This Topic Really “Sucks”
Sorry for the bad pun, but I’m really curious about certain habits among the enlightened MH readership. Some of you have read one or two of my 17 offerings and have flattered me with responses, and Jim and I really love hearing about the stiff cocks and creamy lady parts we generate in this process!
So, while “relaxing” as I am now, I got to wondering just how much my sisterhood enjoys sucking cock—as well as how you and your lover go through the motions. With this in mind, please answer this simple five-question survey:
1. Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions, or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
2. Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials, or another target area?
3. Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
4. Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?
Thanks for answering this survey. I do realize that most women aren’t as enthusiastic about sucking cock as much as I am. I’m just wondering, while “relaxing” as I am now, just dreaming about Jim’s manhood, how much desire there is out there.
Love to all!
As a single man and a virgin, I can't comment from experience, but I can speak from a place of desire, fantasy and future hopes.
I think I'm a bit of an oddball among the male population, in that I don't have an exceptionally strong desire for my future wife to give me oral sex. At least, it's not as big of a deal to me as it seems to be to other guys. Don't get me wrong—I DO love the idea, and I want it to be a part of our sex life—but it's not something I fantasize about often, and it's not something that features heavily in my many, many ideas for sexual encounters and stories. (Although admittedly, my recent story "Atta Girl – Part 2" is a notable exception.)
However, when I DO think about it, I have one fantasy/preference I always fixate on. Again, it's not what might be the most common desire, which I would guess is wanting my wife to swallow my cum. That does sound hot, but I have a stronger preference: I would love for my wife to bring me to climax in her mouth and continue stimulating me gently through my orgasm. But as I ejaculate, I want her to drool my cum back out so that it drips down her chin and onto her breasts. That way I can get the joy of coming in her mouth and on her breasts in the same climax! (Again, see my recent story "Atta Girl – Part 2" to see this in story form!) It would be an absoulte mess, but that's part of the fun! Another part of the fun would be getting to lick her boobs clean afterward, and kiss and share the cum she coaxed out of me.
My interest in receiving oral sex is less about the physical pleasure and more about the emotional pleasure of knowing my wife wants me, wants my body, wants to make love to me and wants to please me in that way. I want oral sex from my future wife for the same reason I want to give oral sex to her: it's because there's something special in the selflessness of the act. While it may turn on the giver (and hopefully does), usually it doesn't result in any direct sexual pleasure for the giver. So essentially, oral sex a way of communicating, "I love you and I care about pleasing you, even when I'm not being pleased at the same time." Sex is supposed to be mutual, but it's also a beautiful opportunity for selfless service, which should go both ways. I DEFINITELY plan on eating my future wife's pussy at every opportunity she gives me!
Very nice and thoughtful, I have a feeling you are going to be an outstanding lover with your lucky bride. And, you aren't alone – Jim sometimes begs me to slowly drip his load of cum from my mouth onto my nipples so he can rub in in my large areolas with his tongue and eventually taste and swallow himself. (he also does this because my tits, especially my nipples, are sooo sensitive I usually orgasm in a minute!)
Hi CreamyPatty (love your username)
4. I’d rate my wife a 10. That may seem self-serving, but we’ve been married for 40 years and there’s the old adage, “practice makes perfect.” She does give me my dream blowjob, in fact, one night she gave me the blowjob by which I’ve judged all other blow jobs. Can I call this a dream BJ? I think it’s the closest thing to a dream blowjob. She noticed I’d just been waxed; I always do that for her. She teases me with a hard grip on my shaft, back and forth between swirling her tongue around the head of my cock and sucking hard on it (this drives me crazy). She licks my shaft up and down, gently biting and sucking on my balls. She knows I’m dying to feel myself part her red lips and slide easily into her warm mouth, but she does these things agonizingly slow. She’ll kiss the insides of my thighs. While she’s gripping my shaft, she’ll take a finger and give me some ass-play, all the while asking, “do you like this? Do you like how that feels?” She will also make comments on how wet this is getting her pussy. This drives me crazy as well. I know she is ready to take my cock in her mouth when she licks the length of my shaft slowly upward. She stops just at the glans and stays there for a few minutes licking and sucking – it’s unbelievable that feeling. When she takes me fully into her mouth, her movement is slow and rhythmic. She expertly works my shaft with suction and tongue. She grips the base of my shaft and works my balls softly then rough as she feels I am about to cum. She has an arsenal of techniques, speeds, and pressures. She knows how to supplement those with her breathy talk, and she knows what my body language and responses are telling her. (I’m hard just writing this)
5. We’ve been caught once that we know of. We like to stay fit, so we hike in the Rockies a lot. Some years ago I learned that she has a real kink for sex outside and what a better place to get naked and fuck than out in the (we thought) secluded wilderness. I leaned back against a boulder, and she kneeled down in front of me taking my cock in her warm, wet mouth. In the open, her BJs are a little faster as she has an overwhelming urge to fuck in the great outdoors). It was after all that we discovered a park ranger on horseback had seen us. We think he watched the whole thing. We did get the stern warning about public parks, etc. (actually this could make for a good story sometime)
A partial 2. My wife doesn’t like facials. She’s fine if I pull out and finish on her ass or if I cum over her tits and stomach, but for a blow job to completion, she prefers to swallow.
