Imagination Igniters
One time, I was traveling and spent a night at a hotel. There was an outdoor pool, so that evening, I went to swim for a little while and then just sit and enjoy the sunset. Across the parking lot was another hotel. I looked up and saw movement at one of the windows. The curtains were open and it looked like a guy was fidgeting around. I think there was someone else with him. From that distance, I couldn’t tell what the twosome were doing, but from the silhouettes, I really think he was receiving a blowjob. It hit me that I was in the position of voyeur, and the thought heated me right up. Then the guy and his partner (I’m assuming it was a woman) moved to the bed. I detected him bobbing up and down, as if he was thrusting into her. I’ve never in my life witnessed anyone having sex in real life. Maybe it’s just due to the kind of places I frequent or pass through. So this apparently sexual scene aroused me and suggested all kinds of hot scenarios to my active brain. I at once imagined that it was me up in that room with my future husband, making love in a risky place with the chance of being spotted. This definitely was something to add to my marriage to-do list. I love the idea of taking a vacation (especially to the beach) and having lots of sexy time with my man.
That same evening, I happened to glance up at one of the windows of my hotel, and on it I noticed a splatter of something white. I’m assuming it was bird droppings (I know, not romantic!). But my turned-on mind wondered if it could be a blatant shot of cum, not yet cleaned up by whoever was occupying that room. And I got my second sexy idea of the evening. If I ever get married, I’m going to suggest hotel sex to my husband and then have him erupt all over the window. Of course we’ll clean up afterwards (I’d be embarrassed to leave that job to the maids), but it would be a bold, erotic act and I would enjoy viewing it.
You all are probably reading this and thinking, “This girl sure has a lot of wild plans!” Well, I do—though I will certainly have grace if my husband doesn’t feel the same way about some of these plans. But my prayer is that we’ll be of one mind and enjoy each other everywhere we go, even daring to be a little dangerous in hotels!
Hubbie here:
LLL, interesting thought piece on what I call “seeing ‘heat’ in the ‘wild’”. “Heat” being sexual stuff, and the “wild” being out and about, wherever you are in life. I’ve always been a proponent of proactively looking for heat in the wild, and sharing the discovery with Queen, to fuel our passion fires (for later, perhaps).
Seeing someone potentially making love, even if obscured by distance, is rare, but with a high point value! When we food shop, Queen and I will motion to, or comment on, “heat” items like bananas, pineapples, peaches, eggplant, coconut oil, honey, pepperoni sticks, kielbasa, etc. Yes, food shopping can be hot!
When we see particularly hot people (male or female), we will comment (we don’t foster jealously). I may say “That woman’s ass and legs looked so hot in her exercise tights. Now all I want to do is take you from behind! Is that OK?” And Queen might respond “It’s more than OK! Come take me any time you want!”
(* she might also add, “You better be turned on by her! She was hot! If you’re not, I may have to get your Man-Card suspended! I don’t want a sexual milquetoast husband! I want a Horn Dog who is hopelessly turned on all the time, and who will bring that burning heat to me in our marriage bed!” And vice versa.)
When I teach adult Sunday school, I use the metaphor of putting on “spiritual Ray-Ban sunglasses” so you see spiritual stuff better (and you look cool). In this case, it’s sexual Ray-Bans, to see sexual stuff better (and, yes, look cool). If you stop looking, you stop seeing. And the heat goes down. Not good!
As Queen said in a comment to me on your post, “… it’s a great challenge to see sex everywhere we look. Pepperoni and honey, anyone? It’s a great way to keep sex in front of you all day long.” So keep looking, choose to be a sexually aware person. That’s great prep for your future husband, and fun for you now!
Blessings and passion!
I love the views you and your wife have. I wish more couples would cultivate such a strong and healthy relationship that they would have no need of jealous envy, but could both enjoy sexual things around them and then direct that desire towards each other. That is definitely my intention if marriage ever comes my way. The hitch is finding a man who shares the same viewpoint, who would have the same confidence in me and in himself, and who could fight temptation and steer his desires back to me in spite of a perverted sexual society. I have no idea how I'd ever bring this subject up if I ever met a guy I was interested in. It's sure something I pray about! Thank you for your example. It's mighty encouraging.
I don’t know if all of us have a little bit of voyeur inside, but I do. Witnessing something like that, even from a silhouetted distance would definitely spark arousal. I probably would have splattered something on the window…(although I would have cleaned it up too😉)
I think you are right about most having a bit, or a lot, of voyeur in ‘em! My wife and I have seen couples having sex of various kinds, and we didn’t turn our heads and walk away…..we kept on watching the show! Probably shouldn’t have, but it always got us wound up and looking for a spot to do what we saw!!
You may have seen Jim and I 😉 – We have consciously and sometimes inadvertently put on a show in hotel rooms, even at parties with very close friends. So, LLL, you have lots of adventures cumming once you find your special guy; just loosen up, but only do what makes you comfy, and set limits.
Agreed, catching a glimpse would be a turn on.
The fact that we are reading or writing here I guess makes us all either voyeuristic or exhibitionist (or both) to some extent!
Every time we we go to a hotel we sincerely hope we hear a couple going at it in the next room. It's not happened yet but we do our very best to take the lead, hoping someone joins in next door!! We have a night at a hotel this weekend so fingers crossed!
My husband and I were at an adults only resort in Punta Cana. We had sex every time we heard the couple in the room next to us going at it. A few times during the week we ran into each other and just smiled and nodded.
Wow you have some really fun and interesting real life experiences. LOVE this entry LLL 🙂 you’re gifted in writing. It makes us feel like we’re all there with you
Thank you! That was a new experience for me, but I enjoyed it.
Sounds like a hot evening! Great ideas here LLL, now you’re getting my imagination going. If it was me and my wife and she wanted me to spray my cum all over the window.. I’d let her take the lead! Since the cum isn’t going inside or in her, she could stand behind/beside me and reach around with her hands to jerk me off from a first person view, then when I’m finally ready to bust she can position my cock at the right angle to bust all over the wall! I bet she would enjoy having the first person POV and I would enjoy the hands free feeling of jerking off!
Additionally your story reminded my of a time I was at a hotel a while back. While I was waiting at the elevator to head down to the lobby, I overheard a couple having some very heated sex in one of the rooms. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. She was getting spanked, there was a lot of groaning and moaning, she kept repeating “I’m going to cum again, I’m going to cum againnnn” in between the sloppy wet sounds of his dick ramming into her.. it was so hot I had to try not to get a full on boner in the hallway haha
Oh boy, that is hot! I haven't heard anything like that yet, but I hope to. Just not in the presence of my family. They would all be so embarrassed! I didn't think they share my views on sex…yet. I pray I can maybe have conversations, if not with my parents, then with my siblings.
Love the image you created of you and your future wife employing your cum! I assure you, there are women out there who have these same marriage fantasies. We are just waiting on the Lord for the right man.
Hopefully one day you’ll have the opportunity to overhear a hot lovemaking session! Definitely wish I was able to stop and enjoy what I heard a bit more.. if they were next door to my room I would’ve taken advantage of the opportunity haha 😅
And yes thanks for your inspiration on that! It is reassuring to know that there are good Christian women out there who are just as excited for sex (and everything else that comes with it) as the men are!
Enjoy it all LLL. Wife and I love having sex in hotel rooms thinking about who may be watching us. A few times we knew we were being watched; made the wife even hotter.