Not for Us, at Least for Now (A/L)
(A) – This story contains anal play.
(L) – This story contains strong language.
As we lay in bed on a Saturday night, I came up with a most unusual thought.
I was gently fondling her breast and going down on her, and she seemed to enjoy the wild, yet enticing fondling she was having as her vagina and clitoris were stimulated. She engulfed my erect cock into her wide open mouth, coming up for air time and again.
We changed positions, and now was the serious time. I had ripped off her nighty and she proceeded to pull down my shorts. We both enjoyed our naked bodies by sucking and kissing one another all over. I realized she was becoming very vulnerable to this intense love making.
I needed to share my thought with her. Unable to resist, I asked her something for the first time ever.
“I need you badly,” I started.
“Meaning?” she asked, her voice so full of arousal it sounded like a whine.
I whispered with some reservation, not knowing what her reaction would be.
“I want to fuck you in your ass.”
“Oh boy,” she said. She cringed a bit at the thought, but seemed willing. “It’s yours for the taking,” she said. “I’m small and we could try, but first we need some lube and condoms.”
We didn’t have any. So she jumped up and slipped on a dress over her naked body.
“Get ready,” she said. “It’s still early. The sex shop should still be open. Let’s go and buy some.”
I rushed to dress, and we quickly drove off to the nearest sex shop. As she said, it was still open.
She jumped out and spoke to a consultant. Soon, we walked out with a few condoms and a soft mixture of slippery lube. All along, she was nearly naked, clothed in only that dress and nothing else. She’s very open minded, and so exposed much of herself and seemed to enjoy it.
“Did you see some of the guys in the shop?” she uttered.
“Yes,” I replied.
She laughed and looked at me. “I could see their cocks bulging through their pants!”
I just looked at her and said, “You are a real cock teaser.”
She had a good laugh at that!
We stopped for some coffee before we made our way home.
Minutes later, we were back on the bed, stripped naked as we started lovemaking all over again.
I eventually grabbed the lube. She didn’t have any experience in taking my fingers into her ass hole, but she helped me along until my fingers were sliding in and out. She seemed to enjoy it! In the heat of the moment, I forgot the condoms as she went on all fours and lifted her ass cheeks upwards. I came up behind her, found the right spot, and slowly pressed my cock in.
She screamed, “Oh no, that hurts!”
I tried again, but as soon as I had just gone about an inch in, she screamed again. We tried, but she just couldn’t take it in, so we changed positions, and she lay flat on her stomach. I experimented and tried to force myself in, but she was clearly still in pain.
I finally gave up, and not aware of the risk involved, I came up and pushed my cock into her mouth. She started devouring it as I grabbed her head, and we did what we were good at. She sucked me as I pushed into her mouth.
Just as I was about to pull out and take her pussy, she said, “Finish off in my mouth! You’ve made me reach orgasm already so just go and release.” There was disappointment in her voice that our anal experiment didn’t work. But there was also still desire in her voice as she encouraged me to release.
One more hard thrust and I felt semen rushing through my tubes and filling her mouth. As I released and emptied myself of semen, she swallowed and sucked me clean.
“That was so awesome, but don’t despair. We’ll try again soon, and I’ll be gentle,” I encouraged her.
Later in the evening, we had our usual sex until early morning.
I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you guys, but at least you tried. I love the open communication and the willingness to experiment. (I also love the barely dressed trip to the sex shop 😉)
Maybe you guys could take the slow drive to full anal. Start playing with her with your fingers. Do that for a while, and when she finds that utterly pleasurable, move up to a small butt plug or dildo that is smaller than you. Once she finds that pleasurable, then you could try your cock again.
The process might take a while, but the payoff is full anal sex with your wife, so…worth it 😉
I appreciated this story much more than most because it shows real sex is complicated and doesn’t always go as planned or intended. I’d like to see more MH stories like this.
Hubbie here: good story, AM, and I agree with KM on the more deliberate process. I was also encouraged by this sequence in the story …
“Just as I was about to pull out and take her pussy, she said, “Finish off in my mouth! You’ve made me reach orgasm already so just go and release.” There was disappointment in her voice that our anal experiment didn’t work. But there was also still desire in her voice as she encouraged me to release.
One more hard thrust and I felt semen rushing through my tubes and filling her mouth. As I released and emptied myself of semen, she swallowed and sucked me clean.
“That was so awesome, but don’t despair. We’ll try again soon, and I’ll be gentle,” I encouraged her.”