Mmmm, CA, you two are certainly a hot couple, I would love to compare cocksucking techniques with her… and maybe compare some other things…
Thanks for getting me creamy this afternoon while Jim is away, I wonder if he will notice when I do my playful FT call later…
Glad to help out! I'm sure my wife would love comparing notes!
Have fun on your call!
Hi, CP!!
1. Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions, or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
Vanessa says she likes sucking and licking and kissing and playing with my penis, particularly the ventral side at the frenulum because that is the most sensitive for me. I think it’s more of an act of love and enjoying my response, than something she does for her own pleasure.
2. Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials, or another target area?
She wants it on her large breasts. Vanessa has large areolas like you do (one is about four inches diameter and one is closer to five inches diameter). She likes the cum to shoot out on them and to have me smear it in with my penis.
3. Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
4. Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
She’s really talented. I’ve never been with anyone else so I don’t know how it compares. I know she had oral sex a lot in college before we met and I guess that made her really good at pleasing someone.
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?
No, but I want to. As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, I want to be watched. For Vanessa it’s not as planned out a fantasy, but she has told me the idea of being careless in the heat of the moment and “accidentally” possibly being seen but not knowing for sure makes her feel sexy.
We had a lot of explicit material on a phone of mine that was stolen (and wasn’t password protected) so I am sure at least some of our sexuality has been witnessed by others. I can’t remember if any oral was depicted though, but I don’t think so. It was mostly shots of my erect penis and Vanessa’s breasts.
Great input NS! I think it would be really cool for you two to spend sexy time together scripting out a plan to be “accidentally discovered “ somewhere while doing something sexy you both agree on. Then act out via role play.
Then I would love to read a story from you about the whole hot adventure! Believe me, you two will be fucking like rabbits just during your planning stages…good luck!
Great idea CP,
And you weren’t lying. About an hour ago, Vanessa took a piece of fruit and pretended to fellate it in front of me. Then she walked to the bedroom and kept looking back at me. I followed her of course. She demanded I undress and then she sucked me off! 🥵💗
Ooh, what a delicious subject!
I feel a bit of a fraud answering as I am a bloke and you've asked for women to answer but I'll reply best I can.
1. Yes, she loves it just as much as I love licking her. It really turns her on and gets her beautifully creamy for me! We usually exchange oral as part of a sex session in foreplay. Occasionally she will give it to me 'just because'.
2. I have come in her mouth on very few occasions in our 30 plus year marriage. The subject came up a few months ago and she said, "men like women to swallow don't they?"
I said it makes absolutely no difference to me. The very act of coming in her mouth is just an absolute treat and, to be honest, I don't really know where it's all going during the explosion! Since then the frequency has gone up quite a bit! To be fair, as I'm a once and done chap, I usually stop her from sucking me past that point, preferring to come together in or all over her pussy, later in our sex session.
3 & 4 she will lick and suck my cock and balls, always reacting to my moans. As I seep pre cum she will use a hand to twist the juice around my head as well. Drives me crazy. She's so good! Coming like that is maybe the very best way to climax.
5. Yes, the maid came into our hotel room once, MrsB had her lush ass in the air sucking me. We both screamed at her and dived off the bed before she could see us. In our fantasies we kind of wish we'd just carried on, but shock and reality got in the way at the moment we heard the key in the lock 😂
Wow, kudos to you both for your active sex lives. Nice to know you’re being serviced so extremely well! Be sure to return the favor and try out new ways to get each other off. Example: just recently I walked in on Jim just as he was standing over the master bath commode to take a leak…I told him I wanted to help (lol) and I kneeled behind him, reached my left hand between his legs and gripped his cock at the base – then used my right hand to reach around his ass and gripped the top half of his shaft, and slowly stroked him as he released his urine… 60 seconds later I watched him shoot an amazing load while I milked him.
Never did it before…but have done it twice since. Lol
Thanks Patty, that sounds like fun!
I was reading MH to get a bit worked up as Mrs B had gone for a nap. We needed some sex so I told her to freshen up before bed so I could give her an oral wake up call. (New idea btw!)
Your post was a great build up to that. After I posted my last reply I went up, slipped under the covers and between her thighs. She yawned and sighed as I gently licked for for about 10mins to wake her body then her arousal. The ensuing orgasm as I sucked her clit and circled a finger on her opening was explosive and loud! I gently lapped her juice for another 5 mins before grabbing her hips tight, she tends to resist a bit at first as it's still a bit sensitive but if I time it right I can return to her clit
& get her quaking again, and she grabbed my hair forcing her pussy into my face. It's just the best feeling!
I crawled up her body and she reached down slipping me into her, I went in slow, bit by bit. I was going to ask her to suck me to orgasm because of your post but it felt so flipping good I couldn't help but bellow out my own ecstacy deep inside her.
