Are you a loud cummer?
Hi MH fans,
I really enjoy reading the stories on MH. They really get my pussy wet and horny. And, of course, I can’t help but play with myself while I’m reading and having a wonderful orgasm or two or three or….;-) This leads me to my curious question:
I’ll just come right out and say it: I’m a loud cummer! It is really really hard for me to be quiet. I make a LOT of noise! Even when masturbating. I can’t help it. My orgasms feel soon good! My husband loves it!! Early in our marriage I used to get really embarrassed afterwards. But my hubby has always been so encouraging.”Be loud and proud” he always says. “The louder the better! Don’t try to suppress it. The more noise you make, the more turned on I get” he says. “I hate it if you’re quiet!! I really love it when you make lots of noise. There is nothing hotter than when you are totally uninhibited and really let yourself go” he tells me. Soooo, I’ve always wondered about other women: do you make a lot of noise during orgasm too? (moaning, groaning, squealing, grunting, crying out in pleasure…even screaming?) Do you make lots of noise when masturbating too? Do you make the same kinds of noise every time or does it vary? Are you a groaner, a grunter, a moaner, a squealer or a screamer? Or are you a quiet cummer?
Thought it might be fun to talk about. 🙂
Thanks for writing!!
I wrote more than that. Not sure why it didn’t post I said I am more of a quiet cummer, but I definitely have my loud moments!
Great post! I’m interested in hearing the responses to see the various ways different women cum. My wife is usually mostly silent with a few moans sometimes during the process and then usually lets out a grunt at the moment she cums. Lately we’ve been learning how to talk dirty and now she will say things while I’m rubbing her, but as far as volume it’s not very loud.
It makes me wonder: Is being loud a natural thing for you? Or was it a learned thing? Do you have to consciously make the noises you make or does it come involuntarily? Just wondering if it’s something that a quieter wife could learn to do or if some are loud and some aren’t and that’s just the way it is. I would be curious to hear your thoughts as well as anyone else’s on this.
Hi HornyHubby
The noises I make come naturally. My orgasms feel so good and are so strong, I can’t help it but make lots of noise. I have to say though, that my husband encouraging me to make lots of noise and not to hold back (i.e. that he really likes that…that it really turns him on!) made all the difference in the world. I owe my present uninhibitedness to him. I think most women are probably that way. We just need to be encouraged to “let go” and enjoy the moment and not be self conscious or embarrassed at all. Early in our marriage, I think I was always trying to stifle the passion I felt (because of feeling self conscious and embarrassed).
I am reminded of a line from the movie “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” where the Mom says, “Be a lamb in the kitchen and a lion in the bedroom.” That’s what our men want for sure, but I think a lot of women are too shy to let go…too self conscious to really be wild and uninhibited (perhaps this comes from thinking “it’s not ladylike” or “I’m not supposed like it as much as the man does”?). But I do think that for most women (at least the ones that have a husband who is nurturing and caring and loving and attentive to their sexual needs), there’s a lion waiting to get out!
My advice? Tell your wife how much you love it when she tells you how good she’s feeling at that moment…how good your tongue feels on her pussy or your cock or whatever. Show her how much it turns you on when she moans and groans and squeals in delight. With much positive constant encouragement, she’ll learn how to relax completely and totally let herself go! 🙂 Worked for me, anyways.
I really hope other women chime in on this thread. Y’all have been really quiet. I want to hear some noise! 😉
It varies, it’s louder when we’re in bed and it’s getting very HOT! And most other sex sessions wheter planned or not. Thinking about it, when travelling in a hotel room, or staying at someones house… it is more like groans / moans and lots of yes yes yes.
Masturbating I think lots of uugh uuah, moans and Ohhhh yess.
Not as much screaming and yelling as when we fuck!
Blondie, you have such a good and tasteful eye for finding the purrfect pictures to fit the moment! You are amazing in this regard. Your choices enhance the enjoyment of the stories. I never come away distracted by them or wondering how they fit. Great job!!
Bootylicious, very stimulating discussion starter! I think many underestimate how much we are enhanced by our verbal communications during sex. My wife is a loud groaner. I love the almost primal nature of her sounds. When I hear her I know there is not contrived about it! It is pure hotness overflowing through her. She throws in ‘yes’, ‘right there – yes!!’, and ‘don’t stop’ frequently. I am definitely the more sexy talker of the two of us. She responds wonderfully to my play by play announcing.
