Beach Babes Role-play – Afterword (L)
(L) – This story contains strong language.
AFTERWORD
If you read my last story, “Beach Babes Role-play Story,” then this post may interest you. The following explains that role-play and gives extensive background on it and similar role-plays. I am also recommending a particular sex toy. If that interests you then read on! However I DO recommend reading the Beach Babes Role-play Story first.
I apologize if this roleplay offended some of you.
“Who is this Julia?” you may ask. She is the vibrating stroker my wife purchased for me last year. In that sense, she is definitely my wife’s alter-ego. Melody named the Hello Cake toy the first time I used it on my erection. She had known that her surgery would make regular sex impossible for a while so she thought of the idea to buy me a vibrating stroker. She named the toy Julia.
The very first time we incorporated Julia into our love-play Melody started talking for her. (I was shocked but pleased.) We don’t now use Julia in every sex session but we DO use her frequently.
For example, in a sex session after sexual intercourse and after Melody has had one, two, or sometimes three orgasms… in our lovemaking sessions… I often “fuck” Julia as Melody licks my man-nips and talks for Julia. By “fuck” I mean masturbating with the vibrating stroker. This leads to my second or sometimes third orgasm of the sex session. Sometimes after Julia gets me good and hard again Melody and I will end the lovemaking session by fucking each other again.
We have a full lovemaking session every 3-4 days now. (Pretty good for two seniors with life-threatening health problems!) So, on nearly every in-between or off day Melody orally and manually loves on my nipples and often squeezes my balls as I “fuck” a coconut oil-coated Julia to orgasm. Sometimes we do this twice in the same morning. Melody often talks for Julia during these “fixing my problem” quick masturbation sessions.
Some MH readers will probably not approve of this type of role-play but Melody and I truly are totally committed to each other so Julia is seen by me as Melody’s alternative self. And this has led to some tremendous orgasms! In fact sometimes I “fuck” my Julia first as part of the foreplay before fucking my Melody. Again, Julia is still Melody. When Julia is part of foreplay and I stop using her to go fuck Melody then Melody will talk for Julia by saying things like, “Awwwww, no fair!” or “I was just getting warmed up!” then “Julia” will also say, “Oh well, I’ll get another chance to make you cum after you do Melody!”
I should add that occasionally I talk for Julia. Or I’ll talk to Melody about Julia while “Julia” is riding my cock. Melody laughs but she will take the conversation hint and go from there!
How I began to envision Julia as a beautiful 26-year-old Latina I don’t really know. Maybe the name “Julia” just sounded so Hispanic. And even though I picture Julia as very different in appearance than my porcelain-skinned curvy and busty Norwegian beauty… Julia is somehow still my Melody. And you’ll notice that Julia is still a scientist—like Melody and I. In fact, like Julia, when Melody and I go to the ocean shore we collect shells and explore tide pools if there are any tide pools nearby.
Melody is completely confident that I adore her sweet voluptuous body, so my description of the fictional Julia does not threaten her.
When the sex role-play is describing sex acts by “Julia” that is when Julia is doing the act in my mind with me stroking my cock with “Julia” the vibrating stroker.
By the way, I really recommend this male sex toy. Looking at it end-on it is horseshoe-shaped and pliable so it is one size fits all. It is called the Hello Cake Vibrating Male Stroker.” I find it far superior to any of the tubular strokers I have tried. I used to dislike the feel of a vibrator on my erect penis but the little imbedded and removable vibrator in this sex toy changed my mind! When the vibrator is inside the toy the vibrations feel a lot like the vibrations I feel in my Melody’s pussy when I’m fucking her as she uses a vibrator on her clitoris. Melody and I are big believers in the value of quality sex toys. With our health worsening sex toys have helped keep the passion fire hot in our marriage!
Please understand that Melody and I would never go outside our marriage for sex. But we feel that this type of role-play just enhances our “in-marriage” intimacy. We even feel that our lovemaking is blessed by God. I know some of my fellow MH readers will disagree with this.
Did we act out today’s role-play on a beach? No, our health will not allow that right now. But we DID turn our big-screen bedroom TV onto a YouTube video of a beautiful tropical beach with waves rolling in. We talked as if we were on the edge of a beach and imagined ourselves there.
Maybe someday we will get to make love on a tropical beach. But for now, this type of role-play works nicely.