"I was going to suck you" she said afterwards.
"You're just gonna have to owe me that in the next day or two" I replied!
Wow Patty! I would love my wife to try that! And only 60 seconds? That's talent!
Fun topic for sure!
4. Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
I would rate it high. Not out of comparison but out of pleasure felt. My favorite is either me kneeling as she is lying back or me standing/sitting with her on her knees. This type of position is best as it allows for eye contact which heightens the connection of the experience and places her tongue under frenulum. Stroking with her hand also revs up the sensations. When I ask if she is ready for my cum is responds with mouth full yes. For the climax I like to grip my base so I can feel the pulses as I unload in her mouth. From there she will swallow directly or maybe show the results to before swallowing. The taste lingers in the kiss after.
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?
I would classify as almost caught. We were in a parked car in our younger years. With the headlights on and the interior lights off there was no way they could see in.
I love how you guys connect during sex, it shows how loving you two are and how you savor your sexy time together!
LivingMan (Tommy) answering 1, 2, & 3 for my wife, Melody:
1. My Melody says oral sex isn’t exactly her favorite… but she gives me fellatio because she knows it makes me feel loved and it feels incredible to me!
2. She prefers to not swallow but does so sometimes. She first let me cum in her mouth about 9 years ago. Since then often I cum in her mouth for the first couple of spurts. Oral sex lately for us is usually part of foreplay. But sometimes she likes it when I rub my tip on her nips and cum on her boobies. She’ll be using a vibe n we cum simultaneously!
3. Melody first gave me oral a month into our marriage. I wrote a true story about that for MH. For many years she gave me oral in our jetted tub with me standing on the arm supports. Then she’d turn around and I’d pound her sexy pussy from behind. Her back can’t handle that anymore so BJs are now on our bed or her sitting down with me standing. A couple of years ago she totally surprised me by deep throating me. It was a wonderful experience & totally surprising because she has a small mouth and quite honestly I’m kinda big down there. Lately she’s learned how to rub her barely closed lips up n down the underside of my erection. Then she’ll engulf half my cock and pump the other half with her hand. She’ll alternate doing this severel times in a BJ session. But as I mentioned, lately I usually finish inside her pussy. In spite of it not being something she loves to do my wife n lover has chosen to get incredibly good at it. And she takes pride in her skills and performance too! Again, I feel very loved!
4. Every time she blows me it’s a dream cum true. My biggest dream would be to find an isolated beach or forest and have her blow me there, I’d then kneel down to lick her pussy, then we’d have a pounding fuck AKA make love doggy style.
5. We have almost been caught doing outdoor sex but not fellatio nor cunninlingus.
1. Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions, or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
– When we were sexually active, my wife used to say that she loved sucking my dick. It was a part of every sex session, unless we were having a quickie. Back then, I never had to worry about having my dick sucked.
2. Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials, or another target area?
– She was never a fan of facials, but she always swallowed.
3. Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
– She was very enthusiastic, using her tongue, lips, and throat.
4. Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
– Back in the day, she was definitely a 10 out of 10.
– My dream BJ would be out in the open with the possibility of being caught. Oh yeah, and giving her a facial 😉
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?
– We were never caught that I am aware of, but I was never opposed to it.
KM, Sounds like you two have had great sexual experiences – you guys are truly blessed! Tell me, do you guys still masturbate together or perform oral? That skill is precious and can last throughout your golden years!
I can't comment on #1-3 but as far as #4 goes a dream BJ is the one that I don't ask for and she has the desire to give. One of the most memorial was at an area hotel where we went for an Anniversary or Birthday event I can't remember. We were having some foreplay and she said " I need to taste you" I will take that moment to my death bed. I'm a firm believer the most important sexual organ is your brain. Having a desire to make your partner happy and desired makes all the difference in the world. #5 we have never been caught. Good discussion topic CreamyPatty
You have lots to smile about 58!
I also agree that the brain is your #1 sex organ. Would have been fun "catching" you two while you were so freely expression your sexual attraction to. each other. Nothing. eats partners who are anxious to please each other.
No doubt my wife enjoys giving me a BJ! Her favorite is to spring them on my by surprise, when I’m not expecting it, and I’m in a compromising position! She also likes a mouthful of cock when she’s vibing herself, and when she starts getting a mouthful of cum, she starts cumming too!
She will swallow, but would rather let my cum drool out from her mouth onto my cock or balls, and/or onto her tits. She knows I like that much better than ‘gulp, it’s gone’!
One of the best parts of her oral technique, is the ball play that comes with it! That, and watching her play and slurp the cum afterwards!
I rate her oral skills on me a 20 on a scale of 1 to 10! 😉 🙂
Yes, we have been observed while she was oralizing me. More than once too!
mmmmm, now you have my pussy creaming just visualizing your hot activities! I love surprises, too. Giving and receiving… And being caught, like a month ago when Jim went through a toll booth that required change, while his cock was deep in my throat with only a light sweater covering my head. But, I suppose that my head bobbing up and down while Jim collected his change, might have been a tipoff! lol
Cindy and Cal here (I texted him question five hehe)
1. Almost always happens with foreplay. But yes I give him head to completion often. We both thoroughly enjoy it.
2. I prefer playing with cum and licking it off of myself. Sometimes he just wants to see a nice big load swallowed though so I give him what he wants.
