Nipple Play for Her
Many authors mention nipple play in their stories, so I have a few questions for them and the other women on MH. (Husbands, you might invite your wives to comment on your account if they don’t have one of their own. Maybe they’d like to join the conversation.)
It seems some, such as CreamyPatty, prefer pretty fierce nipple play: lots of pulling, pinching, and twisting. Would it be fair to say that some pain is involved as well? If that’s your preference, have you always preferred rough treatment of your nipples, even when younger? When you masturbate, do you “man-handle” them as well? Is your erotic focus solely on your nipples, or do you like your tits handled roughly as well with lots of grabbing and squeezing? Do you like for your husband to suck your tits, too, or is your preference more the pulling and pinching and twisting your nipples? And does such regular pulling and twisting change your nipples at all, making them change shape or size? For those of you who cum from nipple play, does it have to be the same kind every time (in Patty’s case, the hard pulling and pinching) or does any type of nipple play do it for you? I’ve even read that some women orgasm while breast feeding. Wouldn’t that make frequent breastfeeding something to look forward to even more! LOL
Ladies, chime in on the kinds of tit and nipple play you love most and get off on. It’ll give our husbands ideas of things to try for us and for us to try ourselves. I know some women can even suck their own nipples while masturbating. Nice!
I enjoy nipple play a great deal. I believe I have mentioned that maybe I enjoyed my son nursing more than I should have. I usually don’t have very rough play with my nipples except when getting close to orgasm during sex. During or even before masturbating I gently trace my areola, run a fingernail over my nipple and other play. Intensity increasing to include pinching hard enough to be painful. Loved when my husband sucked both when I had milk and other times. Sometimes gentle biting to the point of some pain. He enjoyed tugging and twisting. Some squeezing of the breast itself. But that is far less important to the intensity of my arousal and intensity of my pleasure. I can’t seem to achieve a nipplegasm though I hold out hope. My SIL says she has had them. I am tempted to ask for a demonstration but she says it’s easier with her husband sucking. That probably crosses the line. My nipples are very important sexually and more prominent and hard nearly all the time. That is far more the case since breastfeeding.
Loved your description of how you begin a solo session….
SecondMarge-I went down on my wife while she was nursing and her orgasms were very intense. She was worried her milk was spraying out much harder and the baby would get choked. I believe nursing excited her a great deal.
Hi Booty, love you!
well, first, I love sucking on my own nips, but it doesn't create the same orgasm intensity as when Jim nibbles, bites and sucks my tits. I can best describe this by sharing what Jim tells me, and that's that when he jerks off by his own hand, his orgasm is okay, but when I jack him off, the level of intensity is much greater. more later…
I have always had sensitive nipples since I was a teenager. But it was during and after pregnancy I became able to reach orgasm just with nipple play. And is it wrong to admit that breastfeeding is extremely sensual too?
I’m glad you did. I feel less alone.
Anne and I make nipple play a part of our routine almost always. As she ramps up, she wants/needs more intense nipple play and action. We start out with my light finger tit touching, flicking her nipples, kneading her breast, and then lifting her tit up for me to suckle her taut nipple for a time (she may lift her tit or I may cup her tit up). As my suckling really turns her on some anal and pussy finger fucking really ramps her up. Then then she asks/begs for hard nipple play – pinching, twisting, pulling, biting – to increase her pleasure/pain. She will orgasm from this erotic, hot nipple action, but prefers that I match my nipple pain/pleasure intensity to the orgasmic bliss of her oncuming ecstatic orgasm.
Patty, please share more details about your tits and nipples! I know you like some pretty fierce pulling and pinching and twisting of your nipples. Just how hard are we talking about? Is there an element of pain that you find pleasurable too? (a lot of women do) How old were you when you first discovered the joys of nipple play? Can you make yourself cum by playing with them or is it only when Jim does? And do you like to pull on them hard yourself too? Does your sister like rough nipple play too?
I'm a double D, by the way. And since breastfeeding four kids, my nipples (like Marge's) are always hard! Even when taking a hot bath, I have pokies. haha And I think all that nursing made my nipples bigger too. I have big/thick nipples now. My husband LOVES my tits and nipples! He says my big nipples are to die for. Who else has big nipples?
