turned on by Melody’s full breasts & nipples. But SHE is just as turned on by MY man nipples. When I’m orally and manually loving on her tits she’ll enjoy it very much, but eventually she’ll say that it’s HER turn to have fun. I will pump my rod and she will too sometimes- while she licks n nibbles my nipples. This gets us both ready for the next item…
Pounding of her pussy! Although we often start PIV slowly, my Melody loves a good pussy-pounding! She’ll sometimes ask me to fuck her harder.
Vibrators help bring Melody to orgasm. But she needs me to be sucking and nibbling on her nipples as she buzzes her clit. Sometimes this happens in foreplay but more often after she’s been thoroughly fucked. I often insert a small G spot vibrator all the way up into her pussy before or after PIV. (It’s called a Vedo Gee.)
Cuddling in afterglow time as we talk and I lovingly touch & stroke her beautiful skin sometimes leads to me orally latching onto her nearest nipple and we go into round two. Or sometimes round three.
Trust and mutual commitment to the Lord is sexy to both of us. Being close to God brings Melody n I closer to each other. Yes, that is a turn-on too!
❤️❤️gotta love that Melody!!
Those who know us here have heard our story. How our marriage almost starved to death because of my views on sex and purity.
It took his infidelity for me to have my eyes opened and Open the door for much honest and candid conversation about our sex life and desires. We began to explore so many different things. And since that time I love our marriage and my husband more than ever.
One of our agreements that came out of that was that if either of us wanted to try something sexually we would try to do it together. If we enjoyed it. "Winner winner chicken dinner" that's a keeper.
If one of us didn't like it we would talk about what we could do to tweak it and make it enjoyable for both. If we couldn't we threw it out and never did it again. As a result we have tried and experienced a lot of things that before the revolution in our marriage I would have never dared to do.
I could probably name a hundred things that turn me on. But most of all I love when we take our time having sex. I love grasping the base of his erection and sucking him fervently until he builds his precum and milking the build up of precum out into my mouth. I savor the taste of it! Grasping it again it gives him the most intense moaning and groaning and all encompassing body orgasms. And when I release it the ejaculate is amazing!
I love that We take time having sex.
I love that I've embraced multiple orgasms.
I love that he will give me my first orgasm with his fingers the second with his mouth the third with penetration the fourth with his mouth again until I can't stand it anymore.
I love tha he accepts the fact that I am attracted to women.
I love that he and I have an open conversation and can talk about what we find attractive about other people whether it be a woman or a man and that we can turn it around and use it as mental foreplay for our own sexual pleasure without involving another person.
I love that He's my sexual co explorer and that we can talk about things that we have done over the years that amaze the both of us that we had ever done them.
And here in our 60s I love that we still have sex like 20-year-olds. That we are every bit as adventurous loving and sexually involved as we were when we began having sex. And to be honest with you I think our sex is way better now than it was then because of all the open honesty We now have. No shyness about talking about sex. We've learned through open conversation and honesty what turns each other on. We have learned what the other wants and likes and we do it !!
I love that as far as anybody else knows we are the Christian grandmother and grandfather that we are, ( except for a few accepting close friends and his sister) that we curb our language in front of others but when we are in deep passion it's nothing for us to talk out loud in the strongest words about how we love to fuck or lick or suck how we can scream words of pleasure when we are in the throes of passion and on the verge of orgasms.
I love that,
Our sex isn't about our pleasure but the pleasure we receive in giving the other pleasure..
I could keep going but I love that we love sex
I really love the open and honest nature of my relationship with my husband Jim. Since day one we have shared our innermost hopes, dreams and fantasies with each other other in order to maximize the intimacy and sexual potential of our sex lives.
Prior to attending college my sex drive was considered average to light aggressive (when primed with some wine) then my roomie Cheyenne changed all that by introducing me to masturbation as a way to savor the juices in my for my future husband.
So, back to the topic, what turns me on now is our ability to transform into any lover at any time through creative role play fueled by desire.
As anyone knows by reading any of my 25 story offerings, I have an off the charts horny level, mostly because of Jim’s frequent travel and my constant state of “creamy panties” as Jim refers to my pussy lips.
Therefore, I am most turned on during the anticipation of an upcoming sexual game such as the Bar pickup” we did a few weekends ago…..
… more on that in a future story, maybe…
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Thank you cheyenne for our sweet patty
Love your stories
Oh, you are so right about that silent, primal energy! For me, the day is a delicious, slow burn because of my husband.
He's a master of the naughty little message that completely derails my focus. It's never just "I want you." It's always specific and paints a vivid picture. I'll be in a boring meeting and my phone will buzz with something like, "Just remembered how you looked this morning, all sleepy and soft in my t-shirt. All I could think about was lifting it up and kissing you all over."
Or he'll send me a memory from a few weeks ago, like, "I can still taste you from that night in the shower. Thinking about it is making me crazy right now."
And just like you, when he finally comes up behind me in the kitchen, his hands gripping my hips and his hard length pressing against my back, it's the final spark to a fuse that's been burning all day. The food is always, always forgotten.
❤️❤️❤️love your love story Sabrina!
As you said your daily notes add to the fire.
Sexting has been part of our repertoire for years.
Usually as you stated, sharing with one another what we're feeling during the day.
Sometimes when I want to feel sexy I'll put on some lingerie and send him little teasing pictures of what I'm wearing or what I'm doing. Not too much but just enough to let him know.
Lady L.
What a line up! Tutchh, Lady L, Creamy Patty and the Queen, Sabrina! Ya’ll are the all stars of this website! All are great erotic writers, in your own style. We enjoy reading your work and comments!
You are so sweet naughty wife 64.
Love ya girl💋
Hearing from the married ladies ALWAYS inspires me! You give me hope in a world where I see do many miserable marriages, and still worry about the risks of getting married myself. Thank you for embracing your femininity and your sexuality, for pouring fuel on the marital flame, for enjoying your husbands and talking openly with them, and for living out hot holy monogamy. This single gal thanks God for you all!
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Kudos and Ditto from this single lad, to all you wonderful godly sexy ladies. Thank you very much.