Sex doesn’t always work out like a “perfect story”, and this connection and continuation brings hot promise to your ongoing passion life! Thanks for the post. A good one!
Blessings and passion!
This is probably how anal would turn out for me and my future husband. I have a hard enough time getting anything into my vagina, so my butt would be even tighter. But the point is about communicating, experimenting, and just taking it slow. I really loved this story. Heat between husband and wife is just so…hot!
Interesting to hear your thoughts on anal LLL. Being a fellow virgin, I honestly don’t know how I feel about it.. you might be more interested in trying it than I would be haha. I do appreciate that you already have some willingness and openness to the idea, even if it’s not something you ever venture into. Have you ever tried anal play? I personally haven’t dived into that world myself. The most I do is massage my taint area under my ballsack which is nice in addition to stroking
LLL, that may not be the case. Kate has vaginismus and has struggled with vaginal discomfort. I don't find her ass to be any tighter feeling than her pussy, but just different sensation, and hot/erotic. She tends to be apprehensive about anal sex, but I think that is just conditioning and concern about our size differences in the act. She'll tense up big time if I try to put finger her pussy, and still probably has PTSD from the time I inserted two. However, she won't get the matter much thought when I put my finger up her ass, and she'll even relax and take two after a few minutes of warming her up.
I agree, taking it slow will eventually reap the rewards.
Lovelylonelylady – you will find when you meet the right man, you will both be so into each other (excuse the pun) that your vagina will naturally relax during your foreplay for you to be able to accommodate what ever you want to put into it, whether it be a toy or you become as one with his manhood and the wonderful joy that will give to you.
“It’s yours for the taking,” she said. “I’m small and we could try, but first we need some lube and condoms." Absolutely loved this. The on the same page, but different, attitude is great. Keep that! Marriage sex needs that 100%.
Things that helped us: (of which you guys are doing good)
1. A good lube. I ate her pussy out to orgasm, all that oozing down worked for us.
2. Have her do her best to empty her bowels. If you are sensitive about that stuff, buy an enema.
3. Her relaxing, to the point she is the one guiding it in. Sitting or pushing back on it.
4. A gentle touch. You are entering an exit. It's not built for sex. Don't get me wrong, my wife swears by anal orgasms, & anal sex can be done. Study up on it & do it right.
5. Stretching. I used 1 finger then 2. Clip & file your nails, or just be careful, cause you can scratch things. Again use lube. Like a condom, you can use a latex glove. Stretching not only stretches but helps get her used to the feeling.
6. Relaxing the sphincter. I found things go in better on her exhale. Of course if she is tense this won't help. She should have nothing tensing up. Like she is peeing. With lube, on her exhale it will feel like her butt sucking your finger in. The inhale can be too tense. The exhale helps.
7. Be patient all the time. Almost like every time is the first time.
My wife & I ended our anal play, mutually. The novelty wore off. For her it was hygiene. For me it was the medical aspect of the anal muscles & problems that can occur. Be careful & have fun. But, just keep in mind it could & maybe should end before too long. Plus, pussy sex is so much better.
Anal sex can be a journey, and not necessarily a short one. There is no universal prescription for it either. Choice of lube, ease of experience, and anatomy and sensation will vary between individuals. Relaxation and easing into the experience are points of advice that are pretty universal. Yes, I have heard of anal "virgins" that went right for it, achieve penetration and full-on fucking, and enjoyed it, but those are the exceptions. There is nothing surprising about not being able to make it happen your first go at it.
That fact that fingers worked well for you is promising, but you will likely need to try some "training" with plugs or dildos over a period of a few weeks. You can periodically re-try your attempt at penetrative sex, but expect to go through a "training" period. You are getting the ass used to something it isn't used to, which doesn't make the act wrong or immoral if you believe that our bodies are meant to be explored and embraced, but something new.
I procured an assortment of plugs and dilators and slowly worked them in Kate's ass over a number of weeks. It was several weeks before we had our first successful (I climaxed) rearend romp. We have tried numerous lubricants over that course of time and finally discovered we enjoy natural oil lubricants the best by far. They are not condom compatible, but (1) we're barebackers (2) in a monogamous marriage, a broken condom during anal is more of an inconvenience than an STI concern.
Final note, you reference you were "not aware of the risk involved" when you ended up going ass to mouth. It is your wife's own bacteria and, from what I've read, there is little to no risk in your situation.