Like I said at the beginning of the story, this story was written out AFTER the role-play sex this morning. Some of the dialog and background were added to make the story flow and one brief item was something we did a different morning. However, most of it IS what we said and what we did as we role-played this morning in our lovemaking session. By doing the role-play before writing the story I did not have to delete things. Usually, I write up the role-play before the game is played then I alter the story to better match what actually ended up happening. But today the journal write-up followed the excellent role-play sex session.
Sometimes the write-up becomes a Marriage Heat post/story. But often it’s just a written memory in my sex journal. Yet those journal entries are important. Reading that journal has helped me feel very grateful for what Melody and I have together!
LM, I want to thank you for sharing. I really do. It is inspiring. To witness, participate, & be a part of your marriage celebration, as a reader, is an honor. It is my pleasure to celebrate with you & your wife.
I love your attitude. Your heart shows that you are for us, as you explain. Because, it is an adjustment. I admit it is a different thought. One not easily accepted. But, you are so understanding in your conviction. Thank you. You make me think there is hope. That people could actually sit down & discuss things like this, & leave in peace, no matter if we agree. Then, keeping that door open to revisit, as needed. I see that in your posts.
So, much married sex is wrapped up in suspicion. The world gets to play, & we get to cower. In many ways, our gospel cowers with us. That is so wrong. If Elijah had this attitude, back in the day, he would not have allowed Israel to witness the showdown with the prophets of Baal. God is not afraid to be in the same room as us, sin, or the devil. God never approves of evil. But, your role play is not approving of sin. I firmly believe if you knew you would fall prey to it, you would not be doing it. I see it, as doing it because you have victory over it. You're not testing God. You're past the suspicion. It is role play. It is your marriage fun. Your hearts have adjusted to do it & still honor God.
Thanks again.
SCMM you are so kind in your comments. I think it’s sad how most Christians are so unwilling to learn about how to improve the sex in their marriage . So many Christians treat discussing sex at as taboo so we don’t learn from each other. And we don’t prepare our kids for when they grow up n marry either.
LovingMan, your stories and Godly perspective have played a huge role in my acceptance and enjoyment of the idea of roleplay. As I have stated in many another post, the intent of the heart is the issue. You are not seeking to go outside the marriage bed or looking to have another woman. I see no sin in this. Besides, God gave us creativity, imagination, and ingenuity! So, while I absolutely will be aware of any inclination to sin in my own sexual life, I will be embracing roleplay, and praying for a husband who does too. Praying you and Melody are blest with long lives, better health, and continued great sex.
While I'm much more positive about this subject than before, I'm hesitant to say that the intent of the heart is THE issue. It's one factor for sure, but I think there's also more to it when we're discussing whether something is moral or healthy.
Intent is certainly important in choosing our actions, but it's not everything. There are some things that are wrong regardless of intent. You may take poison, intending it to act like medicine to cure some disease, but it's still poison. You may beat a child, intending to correct their bad behavior, but that's still abusive and wrong.
Again, I'm no longer critical of this particular role play after understanding more of the context. But I also want to refine our way of thinking when we analyze issues like these, so that our analysis is working properly when something truly wrong comes along and tries to deceive us.
Thanks LLL. I pray frequently for you.
While I was a bit critical and concerned about the morality of this kind of role play when I first commented on the story last week, the way you explain it here goes a long way toward alleviating some of those concerns. The idea that you see Julia as an alternative version or an alter-ego of Melody, but still essentially her, is the biggest factor for me. In my mind, imagining having sex with a different version of the same person is wildly different from imagining having sex with a different person.
Even though I'm not yet married, for me, even the thought of having sex with anyone but my future wife makes me feel gross, pained and unfaithful. Some people may be able to fantasize about having sex with someone other than their spouse, and not feel that it negatively impacts their intimacy with their spouse. I don't feel that way, nor do I really want to.
But the thought of having sex with my wife, just with some altered attributes—that's kinda hot! In that sense, it's almost the same as having normal sex while one or both spouses are dressed up in a costume and makeup—they're the same person, they just look and act a little different! It introduces some novelty while also, in both thought and reality, maintaining the intimacy between husband and wife.
Thank you for this follow-up explanation, because it really did help me understand better, and bring more unity in that clarity!
To me, you just described marital role play. Of any scenario. No matter what other people think.
Anything can be used to tempt, lust, & lure into a sin situation. If that is the motive for the role play, or if you can be deceived into the sin, then don't do it.
But, as you described it & LM, too? Role play is ok.
Patient Passion, I want you to know that all of your comments on this and the original story are very insightful to me. I was never offended. You made some good points. I’m glad this post helped you feel more comfortable with the story.