Question for all women who have nursed: did your nipples lose some sensation after years of nursing kids? One of my pregnancies was twins so I had two babies constantly sucking on my tits. And I think my kids sucked the life out of them. LOL They just aren't as sensitive as they were before all that nursing (initially, my kids had trouble latching properly, making breastfeeding EXTREMELY painful).
Another question: are there some times of the month where having your nipples sucked on or played with doesn't do much for you? Some times, having my hubby suck my tits feels really good and other times I hardly have any sensation at all (much to my disappointment!). Before all that nursing, I loved it every time!!! And wanted my hubby to suck as much of my tit into his mouth as possible. I would be arching my back with every suck and grabbing the back of his head to try to get him to suck even more into his mouth. I've lost all that since nursing which makes me really sad. Like I said, sometimes having my nipples licked and sucked does nothing for me at all. So sad <SIGH>
To all you women who have felt weird getting turned on while breastfeeding. STOP IT! There is nothing wrong with getting turned on. Of course your body is going to respond like that. How can it not? I know a lot of women that always had to masturbate afterwards or even during. Have any of you cum while nursing? (with or without any other stimulation?) It just happened and you couldn't stop it? Then again, why would you want to stop it?!
Sucking own tits. I've tried it and it turns my hubby on so very much! But it doesn't feel the same as when he sucks them. I wish it did!! I would be sucking them all the time! haha Something quite erotic about sucking your own tits! I wish I had tried it BEFORE I had kids. Maybe I would have found it extremely arousing. Maybe I would have even been able to make myself cum that way.
Okay, I'll sign off for now. I know I probably have more questions for y'all. I hope all the wonderful MH women will write LOTS about the kind of nipple play they enjoy most, by themselves and with their hubbys. I've always wanted to know what other women do and enjoy in the tit department. Certainly, men will want to know so that they can learn, but we women can learn new things too!
Breastfeeding increased nipple sensitivity. Ok, I'll admit that breastfeeding my son was a turn on and I can't imagine what it would be like to breastfeed twins… maybe I wouldn't be able to contain a few moans haha. I reached orgasm breastfeeding crossing my legs and wiggling the hips.
Booty…it seems that my long and detailed response to my nipple play history has been rejected for violating MH guidelines.
Creamy I wondered if mine would pass censors here. I tried to word it in a way people would know without me violating rules directly. Too bad we can’t have a section that is open to any comment but I understand why they don’t.
Thanks for your understanding, Marge. Our site has a specific purpose. There are so many places on the internet where people can post anything they want. MH has a specific intended audience and mission, and we curate content for that purpose. We and the volunteers, authors, and financial supporters committed to this goal spend our personal time, talents, and finances to keep this site up and running. We don't mean to imply judgement by our unwillingness to compromise on certain themes, only to do the best we can meet our stated goal—to build and support a culture of hot Biblical monogamy. Topics outside that very narrow purpose, such as youthful sexual experiences or those with others besides our spouse, seldom fall within the purview of MarriageHeat. So we appreciate your respect for our decisions regarding what we publish.
MH the moving target of rules which results in comments published and later removed is confusing. I understand that several people with differing opinions work there on the censorship. Rules you state are not as clear cut in some cases. This is the place where Christians can discuss these topics. We can not find each other in outside venues. While many of us struggle to stay within sometimes nebulous rules as we see in this discussion, a separate area might be appropriate. Not an anything goes area making it like other porn sites. But allowing some things you censored from Creamy and myself and others. It would not void the reason MH exists. Just move some of the decisions a few millimeters to allow a little more openness and clean up some of the varied opinions of censors. Just a suggestion.
Actually, Marge, there aren't multiple moderators. It's just me, with help from my husband when I have trouble deciding whether a comment helps or hurts our mission. And sometimes I make a mistake and later remedy it. Our goal is to help improve marriages, and especially sex within marriages. If discussing a topic—like different ways a woman likes her nipples stimulated—can add to that, it makes sense here. We don't want to promulgate shame, but we also aren't a clearinghouse for tales of pre- or extramarital experimentation, no matter how erotic.
