First Time We Had Oral

It was a month after our wedding; we were doing great. We were bonding, and Melody was getting used to my kids, who were becoming just as much HER kids. In fact, a year later, she would adopt them. Melody went on to be the best mother and the most awesome grandmother too! Our kids and grandkids will testify to that. And I’ll testify that Melody was and IS an amazing and loving and kind and sexy wife!

But Melody is very kind to everyone—including and especially to me, her husband. We made love very frequently that first month and usually we both were multi-orgasmic! But although we were experimenting with and enjoying different sex positions, we had never shared the oral sex experience. That was about to change!

Other than a couple of pieces of sexy honeymoon pieces, Melody had no other sexy lingerie to wear. So I decided to buy her something from an online shop. I chose a beautiful bra and panty set in her favorite color, purple.

I was planning to introduce oral sex (particularly cunnilingus) into our lovemaking sessions. But I had been hesitant to do so because of the past sexual abuse Melody had experienced in her childhood.

Friday evening came. Our kids were staying with relatives that Friday night. I decided to give my bride the sexy lacy bra and panty set on Saturday morning. I also hoped to push those pretty panties to one side and for the first time feast on her pussy.

Melody loved the set. She went into the master bathroom to put them on and modeled them for me when she came out. She was a gorgeous sight. She was fit AND curvy. She looked a lot like a busty lingerie model. For the umpteenth time, I marveled at how blessed I was. My wife was kind, beautiful, and sexy! She was also willing to experiment in our sexual relationship—all within our covenant of marriage!

I stood and kissed her after the sexy modeling, and we moved to the king-size bed. She and I were soon devouring each other’s mouths. I moved down to her partially-covered breasts and pulled each side of the bra down just enough to kiss all around her areola. Then I sucked and tongue-flicked each nipple to make it as hard as a fresh raspberry. I followed this by opening my mouth wide to suck on her areola and nipple at the same time.

While doing this I could not help but think about doing similar things to her labia and clitoris.

I moved a bit nervously clear down to her ankles and kissed my way up the inside of both her legs. When I arrived at her lace-hidden pussy, I kissed and sucked on her cunt through the lace.

Melody had been sighing and saying, “That’s nice! Mmmmm, that feels really good!”

But when I began licking and lingually loving her pussy through the lace, she gasped in pleasure. I took that as a good sign, and while licking the lace, I gently pulled the panty aside to see and smell her very wet and very aroused pussy and clit. I took a long lick, and Melody sighed loudly from pleasure. Then I pushed my tongue up into her pussy’s opening, and she arched her back and pushed her vagina up to engulf my tongue.

“Ooooo! I LIKE that! Put your tongue inside of me!”

For lack of a better phrase, I’ll tell you that I tongue-fucked her as deeply as I could. Her pussy juices smeared all over my mouth, tongue, and face, but I absolutely relished the taste and the smell!

Glancing up at Melody, it was very obvious that she was enjoying it immensely too! So I also reached up to pinch her lively nipples as my lips and tongue stayed busy at her clit and pussy. After a while, I moved a bit higher and gave her clitty some long strokes with my flat tongue. She loved it! Then I made my tongue pointed, and I worked over her pussy as she writhed in pleasure!

After some time, she indicated that I needed to stop. The sensations were just too intense! She looked down at me and quoted a children’s song. “And the little one said, ‘Roll over! Roll over!’”

Surprised, I first plunged my tongue into her sweet pussy just a bit more until she repeated the words.

So I slid up beside her, and she said it again, sing-song. “Roll over! Roll over!” She also gave me a gentle shove so I rolled over onto my back as she had insisted. Of course tasting and licking and tongue-fucking her pussy had my then 32-year-old cock as hard as tempered steel.

But instead of mounting me and doing cowgirl as I expected, Melody slid her face down and took my hard erection into her hands. She looked at my rod admiringly, then began to kiss my tip, followed by trying to take my thick but tapered glans into her very small mouth. She failed.

Melody again surprised me by starting to laugh. “My husband’s hard penis is too big to fit into my mouth!” she exclaimed as she laughed some more.

Honestly, I was speechless. I know this may seem weird, but I had no idea that I was way above average down there.

But Melody is a go-getter! She opened her mouth wide and flexed it a few times, then lowered her pretty little mouth onto my cock head. She began to pump my shaft with her hands as she took my dick deeper into her mouth. She stopped at halfway as far as depth, but she began to bob her head up and down as her hands continued to pump my shaft.

Needless to say, I was experiencing nirvana. Watching her tiny mouth engulf my erection for the first time reminded me of how she had given me her virginity only a month before.

Finally, Melody backed off and came up to kiss me. Then she mounted me, and we had sex in the cowgirl position until we both came. Then we did it again in missionary position, and we came again!

Afterward, while I held her and thanked her as we cuddled on the big bed, she confided in me. “I don’t think I can do that in the bedroom. Can we do it in the shower or bathroom instead?”

I readily agreed. We had a shower/jetted tub with built-in armrests that a few days later we discovered I could stand on. With warm water spraying on my back and lightly splashing down on her, Melody stood facing me in the tub. She could and did give me an enthusiastic blow job without ever being triggered. She didn’t want cum in her mouth back then, so after the BJ she’d turn around and bend over and stand tippy-toe. When I climbed down from the armrests, the height was perfect for in-shower standing doggy-style sex. For many years we did this two or three times a month! What stopped it was my wife having foot surgery; after that, she could not stand on tiptoe anymore.

But she would blow me as she sat naked (or near-nude in sexy lingerie) on a closed toilet seat with me standing in front of her. Or she’d just bend over to suck me when we were showering together. And eventually, she became comfortable with me coming in her mouth—sometimes—and with giving me fellatio in the bedroom and a variety of other places!

