I Learned How to Talk About Sex
My wife and I have been married for twelve years. From our perspective, it seems like a short time. When our peers find out how long we have been married, everyone is amazed. We were very young when we got married too. She was 19 and I was 21.
Sex is something we didn’t talk about much before we married. But after our nuptials, we found that both of us enjoyed it. Thank God! I was worried that she might not.
However, our sex life has been stagnant for the past year. That is why I decided to do something. We never discussed our sexual health or sex in general, so I did what I felt was necessary to inflame the passion in our hearts. I read an article called “What Women Actually Want: A Guide for Men” on a website called The Royal C. From it, I learned that it is important to reciprocate in the bedroom. Wanting to put this into practice, I decided to surprise her with a message.
While my wife was at work, I sent her a naughty text. “How would you like me to lick your wet pussy when you come home?”
It was weird to write something like this because we never talked this way. Still, I knew God created sex for a purpose. I knew we had to find a way to fall in love with each other’s bodies again. Plus, having sex is an excellent activity for our overall health. I waited for two hours for her to reply to my message.
She replied with, “I want you to lick it up and down and then stick your hard dick in it.”
An even stranger feeling flooded my body. I felt a tingling sensation throughout my body, especially my lower parts. I was as excited as the first day we had intercourse. I couldn’t wait for her to come home.
She was due to arrive soon after 5 P.M. I cooked dinner and went to take a shower to be ready when she returned. I heard the front door open as I left the shower. So I wrapped myself in a towel and went to the living room.
There she was, already half-naked and beautiful. She had the same glow in her eyes as the first day I saw her. “What a gorgeous wife I have,” I thought.
She asked me if I would fulfill my promise from the message. Suddenly, I felt shy. But I decided to speak up and share a few more naughty sentences.
She spread her legs on the sofa, and I started kissing her. We rolled all over the sofa in a dozen positions. I made sure to use condoms because we aren’t ready for kids just yet.
I can say I didn’t regret sending the message earlier. After having some great sex, we had a long talk about how to light up our sex life. We talked a lot about what we would like to do to each other.
She told me that I had made her day and that she would like to experience something similar more often.
Both of us embraced our sexuality as a pure and divine gift from God that day.




Ah yes! Aural sex!
We have a lot of fun with that still. It was something I started, and she picked up quickly, years ago.
Never fails to get us both wanting to jump in a pile!
Sex-chatting can be so.much fun. I wrote a very true story some time ago. You might enjoy reading it….
https://marriageheat.com/2018/09/20/extreme-chat-wanna-play/
Nice Story. We didn't talk about sex before we were married either, of course, that was 40 years ago.
Thank you for sharing your experience.
I had been looking for ways to love and feel my wife like the first time.
I feel inspired now to try sending a dirty message to my wife and revive my love life.