When I was breast-feeding the contact stimulation was very erotic. I remember closing my eyes in the rocking chair we had and fantasizing about Jim sucking on my nips while I stroke his cock. I believe nursing contributed to my intense desire for the nipple orgasms I often get from twisting them so hard they almost double in thickness and length. I also enjoy slipping on a thin cotton tank top when my tits are at "full staff"- they scream for attention through the thin fabric of the halter top to the point where when Jim isn't around I simply must pull my top off and suck and bite them until I release my orgasm.
When I do this just before Jim arrives home, he knows exactly what I have been up to… and he also knows he is free to request for me to "assume the position" on my knees and free his thick cock and suck him off. When my nips are long, thick and hard after this nip play, I usually pull off my top so I can shoot his warm load over both tips and rub his cream all over both nips and the nipple orgasm starts all over again. It's such a turn on for Jim; he just lays back and watches my convulsions as I cum hard…and he laps up my cream and form the perfect 69 position.
I just noticed that I didn't respond much to this topic, so i'll add something here.
As you know, I'm well endowed in the tit department, and I admit I love showing them off when I'm out with Jim. When masturbating, I work my nipples very hard, and it keeps them long and hard, so they remain good pointers under my tops—just the way Jim loves them.
I also love sucking and biting my nips myself while soaking in our tub while the jets are aimed at my clit. I need to take a break. Sorry 😎
Marge: " My SIL says she has had them. I am tempted to ask for a demonstration but she says it’s easier with her husband sucking. That probably crosses the line"
I don't think that crosses any line at all, Marge! Go for it! It's just two women sharing about their bodies. I have an aunt that has told me she cums all the time from nipple play alone. She can make herself cum just by playing with them and her husband makes her cum from sucking on them. One orgasm from the left and then another from the right. By then, she's ready for a good hard fucking! I've told her I'd love to watch her do it and she said she would show me. With Covid and all, we just haven't been able to hang out together. Hopefully, one of these days though.
Like I said in my other post, I WISH I could have nipple-gasms! Had I known what I know now when I first got married, I think I could have had them then. Just too inexperienced and unknowledgeable at the time to really enjoy everything sex had to offer. Ya know?
I know sweets. I’m fortunate that Jim always insisted that he help me achieve the most powerful orgasms. And over the years we have experimented in dozens of ways I can cum more frequently and more powerfully- as well as my contributions to fully exploit Jim’s cock in the same way.
Jim’s favorite viewing is me working my nips hard – twisting, stretching, and me sucking and biting them until I lose control and my orgasm cums. Sometimes he adds to my intensity by rushing to my awaiting wet pussy and lapping up my pussy juices while nibbling on my throbbing clit.
Guess you can tell I’m super horny now, typing right hand, playing with the other. I taste very good this morning 😍
I often nursed lying down on the bed, freeing my hands. Then I could rub my pussy or even express milk from the tit he wasn’t suckling. So pleased to read others have similar feelings while breastfeeding.
I have breastfed with both breasts exposed to them [brother and SIL], so maybe trying for a nipplegasm while watching how she does it with his help might just be on the line without crossing it.
OMG! I get chills just reading these confessions. Exposing and offering breasts to be suckled is deliciously erotic.
What an awesome topic! I can't wait to hear from everyone! Just wanted to say that I found breastfeeding extremely pleasurable and arousing and would often orgasm while doing it. Or close to it. Not every single time. But often enough. It just felt really good! My mom and sisters understood completely as they have really sensitive nipples too. And yes, they saw me cum from breastfeeding, more than once. It happens. You can't really control it. The sensations just keep growing until you reach that point of no return. My sisters would just say, "Can't wait till I'm pregnant!" LOL
You have an open-minded family. Only my husband saw me cum from breastfeeding. My family would be scandalized if they saw this scene.
My wife for most of our marriage has hated having her nipples touched, which was always a shame because they're nice and big and very suckable!