3. I am one of the lucky girls, no gag reflex, just never had one. So I will literally swallow his meat! I also like swirling saliva and getting messy.
4. She’s amazing. She can get me offer faster orally than any other way.
5. We’ve been caught yes.
We want to hear more about question 5! 😁
Skipping to #4, she won my heart with her oral skills years ago before we became Christians. She is a good girl and enjoys swallowing her reward for a bj well done.
Love you two hotties! Stay horny and fuck often!!
Yes ma'm, we will do just that!
My wife doesnt mind giving them she said. She used to swallow but she doesn't now after 16 years of marriage. I can tell when she is really enjoying it as it is wet and sloppy.
She doesn't normally gag and won't allow me to cum on her boobs.
She doesn't enjoy me going down on her so we don't do that which is a shame as I do.
I really love that you two are such great lovers and respect each others boundaries = sign of experience and true love!
WOW CP, you really know how to heat things up😉😃!! Your contributions, stories, polls, comments, and personal encouragements towards more amazing marital adventures are always a highlight of MH for me and my lovely wife!!
Regarding your questions, I asked my wife for her responses, since she doesn’t get on here. (Although she definitely does get off here! Hehe!!)
1. She definitely enjoys sucking In its own right, but also for the pleasure that it gives me. It’s often her way of “starting our day off right” and generally leads on to reciprocal oral action and full on sex! But she also just jumps in on me whenever she gets in the mood, even when I can’t reciprocate, like when I am driving.
2. Despite more than 40 years of many bold marital adventures, she has never had me come in her mouth, or elsewhere with oral, probably because after warming me up, I always want to go down on her, and if she doesn’t come, she loves having me leave her a present deep inside her that she can enjoy for the rest of the day / or night. She has enjoyed seeing me ejaculate from a combination of oral and manual, generally after she has come, or when she is finding it difficult to finish herself, and those can be epic explosions that can end up randomly on her belly, boobs, and face or all of them at once!! Mmmmm
3. Her oral techniques are quite varied! After reviewing your questions, others answers and especially your comments we enjoyed a late night session of fondling, kissing, and mutual oral! She loves rhythmically sliding her mouth over my love tool while also caressing it with her tongue and hands. One hand often caressing the base of my shaft and balls. She also loves to “deep throat” me, and that feels so awesome when the tip of my hard on feels like it is almost going to slip through the muscular ring that leads into her esophagus! Unfortunately, although I am of average length, I don’t think I am long enough to go deeper!! I have teased her that her next husband/lover needs to be a little more endowed than me so that she can experience the full month of deep throat(and deeper pounding too!). On thing that she frequently does and did last night was to kiss down my shaft and balls , then lock and kiss further until she was rimming and tounging my freshly bathed anus! Ohhhhh myyyyy !!!
4. Men: What is your dream BJ? I guess if there is any dream BJ for me, it would be slipping the tip of my cock a little deeper through the muscular ring of her throat. I’m afraid that will have to wait until God gives me a new body with a longer cock !! Haha
5. We have never been caught doing a blow job, or maybe we did when our 13 year old daughter opened our bedroom door and walked in while we were passionately engaged in 69 with my wife on top!! That obviously ended quickly with seats covering whatever the darkness of the room hadn’t hidden. We have almost been caught a number of times right after PIV orgasms!! We also experienced a clothing optional resort where we were making love out in nature, and not interacting with others, but likely easily seen, though not exactly caught.
Love hearing everyone’s married adventures!!
ALC, Once again you have offered a nicely detailed, sexy response! Love you. guys!!
I'm wishing we could all sit down at an elegant lounge and just share our love for our spouses – and the awesome sex we are fortunate to have with our spouses! SO hot!
Keep up the good work sweets!
And keep that better than average cock hard; I'll help if I can through my storytelling lol.
Creamy Patty, Your responses to all of your fans, ah, er… I mean commenters is enough to keep us all hard or wet, and well connected with our spouses!!
Your comment -“I’m wishing we could all sit down at an elegant lounge and just share our love for our spouses – and the awesome sex we are fortunate to have with our spouses! SO hot!” – is Sooo right on!! When planning vacation trips, my wife regularly sighs longingly, and says “If only there was a Marriage Heat resort, or even an MH convention! We could learn so much more about hot monogamous marital love from each other !! What a wonderful opportunity to share scripture, ideas, and educational resources while nurturing/teaching Biblical sexual positivity ! There was a story once on MH of a young couple attending a marriage seminar weekend, who roomed with a slightly older married couple who blessed and discipled them with loving examples and practical advice. That would be so awesome!!!
