How can I last longer in her tight pussy???

My wife and I have been married for over 12 years and have enjoyed sex many times.

In our young married days, we would make love several times a week, sometimes more than once a day.

I could last almost as long as I wanted, mostly I think because I was getting sexual release very often, so there wasn’t a huge amount of sexual tension.

As we have grown older, we have come to realize that if we wait a few days, both of us have very strong orgasms that make is feel amazing.

My wife has never had children, so her pussy is extremely tight.

After not having sex for a few days, my testicles become very swollen and my cock gets extremely sensitive.

The problem that I have is, that when we go to screw her tight pussy, I can hardly last more than a minute or two.

I push my throbbing shaft into her very tight pussy and it feels so good I can hardly stand to move without blowing my load.

How does the rest of you handle yourself when your screwing a tight pussy???

I wish I could last longer, but Oh My God, she feels so good….

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13 replies
  1. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Did you guys ever try to maybe have sex a second time? I don't know if this helps but sometimes when my husband and I would have sex, we'd both come very quickly, so after that we'd have sex a second time, and we would both last longer, meaning him too. So perhaps try that if you haven't already. God bless

    • Happy Man says:

      My recovery time is at least a day, so no, we don't do that.
      Probably just need to try doing it more often.

  2. hornyGG says:

    Happy man,

    First off, I believe most men wouldn't complain if their wives had a tighter pussy. I know my husband Ben wouldn't, not that he ever has complained. Lol.

    Sounds to me like you get over excited at the thought of screwing your wife and have a hair cum trigger. I may have a suggestion or two for ya darlin that might help

    First – You say that after a few days without sex you get very sensitive. Basically, you get really horny. One thing you may consider is masturbation. During the days your not getting any, try jacking off. I don't know how you and your wife feel about masturbation but it is a good way to ease the tension and can help with your sensitivity issues.

    Also jacking off an hour or two prior to fucking helps. My husband Ben used to travel a lot working and when he would get home he would often jack off in the shower early in the evening before bed. Knowing we were most likely going to screw. This helped him last longer, which I appreciated very much.

    Second – Make sure your wife is plenty wet.Take your time, don't get in any hurry to penetrate her. IF you have a large cock it wouldn't hurt to add a little extra lubricant to her pussy before dicking her. My Ben has a fairly large cock and believe me your wife will appreciate the thoughtfulness.

    One last thing, if you still cum to fast.Don't get disheartened. Get your wife to cum first with oral or manually. Then enjoy and the love the two of you share.

    God bless you both and stay horny!

  3. Hubby34 says:

    If your testicles are getting swollen then you might have a medical problem, i.e. Vitamin deficiency or imbalance of some kind. Seek a good dr, like a holistic nutritionist dr. A good dr can help you. Actually, your 'symptom' may be indication of a more serious problem.
    Other than that, right when you're feeling the urge to orgasm during sex, stop until the urge goes away. Start up again and repeat. Do this repeatedly as long as you can. Over the course of time you will last longer. Practice makes perfect

    • JAM777 says:

      I also have this problem, don't worry you are not alone. I usually masturbate 2 to 3 times a day. If I go longer than 3 or so days a week without getting a release with result in some pain.
      And I will get "blue balls" after a protracted period of time.
      I have learned to cope with it and I am very grateful for everyone who has helped me get over my hang ups!

  4. Ag96 says:

    I know it isn't necessarily recommended for this issue but I take viagra so I can get hard again quicker after I orgasm. After I cum, I use the recovery time to eat her pussy or watch her masterbate until I get hard again. The really good part is the second time I can go almost as long as I want to. We have special date nights once or twice a month while the kids are out of the house so I take it to maximize that time together and make sure she is fully satisfied.

  5. LT says:

    Happy Man,
    I would recommend a couple of things. If it takes you 24 hours to recover after sex you need to go see your doctor. The Dr. should be able to identify your slow recovery time. I don't know your age, height and weight but if you are larger than you should be, fix it. Exercise and eat right will fix numerous health issues. When I say exercise, I mean weight training, cross fit not running either outside or on a treadmill no distance stuff. You need to rapidly get your heart rate up( less than 60 seconds), rest for 30-60 seconds and do that again and again. It is all about blood flow. You may take L-Arginine or L-Citrulline about 30 minutes prior to sex. I would start out with 1000mg and you can increase to 3000mg of either.
    Don't use any excuses, just do it for your wife and you. Be the best that you and do not compare yourself to anyone.

    Mentally, stop beating yourself up! Enjoy your wife focus on pleasing her. she is a gift from God.

    Don't let anyone less than God define you.

  6. D&D says:

    The most powerful sex organ is the mind. Part of cumming quickly is your mind is also worked up. Have tried a distraction? I found this by accident, as we got more adventurous my wife liked to bite. During passionate love making She will bite my chest hard and the pain takes my mind off cumming. find a way to distract yourself. Think baseball.

  7. HV450 says:

    I have a very similar problem and masturbation is not really the answer. Sex is most exciting after a period of 2 or 3 days abstinence but I also find that my testicles become enlarged and I want to cum as soon as I am inside my wife's vagina. I pull out and wait but I still tend to come quickly.
    We haven't put much effort into treating my quick ejaculation because my wife is very tight and doesn't really like having me inside her for long anyway. She likes to have me licking her clitoris, feeling her g-spot, and manipulation her tits; she has stronger orgasms this way.
    We were away a couple of nights recently and made love 3 times, the third time was in the car on the way home and I still came within 30 seconds. My wife took quite a long time but we don't often do 3 days in a row.

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