This year though, something must have clicked though because she now LOVES nipple play while she's masturbating, especially while she's cumming. Her preferred method of stimulation is for me to literally pinch the sh*t out of them as she's cumming lol! Like seriously, sometimes I can't pinch hard enough. So when I can tell she's getting close, I'll start slowly increasing the pressure, and a lot of times can push her over the edge just from doing this. It's funny because literally everywhere else on her body, she LOVES soft, light touches (loves feather play), but when it comes to her nipples, she wants them pinched literally as hard as I can!
I've not had kids; so I can't comment on nursing but I've always had super sensitive nipples and they have always given me orgasms since my teens, before I even knew what an orgasm was! for years, my only orgasms came from nipple play; It took years before my clit gave me an orgasm! they are so sensitive though and even a tiny bit of pain turns me right off! I need lots of gentle licking, sucking, flicking, and the flat of a tongue over my nipple, when it is held firmly but gently between the palms, exposing the entire nipple to the tongue action will make me come and come and come!! great topic BTW!
I often wonder about pain vs pleasure and how our mind decides which it is experiencing. I’m not into pain until I am getting very close to orgasm. But then it is pleasurable to me. But after plenty of tongue flicking, nail’s scratching and mouth sucking some hard pinch, tug and twist feels like pleasure. If I had that at the start it would just be pain.
"Booty…it seems that my long and detailed response to my nipple play history has been rejected for violating MH guidelines."
Well, isn't that a pooper! I've been wanting to hear especially from you on this topic!! And I want to hear everything! Maybe try resubmitting. Normally, MH just takes out some of the stuff they think falls outside the parameters of MH. I was hoping that we women might be given a wee bit more leeway in the discussion section? By the way, Patty, is MH the only discussion forum you are on? I find you to be a breath of fresh air. I love how comfortable and open you are with your sexuality. Your posts are always very arousing for me! Thanks for that!
We both love nipple play — namely me sucking them or taking as much of her in my mouth as I can then licking the nipple. Doing this for a 15 minutes or more part of our every encounter. She doesn't come from it per se, but she has a hard time cumming if I don't.
Her nipples got deliciously bigger after pregnancy and stayed that way, but can't tell that my sucking has made any difference.
Marge: "But after plenty of tongue flicking, nail’s scratching and mouth sucking some hard pinch, tug and twist feels like pleasure. If I had that at the start it would just be pain."
That's so true, Marge! I feel sorry for men! At least mine. I always keep him guessing because what felt great the last time, might not do it for me the next. Sometimes at the point of orgasm, I want my tits man-handled, if you know what I mean? Squeezed, grabbed, palmed, etc., and I'm putting my hands overtop his to grab my tits with him. Other times, rolling my nipples between his thumb and fingers does the trick. Still other times, just continued gentle nipple caressing while he eats my pussy sends me over the top. Other times, I don't have any sensation at all so he may as well focus all his attention on my pussy. haha With me at least, there isn't a "tit recipe" to follow that is fail proof every time. Poor hubby! 🙂
ThaysMomsays: "You have an open-minded family. Only my husband saw me cum from breastfeeding. My family would be scandalized if they saw this scene."
Well, it wasn't something I could help. It was a cause and effect kinda thing. It just happened. And I couldn't stop it. And since they would be over often to visit and to see the new addition to the family, it was either nurse in front of them or have to be relegated to the bedroom constantly. I wouldn't nurse in front of my dad or father in law, though, just in case it happened. Just women who understood.
Though, if I had a brother like Marge's, I might not have minded. I probably would have nursed in front of him. I think it's cool that Marge was comfortable sitting there with both tits out in front of her brother. Why not? They're just tits! We all have them!
It’s just a body was my opinion after revealing it to several doctors, nurses, hospital workers, and visitors over my 3 days in the birthing suite and visit to a nude beach. No big deal letting family see me nursing my son and occasionally my nephew. They are just boobs and it’s just milk. Easier to have it sucked out than leak on my clothes, etc.
Hi folks, Jim here, (Creamy) Patty's husband. Patty was telling me about the frustration she was having addressing this topic, so I thought I would add my two cents, because I love this topic, no doubt because Patty has the most awesome rack I have EVER seen. Since Bootie asked some specific questions of her, I'll add a few specific Patty factoids:
Her nipples are roughly the size of an eraser head – that is, until I (or she) plays with them aggressively, (Biting, rolling, tugging/stretching, etc., when they end up roughly double the thickness and firmness.