Thanks Marriage Heat for all you do here! Even after 40+ years of hot adventurous marriage, it has been a wonderful blessing for us to hear how other Christian couples keep their love fires burning. If there were such powerful positive marriage retreats, perhaps the divorce rates of committed Christian couples could actually be less than the national averages!!
Hanks so much ALC! You guys know how much I love exploiting my very aggressive sex drive, and Jim and I really love our “warmup acts” that hopefully get those beautiful pussies wet and cocks hard to set the stage for your fabulous fucking! (Sorry to be so blunt, Jim gets hope from a three day trip at 9pm!
1. Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions, or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
– Being single, I can't answer that yet, but I can say it is certainly something I am looking forward to doing when/if I get married. I'd love to do it randomly just for his enjoyment. In fact, as I get to know myself better, I might have a difficult time concentrating on doing anything if my man was making love to me. Obviously with time and practice I could and want to, but I would imagine for awhile that I would only be able to give him blowjobs if I was fully engaged and not distracted with him doing nice things to other parts of my body. 😋
2. Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials, or another target area?
– I can see not always being in the mood (depending on my stomach) to swallow. That said, it is NOT because semen turns me off. I find it very sexy and I know God has reshaped my view of all lovemaking fluids. Sometimes I just have a kind of sensitive palate and am not in the mood for certain or any edibles or drinkables. I would not make my husband feel like I didn't love his cum or want it in those instances. That's where I'd enjoy having him cum all over (or in) me. But I know there are going to be plenty of times where I'll want to eat him up!
3. Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
– None yet! I should practice on my new dildo. 😜
4. Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
– I'll answer the second question in terms of GIVING a dream blowjob. As far as my fantasies have taken me, I would love to give my future husband a blowjob when he's fresh out of the shower, or on a beautiful secluded tropical beach where we could warm up with oral and then make hot love under the palms. I also have imagined just taking charge when my man is busy doing something (a project, fixing something, got home from work a few minutes ago), kissing him, undoing his pants, kneeling in front of him, and going to town with lust in my eyes and my mouth.
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?
– Nope, but I wouldn't be opposed to accidental exhibitionism.
The new dildo came in?? Sounds like we’re due for a masturbating update LLL 😂😅
Yes! It came back in late summer, but then my health problems hit and I was away from both masturbation and reading on this site for much of the time. But I have a nice long post coming up about my experiences with it. And suffice it to say that it has been delightful continuing to experiment with it!
You sound like a smart, sexy and fun woman! Stay horny!!
LLL,
I'm going back and rereading some older posts.
One of my fantasies was similar to yours.
It involves being on the beach of a small island, which we had arrived at from a cruise ship. My next wife and I make out on the beach, being too hot for each other to bother walking into the jungle. We then walk back to the water, where she bends over and hikes up her sundress. We fuck standing-doggy style in the knee-deep surf.
AND THEN… we can hear the applause from the people standing on the deck watching from a distance. 😉
1: I love sucking my husbands cock. I often will give him a blowjob a few times a week and it varies. Sometimes it during duel sessions, sometimes I just want to taste him.
2: We both enjoy facials, I enjoy swallowing. Occasionally when he finishes outside my pussy, he will cum on my body, mostly on my tits or ass.
3: I like to start at his balls and work my way up from the bottom, get him all riled up and then reach his tip and suck him up. To surprise him sometimes I will grasp his tip with my lips and squeeze lightly. For ladies… use your tongue!
4: (JJ writing) my wife gives the best blowjobs any guy could imagine. I get hard just thinking about her giving me one. She’s always passionate and eager to suck me. I’m one lucky man. If I had a dream BJ, it would be to receive one on a private beach.
5: you’ll have to wait and read…
mmmm, sweets, I like your style. For what it's worth, our oral styles are very similar to yours, but that's not good or bad, it's just the way we are. From what you say here, you really love cock as I do, and pleasing your hubby as often as possible.
I'm just hoping that hubby services your hot pussy adequately and you are getting all you require.
Thanks for your detailed response!
Happy lovemaking!!
Oh Patty I assure you he is servicing me with his big cock constantly. There’s nothing like feeling him fill me with his tool.
Thank you Creamy Patty for your insightful survey. My wife and I love oral sex. Pussy eating and cock sucking are always a part of our love making. She loved for me to shoot off on her face and tits. She also loves to slurp my cum. Eating her pussy is one of my specialties. It’s something I think about constantly. And her skill at sucking my cock is the result of many years of practice, including [some experience] before we were married. I cannot imagine love making without hot oral sex.
Congrats for your awesome foreplay and your ability to please yourselves by making your sex lives very special.
4. I'm going to say, on a 1-10 scale, Kate gets a legitimate 7 score. Her enthusiasm is very solid and has a great willingness to learn and perfect. She would get a 10 if she could completely deep throat me and if she salivated more heavily. The vast majority of women can't deep throat and Kate could occasionally take me down when I was about 6", but after losing over 100 pounds I'm now about 7.5" and that's just beyond her abilities–although I might suggest training to try and take all of me.