Several years ago, we worked out a compromise because I wanted fellatio all the time. We agreed that it was a gift she would give me on birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries. That has made fellatio very special to me. Also, she sometimes surprises me with impromptu blowjobs!

As far as me performing cunnilingus on her, we do that more often. Her code phrase for “I want cunnilingus” is, “Put your tongue inside me!”

She sometimes is not in the mood for cunnilingus, and I generally honor that. But sometimes, I gently insist, and once I get started, she often finds the mood. I love how her raw pussy tastes! We also often use Aloecadabra flavored lube along with some coconut oil, and after I cum in her pussy, it is fun to lick out our “pussy-n-penis churned protein shake!” Many times, I scoop the cream pie out of her pussy and rub it on her nipples before licking and sucking it all off!

This usually leads to a great orgasm for her since she’s buzzing her clit with a vibe while I’m sucking, licking, and tongue-flicking her tasty nipples! What’s interesting is that if I give her oral sex when she’s having a challenge climaxing, she is way more likely to cum. Even though she does not cum during oral sex, when I go back to loving on her tits after doing cunnilingus on her, she’ll cum like crazy!

This post turned out to be about our first oral sex experience with each other and how oral sex has evolved in our living and sexy marriage. We feel that these types of oral marital sexual practices are sanctioned by God, and they serve to help bond us together as husband and wife!

I say this because I’m sure you know that sinning denies you the Holy Spirit. He withdraws when we go off the straight and narrow way. But quite honestly, ALL the ways we sexually please our spouse in marriage are uplifting to the Holy Ghost. And what’s more, we can say a silent prayer for our spouse during sex, and the prayer is answered!

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4 replies
  1. Sam Ox says:

    I have two thoughts:
    First, I am a male and getting married later this year. I’ve been reading MarriageHeat for around 3 years. Can anyone help shed light on the fact why in so many marriages, the husband will readily give oral but the wife will only do it a few times a year? It has been clear pattern I’ve seen from many couples on here. It comes off as the giving in sex being very one sided, offensive, and unbiblical. The scriptures says, “The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.”
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭3‬-‭4‬

    Second, there is no where in Scripture that tells us that the Holy Spirit leaves us when we sin, so I didn't find that theology helpful. I’m not interested in debating on here because this is not the forum to do so, but I would encourage doublechecking the verses on this topic. To borrow from GotQuestions dot org, “Romans 8:9 tells us, ‘…if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ.’ This verse very clearly states that if someone does not have the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit, then that person is not saved,” [not that they haven't sinned since becoming saved.]

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      I've noticed that too! Except for the few of us women who write and comment here, it seems that many wives aren't as much into providing oral sex. Now, maybe it's that most satisfied men aren't perusing the internet for erotic stories. There is definately more "phermone" action involved in the "ripe" smell of a woman, so wanting to get one's face between the legs of your excited wife makes biological sense. The reverse doesn't seem to be true, but I do get a rush from the smell of my husband's clean or slightly sweaty crotch. Still, I think society (and maybe porn) focus on the "giving" aspect of fellatio to the detriment of the sexual excitement of it *for the woman.* There is a sense of power and submission intermingling, the emotional aspect of nurturing the husband's need for that acceptence as well as a sort of throwback to the oral satisfaction of nursing or thumb-sucking (not so much with deep-throating; that's more of a pride of acomplishment 😜). We just have to be wooed into the pleasure of it, praised for our progress and accomplishments, and given the chance to discover that it's pleasurable for us, too!

    • LovingMan says:

      Sam Ox, thanks for your insights and comments.
      I guess we have a somewhat different understanding of the Holy Ghost or Holy Spirit. But just so you know, I don’t think the Holy Ghost ever totally withdraws from a believer in Christ.

      As far as oral sex, I have a few thoughts. Every married couple will be unique in many ways including their sexual relationship with each other. Some wives don’t like giving oral and some men don’t like giving oral either. Yet some husbands & wives both enjoy oral sex frequently.

      Years ago, we went to a married Christian couple who were both marriage & sex therapists because frequency of oral sex was a conflict in our marriage. With their help, we negotiated a compromise that we could both live with. So my Melody gives me oral on holidays, my birthday, and on our anniversary getaway.

      This has made it so I know the OS will happen, and it also makes it a special sexy treat to look forward to. And sometimes, Melody will surprise me with an unscheduled fellatio session… like giving me oral on HER birthday as a sexy surprise. And she enjoys it when she’s in the mood to do it – especially when there is no pressure from me. She also has become very skillful at it!

      Melody likes receiving oral sex, but she has to really be in the mood (as I said in my story). I always love giving oral to her but she actually wants it less often than I want to give it to her.

      Basically, I’ve learned to be happy with our sex or lovemaking sessions no matter what is on the menu. Sex acts in marriage are like a menu, and you probably don’t get everything on the menu every trip to the “cafe of sex.” But you enjoy what is on the menu each visit. You don’t get mad because one of your favorite things is not being served that visit.

      Like Sheryl Crow sang:
      “It’s not having what you want, it’s wanting what you’ve got!”

      Part of our sex menu the last few years has sometimes included role play, and that sets us off. Melody almost always wants to give me the gift of oral sex and she usually wants to receive oral herself when we do role plays.

      When you marry, you will need to work things out sexually with your wife. Of course, that’s a fun thing to work out!

      Congrats on your upcoming wedding & subsequent sexual adventure with your bride!

  2. LovingMan says:

    CrazyHappyLoved, you too have some excellent insights. I agreed with all of your comments.

    I also wanna point out that for us you are correct about the skill of deep theoating. Melody figured out deep throating my erection about a year ago and she DOES take pride in her accomplishment!

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