From early on, her very favorite thing to do with me is take the lead sexually by sucking my cock and edging me, then jumping around on me and stuffing my face full of her wet, creamy pussy in a 69 position.
I would (and still do) eat her into a frenzy – and when I wanted her to take my entire hard cock all the way down, her cue from me is to twist her hard nipples very hard… and I can watch my cock disappear right in front of me.
If I want to taste her cum, all I need do is twist harder and for a longer period of time and she will cum hard and intensely, all over me.
I really love coming through the door quietly and catching her tweaking one tit while she is working her clit with her fingers. Often she will revert to playing with both awesome tits while I finish her by eating her clit and wet cunt just the way she likes it. Mmmm. When she is cumming, she will buck hard and fuck my face hard to lengthen her orgasm.
When I know she is loving biting and sucking herself hard, I will shove my cock down her throat until I cum hard into her mouth and all over her tits…then we both lick my cum off her breasts… and she lifts those breasts into her mouth getting every drop of my cum until she gets herself off again.
So, to answer your question, Patty is a massive nipple player.
Oh, forgot to mention that when we go out with our "special" friends, she will dress braless (of course) and if the fabric is smooth and rubbing across her nipples, she is sometimes able to have an orgasm without touching them…very cool, wish I could!
Her friends know when she is climaxing, she has told them about her "precum movements" and they love watching her.
Happy holidays all!
You are fortunate to have each other. I would say I would enjoy having dinner with the two of you but it would probably be censored. So I won’t. But we are allowed to say we masturbate to stories and comments so I can say I enjoy both by and about Creamy.
My wife constantly has hard nipples, and they always drive me crazy. There are certain times when they are more sensitive than others, and it’s usually apparent when that time is when she starts to really pull and tug on them during sex. As with SecondMarge, I can say I masturbated to the comments and the post as well. Thank you for all the input.
SecondMarge, I am flattered and delighted that my stories/comments get you honey! Hope you reach powerful orgasms!
It’s interesting how ‘Nipple Play’ has generated so much discussion and open sharing for both gals and guys, Proverbs 5:19 ‘May her breasts satisfy you always’ sure is true! This discussion is stimulating; for ourselves and spouses!! Lots of fucking and masturbating!
I have thought many times about Proverbs 5:19!
My wife has very low sexual desire, but she gets really turned on if I suck on her nipples a good while. She doesn't like them handled rough though, just nice sucking and licking. She makes me stop sometimes because she doesn't want to get all turned on and do sex.
When she breastfed our kids, she also had some good feeling pretty often. Several times after breastfeding, she would want sex and that is from a very low desire woman. I think she felt some guilt from getting turned on like that.
She can almost orgasm from nipple play, but not quite; doesn't take much other stimulation to finish her off.
A perfect picture to match Creamy’s story! One of my most favorites!!
My wife can climax from nipple play alone, with some effort on my part. I like that it takes some work, because then I feel like it is due to my efforts. Like many women have said, how rough she likes her nipples handled can depend from one encounter to another. I also love the picture that accompanies this post, and so many others.
Hey Patty, have you found that you like more and more…or should I say, harder and harder pulling and twisting and pinching of your nipples the older you get? As Marge was saying, there is a pain/pleasure connection when we're aroused. Can you tell us more about it for you? As time passes, do you find yourself pulling and twisting your nipples harder and harder all the time? And do you want Jim to increase his actions as well? (pull harder, twist them fiercely, that kind of thing). Is there some pain connected to your pleasure that you enjoy? Or when you're that aroused, is it all pleasure? As Marge was saying, in an unaroused state, pinching and pulling and twisting might not feel that good to a lot of women but that can all change when we're really turned on. We like different things at different times. Some times when my husband is eating my pussy, he'll reach up and just gently roll my big hard nipples between his fingers and thumb and that will send me over the edge. Other times, it might not do anything at all. Just depends. But I've never gotten to the point (yet at least haha) where I've wanted him to pull on them. More gentle play works better for me. THOUGH…there are times when I'm cumming that I want his big hands to grab my whole tit and squish and squeeze them (a little more roughly) and I will even put my hands over his to assist him in this.