5. We almost got caught in a 69 last year when the HVAC guy was here. Guy was checking our system on a six-month appointment and ended up here for hours. Honestly we forgot he was downstairs, starting fooling around with the door open, I was just about hard enough to reach for a squirt of lube to fuck her when we heard the guy yelling for us to sign paperwork just in the room below us. I yelled "one minute" and scrambled to throw clothes on. Kate was laughing so hard she just about passed out. I ran down to talk to him and sign off on his forms, and realized I put my clothes on inside out, so pretty sure he knew what was going on. Oh well…
Alan, first. congrats on your awesome weight loss – and more congrats on where some of that man meat landed; in a wonderful cock that I'm certain your wife will one day fully consume, one way or another.
I like these questions, Cream Patty! I’m always down to try out some new techniques to keep Hubby on his toes 👀
1. Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions, or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
Yes, I’m obsessed with Hubby’s cock and I like to lick it, kiss it and touch it any way possible. It brings me such joy watching him experience eye-rolling pleasure by my mouth and hands and he is verbal about it too – such a turn on for me, again. Sometimes I suck him spontaneously without it being part of love making. My favorite thing is to wake him up that way if I’m wake up in the middle of the night. I like to feel him get hard in my mouth.
2. Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials, or another target area?
My favorite place is my tongue and my boobs. I swallow his load too but there’s something so hot watching the ropes of cum landing on my body, especially if I know that he is cumming because of my mouth and hands working on his dick.
3. Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
I like to always use two hands on the base, lots of circling the tip with my tongue, lots of saliva and humming while I suck him
4. Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
I need to check in with Hubby to get a rating on my cock sucking abilities but his dream BJ would probably have something to do me giving him a lap dance and him lounging on a chair. I gotta get back to this once I have his answers..
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?
Yess…we have few times. Road trips get us horny and we’ve been caught him fingering me while he drives but when it comes to BJs, we have been whistled at while I blew him on a (we thought secluded) beach, hotel balcony (the chance of being seen was kinda in the hopes) and once our super walked in our apt thinking we were at work in the morning and he snuck out quickly with a “sorry” when he locked eyes with my husband sitting on the edge of the bed, me kneeling in front of him.
mmmm, bet you have a happy super there, girl. I'll bet he would love to be of "service" to you guys anytime! lol!
Hi CreamyPatty.
I hope you are well. Thank you for posting this discussion; reading the results is interesting.
If I can caveat my answers by saying we are in a consensual, loving BDSM relationship built on safe words, security, trust, honesty and, importantly, consent.
• Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
• (Lauren) I love to enjoy a man’s tool and always have 😉; however, my answer depends on which dynamic Joe and I are in.
• When Master Joe and I are in BDSM mode, I enjoy having Master Joe force his tool into my mouth hard and deep. Although I don’t enjoy the gaging, I get turned on knowing my Master is enjoying my mouth. Sometimes, it is mutual; however, usually, it is one way (me to him)
• When we are in couple mode, I will often cock warm Joe as we sit and watch TV. I enjoy the feeling of him in my mouth and love the sensation of him getting hard as I let my tongue move along the underside of his shaft.
• I will regularly (multiple times a week) enjoy his tool orally in one dynamic or another.
• Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials or another target area?
• (Lauren) Again, it depends on which dynamic Joe and I are in.
• In our BDSM / Kink dynamic, I will do as my Master chooses. It can be a combination of both. The important part is that I am a good girl, and he is pleased with me.
• In our couple dynamic, I tend not to swallow. I am happy to receive his load over my face and tits. Generally, anywhere but my mouth.
• Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
Firstly, I like to begin by using my hands to pull his shaft. I want to feel it grow in my hand if he is limp. As he gets hard, I will lift his cock and softly kiss Joe’s balls. Sucking them into my mouth and letting my tongue roll them around. I love feeling the skin become tight and smooth.
I will then work my flat tongue along the underside of his shaft until I reach his tip, and then I will let my tongue circle it while enjoying his precum.
I then take the very his cock into my mouth while my hands move along his shaft. I like to feel his cock rub against the roof of my mouth, just behind my teeth. I will suck gently and slowly, pulling back until his tip is just between my lips, and then I will flick my tongue around the head.
When Master Joe is close, I will move down and suck his balls while my hands move faster over his shaft. I will curl my fingers around his shape as I jerk up and twist my fingertips around his helmet. This is his favourite, and usually, it sends him over the edge.
I am lucky I produce a lot of saliva, which helps me to glide over his cock.
I will move Joe in and out of my mouth in short jerks and then plunge him deep into my mouth. My hands are constantly jerking as I suck him.
And then, as he orgasms, I will let him shoot his load over my hand, face or tits.
you can read about it, in a story i wrote called Happy Birthday! 6 November 2018
• Men: how would you rate your lover’s ability to suck your cock? What is your dream BJ?
• (Joe) Similarly, as Lauren said, it depends on our dynamic.