I would say that neither of us are real loud when we are cumming (volume wise). For better or for worse, we don’t want to be heard in that way by our kids. They certainly can hear us if they are standing outside our door – and that doesn’t bother us. We are not ashamed of course. But, we are reserved enough to not want to beckon them from their rooms every other night with shrieks of “oh, fuck me harder with your hunky, pile driving monster cock”!! 🙂
But, I reserve the right for that volume [and maybe even those words:)] when all our kids are moved out. Then, all bets are off!! 😉
God bless you and your husband Booty – I always enjoy what you write!!
My wife is a screamer. We both love the steamy dirty talk durning love making and she has light moans, yes’s and always says, “make me cum” when she’s ready for a full body g-spot orgasm. She gives satisfying moans with her isolated clitorial orgasms, but she will only have one g-spot orgasm per sex session, then she requires recovery time. But when she finishes with her g-spot orgasm she unleashes with a long scream (20-30) seconds and keeps the scream going until the orgasm has encompassed her hole body! It is amazing every time and we love it!
My wife has a hard time keeping quit. She’s a moaner and screamer. I love it when she’s loses control and tells me to make her cum hard.
After we had kids I had to learn to be quiet. Before that, well, let’s just say the neighbors knew I had a man with a talented tongue.
Hey Booty, nice post! For me, I am a dirty talking, moaner screamer , especially when Ben and I are alone in the house. He is more of a groaning grunter, dirty talker.
When we are not alone in the house, we try to keep the decibel level down. This can sometimes be hard for me because his dick gets to feeling soooo
good! In such cases I generally cover my mouth with a pillow or we kiss passionately.
When I am jilling off I can basically be the same way depending on how horny I am and how long I tease myself or if I am using Mr. Jolly or one of my other toys ( bullet vibe or ” Little John” my eight inch non vibrating dong ).
Ben is mainly a groaner when he jacks off. Occasionally he will express himself, especially when he is about to cum.
Have been pretty busy getting prepared for my daughter Alicia’s wedding next month. Got alot of catching up to do. God bless you girl and stay horny as you are!
For us it’s actually quite the opposite of some. When Mikey and I have sex, I am pretty quiet. I’ll let out the occasional groan, bu I typically whimper. Michael, on the other hand, is LOUD. And I LOVE it. He loves dirty talk, so I’ll whisper things into his ear (he also gets turned on when I play with his ear, so that’s a plus), and he lets out the hottest sounds I’ve ever heard. At times, he could be considered a screamer. But yeah, he’s the louder one.
Just founded this post.
I would have to say that I am a little more quiet, I do a lot of moaning, but at not such a high volume.
For the first 2 years of our marriage I would let out a loud groan, but after kids I try to keep the dirty talk and moaning down. But when we have a night to our self’s I will almost cry out and some times I do cry with how good it feels.
Jake likes to stick my vibrator in to my vagina as he sucks on my breasts when we are having one of our kinky nights and that always get me crying.
Thanks for this post and Take care. 😉
Wow, nice 'find' on MH! Thanks, Booty!!
My Anne was a 'measured' moaner and groaner during her moment of cumming for most of our incredible, happy marriage life and fulfilling marriage bed. Probably because of 25 years of children and teens in the house, she kept her volume down. A few years ago, during a passionate time of foreplay, I encouraged her to 'let it out.'
Rare is the person that has not heard the cumming sounds of ecstasy in a movie or even porn video, and I admit (a sinner saved by Grace and carefully to avoid it) to have heard my fair share of cumming sounds.
Now in our golden years, my Anne is like a tigress in heat when she cums – absolutely uninhibited. Nothing I've ever heard can come (cum) close to my Anne's unfettered, verbal expression of her ecstasy when she cums. Hearing her express herself (thinking about her cumming even now as I write perked up my cock in anticipation to make her cum hard, sometime, today) in euphoric abandonment is an inexpressible delight and joy for me. Her cumming and knowing how fantastic she is feeling tops my own desire to cum and my own incredible satisfaction when I do cum.