You mentioned that you discovered you had sensitive nipples already as a teenager. Did you enjoy pulling on them and pinching them already then? Was your very first orgasm, a nipple orgasm?
Hi, sweetie,
No, my first orgasm wasn't from nipple stimulation; it was during a very intense dry hump with my 15-year-old boyfriend. It was unbelievable to me how good I could feel.
Nipple play is kinda weird for me. When alone, say in my whirlpool bath, while masturbating in warm water with jets aimed just right, I will compliment my clit finger-play with rather aggressive nipple play, squeezing, rolling and pulling. I find the pulling really ramps up my orgasm, and I know just what to do with my hard and long nipples to bring me over the edge.
I can edge myself by backing off on nip play, and when I need to cum hard in seconds, I’ll pull very hard and twist almost violently and explode.
When I’m in my favorite 69 position with Jim, I’m sucking his monster cock deep while riding his mouth. He will just hold his tongue firm as I ride his face fast and hard. When I’m ready for my orgasm, I’ll pull his cock out and signal him to twist, pull or bite my nipples. Seconds later, I’ll be squirting.
Hope this is clear.
Love you, hottie 😉
I just wanted to say that I've really enjoyed hearing from all of you about your favorite kind of tit and nipple play! But I know there are a lot more of you out there who haven't commented yet. C'mon ladies, Big tits, little tits, and everything in between…big nipples, little nipples, humongous nipples…what do you do yourself when you're playing with them (and who doesn't like playing with their own tits?! I sometimes play with mind absentmindedly while watching TV. Hey, don't guys sit with their hand down their pants? haha) and what do you like your husband to do with them? Anyone else like rough play like Creamy—really hard pulling, twisting, pinching? How many of you have super sensitive nipples and cum regularly from having them sucked or played with? Anyone experience increased sensitivity as you've gotten older or after nursing your kids? Anyone lose sensitivity over the years? How many of you go braless when out and about away from the house (out shopping)? Creamy does and likes her nipples to be nice and hard for others to see. That's awesome since most women get really self-conscious/embarrassed when their nipples are hard in public. Who doesn't care one little bit? Who tries to cover them up? Keep em cumming, MH hotties!
I remember the days of being embarrassed that my nipples pushed through a bra and or blouse and were visible. My husband loved them showing. While I no longer purposefully dress to let them show, I am no longer embarrassed if they do. Maybe on the right day a bit turned on by someone noticing or flat out seeing them. Free the nipple seems to make sense. If guys can show theirs.
I just read your info request again, and I'll add something else.
Over the years my nipples have grown maybe 25 percent from aggressive play and sucking. It really improves the optics of my tits with the right tops.
They are also more sensitive than normal, and I can actually almost get myself off by twisting my chest a little if I am wearing a slinky top over my braless (always) body.
I know pain is a factor in my orgasms because when Jim and I have sex, there is always a little pain involved and because I love a little spanking during rough sex and roleplaying.
Hope this isn't too much info 😎
Silvergold, this post inspired my wife and me so much. After she read this, she walked over to my recliner in our bedroom and first took off her pajama shirt then her pants and thong… smiled… grabbed a pillow and lay spread eagle on our bedroom floor, saying she was all mine. I played w/ her tits so hard she came so hard twice. She was amazed how wet she got. I started in missionary then she rode me. Soo hot.
This thread and recent MH stories must be the reason why I dreamt last night that my Anne mounted me and fucked me cowgirl, begging me to suckle and then torture her nipples as we both came hard. When I told her about my delicious and delightful dream and how fucking 🔥 she orchestrated our cumming, she gave me a sexy giggle and smile. Then she felt me me up to check on my wet dream!
YES! Good for you and Anne!
CP: "I love a little spanking during rough sex and roleplaying. Hope this isn't too much info."