• As a Dominant, 10/10, she is my S*&^ and will do as she is told. If she does a terrible job, it’s on me for not telling her what I want. Sometimes, I will purposely make her give me a bad first blowy so that I can discipline and instruct her on her technique. She has the ability to suck for hours (our dynamic is consensual)
• As a couple. 10/10. She loves to enjoy me and will do so multiple times a week. She has a kink for cock warming where she will hold my cock in their mouth. Not blowing or sucking, just holding it between her mouth, which I love.
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught, giving or receiving a blowjob?
• (Lauren)We have a couple close a few times. We both enjoy outdoor sex and being adventurous.
• Highlights of where we have come close include a cinema, a restaurant and an aeroplane.
What a great and sexy response! Very cool how you two are ale to separate your passions to enable a wide open sexual experience!
1. My wife does not really love sucking my tool for it's own sake, but she loves that I love it. She really loves the control it gives her and the reactions she can get out of me and my penis. So for us it's usually foreplay or part of an occasional oral/manual session.
2. My wife does not like the taste or smell of cum. She has tried swallowing a couple times, but can never quite manage it. Same with facials. She prefers that I come on her tits or better yet in her vagina. Again, oral is usually foreplay for us.
3. She loves teasing me: licking up and down the shaft and around the head, sucking just beneath the head, sucking on just the tip, or frequently stopping to talk dirty. Once she is warmed up, she will take me in her mouth and start circling the tip with her tongue or go straight into bobbing her head up and down my shaft, often with a thumb and forefinger or whole hand wrapped around the base of the shaft. She will stop to catch her breath and stroke me with her hand before going back at it. When she gets tired, she will lie on her side with her head on a pillow so that I can kneel in front of her and face fuck her, usually while fingering her slippery cunt.
4. I would rate my wife as a solid 7. What she does, she does with great technique and enthusiasm. I wish she could swallow my cum, but I respect that she doesn't like that. I would also like to try/get back into some other oral things like deep throat or 69. None of this is a deal breaker, though. I love her blowjobs.
5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob? Not yet 😉
What a great couple! Hope you. two keep working to bring each other to a 10/10 level!
1. Speaking for my wife E thoroughly enjoys offering this pleasure to me in a variety of ways. Quite frequently in foreplay and usually a few times per month to full climax. She knows that her lips and tongue paralyze me and she savors the command she has over me in these moments.
2. Over 30 years together and swallow 100% of the time.
3. Starts by taking time to roll her tongue across my balls; up my shaft and to the tip. Slowly wraps her head around my tip savoring for some time allowing her mouth to hit all of my nerves. Eventually wraps one hand under my balls while pushing on my prostate while working the full length of my shaft until climax.
4. Rating – 10. By far always leads to my most intense orgasm. My dream BJ is one where she takes an immense amount of time; working her technique with no rush to bring me to climax. Sitting in a chair at the edge so that she has full access but I am able to watch her do her thing. Usually her BJ’s last about 10 minutes before she picks up the pa e and brings me to climax. My dream would be an hour of nothing but the bliss of her lips taking their time all over me.
5. Never been caught but close staying with family many years ago. Let’s just say the hustle under the covers to act like nothing was going on was in full gear.
Thanks for your candid and sexy responses. I have a feeling you two are dynamic and fully invested in each other sexually. VERY good thing!!
Dear Patty,
My wife is 75 and I am 74, we have been married for almost 54 years. We have enjoyed a wonderful sexual intimacy over all of these years. (Ok, things have slowed down a little and because of some physical ailments she doesn’t ride me like a cowgirl like she used too)
I always crave the taste and smell of her pussy, I can’t seem to get enough!
I realize this inquiry of yours is intended for the “sisterhood”, but my wife is shy about putting her thoughts out here, so I will try to put our experiences forth.
From early years we have enjoyed oral sex, but mainly as foreplay. We both loved our “69” sessions, especially with her on top so she could grind her pussy into my face! Though I would often bring her to a climax she never wanted me to finish, except in her vagina. Though I longed to splash my seed into the back of her warm mouth I refrained from forcing that issue.
She loved to suck my dick but didn’t want to drink my cum. Then, just last summer we were lounging nude in our back yard, as is our custom, she called me over to her as she sat upright in her lounge and surprised me. She grabbed my soft dick and pulled me close and quickly took all of me in her wet mouth. Of course I got hard fast! She slid my excited dick in and out, picking up speed all the while. (I love outdoor sex, don’t you?)
Soon I was trying to pull away because I was getting close to exploding in her mouth and I knew that wasn’t her custom. She held on tight. I asked if she wanted me to finish in her mouth. She nodded eagerly! I soon groaned in ecstasy as I squirted my hot seed into her willing mouth, oh my goodness, what glory! She spit out my semen, but that didn’t bother me a bit!
A few nights later I was in bed reading and she ducked under the covers and took my soft dick in her mouth and quickly started bobbing up and down on my swelling spear. I soon said, “baby I’m about to cum!” She didn’t slow down until she had sucked every drop and swallowed it all! She didn’t even save any to share with me! (I love the taste of our combined fluids! Pussy juice, saliva and semen!)
