I think it is safe to assume that “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” is a pretty sound and accurate statement when it comes to sex. That being the case, I thought it might be interesting to visit Venus and find out exactly what different idea women hold concerning sex, as well as what sexual things women find to be of similar interest to them and their husbands.
First question would be to you wives out there: Men are known to be visually stimulated sexually. I don’t think that there’s any contradictory evidence to that fact. My wife tells me that she’s not very visually stimulated. For instance, she’s told me that seeing a picture of naked guy doesn’t rev her up. Crossing paths with an attractive guy, she doesn’t stop and think about him in a sexual way. How many of you wives out there are prone to being visually stimulated? How many of you find a guy’s body to be something that you might “check out” in the same fashion men would do when seeing an attractive women?
Another question would be one specific to your marriage: What is about your husband that makes you horny? What is it that causes you to go from being not all that interested in sex with him to the point of you feeling like, “I gotta have some of that?” I ask because men, as we all know, have a very easy trip mechanism when it comes to being in need of “some of that.”
Oral sex; how many of you ladies out there in MH land give your husband blow jobs simply as an act of wanting to please him? And how many of you on the other hand find that giving head is not only a turn on for him but for you as well?
How many of you wives find that you’re aroused by your husband’s attention to your breasts? And countering that question; for how many find the pleasure of having “your girls” fondled and sucked on is more about your husbands pleasure in doing so rather than something that directly causes your arousal?
Outside of the bedroom, what things unrelated to sex might your husband do that cause you to want to have sex with him?
How many of you ladies would agree to go to a topless beach with your husband if he asked you? And how many of you might agree to hit the sands of a “clothing optional” if he desired it. Would you be willing to go topless? (Asking this one because it’s always been one of my fantasies to see my wife topless on a beach somewhere).
So, there you have it. Just a short survey to discover just how far apart the planets of Mars and Venus really are in relation to married sex. Side Bar: it’s wonderful to know that the gift of sex given to marriage is being fully and frequently unwrapped by Christian couples such as yourselves!
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