OF COURSE IT'S NOT TOO MUCH INFO, Creamy! Never ever! The more from you, the better IMHO. Keep writing and posting comments! Your comments are just as hot and stimulating!
So, even while wearing a top, you can play with your nipples and cum? Wow! NICE!! Wish mine were that sensitive! My 4 kids sucked the life out of them! hahaha
I doubt they sucked all of it out, sexy..plenty for you and hubby to chew on😎
To be clear, some days when I feel especially horny and feel like showing off with Jim at my side, I’ll pick out my favorite slinky tank top ( the fabric just glides over my firm rack and grazes across my rock-hard nipples, tickling and teasing them). And just before leaving I’ll lift my top and have Jim feast on them until both breasts are swollen and my nipples are standing out long and hard. Then, when I’m ripe for an orgasm, Jim will point out men (and women) that are checking me out, and anytime I want, I can hold the bottom of my tank, twisting a little, and the tweaking will bring on an orgasm.
I second Chloe's comments! I hope more will share! I know there are a lot of other women that haven't chimed in yet. What do you like and what don't you like? What kind of play REALLY turns you on? Sharing will benefit us all (give us gals some new things to try), including the male readers.
My nipples are constantly hard too. It happened after all that nursing. My nipples also increased in size (thickness and length) from breast feeding too. I'm told that happens to most women after breast feeding. Did y'all get bigger nipples after breast feeding your kids too? My hubby LOVES my big hard nipples! LOVES THEM! And I'm totally fine with them being hard and visible at home. But I'm still far too self conscious for others to see them, much to his dismay. He always encourages to go braless when out of the house (I go braless at home) but I haven't gotten over my shyness yet, I guess. He always says, "What's the big deal if they stick out? That happens to every woman. They're just nipples." You know it's funny…men have nipples too and they can stick out as well and can show through their t-shirts. No one even bats an eyelash when it's a man. I suppose it should be the same for women, too. Tell me ladies, how did you get over feeling self conscious about your protruding nipples in public? Are you just as comfortable with your hard nipples showing around family members too? (ie siblings, parents, inlaws etc.)
I just was never shy about my body; my freedom came in college, away from home. I’m waaay more conservative around family. (Except my sister Barbara).
Playing with my nipples is probably one of the most important things about get aroused. It's so natural and feels so amazing!
My wife says I am a nipple freak. I love hers and she loves to do mine. I am able to have multiple orgasms and she has given me several by just my nipples. Like CP, I appreciate a bit of rough handling during sex. I love getting rough nipple stimulation and if the wife incorporates some biting…..on nipps and other places….OMG. Orgasmic! Makes my ejaculation intense.
Blessed,
Very cool that your nipples are so sensitive that you can cum and that your wife knows how to get you off! Just the thought gets me wet thinking I could do that to Jim, but he is just so-so with me playing with his during sex, or while giving him head. We tried it together during one weekend when were doing a little bondage; when he was in cuffs (ankles and wrists), I wasn't able to get him off with nipple play, but his cock responded very positively, so much so that he demanded he get a blowjob only 20 minutes into our bondage. (Our general rule is at least one hour!)
As a sidebar, I refused his BJ request (hey, I was in command, right?) but when my time came for bondage, Jim got revenge on me by spanking me longer than usual, and my ass was bright by the time I hit my first (of three) orgasms. He has a special little "Pussy spank" he delivers when I'm a little disobedient during our role-play.
Oh yeah CreamyPatty, loving the “pussy spank”. I give the wife a playful invigorating pat on occasion. Bondage with having my nipples being used in a teasing way at first then progressively getting more forceful sounds awesome. You mention your hub's cock responding to nipps play….if my wife wants to get the proverbial ball rolling, she knows to go straight to the nipples. I love to have her behind me with her tits lightly on my back….reaching around and tweaking my nipples. A definite bonus when she presses her puss against my ass; especially with rhythmic thrusts.
CP: "He has a special little "Pussy spank" he delivers when I'm a little disobedient during our role-play."
I've heard that some women like to have their pussy spanked and even cum from it when aroused. I think it's a repeated "tapping" kinda thing? Creamy, can you elaborate a bit more for me, please? What exactly does Jim do? And do you cum with repeated tapping/lightly smacking stimulation? Is it a whole hand tapping over top of the clit area that feels good?