Since last summer she has spontaneously ducked my cock many times and drinks my seed each time.
Now, lest you think this has been a one way street, let me assure you I responded heartily in eating her hot pussy, licking and sucking her gorgeous clitoris! Or maybe she wants a good session with her Womanizer Premium. Then she wants me to finish it all off with me filling her pussy with hot cream!
Thank you for all of your wonderful stories!
This isn’t addressed to me G Lamar, but I just have to say how good it made me feel.
After more than 50 years of marriage, you’re still growing and enjoying each other sexually. It’s truly beautiful.
G Lamar,
Please ask why her change?
G Lamar,
As a young whipper-snapper of only 66, your story gave me hope that there is still plenty of good sex in my future.
Now, if only I could find a woman that thinks likewise…. 😉
PS: The fifth paragraph gave me a raging hard-on! Thanks!
Hi G!
So happy to learn you enjoy my candid prose. It also pleases me to hear that you enjoy feasting on your wife's pussy – as you should! Mine is wet and warm just thinking about you guys getting off on me, SO happy to please!!
GL, Sorry, just notice your earlier comment and wanted you to know that Jim and I are impressed with you guys! I especially like how well you are returning all of her sexy favors with rapt attention to her inviting pussy – mmmm, got me going now!
"1. Women: do you enjoy sucking his tool, and if so, do you usually do so during mutual oral sessions, or sometimes just when the mood strikes?
I LOVE "sucking his tool" 🙂 It depends on the mood and setting. Sometimes if I catch him right out of the shower it's a few playful teasing licks and sucks. Other's when we are watching TV I'll lay my head in his lap and gently suckle while we watch a movie. On a long road trip he usually drives and if we're on the interstate I'll lean over and pleasure him orally–it's the least I can do for making him put up with my family for a week. If we are in the bedroom for a love-making session then I use it for a warm up before PIV or anal as he is getting older now and with BP meds needs help keeping things going nowadays. I also use it to revive him after he's climaxed inside me. I love tasting both of us on his "tool".
"2. Women: given the choice, do you prefer swallowing his load, or do you enjoy facials, or another target area?"
Yes, yes and YES! I usually prefer to swallow but sometimes a facial if we're in a spot where I can clean up. If we're at home and I'm feeling submissive then I'll ask him to go on my face where I can take a shower afterwards. It's no fun going into a restaurant trying to get cum out of your hair. Sometimes he enjoys boob-sex and will finish there also on my neck and chin. I also enjoy it when he goes on the outside of my va-jay-jay, then goes down on me. There's something incredibly sexy when he cleans me up and keeps going while he's down there.
"3. Women: briefly describe your “oral techniques.”
A few licks around the outside from base to head, like an ice cream cone, to start then sucking his entire member inside my mouth. Best way to describe it is like sucking a thick milkshake from a straw. I use my tongue pressing underneath while sucking and bobbing my head up and down–Twisting my head. If my jaw gets tired I take a break by licking and kissing his member, scrotum, taint or anus (if he's fresh out of the shower).
"5. Both: have either of you been caught, or almost caught giving or receiving a blowjob?"
We're usually careful not to involve other people in our public escapades. I'm sure when I'm giving road head some folks have seen my head bobbing up and down in my husband's lap but then that's kinda their fault for looking in our vehicle. Have gotten nearly caught many times. My favorite was when we stayed at my parents house for Christmas and we thought everyone had gone to bed. We stayed up in the living room reading. After a few minutes of quiet I knelt down and went to town on him. His mom had gotten up to go to the bathroom and saw me kneeling in front of him. I don't think it registered to her what we were doing and acted surprised that we were still up. That's all she ever said about that.
Bonus answer: After our first date we told each other that we both wanted to be virgins until our wedding day. He was a complete gentleman and never pushed that boundary and neither did I on him. After dating a few months and things were getting serious we discussed possible marriage, sex and kids. He shared that he was down for anything and everything, as was I. I was taught by my mother that sex is a wonderful thing in the sanctity of matrimony to be enjoyed without shame. After our "are we getting married" discussion we could tell things were serious and we both wanted to get engaged. He proposed to me on the balcony of my apartment late at night and I was so excited. Of course I said yes, gave him a big hug and deep kiss. Then I […] gave him a blowjob right there. […] I told him I wanted to give him something to look forward to when we got married a few months later.
[Edited by MH: Sounds exciting, but please keep accounts of pre-marital sexual activity to a minimum. Just a factual reference as part of personal history is fine, but we aim to not promote such activities.]
Karen, good that you wanted to suck him off.
Good that you talked about sex, did that conversation include masturbation?
But really I think oral sex is for marriage, not before.
https://marriageheat.com/2025/02/16/a-heartfelt-thank-you-thank-you-sex-poll/
I think think you could have masturbated together, or with a door or something in between as NorthernSky did (in comment on the above link).
Karen, You sound a lot like me – and with Jim gone now I'm dreaming about what you describe in your response. And I'm wearing my clit ragged ….