Okay Booty, I’ll answer your “spank” question a little more specifically since it happened late last night.
I was getting an awesome hard fuck from my beloved hubby, and after Jim pumped a load into me that I could actually feel deep into my soaked pussy, he flipped me over and spanked my ass, and with each spank he inserted his second,third and fourth fingers deep into my pussy. Each time he draws out his finger, he brings them to my open mouth for a taste, then he hard taps my spread legs and clit. Just the rapid fire clit spanks generated a well focused orgasm.
After, we adjust ourselves into a side by side 69 position. He told me later that I almost broke his neck while clamping down my legs while I was cumming!
Wow creamy …we read this tonight and has reenact it and all we can say is wowwww….her tasting herself and the spanking led to many orgasms. Next new thing to try is a little light bondage. We just ordered some nipple clamps so excited to try them.
Blessedman, I just learned a few years back that my hubby has sensitive nipples too! I like my nipples stimulated in conjunction with him eating my pussy and I had an epiphany: maybe a man's nipples are connected to his cock the same way a woman's is to her nipples. So I asked him and he said "Yes". He even plays with his own nipples while masturbating. Makes total sense! I don't know why I didn't think of it sooner?! So now I don't ignore his nipples. When he's about to cum, he likes for me to pinch them and pull on them. He even likes my tongue flicking over them too! Again, we women love it; why wouldn't a guy?! Duh!
Booty, I will intentionally disobey him and he will flip me so I’m on my back and arched so he can spank my wet pussy quickly with medium force. When he knows I’m getting close he will twist and pull my nips until I’m over the edge.
My wife had a nursing instructor say one day in class, when talking about the nervous system and various body parts, that they are all connected. She tried for a couple years to play with my nipples but I thought that was just for the ladies. Then, not that I recommend this, but we were watching a porno (vhs) and this burly, tough African-American gentleman was getting his nipples did and was loving it. Then I decided I had to let her do mine. She did and I haven’t gone without since! ! !
Oops, just saw that I left out a word clit: I had an epiphany: maybe a man's nipples are connected to his cock the same way a woman's clit is to her nipples.
Mine is definitely connected. Maybe I am just weird but I am gonna roll with it! 👍 If the wife starts with my cock, that makes my nipples ache for action….vice versa!
So, Marge has come not to mind her nipples being hard and showing in public. Patty doesn't mind at all! What about the rest of you? Does it embarrass you if your nipples are protruding in public? By the way, how many of you go braless when you leave the house? My hubby LOVES the braless look! And I have to admit, I enjoy seeing braless tits too. Nipples definitely poke out then! 🙂
I like the braless look too.
If my nipple was pinched hard and tugged when I was not already aroused, I would find it painful and unwanted. But once I get wet and ready, input feels fantastic and not painful. Rather odd. Maybe not as rough as Creamy likes it.
My husband started a rapid tapping/spanking of my pussy at one time, and I must admit I liked it. It wasn’t hard like you might punish someone and I was already wet.
Ooh, I love that, too!
I have a question regarding this. My wife has always resisted me doing anything with her breasts. It's been a bit of a source of contention in our marriage. I've always loved her tits and expressed it countless times how much I love them, but its never been "on the menu", much less the other more adventurous sex acts (anal is definitely off the table, along with me giving her oral sex. In fact, she doesn't even let me use my hands on her at this point). We've been happily married for the most part for 16 years and have built a family together thru lots of trials and hardships, and I am my beloved's and she is mine. I just struggle with frustration and wondering if it will ever be more than it is, or if we're slipping towards the golden years of a sexless marriage. It's been difficult for me to see her reasoning as to why she would resist me after we've been married for so long. She brought some issues into the marriage from previous relationships and previous experiences that I've had to navigate, and I've always "dealt with my wife with understanding" but it's really discouraging to read about and hear about all these exciting marriages and all this great sex while I'm over here hoping she'll let me touch her. I hope I don't mean to kill the vibes of this post…just wondered if anyone had any advice or ideas or anything like that.
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